Congrats bros but first, you need a place to stay secondly, court marriage take's 30days and 3 witnesses and you need international passport for all this,this will cost u a lot I think i can help if you want me to

My one cent advise, apply extra caution. If you know, you know

blackaxe78:



False!

It is true, if you marry a German citizen you need A1 proficiency in German before you are issued a visa,
The only exception to this rule is, if you marry a non- EU person who has a blue card permit.

Morenikeji070:
It's easy don't panic. I was in same kind of your shoe last year November when my american girl frd came to Nigeria and we got married together here in my hometown lagos so it's only those who have passed through this gonna know how to guide you through it. If you need my advice onto guide you I will lead you perfectly you can follow me up. Even my american girl was 23 years why I'm 27 years last year. So calm

You and this your American girl talk.

American girl still fit be black, so you don't have same worries as he has.

I actually use because of you log in again to Nairaland if bot i for still stay guest and i might not have the best advice but listen..

I live in Germany, Frankfurt precisely.. i yaff find common gf tire i don weak upon all my sweg hahaha and you from naija got a good person willing to come down to naija! Several girls here that wanted something to do with me blocked me on whatsap as soon as i mention that i am originally from Nigeria... do you understand what i mean now?

Someone said you should not marry her at first visit, I understand that but bro they hate indecision and trust me you might not get that chance again.. to travel to naija no be moi moi.. so make sure yall marry since she wants it.

For the records you two cant go back together.. as she goes you will enroll in german language learning and get A1 certificate then go to german website and get the required details for Re-union Visa thats what they call it.. then apply.. them go give you once you provide everything.

My Ghanaian friend here did the same thing.

Listen.. you be man.. but i am telling you you can go to lag 1week before time and organise things.

Listen..listen.. your confidence level gats dey A1 no panic! No be brag o... buh no panic and handle that shit. Bro im doing my masters here and if i see this chance and got a good girl i will take it.

No dull yourself. Welcome to Germany.

Now i proceed to logout.

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

gypsey:
You need to be able to speak fluent German before Anything, otherwise the whole thing na joke.

It's not important, but the German immigration system will use that to frustrate your efforts.

He doesn't have to be fluent, however, basic knowledge of the language is required.

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

baba habeg help me find one for me too. here's my mail noviacharles@yahoo.com

God bless.

Bros if u never ready halla me If she is well packaged

Morenikeji070:
Na small issue dude. Have been in your shoe last year November when I get married to my american girl here in my hometown in lagos. So if you need me to put your through I will guide you up if you need my advice.

advice him here....

beethoven:
Who grace found? so oyinbo woman na grace now. SMH.

Anyways, don't marry her on her first visit sir. Step up and be a man, Germans can bitchy and domineering, let her understand that you are just meeting her and decisions like getting married cannot be rushed (especially for her). Make sure you have enough fun (not only sex ) with her. Show her around the Lagos but be very weary of kidnappers.

While she is here, you guys can plan for a wedding in future. If you get small money, buy ring propose to her (if you really want to marry her and be with her).

Ignore everything I have said above, if your goal is just to marry her for papers.

Bro I doubt if the OP knows what he is about to enter.

PrinceCharmings:
And yet you no answer the question

de wait 4expo

willy2000:

He doesn't have to be fluent, however, basic knowledge of the language is required.

Yes, otherwise, they will reject his Application.

But I don't really like this idea of marrying from another country, especially oyibo. I see it as a lost marriage. You die, your children gone forever. All u laboured for is lost. Tell her you're relocating to your country, that ends the marriage. If she too like you na to share children, God help you, you born more than one, if not, SORRY na your name. My advice is...... Don't marry her. Get whatever you can get from her and let her go. Good women plenty for Nigeria.

You can't understand pls kindly free me I need to talk to the guy who needed help.

Cmanforall:

You and this your American girl talk.

American girl still fit be black, so you don't have same worries as he has.

paroh137:


I said beg

What pleasure would u derive seeing me beg?

realborn:
Great gesture by your fiancée.

But hey, do not rush into marriage with anyone. Not anyone.

In similitude, do not rush into intimacy with her.

It is obvious she intends to foot the bills. Stay modest through her stay. Do not be perturbed.

Always remember, the paying party often dictates the tune. Thus don’t be excessive and seemingly vulnerable.

I wish you both the very best.

Forget the bolded, If you don't do that on the first date, it is seen as an offense. Besides he said they have been dating for over a year, do you know if they already had online sex
And you are here preaching do not rush into intimacy.

AntiBrutus:


Mumu.

No be lie

Amuocha:
But where is lalasticlala sef

wetin lala do u sef,u always mention him on every thread,is there something u need from him?

Why you are not the person I'm talking to please free my comment. If he need my advice to guide him up good he will follow me up have given him chance. and if he did not fine.

Bizibi:
advice him here....

Westsida:
[b]Okay nice one. No worry no fear. Just let her arrive safely. Dont bother getting anything done before her arrival. Let her meet the real you, dont form whatever you don’t have. If she give you money for hotel, book am but if not & if you do not have cash for hotel, no borrow money to book one. I’m hoping your environment is safe. Just carry her go house. Let her see how things be! She’s going to let you know what will as things proceed. Like if she’s gonna chill on a low with you or anything ! About travelling process, don’t bother stressing yourself. She don already call embassy, she don ask if 2 weeks go enough & she already told you nah marriage certificate una go need. Hope you already got ur passport? If not you can apply and get it same day for a token! If nah wedding she want straight up, no delay am! You stand to gain a lot as according to your summary! Don’t delay or postpone the wedding o, I see some people saying don’t marry her first time, no follow am! Get married since she’s ready. You guys been dating for a year and that’s it on her mind. Either online dating or real one, both start counting for their mind right from when una start. If you let her enter Germany back without the marriage, yellow story might pop up. Good luck bro! Be a good boy! Sometimes life nah only one chance! Nah exactly as me go do am I don clear you so!

Bro, show me the way. Me sef wan marry oyinbo

No be lie

MrsInvisible:
Go and learn German level a1. Without it they will not grant Visa to you.

Many people here never comot for Lagos since them born they give advice to person Wey wan run �� from Nigerian



Guy carry your wife to be enter Warri no level

imitateMe:

Bro, show me the way. Me sef wan marry oyinbo

Nah to find a better dating site with your pic! Grace dey there!

OkaNaUbe:
Warri boys and this oyinbo parole sha.
Just kidding.

You can do court wedding in a day. Just be ready to pay N15-20k for express wedding. Just low key with family and friends.

If you have a passport ready, Two weeks - 1month is enough for German visa and travel. Her insurance cover you. No much question at the embassy.


cc: hadampson.

Thanks for the mention boss

@Richybryn

First of all, i won't advise you to marry her now. You are meeting her for the first time so why don't you get to know her first before walking down the aisle with her ?

If you still want to go ahead, just know that two weeks isn't enough to process everything. Atleast it will take up to 4 months or more to process the visa.

To apply for a visa since your soon to be wifey want you to follow her back to Germany, you will generally need to provide your passport and a wedding certificate. For other documents need to be submitted, ask the German Embassy.

As a general rule, spouses coming to join their partners must have basic knowledge of German. This is to ensure that they can communicate in German from the moment they arrive in Germany. So, i would advise you to start learning German prior to her arrival.

Learning the German language is one of the most important steps you can take to prepare for your life in Germany. After all, German is the official language in Germany.

Also, i think the V.O may ask you to provide evidence of basic knowledge of German (A1 Zertifikat )

Viel Glück

good4all40:
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals

There is actually something to see in LCC. It's fun going through the canopy walk, etc. Don't discourage the young man but considering his financial status, God help him.

Evidence1000:
Ah! Naira land is finished. No better ne ws again

Mr Man,this is a forum,not a news site.So what the OP posted,is exactly what a forum is for.So try to know something,before you conclude.

superability:
Hope u will not later fight the young woman... Secondly, hope u re d one paying for d marriage cost in court.... Let it not look as if d woman is the one coming to pick a wife... My thought

Lol

Chiefochiefo:
But I don't really like this idea of marrying from another country, especially oyibo. I see it as a lost marriage. You die, your children gone forever. All u laboured for is lost. Tell her you're relocating to your country, that ends the marriage. If she too like you na to share children, God help you, you born more than one, if not, SORRY na your name. My advice is...... Don't marry her. Get whatever you can get from her and let her go. Good women plenty for Nigeria.

Do you know that you just typed some RACIST shit........ This is 2019 and not 1819 or 1920.

willy2000:


Do you know that you just typed some RACIST shit........ This is 2019 and not 1819 or 1920.

Benin guy abi?

Hezbola:
Bro go and buy that Ghana Ankara and surprise her with a beautiful gown and local jewelries, she will adore them so much. Let her have the test of true Africa.
2. Book for a typical canoe ride, ride with her.
3. For the first 3 days check her into a hut, those well designed for lodging. Then you can as her to take her to a contemporary hotel after that. If she declines good if not its still OK.
4. Take her to local night bar where live band is being played
5. Let her eat well prepared fish jellof rice.
6. Get an artists to draw a portrait of her in native attire.

Believe when u do all this and many more her friends will be trooping into Naija for husbands. Because she will have stories to tell.

hahahahahahahah too much poetry....... is like am reading a poetry work