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Without words?

what comes to play is the feeling

hope you are not thinking it is an UPGRADE.


SPEAK WORDS... its communication... ask the ALL IMPORTANT QUESTIONS.


HEY, BABE, CAN WE DEFINE THIS? ARE WE DATING OR ITS JUST A FLING?

Because it is WORDLESS PROLONGED SEXUAL ASSOCIATIONS that is now the new RAPE.


be woke, stay woke.

MissRaine69:
Without words?

The answer full COZA. Ok na over to you Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo. You mean from talking, to dating to raping? . I beg na joke I dey o

MissRaine69:
Without words?

when kissing and cuddling happen naturally between both of you

People no dey date again na. For this generation? Last last na sex go end am so why not go straight to the point instead of beating about the bush. Some girls under the guise of dating go dey chop your money dey give you hope meanwhile Dem no go eventually give you do. Meanwhile one guy dey one corner dey shine Kongo free of charge

Communication is the only way.

Act ND reaction will tell

When u begin act abnormal.

When romance gets to secondary or higher levels.
unhindered kissing, cuddling, touching e.t.c

When you define it, kissing, cuddling, sex is nothing if the relationship has not been defined, to avoid stories that touch.

Better you "officially" talk am (ask her out)
than be accused later (of manipulation, and getting laid without mutual consent)

Depends on individuals but talking/chatting daily and and regularly and seeing often is usually the start. Other signs follow. Officially? Without words? That's tough.

The moment you two open up to each other about your feelings towards each other

I don't know... Here to learn

MissRaine69:
Without words?

Simple, the moment both party mutually (not one sided) begin go out together on a fixed day, can't get to sleep without calling or texting each other, sharing moments and feelings.

Two opposite sex could be talkmates in a platonic or buddy-like relationship (with or with no strings attached) and could still be kissing every now and then but that still doesn't officialize them to be dating.

What's up....

Have you been receiving clients whose questions seem complicated enough to even have you confuse as to what areas demarcates talk-buddies from dating.

Trustme2:
People no dey date

Well, depends on what dating means to you

Trustme2:
For this generation?

If you mean generation of today's Nigerian teenagers and young adults, well dating is one among several western imports they've twisted into something else.

Trustme2:
Last last na sex go end am so why not go straight to the point instead of beating about the bush.

Oh no you're so wrong. People often do have sex without been in a relationship whatsoever just as much as there are those who don't indulge in sex and yet, are active in a relationship. My point been.... there are those who savor the company of one another in a functioning relationship for as long as their compatibility last them, and yet, such is perceived by someone like you, as two people who are just wasting their time "beating about the bush" without realizing that, sex in the first place, is arguably a necessity of life, whether it happens early, midway or at the apogee of a relationship, still remain to serve as a non-mandatory but essential part of it. Hope you get it.

Trustme2:
Some girls under the guise of dating go dey chop your money dey give you hope meanwhile

I believe the appropriate word for that should be a situationship which shouldn't be confused with what the lot of guys mistaken as 'relationship'. There's a huge difference between the two. Please kindly take note and inform others.

Trustme2:
Dem no go eventually give you do. Meanwhile one guy dey one corner dey shine Kongo free of charge

That's because the majority of guys aren't intellect-mentally equipped to be in a relationship and even whose despite previous experiences still continue to knowingly and unknowingly treat bimbhoes as damsel and vice versa in the same vein naija babes treat level headed guys with contempt, both arising from reasons I can't begin to explain.