Fountainofyouth:
Ok so because she decided to pay for two more nights automatically means she has the 100%ticks for marriage? You didn't mention character, ethics, 5 year plan, intelligence, nothing, you chose instead to show us a hotel room that can be anywhere, even in Naija and a blurry picture of God knows who, so that what? We should tell you kudos and go ahead, I for one wouldn't tell you that, instead I'll tell you the obvious truth, YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE, not even close.

Kusherman:


That was just an illustration he gave to show she's not a greedy broke hoe like you.

Why are you ranting about hotel room.

My friend gerrarahere!

Fountainofyouth:



A broke hoe like me? Lmao, meaning he is a greedy platinum digger who wants a lady to continuously spend on him, just like you right? Dum dum little diick hoe, get dafvck outta here.

Kusherman:


Nobody wants a liability in the name of love anymore.

MJBOLT:

marry the italian lady then travel back to nigeria and marry a yoruba lady

Fountainofyouth:



I don't give two fvcks what you or anyone wants in the name of love.

ifex370:
Loooooooooooool.. To come and marry a Yoruba girl..


When God wants to bless you but village people are using your picture to fan corn.

Kusherman:


Them Bleep outta here with your bullshiit.

Frustrated leech. Mehn are getting wiser now...work on yourself and improve your life so threads like this don't get under your skin

chapmanapr:
Bro, opportunity come but once. If it's me, I will propose to her the following week and start marriage plans. She's very nice! No Nigerian woman will do such!

She's young and beautiful and she has a lot to offer you. I remember when I was studying in England, I met this Romanian chick, she would disagree with me when it comes to paying the bills on dates as she wanted us to split the bills,

being an African man, I told where am from men pay the bills. She would tell me she wants to settle down with me, and couldn't wait for us to visit her parents in Romania. This was back in 2010, she was good looking, I was in my early twenties and wasn't ready to settle down as marriage freaked me out, I thought I was too young (African man mentality), and also to the thought of not marrying an ibo girl.

So my judgment got the best of me. I dumped her and moved on. I have since returned back to Nigeria. I can tell you straight! I am regretting it till this day.

A lot of Africans pay over 6,000 pounds to get arranged marriage for resident permit. I got mine on platter of gold and flipped it.

Bro, there are a lot things you would gain from her. Free world class education for your children, Italian (EU) passport to travel the world without visa, free health care for your entire family! Beautiful mixed race children and many more

Since I have been in Nigeria, I have been in few relationships, met nice beautiful but really broke ass Nigerian babes, with nothing to offer but sex.

Am currently planning my second trip. I know my wife is somewhere in Europe!

emkz:
I think most white girls are independent and can save money just to have fun. I don't remember any white girl that relied so much on her partner financially in interracial relationships. If she loves you, she can do anything for you (as is this case). The decision to marry her or not is yours. My advise is that you take your time to study her and know her properly. She may be in for the long term with you.

Also be aware of cultural differences and understand that at some point, they would play out. This is a big deal.

On the other hand, coming down to Nigeria to pick a Yoruba girl does not guarantee she'd be the best wife. Take your time and study your woman. Marital decision is not something you need not take lightly.

Fhemmmy:


Don't get it twisted, please show me 5 of just white girls that you know who works hard and save money, please show me and mind you i am not saying that show me one that uses credit cards please BUT one that really spending savings and NOT the one that is racking up debts

tolani91:
Hello all. I am Tolani. I live and work in Italy. I shared my relocation experience from Nigeria on a previous thread. For reference, you can check here
https://www.nairaland.com/5089540/how-selling-cars-helped-me

I am in a dilemma now. I need your help with advice. Some months ago, I met a lady here. She's Italian. In April, we started dating. The problem is that I have always had the intention to come back to Nigeria to marry. Like come back to marry a yoruba girl like me. But this girl is Italian. And she told me she wants to settle down. Specifically, she wants to settled down with me. She's young. Not those old mama Nigerians marry for papers. I did not really bother about her settling down goal. In my mind, we will just date and rest later. But her character is giving me confusion. She's a real lady.

See what happened recently that busted my brain. There's this 5 star hotel she always wished to go and relax. I had a good week. Sold 2 cars. So I decided to give her a threat. I told her I will take her there last Friday. She accepted. We lodged on Friday together. The hotel was dope. On Saturday, time to checkout, I told her that I budgeted for just one night. We should be going. She said no she wants to stay till Monday. I said I didn't budget for 3 nights till Monday. Just for Friday night. She said I should not worry. She called reception and paid for 2 more nights. Since Saturday till now, we are still at the hotel. She has being attending to the bills.

I think you get the picture of her kind of person now. I am considering following her wish and settling with her. But one mind wants me to follow my initial wish of coming back home to pick a yoruba sister.

Please I need your advice. Help me with matured advice please.

I am sharing a pic I took for her at the hotel this afternoon. The hotel is really cool.

Fhemmmy:
What does she do for living and how come she is always going there to chill?

tolani91:
Hello all. I am Tolani. I live and work in Italy. I shared my relocation experience from Nigeria on a previous thread. For reference, you can check here
https://www.nairaland.com/5089540/how-selling-cars-helped-me

I am in a dilemma now. I need your help with advice. Some months ago, I met a lady here. She's Italian. In April, we started dating. The problem is that I have always had the intention to come back to Nigeria to marry. Like come back to marry a yoruba girl like me. But this girl is Italian. And she told me she wants to settle down. Specifically, she wants to settled down with me. She's young. Not those old mama Nigerians marry for papers. I did not really bother about her settling down goal. In my mind, we will just date and rest later. But her character is giving me confusion. She's a real lady.

See what happened recently that busted my brain. There's this 5 star hotel she always wished to go and relax. I had a good week. Sold 2 cars. So I decided to give her a threat. I told her I will take her there last Friday. She accepted. We lodged on Friday together. The hotel was dope. On Saturday, time to checkout, I told her that I budgeted for just one night. We should be going. She said no she wants to stay till Monday. I said I didn't budget for 3 nights till Monday. Just for Friday night. She said I should not worry. She called reception and paid for 2 more nights. Since Saturday till now, we are still at the hotel. She has being attending to the bills.

I think you get the picture of her kind of person now. I am considering following her wish and settling with her. But one mind wants me to follow my initial wish of coming back home to pick a yoruba sister.

Please I need your advice. Help me with matured advice please.

I am sharing a pic I took for her at the hotel this afternoon. The hotel is really cool.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Why exactly? Money is to be spent. I ain't taking one naira to d grave so why hoard it? If I don't share it with loved ones, who will I share it with?

emkz:


Please, I am referring to girls who have a tractable career. Not club girls who cannot properly articulate what they do for a living and are looking for whom to leech on. I don't know the circles you roll in, so I frankly don't know how to approach this conversation. BTW I don't need to show you 5 of such girls to prove my point; change your circle and don't assume you know what you don't know.

tolani91:


Read my message again but slowly this second time. You will understand better.

She has not lodged there ever before. She just liked the place based on the rave it is having and she wished to visit.

Skmoda360:

Naso all naija girls dey talk.....they sabi hoard money pretending like "can you send me 100 naira for recharge card" awon leeches gbogbo.....

Sulukag:
How i wish i was in your shoes,that babe is a treasure. Guy marry her. Do you know how many divorce rocking our youth in Naija this days. Some naija girls self go reach there turn to another person. When you are marry a woman,you are marry the heart,the heart controls character attitude e.t.c regardless of the race,colour,tribe. From my perception she has a good heart. I really wish i was in your shoes once again

AwkaetitiBabe:
So whites don't go through divorce? She has a good heart because she paid for 3 extra night from her own money? Buhaaaahhaaahhhaaaaaa.

She for listen and obey her man naw. Abi obedience no count again ni

Fhemmmy:


Please tell the dude well oh . . . So sad that slavery has eaten too deep into our skin that anything light becomes superior . . .

AwkaetitiBabe:
Don't mind the bronzediggers.

Tomorrow now if she challenges all his decisions, he'll come here disturbing us.

tolani91:
Reading this thread again is really interesting. Thank you all

Fountainofyouth:
Ok so because she decided to pay for two more nights automatically means she has the 100%ticks for marriage? You didn't mention character, ethics, 5 year plan, intelligence, nothing, you chose instead to show us a hotel room that can be anywhere, even in Naija and a blurry picture of God knows who, so that what? We should tell you kudos and go ahead, I for one wouldn't tell you that, instead I'll tell you the obvious truth, YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE, not even close.