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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by QueenSekxy(f): 9:27am On Jun 30, 2019
Martinez39:
Wow, I would give you a C+ for that. I know you can do better. Try harder, I am waiting. grin cheesy
Lol. Small boy.

I don't want to drive you into depression like the last time.


Enjoy your thread, but I will be watching.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Originalsly: 9:28am On Jun 30, 2019
BananaTree:


Not sure this woman wants to go to court. I think ending his career is what's she's after.


Exposing him....guess she couldn't keep it any longer... and maybe knowing he has not stopped. Why would she ...now happily married... be speaking out?...that she was raped?...how can that benefit her?...and for her husband to support her?..or must be tormenting her real bad. That's a bold step by both of them.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 9:30am On Jun 30, 2019
Originalsly:


You should consider the society in which they're in. Some justice can only be had with the help of SM. You have to think three times before dating to go report certain matters... four times of you're a nobody.
Oga, what justice? Justice without evidence? Coming out on social media and getting people support doesn't prove a damn thing. Instead, in event of gathering public support, you ruin a man's reputation and life without evidence. Let her go to the police and file a law suit first. Coming to social media is pointless. Knowing fully well that coming to social media and gathering the support of majority doesn't prove a thing, why is she coming out on social media instead of going to the authorities? What is the whole point of this?

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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 9:33am On Jun 30, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Lol. Small boy.

I don't want to drive you into depression like the last time.


Enjoy your thread, but I will be watching.
You shouldn't give up on my assignment, you know. With enough hard work and ingenuity, you could get an A+. Try harder, fulfil your potential. Oh wait! You are giving up? Too bad! grin

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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by ubunja(m): 9:34am On Jun 30, 2019
QueenSekxy:
Ubuntu means an ash in my side, so, that's why I like giving you that name.
An ash grin
no wonder I hate you.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by QueenSekxy(f): 9:34am On Jun 30, 2019
ubunja:
no wonder I hate you.
grin grin grin
Ubuntu grin
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by QueenSekxy(f): 9:36am On Jun 30, 2019
Martinez39:
You shouldn't give up on my assignment, you know. With enough hard work and ingenuity, you could get an A+. Try harder, fulfil your potential. Oh wait! You are giving up? Too bad! grin
grin grin I'm done with your little ass Mat.
Take care. tongue
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 9:38am On Jun 30, 2019
QueenSekxy:

grin grin I'm done with your little ass Mat.
Take care. tongue
What?! Don't you want to get an A+ and make your parents proud? They've invested so much in you to let them down. Try harder, c'mon. grin cheesy tongue
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by QueenSekxy(f): 9:38am On Jun 30, 2019
Nonsense thread, I'm out!!
Martinez, prepare lemme take you out. tongue
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by QueenSekxy(f): 9:39am On Jun 30, 2019
Martinez39:
What?! Don't you want to get an A+ and make your parents proud? They've invested so much in you to let them down. Try harder, c'mon. grin cheesy tongue
Ewu grin grin
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Nobody: 9:39am On Jun 30, 2019
QueenSekxy:

I'm watching you all.

Any Nonsense, I will be ready to call the mods to.close this thread.





with all your gra gra !! las last you go tender under a man .... ask aunty linda

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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Originalsly: 9:41am On Jun 30, 2019
Martinez39:
Oga, what justice? Justice without evidence? Coming out on social media and getting people support doesn't prove a damn thing. Instead, in event of gathering public support, you ruin a man's reputation and life without evidence. Let her go to the police and file a law suit first. Coming to social media is pointless. Knowing fully well that coming to social media and gathering the support of majority doesn't prove a thing, why is she coming out on social media instead of going to the authorities? What is the whole point of this?

You go.to the courts for justice. In this society... in such a case... for justice... you go to SM first.... bring widespread attention to the case.... then go to the Police to file a report. Only then would the Police be more likely to follow protocol to bring about justice.
If she doesn't want justice.....but to expose him... then SM . The point is to tell others what he has done to her ... to warn all....that the pastor is a rapist. Now why is he not pressing charges against her?
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 9:43am On Jun 30, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Ewu grin grin
Okay, that's my girl. You are just picking up. You will need more that to score few more points to get a B-. I am impressed. Your journey to an A+ had just began — your first A+ in life. C'mon, I believe in you. grin grin
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Nobody: 9:44am On Jun 30, 2019
Originalsly:


Exposing him....guess she couldn't keep it any longer... and maybe knowing he has not stopped. Why would she ...now happily married... be speaking out?...that she was raped?...how can that benefit her?...and for her husband to support her?..or must be tormenting her real bad. That's a bold step by both of them.
q




what you just called a bold step is what her fellow woman will use to abuse her @ any given chance .... did you know some church members were already tellin her husband to go do DNA ...these is what infuriated the couple to come out
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 9:49am On Jun 30, 2019
QueenSekxy:
Nonsense thread, I'm out!!
Martinez, prepare lemme take you out. tongue
I'm sorry, I don't trade sex for marks. Your A+ must be merited. Try harder girl, I believe in you. grin
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Nobody: 9:53am On Jun 30, 2019
Originalsly:


Exposing him....guess she couldn't keep it any longer... and maybe knowing he has not stopped. Why would she ...now happily married... be speaking out?...that she was raped?...how can that benefit her?...and for her husband to support her?..or must be tormenting her real bad. That's a bold step by both of them.
1. That one is married doesn't mean she's happy.
2. Isn't marrying the choir matter from the same church its pastor raped you illogical?
3. Why should you even continue in the same choir many years after till you got pregnant for the choir master and thereafter had to marry him?
4. Don't you, Originalsly, having know that they were expelled from the choir think there is more to the story than meet the eyes?
5. Logically, there are many routes to this matter. One of it is Bukola might have tried to protect her marriage after Timi found out his wife had had sex multiple times with their pastor before their marriage. Remember she said they heard a narrative from another pastor claiming COZA went about saying they had had an affair in the past.
6. As a pastor, COZA wouldn't admit to even having sex with her before the public to protect his own image.
6. This subject is open to many schools of thought and I don't subscribe to any.
7. Coza is now the worst man on earth and Dakolo's family is the best in the world. That's something. That's what a woman can do.

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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Originalsly: 9:57am On Jun 30, 2019
ericsmith:
q




what you just called a bold step is what her fellow woman will use to abuse her @ any given chance .... did you know some church members were already tellin her husband to go do DNA ...these is what infuriated the couple to come out


Not at all.surprised by such action by some church members. After all.... how dare she touch my anointed?.... that's the ultimate sin that cannot wait to be punished until judgement day.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by ubunja(m): 10:00am On Jun 30, 2019
QueenSekxy:
grin grin grin Ubuntu grin
cool
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by aviato(m): 10:12am On Jun 30, 2019
ubunja:
most men are emotional when it comes to pussy and women because they came from pussy and from women


They forget that what happens to Mark tomorrow is happening to them. Because we all have women harboring grudges against us.

Cuba Gooding Jnr just got accused of sexual harassment and HE WAS EVEN WITH HIS WIFE WHEN IT HAPPENED.

Shît is getting crazy!!!!!!
There is a video showing Cuba gooding assaulting the woman and he even turned himself in, so what is your point?
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by hysteriabox(m): 10:17am On Jun 30, 2019
After the lengthy epistuuu... You do write to be continued?!
Abeg come dey go

Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by aviato(m): 10:19am On Jun 30, 2019
BananaTree:

1. That one is married doesn't mean she's happy.
2. Isn't marrying the choir matter from the same church its pastor raped you illogical?
3. Why should you even continue in the same choir many years after till you got pregnant for the choir master and thereafter had to marry him?
4. Don't you, Originalsly, having know that they were expelled from the choir think there is more to the story than meet the eyes?
5. Logically, there are many routes to this matter. One of it is Bukola might have tried to protect her marriage after Timi found out his wife had had sex multiple times with their pastor before their marriage. Remember she said they heard a narrative from another pastor claiming COZA went about saying they had had an affair in the past.
6. As a pastor, COZA wouldn't admit to even having sex with her before the public to protect his own image.
6. This subject is open to many schools of thought and I don't subscribe to any.
7. Coza is now the worst man on earth and Dakolo's family is the best in the world. That's something. That's what a woman can do.
Since when does marrying your choir master make your story any less believable? Funny that you can bring out fallacious arguments for COZA but it is her own argument that sounds unbelievable.

Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by ubunja(m): 10:22am On Jun 30, 2019
aviato:
There is a video showing Cuba gooding assaulting the woman and he even turned himself in, so what is your point?
assaulting.

not sexually assaulting

is it the same to you?
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 10:40am On Jun 30, 2019
ubunja:
Assaulting.

not sexually assaulting

is it the same to you?
Did he really physically assault or sexually assault her in the presence of his wife? Did he really admit to physically or sexually assaulting her?

These are the questions aviato must clearly answer and I hope he doesn't prevaricate.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by aviato(m): 10:54am On Jun 30, 2019
Martinez39:
Did he really physically assault or sexually assault her in the presence of his wife? Did he really admit to physically or sexually assaulting her?

These are the questions aviato must clearly answer and I hope he doesn't prevaricate.
You can go and check the video out on YouTube, I merely shortened the sexual assault to assault.

Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by aviato(m): 10:55am On Jun 30, 2019
ubunja:
assaulting.

not sexually assaulting

is it the same to you?
He SEXUALLY ASSAULTED her by groping her breasts, the video of incident can easily be found on YouTube.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Originalsly: 10:57am On Jun 30, 2019
BananaTree:

1. That one is married doesn't mean she's happy.
2. Isn't marrying the choir matter from the same church its pastor raped you illogical?
3. Why should you even continue in the same choir many years after till you got pregnant for the choir master and thereafter had to marry him?
4. Don't you, Originalsly, having know that they were expelled from the choir think there is more to the story than meet the eyes?
5. Logically, there are many routes to this matter. One of it is Bukola might have tried to protect her marriage after Timi found out his wife had had sex multiple times with their pastor before their marriage. Remember she said they heard a narrative from another pastor claiming COZA went about saying they had had an affair in the past.
6. As a pastor, COZA wouldn't admit to even having sex with her before the public to protect his own image.
6. This subject is open to many schools of thought and I don't subscribe to any.
7. Coza is now the worst man on earth and Dakolo's family is the best in the world. That's something. That's what a woman can do.

1. True... being married doesn't mean happily married.

2/3 No...not illogical.... if that's the one she loves.... and love lead to pregnancy and marriage.

I 4. Didn't know they were in/expelled from the choir. But not really more to the story.... it can be a form of retaliation by now exposing that he is a rapist.aybe if they weren't expelled... she would have kept it under wraps.

5. Possible

6. As a pastor... he should confess... step down... stop protecting his image as a wolf.

7. Not the worse man.... just another hypocrite.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 11:21am On Jun 30, 2019
aviato:
You can go and check the video out on YouTube, I merely shortened the sexual assault to assault.
I have you where I want you. I followed the case and watched the video. The actor did nothing, the woman was exaggerating and nothing like sexual assault occurred. Through out the encounter, which happened in public, the actor was sitted with his wife and the wife sat between the accuser and her husband. In fact, the accuser came to meet the couple and both shakedown hands for quite a while.

He did not physically assault her, he did not grope her breast. The article which you are listing as evidence is only reporting the accusation and it doesn't even say that the actor turned himself in. The article is also tilted towards the accuser's favour. Do your research before you propagate malign rumours and don't be foolish.

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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by boiz2men(m): 11:43am On Jun 30, 2019
Since no one has told you all this. I will.

Although I don't treat women any more than a guy.. The MTGOW or whatever is a very horrible gathering of men with low self esteem mixed with depression and frustration. You all need to be shown love... You all pretending women are the cause of your misery.

At one time I saw a thread where your messiah on NL took his mum and yours to the gutters,rubbishing her personality because she's a woman and you foools whose mums should have aborted applauded him...


Don't you all see? In your weak attempt to be alpha males to women , you have become beta males to your messiah. Like dogs waiting for crumbs from his masters table.

You all are not worthy to own a diick... I spit on you all.


Weak men....

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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 11:48am On Jun 30, 2019
boiz2men:
Since no one has told you all this. I will.

Although I don't treat women any more than a guy.. The MTGOW or whatever is a very horrible gathering of men with low self esteem mixed with depression and frustration. You all need to be shown love... You all pretending women are the cause of your misery.

At one time I saw a thread where your messiah on NL took his mum and yours to the gutters,rubbishing her personality because she's a woman and you foools whose mums should have aborted applauded him...


Don't you all see? In your weak attempt to be alpha males to women , you have become beta males to your messiah. Like dogs waiting for crumbs from his masters table.

You all are not worthy to own a diick... I spit on you all.


Weak men....
Your contribution is inessential and off point. Shame the MGTOW all you like and strawman them all you like, the facts remain facts and don't bend for anyone. So long in your bubble. grin
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by boiz2men(m): 12:05pm On Jun 30, 2019
Martinez39:
Your contribution is inessential and off point. Shame the MGTOW all you like and strawman them all you like, the facts remain facts and don't bend for anyone. So long in your bubble. grin

Just like feminism, mgtow needs help. The mgtow is the male version of that gender cancer called feminism.


Feminist think men are their problems.

Mgtow thinks women are their problems.


Feminist and mgtow need lots of affection...

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Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by aviato(m): 12:08pm On Jun 30, 2019
Martinez39:
I have you where I want you. I followed the case and watched the video. The actor did nothing, the woman was exaggerating and nothing like sexual assault occurred. Through out the encounter, which happened in public, the actor was sitted with his wife and the wife sat between the accuser and her husband. In fact, the accuser came to meet the couple and both shakedown hands for quite a while.

He did not physically assault her, he did not grope her breast. The article which you are listing as evidence is only reporting the accusation and it doesn't even say that the actor turned himself in. The article is also tilted towards the accuser's favour. Do your research before you propagate malign rumours and don't be foolish.
Lol@"I have you where I want you". I think you watched a different video because if you read carefully you will see where it said he has been charged to court, if there was no evidence against him I wonder why he has not sued her for defamation or has not be acquitted. And you are saying this article is biased because of them reporting what happened, I really fail to see what is biased here.

And there is no need to descend into insults, Mr Martinez.
Re: Rape Allegations : Appropriate Approach And Caution For Men. by Martinez39(m): 12:10pm On Jun 30, 2019
boiz2men:


Just like feminism, mgtow needs help. The mgtow is the male version of that gender cancer called feminism.


Feminist think men are their problems.

Mgtow thinks women are their problems.


Feminist and mgtow need lots of affection...


As I said, your opinion and contribution are off point and inessential. Strawman the mgtow men and movement all you like, misrepresent the mgtow men and movement all you like, in fact, abuse and ridicule all you want, facts remain facts and do not bend to anyone. Good day and merry in your bubble.

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