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PrinceCharmings:
how you carry convince her make she come Nigeria?.

Keep telling them what they want to hear. My friend an American met a yoruba guy on Facebook. They dated for one year plus. The guy apllied for visiting visa severally to no avail. I met the lady as she was about to file fiancee visa for him. I advised her against it because they have never met. She prepared her wedding gown. Flew into Nigeria on her own dime around May, 2017. She came in on Thursday and they got married on Saturday and she returned on Monday.
She filed the guy's green card. The guy was approved and flew into US December, 2018.
They sent the guy 10 years Green card immediately but the woman's child said they didn't see the mail. They have reapplied.

seyoops4u:
foot the bill

If you are smart enough to know the correct thing, you should be smart enough to know that's a typo

OkaNaUbe:
Warri boys and this oyinbo parole sha.
Just kidding.

You can do court wedding in a day. Just be ready to pay N15-20k for express wedding. Just low key with family and friends.

If you have a passport ready, Two weeks - 1month is enough for German visa and travel. Her insurance cover you. No much question at the embassy.

G
cc: hadampson.

very brief and detailed and perhaps the best comment I have read here... Others were too personal and had undertones of beef, ignorance and sheer envy...


I will add more to it for him by weekend hopefully... In btw a friend paid 50k for express at ikoyi everything was sorted low key in a day..

To dare is to do...

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

lol @ all wants to come to USA.. People say things that one can't help but notice the deception therein.

good4all40:
I will strongly advice you not to marry her in her first visit, you can do that the second or third time she visits, l will also let you know that you should plan to take her to places in Lagos, avoid LEKKI Conservation there is nothing to see there, you can take her to the National Museum Onikan to learn more about our culture, Beaches, there are many to choose from, Google online and see more exciting places to see in Lagos, make sure you are in Lagos a day before her arrival and be at the Airport atleast an hour before her arrival.

Please Mod you can help this gentle man put this to front page to gain more wealth of knowledge and experiences from fellow Nigerians and other Nationals

another jolly good fellow..

PrinceCharmings:
how about Poland?

u also want poland??

MrAAA:
You live in Delta State, she's not coming for fanfare or tourism. However, I would advise you have the marriage registered in your local registry or even come to Benin, Edo State, get to any of the registries, and you will spend quiet little money unless for hotel accommodation and transportation.
My best friend married an American with 2 kids. I was part of all their marriage plans and preparations including the registry part.
It's pretty easy. If your apartment is not secure, get a cheap hotel. I hope she knows about your financial situation.

positive response.. We still have stand up nigerians...

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

no forget SARs ... make dem no go tag u as a Yahoo guy

please do you know of genuine online dating platforms?

franchasng:
God is indeed a miracle worker!

God still blesses the poor. Please make sure you treat that white lady well, be a good man to her, don't change tomorrow after you secure a German stay.

I wish you all the best.

But you need to come down to Lagos to make some arrangements ahead, would have offered you some help, but

Hezbola:
Bro go and buy that Ghana Ankara and surprise her with a beautiful gown and local jewelries, she will adore them so much. Let her have the test of true Africa.
2. Book for a typical canoe ride, ride with her.
3. For the first 3 days check her into a hut, those well designed for lodging. Then you can as her to take her to a contemporary hotel after that. If she declines good if not its still OK.
4. Take her to local night bar where live band is being played
5. Let her eat well prepared fish jellof rice.
6. Get an artists to draw a portrait of her in native attire.

Believe when u do all this and many more her friends will be trooping into Naija for husbands. Because she will have stories to tell.

thumbs up

doggedfighter:
You have seen breasts

lol no o. I just like her ni o

Adakintroy:
My advice is take a chance with yourself. Be calm. Some women over there have a heart of gold. They have seen it all in there world. They probably looking for something different and true. Stay calm free you mind (although its easier said than done) ).You from a poor a
third world africa. She knows this more than you. She expecting to see poverty, so don't deny her that.Chances are she has consulted with her friends about this and she has gotten all kind of advice.


If she is coming to marry, let her come. Am guessing you were honest about your financial position. She is the one pushing. Stay calm let her do all the work. Na so God take DE bless at times. Just be honest with yourself and with her.

Show her your parents your envirioment. However poor it may look. Introduce her to ukhodo.(local urhobo delicacy).Make sure it comes with lots of the spice. Cant have ukhodo without the spice.

Don't take her to "shopright".that's the direction she is coming from. Rather take her on nite street walks and buy her suyer and peppers soup in the open. Let her feel the gaze and the silent side talks it will helps to make her feel special.

it's a once in a life time experiance. Let her have all of it. Boy kill her with your Africa/nigeria as you know it. The local way. Na she take her leg come. But do it it with enough conviction, with cheer on your face. She needs all edges off. She need to know that happiness does not live in wealthy nations. You were happy growing up on these parts.

Give her the local name of foreign object. engage that woman. Tell her stories late into the nite. Folklore, myth. They already farcinated by African folktales.

She is meeting you for the first time. Don't disappoint her. I mean Na love carry her cross sea. No be money. Again Let her feel it. We are nigerians. God knows we deltans. On our day the thing be like "follow come" for our body. Area no de carry last no be just metaphor.

Just no fear. No shake. She is already your woman. One things I do agree with though, two week is a short time to stunn her.but believe me guy. I believe you.

..blessings.)

@OP, take this advice. It's the best.
Let her have the full taste of Africa & your own environment, she will love you incredibly.

Best of luck all the way.

jerryunit48:
Obviously you have no idea how German girls think

how do they think please

Guy link me up na ie how did you them

Dinho20:
THIS GUY IS JUST LIKE ME ;Dl
I'M DESTINED TO MARRY A WHITE LADY, THAT'S WHY I DON'T TALK TO NIGERIAN GIRLS BECAUSE I HAVE SOMETHING BETTER.
BUT I WANT TO GIVE THESE TWO LADIES A CHANCE, AM HAVING SELECTION PROBLEM NOW, I DON'T KNOW WHOM TO CHOOSE.
ONE IS FROM ROMANIA, AND THE OTHER LADY IS FROM SWITZERLAND.

Kirchhoff01:
The guy na poet

check ur mail boss...I wan enquire somethings abeg

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

You're not going back with her after two weeks unless you have processed a visitors visa.

alatbaba1:
no forget SARs ... make dem no go tag u as a Yahoo guy

trust me this is totally noted

[quote author=Beetwaise post=79312444]@OP, take this advice. It's the best.
Let her have the full taste of Africa & your own environment, she will love you incredibly.

Best of luck all the way.[/quote thanks

Adakintroy:
My advice is take a chance with yourself. Be calm. Some women over there have a heart of gold. They have seen it all in there world. They probably looking for something different and true. Stay calm free you mind (although its easier said than done) ).You from a poor a
third world africa. She knows this more than you. She expecting to see poverty, so don't deny her that.Chances are she has consulted with her friends about this and she has gotten all kind of advice.


If she is coming to marry, let her come. Am guessing you were honest about your financial position. She is the one pushing. Stay calm let her do all the work. Na so God take DE bless at times. Just be honest with yourself and with her.

Show her your parents your envirioment. However poor it may look. Introduce her to ukhodo.(local urhobo delicacy).Make sure it comes with lots of the spice. Cant have ukhodo without the spice.

Don't take her to "shopright".that's the direction she is coming from. Rather take her on nite street walks and buy her suyer and peppers soup in the open. Let her feel the gaze and the silent side talks it will helps to make her feel special.

it's a once in a life time experiance. Let her have all of it. Boy kill her with your Africa/nigeria as you know it. The local way. Na she take her leg come. But do it it with enough conviction, with cheer on your face. She needs all edges off. She need to know that happiness does not live in wealthy nations. You were happy growing up on these parts.

Give her the local name of foreign object. engage that woman. Tell her stories late into the nite. Folklore, myth. They already farcinated by African folktales.

She is meeting you for the first time. Don't disappoint her. I mean Na love carry her cross sea. No be money. Again Let her feel it. We are nigerians. God knows we deltans. On our day the thing be like "follow come" for our body. Area no de carry last no be just metaphor.

Just no fear. No shake. She is already your woman. One things I do agree with though, two week is a short time to stunn her.but believe me guy. I believe you.

..blessings.)

I raise hand for you baba,this really made my day,i had to save the page,screenshot t,save the url everything,you finish work A to Z,how we go take connect�

Alexrayz:
Garantee her security o if it to talk to ur real niggers to be looking at her and gaurd her guy this country we are in don't forget that everything in it is bent on destroying u so I repeat take note of the little things like who and eho she will see the transportation issue the SECURITY issue all those and make sure u make her wrlcome

you get mouth ��

Richybryn:
I raise hand for you baba,this really made my day,i had to save the page,screenshot t,save the url everything,you finish work A to Z,how we go take connect�

Baba na you I hail past.. I just say make I boast the guy moral. Normal thing. Opportunity no be DE come twice at times.

Connect?..08152630925 am on watsaap feel free.

@dinho20 pick the one with a better character. Beauty fades
The good thing is Europeans are more conservative like us compared to liberal North Americans.

yinkeys:
@dinho20 pick the one with a better character. Beauty fades
The good thing is Europeans are more conservative like us compared to liberal North Americans.

OK! I'LL TRY MY BEST

peele.... didnt know people like you take things personal.. Lol
Broda wey too "smart"...

tempest01:
If you are smart enough to know the correct thing, you should be smart enough to know that's a typo

Bro how did you find her? I’m looking for that too Abeg

Richybryn:
I had to create a new moniker for this, am 27 my fiance is german she's 30, I didn't plan to do this, but i get more confuse as the day goes by.

Her plans are in 4 weeks time she comes to Nigeria. She intends to stay for two weeks, during that time we'll get married and fly back together to Germany.

she's already seen an hotel in Lagos, the thing is i know nothing about traveling, have never even traveled outside delta state. Am just a poor guy who grace found, we've been dating for a year now, i try to explain to her that the two weeks wont be enough, she says as soon as we get married it will all be easy, is there any thing that needs to be done, only nairaland can answer me this oo, i have no body oo been an active reader in travel section oo.

I need ideas o, can two weeks be enough, for everything?

Well here are some advice... Firstly remove the thoughts of travelling back with her to Germany �� because that is not possible.. Once u guys did court wedding � she won't be able to do anything unless when she goes back to Germany then she will file for a spouse reunion.. And getting a German visa is not really easy and especially now in particular, they are deporting Nigerians in asylum and more, but it's not impossible either, all na luck (what will be will be) and yes I've been denied twice at the German embassy... So that aside, yes u will need to go to German school go get A1 first basic knowledge of German language (I did studied it too yes back at goethe institute, lagos Island) make sure you get a good score n can interact with German in some little things.. Now all this process takes time, at least a year is going by doing all this, and even when ur girl in germany file for your case to come over, I can still take months before they even give you (I pray they do)... About her coming to 9ja, no need to fret, since you're dating for a year now I'm sure she knows u don't really have much, so she can also help with the hotel fee, but if not then u can take her to either a cheap good hotel or if u have a friend that have a nice place with good toilet � (very important to have a good toilet for this people) .. When she comes around, just take her around show her not the nicest places(they have already seen those in germany) take her to the local places and things, the traditional things excite them, but make sure it's safe place ooo because evil people might dey plan una.. And yes we are almost in same shoes except that I have my own under control, my usa girlfriend is coming to visit few months from now, and we gonna do the court wedding, she's sending the money for the hotel, and she's really planning to hold her side well so we can have a good time because she knows I'm not rich too. Although she won't mind whatever I offer her she's cool with.. My talk too long � � so bro good luck..

Adakintroy:
My advice is take a chance with yourself. Be calm. Some women over there have a heart of gold. They have seen it all in there world. They probably looking for something different and true. Stay calm free you mind (although its easier said than done) ).You from a poor a
third world africa. She knows this more than you. She expecting to see poverty, so don't deny her that.Chances are she has consulted with her friends about this and she has gotten all kind of advice.


If she is coming to marry, let her come. Am guessing you were honest about your financial position. She is the one pushing. Stay calm let her do all the work. Na so God take DE bless at times. Just be honest with yourself and with her.

Show her your parents your envirioment. However poor it may look. Introduce her to ukhodo.(local urhobo delicacy).Make sure it comes with lots of the spice. Cant have ukhodo without the spice.

Don't take her to "shopright".that's the direction she is coming from. Rather take her on nite street walks and buy her suyer and peppers soup in the open. Let her feel the gaze and the silent side talks it will helps to make her feel special.

it's a once in a life time experiance. Let her have all of it. Boy kill her with your Africa/nigeria as you know it. The local way. Na she take her leg come. But do it it with enough conviction, with cheer on your face. She needs all edges off. She need to know that happiness does not live in wealthy nations. You were happy growing up on these parts.

Give her the local name of foreign object. engage that woman. Tell her stories late into the nite. Folklore, myth. They already farcinated by African folktales.

She is meeting you for the first time. Don't disappoint her. I mean Na love carry her cross sea. No be money. Again Let her feel it. We are nigerians. God knows we deltans. On our day the thing be like "follow come" for our body. Area no de carry last no be just metaphor.

Just no fear. No shake. She is already your woman. One things I do agree with though, two week is a short time to stunn her.but believe me guy. I believe you.

..blessings.)

Gbam!!!

Amazonboss:
My cousin got married under two of weeks. Their case was they met in yankee,planned and came down here together to do a court marriage at ikoyi registry. They have a child together now.

So go ahead dear and good luck. But let me beg you: do not destroy our image please.

Make sure she's safe.

My cousin had limits to where they visited
Get every info and drugs incase she reacts to foods/drugs.

Make her stay fun


Be you!!!!!!!!!!

Be neat!



Then lastly,i also have interest to,want to marry a white man who is cool mustn't be rich I just like them,so I don't mind if you can connect me

Sister is honestly honest..
Please OP connect her

doggedfighter:
What are you saying?

Me sef I no understand.

paroh137:
Y'all dated for a year and you didn't try to learn these things before now? It's now you want to be running from pillar to post? Man no be God sha. May God help you

BTW for anybody here feeling jealous I pity you. Na suffer this guy dey go suffer for Europe. If you have to marry oyinbo marry an American.

Infact beg me let me help you find one here

Edit:
Please I don't mean to give those of you planning to emigrate to European countries HBP. I'm just saying if you're going to Europe unprepared you might find things more difficult than you think. Better prepare yourself well. Get an education. Get certifications that might help you succeed in getting jobs. All my friends in European countries all want to come to US. I mean, they can't all be wrong.

cc princecharmings

Oya lemme beg you too, bros epp me find one American to marry o. Epp your sis please.


Meanwhile, I'm a real estate agent. I've plots of lands in Lagos, Oyo state, Abuja etc for very affordable prices. We accept installment payments too and give good discounts. Thanks.