koyyess:

You must really think your sh1ty epistle makes you sound smart and enlightened.
You reek of stupidity.
You think all she does all day is 'carry children'?
Again, you are stupid.
Dumb fish head.

otu nnegi Dia.. ikpu nnegi erego na esi isi. tufiakwa

Laurene:
otu nnegi Dia.. ikpu nnegi erego na esi isi. tufiakwa

When they can no longer argue intelligently, they use their dirty language and insult their own parents.

Dumb fish head animals.

koyyess:


When they can no longer argue intelligently, they use their dirty language and insult their own parents.

Dumb fish head animals.

otu nnegi na agu mmiri ka azu fridge.. Ewu awusa. akpa amu shigbuo gi dia

Laurene:
otu nnegi na agu mmiri ka azu fridge.. Ewu awusa. akpa amu shigbuo gi dia

1pob wh0®€.

Little wonder you are treated like trash with your archaic mentality. Wait till when you are bought by your tout kinsmen. You will smell pepper.

Rotten fish head

koyyess:


1pob wh0®€.

Little wonder you are treated like trash with your archaic mentality. Wait till when you are bought by your tout kinsmen. You will smell pepper.

Rotten fish head

bia this boy... mga achafu gi amu ooo.. Onye ara rara nnegi owee muta gi.

Laurene:
bia this boy... mga achafu gi amu ooo.. Onye ara rara nnegi owee muta gi.

I knew when you started mentioning me and criticising the lady that you are just a desperado slave looking for miscreants to give you attention.

Its what you fish heads do....stab your fellow female to have d1cks to yourself.

I pity you.

Useless attention seeking b1txh.

HITdemUP:
... let her know how beautiful she is...

What if she's ugly?

lexy2014:

How do u no he isn't "making love to his wife"?

its obvious from his post

@Post
I am not surprised. A lot of Nigerian women were sexually abused by adult Nigerian men when they were young. When these sexually abused girls grow up to become women, they resent sex.

Many get married despite their hatred for sex because bloody Nigerian society stigmatize women and men who want to remain single and celibate. They put unnecessary pressure on people to get married and have children forgetting not everyone desires or enjoys sex or want to be a parent.

We will keep hearing this kind of stories from married men as long as Nigerian men won't stop raping little girls, teenage girls and grown women. Shikena!

A woman from your place will have kids for your neighbor and nothing will happen

morningstar55:

This is the only reason I’ll marry a woman from my state.

I don’t have the energy to be forming FBI n CIA on top woman matter

darlenese:



its obvious from his post

Does d post say that he doesn't make love to his wife?

vikithor:


if you haven't been in such situation before you will want tell him to put more efforts in communication

a woman that has decided to luck up,especially, the ones that have strong willed(like witches) they are not easy to entreat,unforgiving, non communicating ,once a woman has arrived at this level,she can be murderous

That is a different kettle of fish if a woman has been offended we are talking about an ideal situation here.

DarkJeddi:
Like you said,you should wait for the elders because you certainly have no clue what you are on about,

Better yet,

Go run some errands for your Aunty and leave the Elders to discuss..

A married man asking for sex only on the weekends equates to seeing his wife as a s.ex toy?

Are you for real?

Lol let kukuma wait for the elders

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

The whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Jayslicky:
You should speak to your wife about the lack of sex on your lives, ask her the reason why she is always not in the mood, it could be because of her doing too many house chores and you are not always available to help out, I would advise you to always help her in doing some house chores when you are available and both of you can always set a time table when to have sex it would help and make her ready for the act, also try and spice up your romantic life, don't always be in a haste to penetrate when trying to have sex, put her in the mood, make her want you to have sex with her, kiss and cuddle her touch sensitive parts of her body and most importantly make her cum when you are through, if you can do all these things, your wife will be the one chasing you round the house for sex.

Good suggestion.

Exodora:




You are very unbearable , why do you want to separate this lovely family for God sake why?

The family is no more lovely since the wife can no more fulfil the primary purpose of the marriage.

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

You should work on making it memorable, not just easing off your urge till next weekend.

tonyhoney:

The family is no more lovely since the wife can no more fulfil the primary purpose of the marriage.

Marriage has many purposes, all the purposes are important.

cococandy:
A woman from your place will have kids for your neighbor and nothing will happen

You don’t know what they call induction in Delta State

Please, brother, do not listen to those who are saying that your wife is avoiding sex with you because she's having extra marital affairs. I feel they do not have good understanding of human feelings. I cannot say myself if your wife is not having extra marital affairs, but I have this intuitive feeling that your woman is not cheating on you. Women are very erratic by nature, so they are difficult to understand most times. But remember you are the man, and somewhat superior, no matter our feminist friends may say. Apart from your wife's frequent sex repugnance, I know you are mostly worried that your wife does not understand your feeling, and also seems unconcerned about understanding you. The best thing you can do here to save your relationship, my brother, is to assert your 'superiority' as a man, but in a positive way: beyond the claims of headache, dizziness, et al. try to understand the main reasons behind your wife's standoffish attitude on bed. Was she abused as a kid, is something bothering her, is she having doubts about your fidelity (as most jealous wives do), does she finds intercourse painful Sometimes we men tend to belittle the importance of these mental issues in women. Do not make the mistake of threatening her of infidelity if she continues her sexual reservations. That's not a wise thing to do to a woman who loves you. It's like shooting your own toe. Work on yourself as well by having more control of your libido and senses. Don't be carried away by those calling you a pastor because you aren't going around with women. They are making you feel as if it is abnormal to abstain from sex when your wife is not there, and I'm afraid it's already getting to you. To be sincere, your wife is not the only one who needs counsel now; you need it to. And as a man, begin the process. I blame your wife for all this, to an extent. The summary of this my advice turned epistle is that if you want a change in your marriage, you can begin by changing yourself, and it doesn't have to be in a negative way (as some suggests here). You don't chase evil with evil, bro. Your wife loves you.

Please, brother, do not listen to those who are saying that your wife is avoiding sex with you because she's having extra marital affairs. I feel they do not have good understanding of human feelings. I cannot say myself if your wife is not having extra marital affairs, but I have this intuitive feeling that your woman is not cheating on you. Women are very erratic by nature, so they are difficult to understand most times. But remember you are the man, and somewhat superior, no matter our feminist friends may say. Apart from your wife's frequent sex repugnance, I know you are mostly worried that your wife does not understand your feeling, and also seems unconcerned about understanding you. The best thing you can do here to save your relationship, my brother, is to assert your 'superiority' as a man, but in a positive way: beyond the claims of headache, dizziness, et al. try to understand the main reasons behind your wife's standoffish attitude on bed. Was she abused as a kid, is something bothering her, is she having doubts about your fidelity (as most jealous wives do), does she finds intercourse painful Sometimes we men tend to belittle the importance of these mental issues in women. Do not make the mistake of threatening her of infidelity if she continues her sexual reservations. That's not a wise thing to do to a woman who loves you. It's like shooting your own toe. Work on yourself as well by having more control of your libido and senses. Don't be carried away by those calling you a pastor because you aren't going around with women. They are making you feel as if it is abnormal to abstain from sex when your wife is not there, and I'm afraid it's already getting to you. To be sincere, your wife is not the only one who needs counsel now; you need it to.

daddytime:


What is eviler than the torture the woman, a supposed wife is making the brother endure?

Kindly explain to me sir...

He's to provide solution to the problem not adding to the problem.

Odiegwu

morningstar55:

You don’t know what they call induction in Delta State

koyyess:


1pob wh0®€.

Little wonder you are treated like trash with your archaic mentality. Wait till when you are bought by your tout kinsmen. You will smell pepper.

Rotten fish head

Why bringing her post on another thread here?
Bruh uno try aswear . issues on a particular thread should stay there and not digging out what is not lost .

J111333:
Your wife is the lazy type, yes too lazy to have sex or she's having it with someone or she has some emotional stuff going on with her and you need to act fast before the condition deteriorates.

Goodluck and if the problem doesn't fall in any of those categories, then consult iffa priest.

like my wife

She hides under fasting and prayers

kennydotkom:

Thank bro. Just that I don't like cheating on my wife because she is not the cheating type too, maybe because she was circumcised that is why she has low sex drive.

CIRCUMCISED.
When l read your story, the first thing that came to my mind was that your wife is CIRCUMCISED/MUTILATED.

I have seen a lot of women with genital cutting and they see sex like punishment. They can do without sex for 6months or years. Their is no way you talk to them or follow marriage councillor, they can never change. My brother is a victim and he has carried his cross as well. Say no to female genital mutilation. By the time they establish themselves with two kids, they see sex like doing u favour.

Thank you � so dearly I read ur message, actually I am very bound with my kids, whenever am around on weekend the kids shift their attention to me. I do t even like going g out on weekend because I like to spend quality time with them. As for my wife, first of all she is not the cheating type, I no that for sure, though the cold weather she feel horn often compare to during the heat period,
me too I don't enjoy sex during heat period. I just belive that she doesn't really like sex as I do. She is always Shameful to even touch my man hold to play with it. I thought she was pretending when we were newly married until now I got to know thta she ♮ has low sex drive. Without regarding God commandment to wife to release herself for her husband. She request for it when she like and not when I needed it and it's almost all the time. She usually takeaway her breast from me if I want to touch it...

Pro2makx:

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There are two possibilities here.
It is either she is comfortably cheating on you from Monday to Friday (so she does not miss you sexually at all when you are gone, she only will miss your money).
So ask yourself, for this first senerio to hold, was she always like this? Especially when you were still in relationship and during the early days of your marriage? If she wasn't like this, then scenario one is likely holding, for reasons bothering maybe you are not good enough for her in bed or she can't handle having her man so far away all week, so she has another filling in the space. (Two days in a week is too bad for proper bonding)In this case, get a PI ASAP.
If she has always been like that even during your single hood relationship or courtship, then we have to consider scenario two.

SCRNERIO TWO
She has probably been exhibiting this traits but you were not observant enough. In this case it is totally not her fault in that, there are lots of women today who had issues with their sexual life, THEY HARDLY FEEL LIKE or in some cased DONT FEEL LIKE having sex at all until you have succeeded in penetrating them, then they start enjoying it. Watch out for this kinda women, they are the sort who dont easily get wet, except they are extremely happy prior to the inter-course, they also sometimes also don't like romance, they just want you to go straight to the point sometimes, (and if you can't impress them at this instance, it will be bad for you, cos you are not guaranteed another session, except you hold something they need, like marriage, money etc). Some of this women sometimes are victims of either outright circumcision or their clitoris was badly damaged due to over heating and irritation on their clitoris from their parents or whoever bath them in the early days of their birth. Sometimes, this people go to the extent of continuously using dusting powder and hot water (and other hard substances) on this area of their vagina (I call this partial circumcision), at which point I guess they usually don't know when to stop, all they know is, they don't want the clitoris protruding out because, it is believed that women with elongated clitoris, spanning as far as outside the lips of their vagina, usually don't have hold on their sex life (sometimes, they are the 'Sarewa' type), they hardly can resist or say NO to sex when the opportunity arises, as they are most time Hot. (For me I believe there is a level of possibility in this, as their clitoris, which we know as a very sensitive part of a female body will always be brushing against their pants or trouser). So next time you are home, rather than having another argument session with her over how you are sex starved, you might want to see how "killed" her clitoris is. If its almost not detectable, then she needs help, you need to get her laboratory tested sex stimulants (from pharmacys or book a session with a doctor), always do things to make her happy, she will gladly give her self to you. In this part it is not her fault. it will only be her fault if till now she has personally not made any deliberate moves to help her self, which implies she does not see satisfying her husband as a conjugal obligation, she has given up without trying, so she is now like certain African women who no longer regard their husband in certain respect cos they feel they now have all the children they want and they are comfortable financially without the man.
This is not to write off the possibility that she might have made certain effort and she can't even talk to people about it, not even you her so called husband, cos you are never around or even when you are around you never pay attention to her or her body. What ever you do bros please MAKE SURE YOU ALEAYS CREATE A COMFORTABLE OR CONDUCIVE ENVIRONMENT for your woman to talk to you on anything and every thing bothering her, just seeing that you are attentive alone can make her have so much trust in you and feel secured with you. You dont want to only suffer the backlash or transferred agression of whatever she is going through, her silence on bugging issue most of the time is bad for you, cos she is a woman and you will probably guess her emotions wrong 85% of the time, unless she opens her mouth to tell you or except you have earned so much of her trust, your ears are always open to listen even to lausy gists, then she would tell you.
How many times does she spend time away from the stress of raising the kids alone?, visiting you at your diaspora station, do you invite her over often? Did you get her an house help? Brother Monday to Friday is too much, even your children might start revolting soon, cos their father is almost not a part of their life, then you start feeling lonely within your own family cis they will be more secure running to their mum alone when they have challenged, as she is the only face they mostly see. Move your family to your new station or make sure they visit you well.
There are other possibility, but please look into this both scenario. Thank you

DISCLAIMER
This write up only represents my view on the said topic, please it shouldn't be misrepresented as a proven fact, only my personal experience and conclusions on the topic

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lexy2014:

Does d post say that he doesn't make love to his wife?

did my post say he does not make love ?

lexy2014:

Does d post say that he doesn't make love to his wife?

did my post say he does not make love ?

darlenese:




did my post say he does not make love ?

Yes it does. These are ur exact words:

"you are suppose to be making love to your wife and not having sex"

cococandy:
Odiegwu

Your eyes don clear abi?

morningstar55:

Your eyes don clear abi?