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theenchanter:
nice dimples.

Thanks!

EVILFOREST:
WATCH and Observe how LADIES will avoid this THREAD.
They Hate being told the TRUTH...!!
MINE:
First of all, 99% of NIGERIAN LADIES are always hungry at first outing.

Secondly: 85% of them want TAKE-AWAY meals after they had eaten at similar spot.

Thirdly: 60% of them would prefer to come with their entire Nuclear and Extended Families to the date.

Lastly: 99% of them would prefer to bear you CHILDREN the moment they realize how wealthy you are and not just rich.

lol#

cyprus000:
you know, kenny, it's either you're dyslexic or your sentiment is too opaque to allow the ray of objectivity and rationality to sift through.

how is asking for an iPhone as a proviso for marriage, tantamount to 'genuine' demand. or you just feel like yelping without comprehending what the guy said.

Na dem.
They can feign any kind of ignorance!!

wman:
Stop arguing what you don't know. It was released in Europe, Australia, South America and North America in late 2013. And guys in Nigeria bought it since that 2013.

Again. Google and Wikipedia is your friend.

It's not that hard to confirm.

OK you mean you bought it for your gf bro then

Psoul:
If she was not demanding in that manner, she may not haven even bn ur wife. May be one of those she dated before you would've married her even before u got to know her.

Women let me tell u, that way u value your pnssy is the same way men value their money. If a man keep demanding for ur pnssy constantly even without doing much for u, I beliv u will run away from him.
If u are a lady that values ur pnssy very well, and u just met a guy, he requested that he wants u to come to his house and stay for 2 or 3 days so dat he will have a good taste of u. Won't u say he is a stupid guy? This is the same way guys see a woman that make these outrageous demands especially at the beginning of a relationship.

After this comment I was expecting this thread would be closed.

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Only amateurs make outrageous demands on a first date.

Professionals rope you in with LOVE (or so you think) and then go for the kill.

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dazzlingd:
They think they are smart.

I've run away from countless girls for making stupid demands..

One I will never forget was Chinyere, Omo Igbo....

On our first date, we had to do a VIP movie ticket. With other small chopping and all, spent almost 20k just on first date. Then she was telling me about her birthday coming up, how she needs a new phone and her hair done, and how she's planning a party, and that she will need to do some small shoppings too..

Chai, can you imagine....? Well I thank God I got the value of my money back before the bday.....then found my exit

Chop knuckle

Kenneth10110:
OK you mean you bought it for your gf bro then

Peace Bro.

I'm out.

boiz2men:
when is the right time to make demands?

Sorry I don't have such mindset. If I'm in a relationship and need something I can't get on my own, I tell my boyfriend. If he can afford it, fine, if he can't, fine.

DimkpaBini:
The girl chose ShopRite for our first date
That should have tipped me off.I pulled out all the stops trying to impress her, bought the biggest chicken there, ice cream etc.She was forming ajebo for me.She said she wasn't hungry but made sure she packed everything

She then told me she wanted to go shopping and I foolishly agreed....big mistake
The Mumu girl almost finished my one month salary at one go and had the frigging nerve to tell me that it was a good start.I didn't say anything but as soon as she left I blocked her.
Mehn this chick was desperate,she even went as far as contacting my siblings to complain that I was ignoring her
I learnt never to take a girl to ShopRite on a date.If we can't do it somewhere else.. forget it

. Am fineshed

SlimChay:
You cheapen your self when you make dishonourable and unsolicited demands from men,whether you like him or not is immaterial. There isn't any excuse on that. The point here is your reputation being respected afterwards and all you'd get from such illicit requests from guys is disrepute.

A good morally equipped woman should know this. So don't hide under "To chase him off'' to feed your greed with shameful demands. Just say you're not interested, it's not that hard,really!

25 mentions! Lordy. Anyways I don't see a guy as a meal ticket OK. Someone cannot comment without wolves digging in

Ostrogoth:
Be famsing Obasanjo there. You do look like him in many things except face!

I'll find you and rip your guts out. I'll make sure your eyes are wide open while you ruminate the consequences of your Stark stupidity this day

kennygee:
Ladies. See the comments in this post. The one that really saddened me was the sweet girl who got dumped cause she was "demanding". Were her demands really a necessity or were they vain demands?

If you can afford to help out a woman you claim you love when she was in need, not out of vanity, is that a bad thing?

Maybe she was poor and couldn't afford those things she needed, if you could afford it and you've ascertained it is a necessity, is it too bad to help her out?

I pray she is able to hustle, get through this poor phase of her life by getting a decent job or business so she can stand on her own.

If you hustle your way through and become financially independent, they'll say you won't be submissive. If you ask them for money for needs, they'll say you're demanding.

If you dim your light so they can shine, they'll say you lack ambition. If you go to school, gather degrees paid for by yourself and your parents, they'll say you won't be submissive.

If you're a working career woman, they'll say you are not fulfilling your wifely duties, if you're a house wife, you're a liability.

The Nigerian woman is screwed either ways.

Make your own money ladies, work hard to achieve your dreams. Carve a path for your self and observe and look out for the one worth committing to.

In all these, stay off fornication and live the kind of life Christ wants you to live.

Shalom.

Well spoken sis

kennygee:
Please don't insult me without comprehending what my post meant. Did I in my post talk about iPhones?

Read the first page, maybe you'll understand what I was talking about, after that, kindly apologize.

Thank you.

by simply trying to justify the ignominy of Nigerian women in your post-you negate submission such as this.

beatcoins:
A girl I was planning on getting married to some few years back said if She doesnt have iPhone 6, she's not getting married. Today I'm happily married, iPhone 6 is out of trend & unfortunately, she's still not married. She still sends me msg from time to time asking for money. God saved my ass from awon slay mistress.

and it's by it, I addressed you. so, I owe you no apology.

Foolishmasses:
You be oloribruku somebody....Na so most of you ladies dey talk...if you want to chase him off, why don't you tell or ignore him but na through excessive demands una take dey chase person away....thunder fire your likes

Sorry I strictly use the Silent Tactics. The outrageous demand ain't my style. I simply pointed out that may b the reason. But as usual dumb people can't comprehend one's post. Perhaps I hit close to home for these niggas foaming on my comment.

Reading comments since yesterday

Babygal2020:
Aka gum!!!! I can't even date you!!!!

Aka Leech!!!
He won't even look at you twice, save your breath

Ostrogoth:
Are you not the same awkaetiti they are talking about on the comments section on the tenth page who asked someone to dassh her his benz to sell for startup? Are you the local babe with thick lips they are talking about?? If so I think I can understand you better!

Only a dense fool will believe such nonsense. As in how does that even sound in your brain?

cyprus000:
by simply trying to justify the ignominy of Nigerian women in your post-you negate submission such as this.


and it's by it, I addressed you. so, I owe you no apology.

Story has changed.

Dude, she really was hungry o
Am guessing she is fat af too

donbachi:
"baby i go need like 6take away,my mother,brothers and sisters never chop 4 2days"..dis na after she don chop a plate with extra,1big 5alive,4k to buy medicine 4 her mum..still get mouth to ask me"how e go be".

ModelX:
See na, she even commented on the first page, spewing shït as usual .
Hungry girls chai which gods have we offended in this country.

Baba I simply commented like everyone else. Is that why you boys be pissing testetorone all over my mention

I simply gave u niggas expo ni. I don't use such method to discharge though

AwkaetitiBabe:
25 mentions! Lordy. Anyways I don't see a guy as a meal ticket OK. Someone cannot comment without wolves digging in

I'm not a wolf dear. Your post came off as one pained by the revelation of the original poster's reason for this thread and one hiding the entitlement mentality under the pretext of "Chasing him away" to scheme intending guys with interest for you off their means,be it monetary-wise or materially.

All I'm saying is that your self respect and dignity should mean much to you or your reputation. You shouldn't lose them just to drive your disinterest to unwanted guys. If anything, you owe it to your self and no one should be responsible for your own actions but yourself.

klufs:
So you even make demands. Why must you make demands. Is it a relationship or trade by barter? I wonder the difference between these girls and the ones that actually stand on the street.

Pls spare me. Don't u make demands? What's d essence of a relationship if that person can't positively impact my life?

Immature boys and their thought pattern though

Ernerstdavid55:
so do u like me ?

if you view her Dp you will retract that statement immediately!

ngwababe:
Nne m ooo,not even a date, just mere wedding and dropping off, she don dey ask for Dubai and shopping? Some people suppose dey receive slap when dem dey lie!

Its simply stupid you just met someone and making such demands. As in what's the basis for such a demand?

The op got dumped not too long ago, pity his perceived money can't even make her stay. Silly misogynistic fool. To think his hometown is even close to mine... Age has nothing to do with maturity indeed.

haryothosyn93:
It happens to me yesterday evening like you guys know what is happening right now

I met this girl like a month ago, we gist and bla bla like that after we exchange contact. She agree to come over to my place that week sunday wish I have prepared for it as a guy naw. I just have to call her on Saturday evening just to be sure she is still coming as well have agreed but to my surprise, she said she will be resuming back to school the very next day which is Sunday that we agreed on. I was like no problem now, when will you be coming back and she said immediately she finished her exams she is will be starting on Monday the same week we agreed to see. Fast forward to the whole scenario, she called 2 weeks after that the school had prosponed the exams till further notice, I was like what happened she said she didn't know why that i send her card which I did. She didn't called after that till when I caller her again to check on her. The next demand was card again which I did again. She flashed me the next morning to thank me for the card I sent to her.
I called her again last weekend to know when she will be coming to abuja and she was like I will be coming on Wednesday because I will finish my exams on tuesday afternoon, I said okay that I will check on her before she come to abuja. To my surprise, I called this gurl on Thursday to know if she is back to base and her response shocked me that she didn't have transport and she has been looking for a way to call me that I should send her money for her transport. I was like if I did not call you now you won't remember that you don't have transport, she has being calling me like I owe her money. She keeping sending messages and calling till around 2 am in the morning.


It is funny but crazy and I told that I don't have one naira in my account that she should call her family. She said nobody has money in her family to send to her.

This story has Ojoma Hannah written all over it

kennygee:
Story has changed.

lol. aunty, is this your way of prevaricating or what

Have raked the whole website, and there isn't any designated section for reservations; Just series of contact and nothing particularly helpful from the once I called. They said the list is pre-booked already.

I think they're more active on Facebook and YouTube, am I correct?

Riele:
No deal o

Okay then..
But chill in your house Oo..

SlimChay:
I'm not a wolf dear. Your post came off as one pained by the revelation of the original poster's reason for this thread and one hiding the entitlement mentality under the pretext of "Chasing him away" to scheme intending guys with interest for you off their means,be it monetary-wise or materially.

All I'm saying is that your self respect and dignity should mean much to you or your reputation. You shouldn't lose them just to drive your disinterest to unwanted guys. If anything, you owe it to your self and no one should be responsible for your own actions but yourself.

Baba I work hard for my money. I don't need change u men got to offer. How much can a guy give to me that I can't give myself? I just told u niggas the truth.. If she bills you outrageously, she ain't into you. Take that to the fuvcking bank.

hysteriabox:

Dude, she really was hungry o
Am guessing she is fat af too

And you believed B.S?

WestGodspower:
This kinda rubbish happened to me twice in one week. I went out with a girl and she suggested shoprite, we got der and she was pulling everything her hands could touch from d shelf into d shoppin cart, i asked her, babe who go pay for all these things? She said you of course, i calm down and told her no p, i gat u, let me go and bring extra cart for u cos tis one is filling up already. I left and never looked back. Deleted her number asap. Kept calling me but never picked. Days later she texted and said she's sorry that she will love to see me again, me i know she just want to try again with a different format.
Second one, after d first one, i had learned my lesson and decided never to take any girl to shoprite again to avoid such stories, invited a girl out to d local bar. Called her, babe where are u, she said we are on our way, i asked who is we, she said me and my friend. And i tot to myself, if her friend looks as good as she looks that i will focus on her. She showed up with two friends both, not good looking at all. They sat down and i started laughing, they asked why i was laughing i looked at them dead on and said 'I'm about to order some expensive shits and leave them to pay for it', they laughed thinkin i was jokin. They ordered for 3 point and kill, i was like only? They ordered plenty hollandia big sized yogurt and chi exotic, i was like only? They said amarula, i said ok I will be back let me go and pay downstair and i zoomed off, never looked back.
I don't have time for arguments and i decided, no decent girls in this life again and I'm gonna hang boot on girls for now.

Lol
A p-i-m-p named sleakback gat notn on him

pansophist:
Why do you guys see sex as a reward, a goal or something divine? To the women, the sex is nothing, it's like giving you a cup of water to drink from an endless stream. The lady is the smart one here, she has used up his resources, which he spent at least a month slaving to get (he admitted it), and also, still spend more to get a few mins of sex. Pathetic.

I actually don't blame women for being so vain and materialistic, men enable it, and with your outlook of seeing sex as a reward, a trend like this will continue.

I get ur point bro. The guy don lose already, so in order not to lose finally, I suggested the above. A girl no fit even play me that kind wayo. Sex is cheap even with better girls, so why spend ur monthly salary on a girl in one day in an outing