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essenceplus:
This been said it beats me how some ladies allow themselves get impregnated when they weren't ready for it. From contraceptives to condoms,we have a myriad of ways to prevent unwanted children yet abortion still refuses to plummet across the world. Help me here am I .

I don't get.

If a girl gets pregnant for a steady boyfriend where they can do shotgun wedding, I hear.

But a girl who is just friends with benefits?

And the irony is that they do not want the man, they do not want their kids to have a fatherly figure, they do not want to build a family.

All they want is his money.

Jezebels.

fieryy:
For real, it takes TWO to make a baby and it ought to take two to carry the responsibilities.

I laughed when I read her "a man doesn't have a right to his sperm" comment.

Wtf Loooool

I swear I can't laugh anymore
this is too síck
goes even beyond stùpid
I seriously think that she is developing some sort of madness

my aunty who goes to church like every day told me once when I was younger and asking 1000 questions about the Bible
not to delve too deep into the Bible as it has the potential to make you overthink and lose your mind
here is the perfect example of such occurrence
this is serious oo

bukatyne:
I don't get.

If a girl gets pregnant for a steady boyfriend where they can do shotgun wedding, I hear.

But a girl who is just friends with benefits?

And the irony is that they do not want the man, they do not want their kids to have a fatherly figure, they do not want to build a family.

All they want is his money.

Jezebels.

Sis I'm tired. Its sickening to see a steady rise in abortion give the abundance of options to avoid unwanted pregnancies. This world ended a long time ago. Males have their own too for body. How a man that doesn't want a woman for the long term nor want a child impregnates a woman still baffles me. Where has common sense flee to

desvi:
I swear I can't laugh anymore
this is too síck
goes even beyond stùpid
I seriously think that she is developing some sort of madness

my aunty who goes to church like every day told me once when I was younger and asking 1000 questions about the Bible
not to delve too deep into the Bible as it has the potential to make you overthink and lose your mind
here is the perfect example of such occurrence
this is serious oo

Bro as an adult you're still leaning on the conjectures and rsctives of your old aunt. This is laughable. Try to own your thought life and perspectives please

desvi:
in the same way a man has the right and freedom to use a condom, a woman has the right to insist on the use of a condom
if they take the wrong decision at this point, they have to live with all possible outcomes and take responsibility
the rate at which you ask nonsensical questions is worrisome

Ok.

If the woman gets pregnant and insists on keeping it against the man's wishes, the man should be financially responsible.

What happens if the man wants the baby at all cost and the woman goes ahead to abort it?

bukatyne:
Ok.

If the woman gets pregnant and insists on keeping it against the man's wishes, the man should be financially responsible.

What happens if the man wants the baby at all cost and the woman goes ahead to abort it?

he made a wish when he was shooting without protection
simple!
after that the well-being of the child is the yardstick
not your madness
get help!

desvi:
I swear I can't laugh anymore
this is too síck
goes even beyond stùpid
I seriously think that she is developing some sort of madness

my aunty who goes to church like every day told me once when I was younger and asking 1000 questions about the Bible
not to delve too deep into the Bible as it has the potential to make you overthink and lose your mind
here is the perfect example of such occurrence
this is serious oo

Of course common sense seems like madness until a stranded pregnant woman who should be catered to hands and foot is running around looking for how to get her reluctant baby daddy to commit.

desvi:
he made a wish when he was shooting without protection
simple!
after that the well-being of the child is the yardstick
not your madness
get help!

I think you are the one that needs help.

My question is simple.

Answer it.

bukatyne:
Of course common sense seems like madness until a stranded pregnant woman who should be catered to hands and foot is running around looking for how to get her reluctant baby daddy to commit.

it's not about the woman
it's about the child
who they should be taking care of
by taking responsibility
like decent people do

but you would not know what class and decency are even if it hit you in the face

desvi:
you are disgrace enough so I understand

Someone who supports slutty behaviors telling me I am a disgrace.

I understand your pain.

Never too late to retrace your steps.

bukatyne:
Someone who supports slutty behaviors telling me I am a disgrace.

I understand your pain.

Never too late to retrace your steps.

you are NLs slut number one
always talking about how you can't stop f...... your husband
nymphomania is a burdensome disorder
not sorry for you

doitforyou:
Your rational post is wasted on someone that is attacking a straw man because he doesn't have the mental capacity to contribute to the current post/topic. He is the only one that is off topic, as someone said he has no substance.

You're so comfortable and glorious in your ignorance, it's hilarious.

You pick a straw-man, not attack it...which would be what I did if I was truly deviating from the topic.
But of course, you never know what you're talking about at all.

desvi:
you are NLs slut number one
always talking about how you can't stop f...... your husband
nymphomania is a burdensome disorder
not sorry for you

Hahahahhahahahhahahah

This girl o!

I don't even know where I talk about my marital sex life.

However, let's assume I do.

I am a slut and nymphomanic because I always have sex with my husband.

Hahahahahahaha.

Is it you I should be having sex with?

Or I should leave my husband and be hopping from one man to another to be a liberated modern woman?

Hahahahahahaha.

You know my dream: start thinking of bedroom retirement at 70 after fulfilling my plenty plenty bucket list.

desvi:
it's not about the woman
it's about the child
who they should be taking care of
by taking responsibility
like decent people do

but you would not know what class and decency are even if it hit you in the face

If the women are truly interested in the welfare of the children,

Why don't they insist on the fathers' presence?

Why don't they live together to be a condusive environment to train the child?

Why do some of them deny the father visiting rights?

Or it is only money that is used to care for a child?

I want a virgin boy. Speak for yourself

Acidosis:
...because women dislike virgin boys. The average woman do not want to marry a virgin. Women have made their choices by their attraction to high mileage guys. So technically, the average woman loves a male prostitute.

Men have also made a choice. Do you want to change our choices?

yeyeosoronga:
crackhaus,
You need to be objective. You're trying to compare the successes of men generally to women when women have just been given the opportunity to start achieving things. The men had centuries of a head start and yet you expect women to have caught up with them.
Women haven't done too badly at all considering the various challenges and obstacles before them including the various retrogressive cultures which still exist in majority of countries.
You say it's only the bad things men do women are trying to copy, not true. All they want is to be judged same way as men. If those things were truly bad, why haven't the men in power stopped them? Even in a society like US, women were just allowed to vote in 1920 or so. The first ever vote held in US was in 1789. Only CENTURIES afterwards were their women allowed to vote. Please you too reason am na. They're not doing badly at all catching up with the men.

And my point is made for me again.

Men are the standard, the ones women look up to in everything, even to assist with their successes

As the saying goes, "Aim for the clouds, you might land below it. Aim for the stars, the cloud is the starting point."

If you want to be judged the same way as men, then it should be on things that elevate you above men if success is truly the goal. Do you understand?

Magnoliaa:
Soooo, you haven't seen women achieving great feats abi? In every sectors? Economically, scientifically etc etc? In equally 'positive' ones? Oh God.

Well, as for the ones you listed, the ones that are yet to be achieved by women-- just give it time. That is what the emancipation of women is all about. It is actually all these 'rules', societal constructs and patriarchy that has kept women back.

You complain of women not being at the forefront even, yet you still want them to be 'gentle, subservient, soft-spoken, tending to affairs at home' and all those shii I don't understand.

Don't miss my point. What I'm saying is that that woman who you want to be an achiever, go-getter is the opposite of what a woman is perceived and expected to be i.e not speaking up, not taking the lead, not being seen, being complacent and accepting whatever people throw at her etc.

Which parts of my post gave you that interpretation?

bukatyne:
I am different things every day.

And your presence becomes even more stronger.

bukatyne:
Now this would be odd except if she doesn't want kids.

What's odd is that she doesn't know what she wants from her life yet.
I'm being totally honest.

sassysure:
U know u are lying but kontinue
The crackhous I knew before started with the capital letter c.
It might be u too.
This is the voice of Esau but the hands of Jacob.
Ahaaa
Kanwulia busted your bombom.

I don't know how people actually decode who is behind some monikers.

As for the topic, I have since decided not to go on lengthy arguments on nairaland.
It gives some people hard on
If I try to pass my message across in a discuss like this and we have to start going round and round, I will quietly bow out.
I'm not a lawyer neither am I a preacher


Nairaland should be strictly for fun and sometimes I react on the so called real life issue that people posts which sometimes aren't.
Besides, I lose interest very fast if the discuss isn't interesting and educating like this one.

I will meet you somewhere else and ask you loads of questions.
U be baaaaaaad boy, very very bad boy

Lol..

Like before, if you really been around long enough, you would know I'm not coogar. Don't ever take things Kanwilia types too literally or serious, she's mouthing like someone on a heroine diet most of the time.
I know this cos I've asked her exactly if she does most of the things she types and she responded in the negative, that was after a heated fight of course.

If you still interested in asking me questions, mention me when the time comes. And yes, crackhaus is a bad boy, a very baaaaaaaad boy.

bukatyne:
Funny.

A lot of people on this thread would not behave like the girls in the cinema in the first place.

They instinctively know it is wrong.

There is also a reason most people hide their body count when it is high: they are instinctively ashamed.

Same with other immoral behaviours.

I thought so too, but with the tremendous outpour of emotional tantrums from these chics, it seems we might have a major collection of unclassy skanks doing their god's work on NL.

What kind of person wouldn't want to be judged for immorality, just on the grounds that men don't get judged for it?

cococandy:
I want a virgin boy. Speak for yourself

Meaning, you don't preach what you love (chastity)?

CHoccolaTE:
Yes, I saw the comment on the other thread and I knew that ignoring you will pain you more than typing anything in response.
If you like deny it
So I ignored you and I wasn't even wrong.

Look at you bringing up a stupid meaningless comment that has nothing to do with this equally useless thread because you still have it in mind that I didn't reply your post.

Since yesterday.

Ignoring me the previous day, then jumping in on a comment talking about me the very next day just to throw shots...and this simpleton says i'm the one who's pained?

And you still wonder how I know you're just another stvpid dumbed down chic among the multitude?

crackhaus:
Ignoring me the previous day, then jumping in on a comment talking about me the very next day just to throw shots...and this simpleton says i'm the one who's pained?

And you still wonder how I know you're just another stvpid dumbed down chic among the multitude?

I wasn't wondering anything about you trust me.

All the insults you wrote there apply to your mother.
Simpleton, dumbed down, stupid.

All of them are descriptive of your mother.

desvi:
denial is part of the narcissistic personality disorder
but your comebacks are very lame Mr Dunce

My comebacks are the reason you keep trying hard to prove to me you know anything about diagnosis.

Where did you get your degree from?

CHoccolaTE:
I wasn't wondering anything about you trust me.

All the insults you wrote there apply to your mother.
Simpleton, dumbed down, stupid.

All of them are descriptive of your mother.

Lmao..

Are you crying already?

lol you just confirmed you are indeed a dunce. You need to quit now before you disgrace your ancestors. Empty barrel.

crackhaus:
You're so comfortable and glorious in your ignorance, it's hilarious.

You pick a straw-man, not attack it...which would be what I did if I was truly deviating from the topic.
But of course, you never know what you're talking about at all.

doitforyou:
lol you just confirmed you are indeed a dunce. You need to quit now before you disgrace your ancestors. Empty barrel.

Pick straws, not attack straws.
Common knowledge, but not to you.

Who taught you English?

Just take correction, and say thank you and you'll feel alright.

crackhaus:
Lmao..

Are you crying already?

Oga leave my front abeg.

Mtsheeww

doitforyou:
lol you just confirmed you are indeed a dunce. You need to quit now before you disgrace your ancestors. Empty barrel.

Ohhhh
Fatality!!!!

Flawless victory!!

bukatyne:
If the women are truly interested in the welfare of the children,

Why don't they insist on the fathers' presence?

Why don't they live together to be a condusive environment to train the child?

Why do some of them deny the father visiting rights?

Or it is only money that is used to care for a child?

who the heck are you talking about?
and who is haunting you?
please take your meds

crackhaus:
My comebacks are the reason you keep trying hard to prove to me you know anything about diagnosis.

Where did you get your degree from?

you have been diagnosed and exposed
to protect innocent souls from your manipulations
but your useful idíot bukatyne is already beyond redemption