I have been thinking about this for a while .
For you to get a glimpse of what really happened I'm going to write a brief narration of what happens.



It all started around April when my friend and i met this girl,or let me put this way my friend met with this girl but I and the girl later got acquainted. She's cool and religious.
I once told my friend to woo the girl since I can sense he has some feelings (which he always denied) for the girl. Weeks passed and we were given a break from school,so everyone had to travel back home.My friend and I went to visit the girl to say Goodbye since we were travelling back to our homes the following day, and this was where it all started from. we told her goodbye and everyone left.
THIS WAS WHERE THE CONFUSION CAME IN
During the holiday she started giving me random calls ,she even texted me one night she really misses me and was always keen on knowing when I'm coming back,I could remember a day she called addressing me as "sweetheart", which I told to repeat 'cause I couldn't belief what I heard but she and her room mate laughed all through.
So I came back last week,and I went to visit her some days ago,I wasn't expecting the excitement she showed,she left what was she doing ,ran to give me a hug (which I've never seen her done,Because she's kinda religious) that I even had a bruise on my arm in the process.


I just want to know if she's just being friendly or something. Because my friend can hardly talk without mentioning something about the girl.
I need your help on our to go about this issue because I don't want this issue to cause a rift between I and my friend. And if the girl does have feelings how can I make her understand the issue,because I've been trying to ignore her

please I need your advice!!!
note: I have never mentioned any of these to my friend

Your friend told you he doesn't have feelings for her but you insist he does, how can you be like this. What you are asking is not even clear, is it the permission to go after the girl or something else?

Tajbol4splend:
Your friend told you he doesn't have feelings for her but you insist he does, how can you be like this. What you are asking is not even clear, is it the permission to go after the girl or something else?

he has,he never said he doesn't,all I'm asking is how to handle the whole situation I don't want anything to do with her, I'm okay with us being just friends

Just let your intentions be known to your friend.

My dear sit your friend down and tell him everything it will be better than him find out himself

afonjabreed:
he has,he never said he doesn't,all I'm asking is how to handle the whole situation

It ain't like your friend has gone to woo the girl before, if you like the girl, you could give it a shot unless your friend is the first to declare interest in her

Bennysam:
My dear sit your friend down and tell him everything it will be better than him find out himself

do you think that will be a wise thing to do?

Sit down there make pant dey wear u.
Its very obvious u like d girl. And judging from ur story, d girl likes you.

And since u said ur frnd has denied his feelings for her, tell him whole heart what went down between u nd d girl and see his reaction.

After all, he had his chance, which hes about to blow away.

blep d girl. first then narrate d story to ur friend but don't tell him u chop am. he will be jealous after all we are humans, it actually happened to me and trust me it doesn't look pretty cool.

mcjohny:
blep d girl. first then narrate d story to ur friend but don't tell him u chop am. he will be jealous after all we are humans, it actually happened to me and trust me it doesn't look pretty cool.

really?

You are good guy bro. Tell your friend what has happened between you and the girl. Tell him the way she relates and reacts to you shows she likes you, citing few examples but you ignored cos you don't want him to get hurt . tell him to be sincere with you if he really wants her and you will help him out. If he shows that sign(you will see it in his eyes) then help him arrange that girl. The thing is that, the girl might not even know he likes him(I mean your friend) but if he denies vehemently, bros go ahead,nothing do you. If he no want friend you again na him sabi. If the girl now don't like him, that it's you she like, just free her and distance yourself from her(keep it simple like merely greeting stuff) . with time the outcome of situation will decide if to go for her or not

Why did you go to her place in the first place if you dont have feelings for her.
Now you are asking what sef.
You want us to tell you to date her or seek permission from your friend before you do?
I simply dont understand.

bethyz:
Why did you go to her place in the first place if you dont have feelings for her.
Now you are asking what sef.
You want us to tell you to date her or seek permission from your friend before you do?
I simply dont understand.

don't you get it ?,she has been calling to know when I'm coming back. I didn't went alone I went there with a friend. I went with clean intentions ,if I had hidden agenda would I go with a friend?, all I need is an advice on how to stay clean from this sh*t,and if you don't have any please leave the thread

gideonvalor98:
You are good guy bro. Tell your friend what has happened between you and the girl. Tell him the way she relates and reacts to you shows she likes you, citing few examples but you ignored cos you don't want him to get hurt . tell him to be sincere with you if he really wants her and you will help him out. If he shows that sign(you will see it in his eyes) then help him arrange that girl. The thing is that, the girl might not even know he likes him(I mean your friend) but if he denies vehemently, bros go ahead,nothing do you. If he no want friend you again na him sabi. If the girl now don't like him, that it's you she like, just free her and distance yourself from her(keep it simple like merely greeting stuff) . with time the outcome of situation will decide if to go for her or not

thanks ,you really understood the whole issue

this is not an issue na, at least none of una never woo the girl.

Oma307:
this is not an issue na, at least none of una never woo the girl.

relationship is the last thing I'm thinking of,all I'm asking is should I tell my friend or continue ignoring the girl and acting like nothing happened

afonjabreed:
relationship is the last thing I'm thinking of,all I'm asking is should I tell my friend or continue ignoring the girl and acting like nothing happened

you can stylishly ask your friend about the girl, it is his reaction that will determine whether you will disclose the whole issue to him or not