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Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 8:33am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
and yet Kim Kardashian who was sùcking díck on camera got married to a rich successful man who could have easily chosen ten virgins wink
You are comparing an average woman to Kim Kardashianhuh? Or Kanye West to an average man?

Where can I borrow sense for this girl?

Kim did a sex tape with her boyfriend which he leaked.

She wasn't a slut sleeping around on camera.

And she is a very very successful woman herself.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:36am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
You are comparing an average woman to Kim Kardashianhuh? Or Kanye West to an average man?

Where can I borrow sense for this girl?
I knew you would refuse this example because it contradicts your narrative cheesy
but such examples exist in real life too
step out of your bubble

Kim did a sex tape with her boyfriend which he leaked.
yeah, right grin

She wasn't a slut sleeping around on camera.
no, she was pious and decent, still is grin

And she is a very very successful woman herself.
after the leak wink
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:38am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Tell your parents you are one and give us their feedback.
tell your children mummy is a rapist apologist first wink
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 8:38am On Jun 22, 2019
UjuJoan2:
People just want to put women in a box, and tell them what they can and can't do. But who is telling the men? undecided

Why are people willing to accept that chilvary is dead, and yet don't get that women are no longer 'blushing brides'huh

Modernization has changed the world . . . we need to get used to it and stop trying to take us back to the stone age.
Is calling people to be more moral taking us back to the stone age?

If having young women worn out with alcohol, drugs and sex a sign of modernization?

Instead rolling in the mud with men, we agree that the vices are bad, can women not just discard the immoral men emass which would force them to be better?

Can mothers train their sons to be better?

Like Michelle Obama says, when they go low, we go high.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 8:38am On Jun 22, 2019
Omoluabi16:
The world is pandering to anything and everything. It is not really acceptable, but we are told to respect,accept and give people medals for their 'choices'. A great number of the western world reject this system, and some are cowed into acceptance. It isn't about Africa or not now, because and the unnatural is being made the new natural.
What is order without a system? None
True
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 8:42am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
The more you talk, the more you paint women as stupid people incapable of thought or taking control of their lives.

If a woman wants to sleep around and knows that she is the one with the burden of pregnancy, wouldn't common sense tell her to be more careful?

She has more to lose and at stake, she needs to be responsible for her sexual health.

Except when a woman was raped, she has the right to insist that the man uses a condom. She doesn't and cries foul when the pregnancy occurs.

Again, a man doesn't have right to his sperm if only the woman can determine if she wants to be a mother or not.

When pregnancy occurs and the woman aborts it in spite of the man's insistence and demonstrated ability to care for the unborn, what do you call that?
a man decides whether he shoots inside or not, to use a condom or not
are you that stùpid or only pretending?
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 8:46am On Jun 22, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
That is why things would continue to change for a more better, just and equitable society smiley
That change will not come by women joining the men.

It would only make things worse.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 8:50am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
a man decides whether he shoots inside or not, to use a condom or not
are you that stùpid or only pretending?
She is that stupid, but she thinks she's "woke" and making an impact
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 8:51am On Jun 22, 2019
KanwuliaExtra:
You already got your answer na. wink

Let me whisper it in your ears.

*no, marital rape is better* wink

You remind be of one of my sadistic ex-gal-pal who actually told me she only enjoyed sex after a goooood beating from her husband. Her own way of expressing her “feminine mystique” abi? grin


Uuuuuugh! The last time I heard of her was over 20 years ago.

Remember this too?

You are a danger to yourself and all women. Any female friend of yours will have do deal with every “highly-moralistic” fiber of your being. Is is your opinion that is best for all. I have seen your qualification on NL. wink
Like I said earlier, this is one of those days.

You are one of the most mature on this thread.

If a younger wife met you to advise her that due to her busy schedule, her sex life is suffering, what would you advise?
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 8:55am On Jun 22, 2019
Acidosis:
You mean USA? There are over 190 countries in the world so USA is not a standard for all. And what do you mean by "we moralists". Nigeria is one of the most sexually perverted countries in the world, and one of the greatest exporters of prostitution, drug, romance scam and crime. So save that moral stuff elsewhere . When you talk about world's most conservative countries, mention places like Saudi Arabia, Ethiopia, Lebanon, Swaziland, Jordan, India, and many Moslem nations.

HIV is higher here because aside prostitution which many of you support, a lot of ediots have also added illiteracy. Rather than encourage girl child education, your lots preach desecration of private parts like Olympic competition.

Continue to preach what you would neither do nor condone with your daughters.
Las las, men will get you pregnant, run to school, and leave you behind to nurse babies.
@bold 1: when I see Nigeria is moral, I am baffled.

Maybe it is the Nigeria behind Nigeria.

@bold 2: or they drag him for child support. Unfortunately, Nigerian court will award N10k for 3 children. In addition to the psychological trauma of begging a man to be responsible for the seed he supposedly planted inside you.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by essenceplus: 8:56am On Jun 22, 2019
Fieryy and bukatyne still on this matter grin
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 9:03am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
I knew you would refuse this example because it contradicts your narrative cheesy
but such examples exist in real life too
step out of your bubble



yeah, right grin



no, she was pious and decent, still is grin



after the leak wink
This your thinking na wa.

Is Kim's sex tape now a yard stick of women liberation?

Do you know how many times she has regretted it?

Do you know that Kim doesn't even identify as a feminist?

Is there anything wrong with decency and been pious?
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 9:05am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
tell your children mummy is a rapist apologist first wink
OH, you are ashamed to tell your parents you have chosen to be a slut?

I guessed as much.

Just internet braggadio.

Of course, I will teach my kids to be chaste and that marriage gives consent of sex to their spouses in addition to other things so they need to choose very carefully.

I will also teach them how to have fantastic sex lives with their spouses so to curb adultery and enjoy the God's gift in their marriages.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 9:08am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
a man decides whether he shoots inside or not, to use a condom or not
are you that stùpid or only pretending?
So a woman doesn't have the right to say no if the man is not going to wear a condom? When she doesn't want to be a mother?

The rate at which you lose and gain rights is alarming.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:09am On Jun 22, 2019
fieryy:
She is that stupid, but she thinks she's "woke" and making an impact
this stupidity in these arguments is making my stomach churn
a man sleeps with a woman, doesn't use protection, shoots inside and we are supposed to see him as a victim when he is asked to take responsibility for his actions and his child
like he was forced to sleep with someone without protection and impregnate them
and then she will ask me why he has no right to his money? grin
it can't get more stùpid, can it?
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 9:09am On Jun 22, 2019
essenceplus:
Fieryy and bukatyne still on this matter grin
Which matter?

She's made only one post I can see on this thread.

I don't do matter with faceless people.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by essenceplus: 9:09am On Jun 22, 2019
This is juicy cheesy
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi:
bukatyne:
OH, you are ashamed to tell your parents you have chosen to be a slut?

I guessed as much.

Just internet braggadio.

Of course, I will teach my kids to be chaste and that marriage gives consent of sex to their spouses in addition to other things so they need to choose very carefully.

I will also teach them how to have fantastic sex lives with their spouses so to curb adultery and enjoy the God's gift in their marriages.
nobody gives a flying f.... what you will teach your children
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 9:10am On Jun 22, 2019
essenceplus:
Fieryy and bukatyne still on this matter grin
I have just made 1 comment on this thread nau and that was ca. 30 mins ago
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:11am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
This your thinking na wa.

Is Kim's sex tape now a yard stick of women liberation?

Do you know how many times she has regretted it?

Do you know that Kim doesn't even identify as a feminist?

Is there anything wrong with decency and been pious?
how you come up with the monkey questions is a mystery cheesy
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 9:13am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
this stupidity in these arguments is making my stomach churn
a man sleeps with a woman, doesn't use protection, shoots inside and we are supposed to see him as a victim when he is asked to take responsibility for his actions and his child
like he was forced to sleep with someone without protection and impregnate them
and then she will ask me why he has no right to his money? grin
it can't get more stùpid, can it?
What do you call a woman who lets a man sleep with her without protection when they have not mutually agreed to have a kid or are not married?

Since the burden of contraceptive solely rests on the man, shouldn't we had over reproductive rights back to the men?

You see how stupid you sound?

In this age where there are even female condoms and after morning pills.

You are actually the one dragging women back to the 10th century when men determined if women would be mothers or not because there was no contraceptive.

And nowhere did I say the men were victims.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by essenceplus: 9:14am On Jun 22, 2019
fieryy:
I have just made 1 comment on this thread nau and that was ca. 30 mins ago
You've been reading comments since the thread owned. I merely said that about your interest/presence on the thread. Nevertheless,it was sure humor, don't take me too serious
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:15am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
So a woman doesn't have the right to say no if the man is not going to wear a condom? When she doesn't want to be a mother?

The rate at which you lose and gain rights is alarming.
in the same way a man has the right and freedom to use a condom, a woman has the right to insist on the use of a condom
if they take the wrong decision at this point, they have to live with all possible outcomes and take responsibility
the rate at which you ask nonsensical questions is worrisome
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by essenceplus: 9:16am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
What do you call a woman who lets a man sleep with her without protection when they have not mutually agreed to have a kid or are not married?

Since the burden of contraceptive solely rests on the man, shouldn't we had over reproductive rights back to the men?

You see how stupid you sound?

In this age where there are even female condoms and after morning pills.

You are actually the one dragging women back to the 10th century when men determined if women would be mothers or not because there was no contraceptive.

And nowhere did I say the men were victims.
This been said it beats me how some ladies allow themselves get impregnated when they weren't ready for it. From contraceptives to condoms,we have a myriad of ways to prevent unwanted children yet abortion still refuses to plummet across the world. Help me here am I .
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by essenceplus: 9:16am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
What do you call a woman who lets a man sleep with her without protection when they have not mutually agreed to have a kid or are not married?

Since the burden of contraceptive solely rests on the man, shouldn't we had over reproductive rights back to the men?

You see how stupid you sound?

In this age where there are even female condoms and after morning pills.

You are actually the one dragging women back to the 10th century when men determined if women would be mothers or not because there was no contraceptive.

And nowhere did I say the men were victims.
This been said it beats me how some ladies allow themselves get impregnated when they weren't ready for it. From contraceptives to condoms,we have a myriad of ways to prevent unwanted children yet abortion still refuses to plummet across the world. Help me here am I
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:16am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
What do you call a woman who lets a man sleep with her without protection when they have not mutually agreed to have a kid or are not married?

Since the burden of contraceptive solely rests on the man, shouldn't we had over reproductive rights back to the men?

You see how stupid you sound?

In this age where there are even female condoms and after morning pills.

You are actually the one dragging women back to the 10th century when men determined if women would be mothers or not because there was no contraceptive.

And nowhere did I say the men were victims.
what do you call a man who ejaculates inside of women he is not married to and who doesn't want children yet has bastards all over the place?
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 9:16am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
nobody gives a flying f.... what you will teach our children
Hahahahahahaha

On my way to bringing up quality kids.

And one more course: how to avoid washed up, overused sluts wink

I don't want desecration to our lineage.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by bukatyne(op): 9:17am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
how you come up with the monkey questions is a mystery cheesy
Maybe from surveymonkey.

I take it you have no answers.
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:18am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Hahahahahahaha

On my way to bringing up quality kids.

And one more course: how to avoid washed up, overused sluts wink

I don't want desecration to our lineage.
you are disgrace enough so I understand cheesy
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Nobody: 9:18am On Jun 22, 2019
desvi:
this stupidity in these arguments is making my stomach churn
a man sleeps with a woman, doesn't use protection, shoots inside and we are supposed to see him as a victim when he is asked to take responsibility for his actions and his child
like he was forced to sleep with someone without protection and impregnate them
and then she will ask me why he has no right to his money? grin
it can't get more stùpid, can it?
For real, it takes TWO to make a baby and it ought to take two to carry the responsibilities.

I laughed when I read her "a man doesn't have a right to his sperm" comment.

Wtf grin grin grin grin grin Loooool
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by desvi: 9:18am On Jun 22, 2019
bukatyne:
Maybe from surveymonkey.

I take it you have no answers.
I don't understand dùmb questions. wink
Re: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by Smile4mee01: 9:19am On Jun 22, 2019
I think social media has damaged our women, its influence has ravaged the woman nature...

If men had an option, they would choose to have sons than daughters for the fear of what they could become.
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