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LordKO:
"Because we can't get along..." This is a typical scenario where a too clever by half woman (a man can equally be in her stead) was hit below the belt by a sly man. A case of two disingenuous people who crossed each others path - I couldn't afford to ascribe aristocracy to the man for the obvious reason, even though his intention from the inception could had been genuine as he claimed.

Always be wary of a wo/man who comes into your life and gives you an impression that you've no need to improve on any aspect of your disposition - this isn't an encouragement of subjugation by a partner to another - because that by extension unpronounced, means s/he doesn't owe you faithfulness. Fake libertarians are worse than domineering people - the man was either the former or latter in this case.

When someone's utmost interest in you is just to taste a portion of whatever little good you can offer, he'll give you an impression that something like liberty, which is a right anyway, doesn't need conscientiousness for checks and balances. So, if you feel happy in a relationship or have peace of mind - all as a result of unchecked liberty - don't always assume and conclude that it's mutual. It may not be after all and you may be dealing with a sly partner, so consciously avoid being a victim of a pernicious act of a sly person, like in this case, by taking to altruism and conscientiousness. You can never go wrong with this in a matter of this nature. First-hand unpleasant experience like this is always avoidable.

In the end, and under normal circumstances, it's a man who chooses a woman to marry - a woman only has right of refusal.

LordKO:
"Because we can't get along..." This is a typical scenario where a too clever by half woman (a man can equally be in her stead) was hit below the belt by a sly man. A case of two disingenuous people who crossed each others path - I couldn't afford to ascribe aristocracy to the man for the obvious reason, even though his intention from the inception could had been genuine as he claimed.

Always be wary of a wo/man who comes into your life and gives you an impression that you've no need to improve on any aspect of your disposition - this isn't an encouragement of subjugation by a partner to another - because that by extension unpronounced, means s/he doesn't owe you faithfulness. Fake libertarians are worse than domineering people - the man was either the former or latter in this case.

When someone's utmost interest in you is just to taste a portion of whatever little good you can offer, he'll give you an impression that something like liberty, which is a right anyway, doesn't need conscientiousness for checks and balances. So, if you feel happy in a relationship or have peace of mind - all as a result of unchecked liberty - don't always assume and conclude that it's mutual. It may not be after all and you may be dealing with a sly partner, so consciously avoid being a victim of a pernicious act of a sly person, like in this case, by taking to altruism and conscientiousness. You can never go wrong with this in a matter of this nature. First-hand unpleasant experience like this is always avoidable.

In the end, and under normal circumstances, it's a man who chooses a woman to marry - a woman only has right of refusal.

LordKO:
"Because we can't get along..." This is a typical scenario where a too clever by half woman (a man can equally be in her stead) was hit below the belt by a sly man. A case of two disingenuous people who crossed each others path - I couldn't afford to ascribe aristocracy to the man for the obvious reason, even though his intention from the inception could had been genuine as he claimed.

Always be wary of a wo/man who comes into your life and gives you an impression that you've no need to improve on any aspect of your disposition - this isn't an encouragement of subjugation by a partner to another - because that by extension unpronounced, means s/he doesn't owe you faithfulness. Fake libertarians are worse than domineering people - the man was either the former or latter in this case.

When someone's utmost interest in you is just to taste a portion of whatever little good you can offer, he'll give you an impression that something like liberty, which is a right anyway, doesn't need conscientiousness for checks and balances. So, if you feel happy in a relationship or have peace of mind - all as a result of unchecked liberty - don't always assume and conclude that it's mutual. It may not be after all and you may be dealing with a sly partner, so consciously avoid being a victim of a pernicious act of a sly person, like in this case, by taking to altruism and conscientiousness. You can never go wrong with this in a matter of this nature. First-hand unpleasant experience like this is always avoidable.

In the end, and under normal circumstances, it's a man who chooses a woman to marry - a woman only has right of refusal.

Humility017:
bro someone women pushed men to this level.

I am currently having issues with girlfriend now... she is no longer committed in the relationship like she was before...
she no longer show care and interest like before...I have asked her what is the matter only to tell me the last time we meet there were things she observed that she wasn't cool with
she told me some stuffs which does not make sense to me...I have apologized and promised to make up for our next meeting because we are in a long distance relationship...but still she is not committing asking me to give her more time to adjust.
I have been heartbroken since.
my friends have advised me to give in to other ladies in the city where I live showing interest in me...currently walking on starting something with one.
I have asked why girlfriend to let me know I she still want the relationship...she will reply me that it is up to me to decide...
she wants my attention and care but don't wanna reciprocate
which decide...I tell her countless times how I so much love her, we have made plans to get married mid of next year...but now she has changed all of a sudden...

I am getting tired and I can't date two women at the same time...I wanted her to let me if she is tired so that I can move on with the other lady around but she is holding me back.

so right now it's like I will be dating two ladies and still my plans to get married next year...
so you see some ladies with their non-seriousness and non-commitments make some guys double date just to see which is better and more committed

daddytime:
This is a coup. I love how she saved his name on her phone.

I can imagine the pain and hurt.

dingbang:
she changed the name after hearing the news. Think!

LordKO:
So, if you feel happy in a relationship or have peace of mind - all as a result of unchecked liberty - don't always assume and conclude that it's mutual.

Diogeness:
I hope you are not marrying the same "unserious" girlfriend?

Some of you guys can be funny ooo, taking the "sorry job" of doing the love when your woman should be the one doing it while you lead her on.

The truth is that she is tired of your ass. Women have an natural trend of weeding off men who appear weak and without other feminine option. It's evolutionary biology.

The same lady is probably fucking a guy who is a serial cheat. Trust me.

generationz:
Between now and mid next year you is one year.

So let's assume you start dating the new Lady now and your girlfriend changes her ways by mid next year you guys get married

What will happen to this new lady because its obvious you "so much love " your first girlfriend

One year of deciet

You are just as wicked as your current ggirlfriend

You break things of first before involving someone else

Abalado:
Do u think if u have a good character and the guy would left u for another girl? May be u people met at the club where u re climbing the pole to dance and ure expecting him to marry u, right? Marry kor, Mary ni, or may be u have a lot of guys and men fucking u around and he didn't talk, u thought the guy was a fool? Sey? My dear, if ure a good woman to the so called guy, he wont let u go, that's the fact, so continue with ur olosho may be u will still meet another mugu that will put u at home as his wife... Good day, awon oniranu omo, may be she's getting older now and she want to settle down by fire by force, if u take any bad step on the new couple, ogun will kee u there

JoseRaji:
Thinker.... Shey she chatted you up (after hearing the news) to tell you she was going to change his name on her phone?
Neither of you know when she changed his name on her phone. Calm down.

Evebeautyworld2:
One narcissist spotted here,I think u need to go check ur brain in d hospital,y d curse?d girl in question doesn't even know u exist? With these write up of URS tells a lot about u already..gosh,take a chill man.

princechurchill:
She's a nagging woman that's why he left ur sorry ass

sammyj:
Ladies also need to know how to handle men. The other Lady might not be beautiful but rather have good character and we'll cultured

kaen1317:
Maybe he discovered he can't cope with her demands. Some will want you to buy iPhone for her birthday. She may be looking for a guy that drives range Rover and lives in Maitama or asokoro. Or she may want to marry from a big family. In short, most girls have crazy demands.

Abalado:
Do u think if u have a good character and the guy would left u for another girl? May be u people met at the club where u re climbing the pole to dance and ure expecting him to marry u, right? Marry kor, Mary ni, or may be u have a lot of guys and men fucking u around and he didn't talk, u thought the guy was a fool? Sey? My dear, if ure a good woman to the so called guy, he wont let u go, that's the fact, so continue with ur olosho may be u will still meet another mugu that will put u at home as his wife... Good day, awon oniranu omo, may be she's getting older now and she want to settle down by fire by force, if u take any bad step on the new couple, ogun will kee u there

Ryan03:
Lol, again it boils down to the lady not being good enough When will some guys start taking responsibility?

Flier:
Lol you are very funny,Did you know why he relegated her to side chick or why are you judging without hearing the other side of the story
Some guys who enjoy having sex with you won’t dump you if they catch you cheating or hate your attitude but rather relegate you to side chick

sammyj:
When some of the ladies start demonstrating good character and manners

dingbang:
she changed the name after hearing the news. Think!

Humility017:
thanks for your advise especially your last line....
I picked up something from it.
just that I have never meet a serious girl in my life.
ladies I always end up dating...always leave me heartbroken even when I put in my very best.

I will adjust as you've said....
thanks

flavnwokem:
What the guy did is not good but the girl na complete Olodo your boyfriend of 2 years courted and married another and you were not aware, shows you are not sharp at all and that must also reflect in your character, bottomline is that you are not qualified as a wife material. A man for two years under your nose married another and you no smell am at all, and you are here announcing it.

dumo1:
Bro you know the right answer to the epistle you posted, you just needed someone to confirm it for you. Move on to the next available good girl in your life. No time to be having thoughts over an unserious girlfriend. You go dey there hoping for her to change till you will see her getting engaged & married to someone else.

Ryan03:
Lol, again it boils down to the lady not being good enough When will some guys start taking responsibility?