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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by ALCOHOLKILLS(m): 6:45pm On Jun 13, 2019
franchasng:
lol, I can help in other ways too cheesy

help him Bleep the white pussy?

bad guy

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by SkinnyNigga: 6:47pm On Jun 13, 2019
Giftexx:

Thanks sis for boosting his ego..
Mind u, at 21, i relocated to Ghana(studies), lived couples live for 3 years before breaking free... grin

Life is short, follow ur instinct. God be with u
21 ? not even at 17. and you are proud..
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by smsreseller: 6:48pm On Jun 13, 2019
jerryunit48:
Obviously you have no idea how German girls think
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by amliftedhigher: 6:49pm On Jun 13, 2019
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?
If you are in Asaba let her come down for the court wedding it will be cheaper but if you are in Warri sorry she maybe kidnapped and you know what it means to you. If you can come down to Delta for the wedding after the wedding you can go back to lagos.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by smsreseller: 6:49pm On Jun 13, 2019
ziondaughter247:
Look at them. Hungry inferior men getting excited because of this scam. if it was a woman that was doing this, they will have started shouting olosho

God go butter your bread. I was just shaking my head in dismay. grin

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by SOAG(m): 6:51pm On Jun 13, 2019
paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here cheesy

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying

if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

boss i go loyal if you reason me one white ooh, my passport don dey waste since four years now. i cant be shy on this
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by SkinnyNigga: 6:53pm On Jun 13, 2019
Adakintroy:
cryMy advice is take a chance with yourself. Be calm. Some women over there have a heart of gold. They have seen it all in there world. They probably looking for something different and true. Stay calm free you mind (although its easier said than done) ).You from a poor a
third world africa. She knows this more than you. She expecting to see poverty, so don't deny her that.Chances are she has consulted with her friends about this and she has gotten all kind of advice.


If she is coming to marry, let her come. Am guessing you were honest about your financial position. She is the one pushing. Stay calm let her do all the work. Na so God take DE bless at times. Just be honest with yourself and with her.

Show her your parents your envirioment. However poor it may look. Introduce her to ukhodo.(local urhobo delicacy).Make sure it comes with lots of the spice. Cant have ukhodo without the spice.

Don't take her to "shopright".that's the direction she is coming from. Rather take her on nite street walks and buy her suyer and peppers soup in the open. Let her feel the gaze and the silent side talks it will helps to make her feel special.

it's a once in a life time experiance. Let her have all of it. Boy kill her with your Africa/nigeria as you know it. The local way. Na she take her leg come. But do it it with enough conviction, with cheer on your face. She needs all edges off. She need to know that happiness does not live in wealthy nations. You were happy growing up on these parts.

Give her the local name of foreign object. engage that woman. Tell her stories late into the nite. Folklore, myth. They already farcinated by African folktales.

She is meeting you for the first time. Don't disappoint her. I mean Na love carry her cross sea. No be money. Again Let her feel it. We are nigerians. God knows we deltans. On our day the thing be like "follow come" for our body. Area no de carry last no be just metaphor.

Just no fear. No shake. She is already your woman. One things I do agree with though, two week is a short time to stunn her.but believe me guy. I believe you.

..blessings.)
they will just kidnap her.. Nigeria is too bad to do all this

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by willy2000(m): 6:57pm On Jun 13, 2019
paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here cheesy

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

All your friends are either lazy or are fraudsters, that is why they want to leave Germany.
America is one big shithole if you know, you know.
A country that has poor medical insurance for its citizen, no social security system for even documented immigrants.
Security is horrible, and police brutality has become a norm if your skin color is black.

Bro if dem dash me citizenship, I no go collect.
You only made sense in your last paragraph.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Akanniade(m): 6:58pm On Jun 13, 2019
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

Since you consider her a ticket to a better life, I advise to get some money in preparations for her visit. Check online for shortlet apartments - less expensive rates than hotel and you can make your own food. Look for a car to borrow for easy mobility. Be real with your situation, but make efforts to give her basic comforts. Get friends or relatives to assist you in your quest.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by almarthins(m): 7:00pm On Jun 13, 2019
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

First, avoid noising her arival too much, demons full outside wey ready to spoil ur own.

Secondly, abeg if u poor Be honest, no hide ur fanancial status. Na big deal if u no get money

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by ClilT: 7:02pm On Jun 13, 2019
good4all40:
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals
will you shut up!!! Pray to God to continue to bless you so you would never have to see the other side of life, did you read where he said they’ve know for one year, what the f**k is she knowing about Lagos or Nigeria for! Is she marrying any of the above or you forgot the country we live in. I bet you ate in one comfortable home with good ride and everything good... that’s why you need to shut the f**k up..my nigger out there you don hit goldmine and God don butter your bread� I’ve witnessed same but my woman is older and i can tell you everything just got easy.. don’t introduce her to your family members or any acclaimed good person, treat her well and make enquiries on travel, don’t Bleep her without condom for now till health status confirmed. Up your game and act intelligent and mature.... I know a couple of company that can help you with visa in Lagos... I’m always here to assist if you need any...( 08084184327).. stay sharp

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Adakintroy: 7:04pm On Jun 13, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
they will just kidnap her.. Nigeria is too bad to do all this

DE there DE deceive yourself. You be street boy?.

The street is the safest place to be contrary to popular opinion. "Who DE go DE fear, who DE come DE fear"

If you you no get orientation you no get
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by SkinnyNigga: 7:08pm On Jun 13, 2019
Adakintroy:


DE there DE deceive yourself. You be street boy?.

The street is the safest place to be contrary to popular opinion. "Who DE go DE fear, who DE come DE fear"

If you you no get orientation you no get

forget that street talk. the street don't care about you.. if they see a way to harm you, they won't hesitate

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by TedLawrence(f): 7:11pm On Jun 13, 2019
mamatwiny:
How did you meet this your babe?


Modified- I hope you know why they like Africans? Don't disappoint. Don't be a one minute man like Churchill. grin
If you disappoint, there won't be a second chance- so says my classmates in Yankee.

just be ready to be taking kpake enhancer so that your nacking go increase ooo. Better still carry enough Agbo Jedi travel...
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Adakintroy: 7:11pm On Jun 13, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
forget that street talk. the street don't care about you.. if they see a way to harm you, they won't hesitate

Oga you DE stay street. You no get sense say if DEm catch you for street dem DE burn you before police come. AbI you no know the good ones bad as the bad ones.

I say who DE go DE fear who DE come DE fear. You DE talk your own.
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jun 13, 2019
paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here cheesy

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings
Thanks. smiley
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by shogsman(m): 7:19pm On Jun 13, 2019
Donbuky23:
Chat me up on this line 07067660872, let me explain somethings to you.....we can't discuss here .....

The Bleep,what can’t you discuss here.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by montumonami(m): 7:23pm On Jun 13, 2019
Abeg oo bros n. I need American wife... Seriously in need
paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here cheesy

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by shogsman(m): 7:24pm On Jun 13, 2019
ClilT:
will you shut up!!! Pray to God to continue to bless you so you would never have to see the other side of life, did you read where he said they’ve know for one year, what the f**k is she knowing about Lagos or Nigeria for! Is she marrying any of the above or you forgot the country we live in. I bet you ate in one comfortable home with good ride and everything good... that’s why you need to shut the f**k up..my nigger out there you don hit goldmine and God don butter your bread� I’ve witnessed same but my woman is older and i can tell you everything just got easy.. don’t introduce her to your family members or any acclaimed good person, treat her well and make enquiries on travel, don’t Bleep her without condom for now till health status confirmed. Up your game and act intelligent and mature.... I know a couple of company that can help you with visa in Lagos... I’m always here to assist if you need any...( 08084184327).. stay sharp



This is appalling,you’re boldly telling us that you live off a woman like a leach.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Sinavaramini: 7:39pm On Jun 13, 2019
Why doing this, you are exposing the young lady to kidnappers, are you normal, posting on social media in this unsafe time in Nigeria detailing yours and her plans is unwise.
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by BlackPantherCri: 7:45pm On Jun 13, 2019
I think all of us should contribute and make this guy's fiance's visit a success. Well wishers can donate hotel.room, transport fare, tickets to Terra Culture, Badagry, etc. Pls don't take her to Delta State so they won't kidnap her for ransom.

Let's show naija hospitality and welcome our brand new sister in law.

Congrats brother. Your own don better

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Amazonboss(f): 7:47pm On Jun 13, 2019
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?


My cousin got married under two of weeks. Their case was they met in yankee,planned and came down here together to do a court marriage at ikoyi registry. They have a child together now.

So go ahead dear and good luck. But let me beg you: do not destroy our image please.

Make sure she's safe.

My cousin had limits to where they visited
Get every info and drugs incase she reacts to foods/drugs.

Make her stay fun


Be you!!!!!!!!!!

Be neat!



Then lastly,i also have interest to,want to marry a white man who is cool mustn't be rich I just like them,so I don't mind if you can connect me.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by MegaFd(m): 7:50pm On Jun 13, 2019
Asaba - Abuja is cool for your plans.
No bus travelling,do wedding at Asaba and paper works at Abuja.
File in for the court 21days prior.
Talk to her about these plans.
Ask her of her plans for you guys as you go with her.
Before Above ask God for direction and his will.
Follow your believe n convinction from the direction and move with faith.
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by mechanics(m): 8:07pm On Jun 13, 2019
good4all40:
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals
Someone not financially buoyant won't have the money to be visiting places with a woman na.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by mc4talkative: 8:08pm On Jun 13, 2019
u need a marriage guidance counselor. Marriage is not a temporary thing. it is a life-long affairs. lf u are are a Christian, informed your pastor.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by ogonor(m): 8:19pm On Jun 13, 2019
Hello Bryan,

I sent you a private message. Reply.
Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Ahmed4002(m): 8:26pm On Jun 13, 2019
Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?


I would advice you to plan and get married when she arrive Nigeria.

The German Embassy would required at least A1 Language certification from you for A family Reunion Visa.

Its a long and waiting period for both the appointment for Visa and Verification of your marriage to her.

Waiting period for appointment should be 9-11 month's.

Then Verification and everything may be 6 Month's. I might take you like 1yr+ to get your visa or even more.


After your Visa interview, The German embassy would send a Lawyer to verify all the witness to the marriage.

And the verification process cost like 150k.


May brother is a long procedure.

First now enroll for a German Language Class at GOETHE institute.


Or the best way man.. Apply to school in Germany either for your Master or BSC, but you would need atleast 8640 Euro before they issued your Visa., but if she's working.. She can go to her city office, get a sponsorship letter for you and you don't need that amount.

Then when you are in Germany, you can get married there. For me this is your bet option

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by queengift(f): 8:28pm On Jun 13, 2019
Amazonboss:



My cousin got married under two of weeks. Their case was they met in yankee,planned and came down here together to do a court marriage at ikoyi registry. They have a child together now.

So go ahead dear and good luck. But let me beg you: do not destroy our image please.

Make sure she's safe.

My cousin had limits to where they visited
Get every info and drugs incase she reacts to foods/drugs.

Make her stay fun


Be you!!!!!!!!!!

Be neat!



Then lastly,i also have interest to,want to marry a white man who is cool mustn't be rich I just like them,so I don't mind if you can connect me.



Hahahahahaha, God will send you a white man

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Kaceman(m): 8:29pm On Jun 13, 2019
The yahoo boy who fell in love with his client

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jun 13, 2019
paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here cheesy

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings
You are right about Europe.
Most people don't know though.
I know someone regretting moving to UK, he's planning on relocating to the US.
He is begging people to be careful.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Originalsly: 8:37pm On Jun 13, 2019
Hmmm.... just curious.... do you have a passport? ... and why you really believe she can just dip in and dash out with you? Look well before you leap...she may have a hidden agenda.

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Re: My German Fiancee Is Coming To Nigeria In 4 Weeks Time by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jun 13, 2019
mc4talkative:
u need a marriage guidance counselor. Marriage is not a temporary thing. it is a life-long affairs. lf u are are a Christian, informed your pastor.

So in this whole thread... u are the only one that thinks this parole is about holy matrimony.....u are highly naive.....I’m seriously laffing


Incase u are still wondering, this is a confirmed prison break .... not a marriage...I repeat, prison break!!!!

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