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MissJoy29:
A thousand likes!

essenceplus:
Its not about been left for another girl now. But about the facts on table. Someone was leading someone else on, getting them fvcked,have them embarasswd and deceived. All of this has nothing to do with the girls character. Or was it her character that made him not to say it if she had not caught him.

Was her character okay to make her get fvcked

Was it her character that made them visit her parents,some men are devils,let's face it and they are the reasons other innocent men suffer from the trail of their damage.

We all want to be treated fairly in life. This is bad treatment bro. If she was bad, there's a way to turn her down. It won't also be alongside another relationship.

Am I lieing Missjoy29

MissJoy29:
No you are not dear. You saying the whole truth.

I wish we all could adopt a lifestyle that reflects The Golden Rule. The world will be a better place to live. So much wickedness & pain we inflict on ot all because we have been hurt before. Does the fact that one has been hurt before suddenly make one an animal?

And the saddest part of all is that even those who haven't been hurt & the very young ones who have no business with topics like this about sheer evil have joined in the crase. The other day I was in a salon and about 5 girls were there. These girls are awaiting their WASSCE & JAMB results but I was amazed at what they were discussing. You see they were of the opinion that men shouldn't be given a freehand at all. They are supposed to be dealt with so that they don't hurt us (the females).
And I asked myself what those ones know already to be sounding like that at that age. By the time they get older, they would perhaps have graduated to full time senseless, insensitive, wicked & evil people.

It's a vicious cycle: I'm hurt, I hurt another, that one hurts another cos of me, another one is hurt...till eventually I find someone who will hurt me AGAIN cos of the hurt he suffered too which I incidentally started. Until we consciously stop it, we will all get burned!

essenceplus:
As the cycle spins innocent people receive the spill over effect of crappy people.


Where's Missjoy29

essenceplus:
Claps. Don't forget

pansophist:
The guy bleeped up big time. Regardless if the ex is not wife material, only a person with a rotten moral values will lead someone on for two years, without letting them go. Especially that time is not on a woman's side. This should send a red flag to the new spouse about the moral flaw of her husband, because as we all know, the chicken will always come home to roost.

ashantitope:
Abeg park well men have 1million reason not to marry a lady tell her to check her mind very well don't let her seek for who to console her madam check it self are u rude, stubborn,can't cook,not neat and so on maybe u also cheat

Ryan03:
We preach trust everyday yet blame her for trusting him? If this was the other way round, would you have typed this?

MissJoy29:
@bolded, have you not seen people who aren't rude, who aren't stubborn, who can cook, who are neat and who don't cheat get played?

Relationship & marriage failure in Nigeria is ALWAYS the woman's fault.

ashantitope:
No no no I will never say is women fault I have a sis that i always wish I could give any of my friends or close somebody because she's extra ordinary good as what a reasonable man want but all the men she meet will surely come up with something else so life is vise versa

A thousand likes!