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11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by LifeDrama: 2:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
The wailers are on break while the zombies are happy as holiday hits the political scenes in blogosphere such as Atiku, Buhari, Dino Melaye, Oshiomhole, APC, PDP, INEC Server, Tribunal, and so on. The only story popping on every blogs is that of Biodun Fatoyinbo Senior Pastor of Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA) who is currently serious trouble following allegation of rape levelled against him by Busola Dakolo, wife of Nigeria’s sensational soul singer, Timi Dakolo. We at MandyNews.com decides to add seasoning to the jollof rice by sharing the difference between consensual sex and rape. Here are some questions that can make the distinction between consensual sex and rape clearer; If a person did not want to have sex but was made to is that rape? YES If a person does not want to have sex but doesn’t think they can say no is that rape? YES If a person was forced to have sex but did not fight back, is that rape? YES Is forced sex in a marital relationship rape? YES Is sex with a minor rape? YES If the person who forced you someone, someone,w, is it still rape? YES Is forcing a sex worker to have sex rape? YES If You Ask Your Partner To Switch Positions And They Refuse rape? YES If Your Partner Forces You To Deepthroat Them Rape? YES If Your Partner Keeps Asking For Sex After You Refuse, Until You Finally Say Yes Rape? YES If Your Partner Continues Having Sex With You After You've Changed Your Mind About Having Sex Rape? YES inappropriate touching rape? YES Obviously, there is a difference between the non-consensual sexual experiences I've had and the violent sexual assaults that so many women survive on a daily basis. But just because some people experience what we are traditionally taught to recognize as rape doesn't mean that other experiences that don't look the same are not also rape. Any sexual activity in which one party doesn't give their full consent to begin with, wishes to withdraw their consent after giving it, or is incapable of giving consent in the first place, is rape. And until we as a society can grasp this simple concept, rape culture and victim blaming will continue to be the norm. Instead of teaching affirmative consent, we will continue attacking the women who speak up about their experiences with non-consensual sex. Silencing women who speak up about rape discourages women from speaking up during sex in the first place, and then punishes them for not finding the courage to say "no." So stop defining women's sexual experiences for them just because they don't sound like rape to you. Take the time to learn about affirmative consent instead. Please and thank you. Source; https://mandynews.com/12-things-that-can-be-rape-you-need-to-know/ 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by LifeDrama: 2:14pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
lalasticlala, mynd44 |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by DEXTROVERT: 2:19pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Then All Nigeria Ladies Have Been Raped They Will Not Let You In Easily Even If they Sleep Naked Beside You. Especially First Sex 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by CosmicPhoenix: 2:46pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
everybody is now an expert on rape and wants to jump on the rape bandwagon 4 Likes |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by Junkie1: 2:49pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
SO THIS MEANS I'M A RAPIST 1 Like |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by stefanweeks: 3:03pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Fa na koérì 1 Like
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Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by Fountainofyouth(f): 5:01pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Can we move on from this?,it's exhausting. 3 Likes |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by ubunja(m): 5:25pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:it opened old wounds everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by ubunja(m): 5:26pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Junkie1:nice one. Do this next: Hand yourself to the nearest Police Station. |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by Junkie1: 5:36pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
ubunja:AND TELL THEM WHAT? THAT I CONVINCED MY BABE TO DEEP THROAT ME AS WELL AS FVCK ME? LOL ISN'T THAT HOW YOU NAIJA GIRLS AGREE TP GET DOWN? 2 Likes |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by ubunja(m): 5:37pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Junkie1:In that case even me I'm a rapist lmfao. 1 Like |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by babyfaceafrica: 5:57pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
we.don't care |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by okrikaboi: 6:34pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
DEXTROVERT:99.9% of Nigerian men are rapist if we conform to this post |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:48pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
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Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by kazyhm(m): 7:15pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
This OP did not know book 2 Likes |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by Lonelypacifist6: 7:29pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Everyone should just stop having sex Niyen and Pull a Naira Marley. 1 Like |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by CosmicPhoenix: 7:59pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
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Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:14pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
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Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by clive2u(m): 9:32pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Means i've raped severally and i've been raped severally too 1 Like |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by davillian(m): 10:17pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
My own is that if she says just the cap and brushing and after a while of brushing with cap you now go all in is it rape? |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by anthonyuncle(m): 3:33am On Jun 30, 2019 |
stefanweeks: confirm c()ck and bull |
Re: 11 Things That Can Be Rape: You Need To Know by owila4luv(m): 5:38am On Jun 30, 2019 |
so my girlfriends have been raping me all this while by sexin me while am asleep, giving me head when am reading. smh all leadies are rapist |
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