nwanneni:
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Mariangeles:
Abeg!
If you ask a lady out on date, and she agrees, she's doing you a favour.
Same goes if a lady asks you out.

ModelX:

Nwanne was it not on this same nairaland where one local girl with thick lips publicly asked you to dash her your benz so she will sell it and 'use the money for startup' benz wey you sef dey find to sell.

AngelicBeing:
Lol, I don't want to recant my own experiences here because lots of posters have done justice to the thread, as a rule of thumb, I am very good at smelling a leech from planet Jupiter, ordinary phone calls / whatsapp chat is enough for me not to schedule a date with hungry poverty stricken damsels, and if I ever get to the stage of fixing a date, it has to be my terms and conditions , l am strong willed and I don't allow the daughters of Eve in any part of the world to play poker with my head, I specialize in blocking and deleting them very fast and I also abandoned some of them at eateries / restaurant / pubs and bars and zoom off once I smell stupidity, I don't give a fvck, no time for nonsense with them, we have over 3 billion females in the world to choose from, so why get myself worked up by a leeche that has nothing to bring to the table except their garden of Eden, rubbish

nwanneni:
lol oh so you remember?
It has been over a year na.your brain na memory card o lol

Riele:
let me throw my mat here...


Who wants to take me on a date

DimkpaBini:
The girl chose ShopRite for our first date
That should have tipped me off.I pulled out all the stops trying to impress her, bought the biggest chicken there, ice cream etc.She was forming ajebo for me.She said she wasn't hungry but made sure she packed everything

She then told me she wanted to go shopping and I foolishly agreed....big mistake
The Mumu girl almost finished my one month salary at one go and had the frigging nerve to tell me that it was a good start.I didn't say anything but as soon as she left I blocked her.
Mehn this chick was desperate,she even went as far as contacting my siblings to complain that I was ignoring her
I learnt never to take a girl to ShopRite on a date.If we can't do it somewhere else.. forget it

Mariangeles:
She does not need permission from you to choose where she's more comfortable.
She's doing you a favour by agreeing to go on a date in the first place ...
All she has to do is comport herself like a lady.

OboOlora:
Babe are you related to Obasanjo?

Elbone2:

U can be mean ohh...Mehn,To get a babe i can do any thing to pls her ohh unless I notice she has nothing upstairs...Different strokes for different folks.

AngelicBeing:
Well, you can call it been mean but it has saved me lots of headaches and drama's, I call it strong willed filtration system, l scan and filter the damsel very well and narrow it down to what I want or else, I delete and block, time is of essence and precious to me, I don't want to waste my time searching for a pin inside the Atlantic Ocean

crowley:

i was starting to like you until i saw this Dont say she doing him a favour. when she gets past her prime nd finds no suitors, who would she be doing favous to then. i wont say its the guy doing the favour. its insensitive to say so. they should both feel comfortable in wherever they pick. in his bed, a motel, a bar .

Mariangeles:
Upon all the bahd guy wey you form finish, you still fall mugu for her!
Forget all dis one wey you yarn for here .
Na so most of you nairaland guys be...una go come online, form finish, still fall mugu for babe. Chai !

I be female o but you too disappoint me aswear !
So, you no fit fashy her ass once ?

Una go come online, dey form jagaban...las las, all na wash!
Girls still dey use their charm on una, las las, na pound of flesh una go get in reward for giving in to their every whim!
Once again, you fall my hand!

Pinuc:
I met this lady through a friend married though, he told me of her sterling qualities, I decided to get her number. We started chatting and at the end of the day, we decided to meet. Being that I stay in Ph and she in Owerri, I gave her a day and told her where to meet up with her. She got there before me, and waited for few minutes before I arrived. We boarded a taxi, and on getting to our destination(an eatery) she wanted to pay, I told her to keep her money.
In the eatery I asked her what she wanted to take, she said she wants water, I pleaded with her to take something, so I bought meat pie for my self and extra for her. We chatted for less than an hour and where ready to leave. I saw her off and paid her fair. I now told her that since I came all the way from PH that the next time she has to come to PH and she told me she will not sleep with me, but will be staying in her friends place. I accepted.
Three weeks later she was to visit Ph, she called her friend that she is on the way and her friend told her she was on her way to Enugu, she had to come to my place and spent 3days, we did everything but sex.
I still paid her trans and off she went.
Ten years later she is now my wife, with three lovely kids. But it was difficult though because we courted for less than six months and didn't really know much about each other, but she is a lovely person.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Here to read lies o. Cos I can't imagine making demands on a first date! Unless you don't like the guy and wanna chase him off

kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.

CosmicPhoenix:

na you dey speak pidgin like this

Lalas247:
Haha see them...
All.the low income and non earners are here telling HUGE lies with their beardless face

Chai

See lies.. at least we can see who attracts dregs see them
If the lady makes demand on first date .. she doesn't even respect u means you trash shioor

nwanneni:
Na their way na.
And know she can also see your bank balance from her computer so she knew what her feminineness could make you do for her
Use to do that too to one cashier at heritage bank when I use to have a savings account there.
I gave her some dried snails which i got from when I wanted to send a sample to some clients in the US.
And was tipping her all the time.
So one evening I got there late and on my way out,I saw her trying to flag a cab.
I carried her and we started talking and all..
Made some advances but she later said to me;hope you know I'm married
Moral died immediately and I stopped using her branch.
Life sha,wonder if she's still there

Mariangeles:

No be only to speak am sef, I fit write an epistle in pidgin . You be MJbolt abi ?

Newguyhere:
'Baby pls can you get me an iPhone'
I was like bitch we just met 2 f**king days ago!!!
And you Don already dey Bill me
Even guys wey dey press sef don't bill clients that early

Mariangeles:
Excuse me !?

She's nothing but a shameless, self entitled, demanding leech!
Females like her sickens me! Yuck !

Plus, as a woman, you need no permission from anyone to succeed .
Be unapologetic!
Be feisty!
Dim your light for no one !

ModelX:

Awkaetiti or wetin be her name.
But maybe you resemble MC galaxy wey soft. Me my granite face no dey let them demand like that

ikechukz:

Yeah I'm introverted so I carefully select those who I associate with. One funny thing is that I get a lot of respect from even those that are older than me and ladies usually comport themselves around me. The only painful thing is that I don't know how to catch feelings or even love, so one minute is enough for me to forget any girl.

Mariangeles:
I was blinded by rage !
After the first few lines, all I could see was ...

Kmartt:



Xup bro, please am indeed interested in the snails export business. Let's chat on whatsapp 080three8six4two718