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Dude just woke up and made up a lame story that ya'll are buying.
Dude's just mad

OnlineWell

Marry the one who your heart truly wants. I doubt your boss will want to lose a loyal and hardworking staff because you won't marry his daughter.

The daughter might even have someone she loves and wants to marry.

So just let him know, though in a very respectful manner, that you are your own man and you make the decision on who you spend the rest of your life. with

nuelyoyo:
@onlinewell, please do not marry the politician's daughter. It may look like a juicy offer, but remember that every happenings in ur marriage will be made known to her father, who is your benefactor. When there are issues in the marriage, he would always side with his daughter, and will use the employment he gave you to manipulate you and put u in check. You are a pharmacist, and it a very lucrative course to study, I know you can make it in life with or without this politician. Since you say you are very resourceful to this politician, believe me, he values you, and would not also want to loose you, if you stand ur ground and make him know you have some else you want to marry. He may be disappointed, but he'll definitely not sack you coz of ur refusal to marry his daughter.

lefulefu, franchasng. Your inputs are needed here oh

You guys have given him enough good answers already lol

Offpoint1:
Before I commented on threads I always gone the ops previous threads to ascertain the genuiness of their stories.

From my findings so far, this thread is nothing but a bunch of lies.

Op is a yahoo guy claiming pharmacist... all these fraudsters ehnn.... God will surely deal with them all.

AgentGoat:
There is no medical school in covenant university ota yet

Ha ha ha ha ha. Oya, OP ur story don cast o! Coman explain dis o

Why jump into conclussion, the man havnt even told u he wants u to marry his daughter bt u don dey shake, op abi u don dey look at ur boss daughter's bum bum?
Fess fess sha i tot u wantd to say d man na gaybrail

daewoorazer:
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1. The moment he mentioned your family introducing themselves to each other, that was the beginning of the end of your job.

2. Never settle with MD daughter, no matter how humble she is, On a gloomy sad day when she is mad at you, she’d rub it off your face and remind you how her dad took you from the dirt

3. A bird at hand is worth a million in the bush, it’s better to be a rich demon than a wretched Romeo. If your lifeline at work depends on dating the MD’s daughter, date both of them...if you say NO to your boss because of the girl that ‘loves’ you, you lose your job and your heart is shattered. Posterity will curse you for choosing to be poor when you can be smart and rich

4. So be a demon and date both, be smart about it, while you are doing this, save a lot of money, network with big guns in that industry and invest because surely things will turn sour someday, by then, it’ll be safe to say you won: you had 2 coochies and lots of cash

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Wise, very wise.

OnlineWell:
I have a minute problem, a beautiful one which is making me confused.
I am a Pharmacist, I just met a girl that I want to marry and we are so good. She is so cute, humble, more than a friend, respectful asides all these, she is a final year Pharmacy student. I just got to realize that she is from a very comfortable home (wealthy).

A job brought me to another state and the boss is into politics and oil. He made me the MD of his company which is just kicking off. We hope to import drugs and pharmaceuticals. He called me into his bedroom and was saying stuffs like 'he likes how I handle business and am so humble and respectful that he hopes his family gets to know my family'. Though I didn't take it serious because you know how politicians and men of such status can buy into your emotions. Me am a business minded dude and to be frank, I put a lot of hardwork and energy into setting the office up from recruiting of staff to organization of activities to policy making etc. He just got me an apartment in his compound and is seriously furnishing it. I must say it is extremely comfortable. He was talking of getting me a ride too, and I know him as a man of his words.

The in-problem is this.....he has a daughter who is studying Medicine in Covenant University and from his body language, he wants me to settle with his daughter so we manage this company together.

Guys, as am here writing this am very confused. This man is not a proud man and his family ain't this proud pragado type..the kids so far so simple and well behaved and he is so disciplined.

Am so confused right now...this is what I do see in Nollywood but its now happening before my eyes.

Let Nairaland fans/family help me out.

I wrote some shiit but deleted it when ur bare-assed lies were revealed...goodluck dating MD's daughter studying MEDICINE from COVENANT UNIVERSITY...

Offpoint1:
Stay broke ke? who on earth wanna stay broke?

The hassle and hustle is 24/7 fa...

Slow and steady

Hmmmmm...bad boy!!!

liberalchick:
So he got you an apartment, he is about to buy you a car, he wants to choose a wife for you. Yea if you don’t want to be in control of your marriage go ahead with your boss’s daughter.

Who control elp?

Well, the boss/in-law can take everything back if he has a misstep. So he has to always fall in line.

SmallmebigGod:
Who control elp?

liberalchick:
Well, the boss/in-law can take everything back if he has a misstep. So he has to always fall in line.

So you think. He just need to be smart, take enough to soon be independent then gerrout if need be

Houseofglam7:
Dude just woke up and made up a lame story that ya'll are buying.
Dude's just mad

Are you the politicians daughter?

Lol you think the dude became rich in Nigeria by being a mumu? All these people they only help in a way you will still be dependent on them. The OP is smart and he is already on his way to being successful, why not stay on that lane and marry the person he loves rather than trying to deceive another girl because of an apartment, a car, possible CEO. His boss did not get to be where he is in Nigeria by being foolish, so the OP should be careful he doesn’t lose everything because of long throat.

SmallmebigGod:
So you think. He just need to be smart, take enough to soon be independent then gerrout if need be

You're at your job.... focus on it. If the boss wants to buy you a car....that's lk... accept and bless! Say nothing a out you having a gf.... unless he asks. If he is setting you up for his daughter.... let him go ahead... if he doesn't ask.... don't tell.

Thoniameek:
So long as you don't want to stay broke, you're welcome

who wants to remain broke kwanu

liberalchick:
Lol you think the dude became rich in Nigeria by being a mumu? All these people they only help in a way you will still be dependent on them. The OP is smart and he is already on his way to being successful, why not stay on that lane and marry the person he loves rather than trying to deceive another girl because of an apartment, a car, possible CEO. His boss did not get to be where he is in Nigeria by being foolish, so the OP should be careful he doesn’t lose everything because of long throat.

No single cap that fits all. This is when being streetwise becomes handy. Contrary to the popular opinion you can eat your cake and have it. I have seen scenario like this that turned out to be a blessing to the guy, and I have seen others that didn't turn out well . Even his present relationship is not 100% certain will turn out well.

SmallmebigGod:
No single cap that fits all. This is when being streetwise becomes handy. Contrary to the popular opinion you can eat your cake and have it. I have seen scenario like this that turned out to be a blessing to the guy, and I have seen others that didn't turn out well . Even his present relationship is not 100% certain will turn out well.

Thanks for this

OnlineWell:
I have a minute problem, a beautiful one which is making me confused.
I am a Pharmacist, I just met a girl that I want to marry and we are so good. She is so cute, humble, more than a friend, respectful asides all these, she is a final year Pharmacy student. I just got to realize that she is from a very comfortable home (wealthy).

A job brought me to another state and the boss is into politics and oil. He made me the MD of his company which is just kicking off. We hope to import drugs and pharmaceuticals. He called me into his bedroom and was saying stuffs like 'he likes how I handle business and am so humble and respectful that he hopes his family gets to know my family'. Though I didn't take it serious because you know how politicians and men of such status can buy into your emotions. Me am a business minded dude and to be frank, I put a lot of hardwork and energy into setting the office up from recruiting of staff to organization of activities to policy making etc. He just got me an apartment in his compound and is seriously furnishing it. I must say it is extremely comfortable. He was talking of getting me a ride too, and I know him as a man of his words.

The in-problem is this.....he has a daughter who is studying Medicine in Covenant University and from his body language, he wants me to settle with his daughter so we manage this company together.

Guys, as am here writing this am very confused. This man is not a proud man and his family ain't this proud pragado type..the kids so far so simple and well behaved and he is so disciplined.

Am so confused right now...this is what I do see in Nollywood but its now happening before my eyes.

Let Nairaland fans/family help me out.

Trust me, u wil deny it but I tell u, this is a movie script....


Liessssssss

settle for the first love, pride might probably set in because the know that the are affluent

AgentGoat:
There is no medical school in covenant university ota yet

Like do you understand i was wondering o but thank God its not only me

J111333:
I've learnt to be open in whatever I do and I'll advise you to do same.
Not every relationship will lead to marriage and not every marriage will start from a relationship.

Wait until you get to that bridge before you cross it. The man's daughter may be all you'll need in a wife or she may be a Jezebel.

For one thing, never toy with your current girlfriend.

I found this quoted suggestion best ... Before getting to the bridge, you must have gotten some savings... Savings that could be of help to keep you surviving while waiting for another job incase you tell him you've got someone to marry, and he quits your job..