I agreed with you the major key to make woman libido high is money, but am trying my best, cos am the only one working, she doesn't go out often, atleast I established her with small scale business. and i do assist her at home, wash my clothes, her clothes, and kids cloth on that Saturday morning, she usually commend me that I hv always relief her whenever I return on weekend.

uruba23:
Okay maybe we should wait for the elders but I think you should communicate more with your wife and try see her beyond been a sex tool agreed by the time you returned Konji would have accumulated.Really you need to study moods,you know the language women hear is money,so if you haven't done that part you might not have a willing partner,secondly you need to do the little things that matters,especially now that you got kids,try to understand your wife and her moods.

Flex and have sex.

My two cents!!

In all fairness to her she is not the cheating type, i knew that in our courtship days . most of the time she do company that I like sex too much and do I want to kill her that is when she is not ready or interested in it

Davash222:
So, you still need Ezemmuo to come and tel you your wife is getting the dicck somewhere else

After the weeks toil and you return home to your beloved wife, a faithful wife would ‘scatter’ you with sexx!!!! She’s getting the D somewhere!!! And I think that D is performing better than you. Sorry about that.

SageMK:
Don't listen to thośe stupíd modafúkers telling you that your wife is cheating or those advocating you to have it from someone. They are only out to destroy homes.

The truth is your wife doesn't enjoy having sex with you.
You don't satisfy her needs so she has given up on sex.

Be dominant, sit her down and have a discussion.

Let her know you are ready to try something new and it's either she's open to fixing it up or a permanent solution.

I think he should try making her happy and he would get what ever he needs from her.

Guy you should work your way back into her heart.
Seems she doesn't love you the way she use to.
If she was your gf she would have dumped you.
But because she is married to you, she is just managing you.

Bro thank you, I have spoken with her many time, there was a time earlier in the morning on Monday I ask her for sex before I embark on my journey to place of work she refuse me and make sure I left home Hot and she never care what I can do or go to get myself satisfied till I return on Friday. I do help her with house work, that is what I like most, I do cook, sweet even wash her cloth and my kids cloth, I stop the cooking when her immediate younger brother join us to stay with us, atleast I need to respect myself. When it comes to sex,
I don't rush at all I can spend 40mins for pre-intimacy to make sure she enjoy it. What am thinking is that may e because she was circumcised, cos they usually have low sex drive

Jayslicky:
You should speak to your wife about the lack of sex on your lives, ask her the reason why she is always not in the mood, it could be because of her doing too many house chores and you are not always available to help out, I would advise you to always help her in doing some house chores when you are available and both of you can always set a time table when to have sex it would help and make her ready for the act, also try and spice up your romantic life, don't always be in a haste to penetrate when trying to have sex, put her in the mood, make her want you to have sex with her, kiss and cuddle her touch sensitive parts of her body and most importantly make her cum when you are through, if you can do all these things, your wife will be the one chasing you round the house for sex.

Thank you bro. I am 42yrs old and she is just 32years old, in a marriage of 6years. I do tell her that, now u are still young like this and you no longer find sex fun, what of when you are 40 years , that means you will push me out to start looking for girl friend. She doesn't cheat at all I can vouch for her . I will take ur advice

donkilidon:
What are your advantages ges?
How long have you been in the marriage?
How long have you known each other?
What changes in sex partern have you noticed from the beginning till now?
When did she start having low sex drive?
Do you suspect she's seeing someone as a result of your job type?
Do you satisfy her other needs as a woman?

Answer these questions honestly and am sure you would find answers you desire.

She might just be passing through a phase in her life, soon the drive might appear.

I encourage you to adopt new and more romantic approach to making her desire you more.
Step up your game,
By improving your general being.
It's not easy to eat same food everyday,every month, every year served in same plate prepared with same old seasoning. Try to serve the same food differently, flavored differently, served differently.
And am sure she will change.
Good luck brother

.thank you, with the way it is, she didn't no the implications of deny me sex, that I can easily get outside. But because of fear of God, I do tell her that if by mistake I come across a girl that play sex with me in a very u forgettable way it may be dangerous for our marriage[quote uote author=Obainoneandonly post=79929355]bro AS A mam you have sexual needs,you should sit her down and explain it to her EXPLICITLY. you should also ask her what's wrong because I know she can't just wake up one morning and decide unilaterally dat no more Bleep in your marriage again. if her excuse is flimsy as a piece of paper,then you have look elsewhere for the gratification of your desires. no let KONJI kill you my brother. Bleep is as cheap as purewater,don't let anybody tell u otherwise [/quote]

Bro it's not exactly what u think, she is not the type that cheat, she hardly touch my dick because she get irritated with either dick and spam

Davash222:

The truth is glaring, she’s getting the DICCK from a better source.

kennydotkom:

Thank bro. Just that I don't like cheating on my wife because she is not the cheating type too, maybe because she was circumcised that is why she has low sex drive.

O pari. There you have your answer

kennydotkom:
Thank you bro. I am 42yrs old and she is just 32years old, in a marriage of 6years. I do tell her that, now u are still young like this and you no longer find sex fun, what of when you are 40 years , that means you will push me out to start looking for girl friend. She doesn't cheat at all I can vouch for her . I will take ur advice

Very well....

I think you need to do a lot of things differently from how she knows it.
Just be patient with her.
She's all yours

Uhm,buy a new cologne

For those saying the man should get a girlfriend, are women allowed the same option if their husbands are not meeting up?

Ishilove:

O pari. There you have your answer

It is indeed finished! OP, I don't think there's anything you can do for her. Basically, when girls are circumcised, the whole pleasure point of sex is taken away. She can never enjoy it. She isn't trying to be mean, it just is beyond her. Sex is for you, it does nothing for her.

Advice? I don't know oh.

Tired of sex after 2 kids. Though the highest kid nomination f kid we may decide to hv cannot be more Dan one and she is even ready to get pregnant, but me am not ready , she maybe having some emotional issue, u no am not always around.

chii8:
Some women do develop low sex drive after giving birth, it could be fear of being pregnant again which maybe they no longer want to have children.it could be emotional issues.

But for a man who is only around on weekend,she should treat the man better. Most men don't joke with sex,the truth is that the Op's wife has a problem and the man hasn't identified it,so the solution is not going to come.

kennydotkom:
My wife has always deny me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this had become frequent with her. Note that I work in anoda state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I leave alone. I can decide not to come home on a weekend jus to attend to other girls but I didn't. many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girl friend with all the freedom I have. sometime she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex with just 2or 3rounds am OK til next weekend oo. HOW TRUE IS THIS?as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work. She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up. Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear. I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

Oga this your matter is strong..

May be you should spice up your marriage a bit. By taking her out, buying her gifts. Do something that thrill her. You know your wife too well. You know what make her happy. Probably she get bored very easily or not really a sexual type... You have to put her in the mood... It is not right for a married couple to be mere roommates!!! All da best

Ishilove:

O pari. There you have your answer

:- Ishilove, the 'love Doctor'.
O pari ..

Being circumcised reduce sex drive but the libido level of Op wife is too low... Circumcision alone is not implicated. There are other factors..

bukatyne:


For a wife who sees her husbands only Fridays to Sundays max. Monday mornings?

She ought to jump on him and let every weekend be a mini-honeymoon.

She's definitely getting it elsewhere.

So sorry @op.

This seem genuine.
If your wife is circumcised, it will take a lot, I mean a lot to get her to have sex.
She was initially into it cos u guys must give birth. Once the children came, case closed.

Circumcision comes with emotional and psychological trauma, make no mistake about that. U fuel it also by reminding her how frigid she will be when she reaches 40.

I have met only one circumcised lady and boy, it wasn't fun for the boyfriend. They cohabitated in school for 2 yrs plus and the guy left her a virgin. Was very hard for this guy and he was planning on long term relationship. The babe said she has never for once had sexual feeling. A man coming near her irritates her a lot.

With this scenario, u can go back to the drawing table and try to pull the emotional plug she needed from you instead of trying to remind her u have needs.
And believe u me, a normal woman who is emotionally put off by you can stay with you for yrs and still won't be moved.
But in your case, it woman isn't normal.
Reach out and start afresh with her. If u make her feel worthy and sexy inside, she will show it.
U can stop demanding for sex when you are around. U won't die. It's all in the head and baseless assumptions.
Do your bits together when u are around by enjoying each other's company and do always assure her she is perfect for you just the way she is.
Her groove will come back with time.
All the best man.

I read somewhere that u have to really stimulate a circumcised woman real good for her to feel. So enough licking and stretching. She will be watching your facial countenance the way men watch woman's face when on the act.

And those ediots still practicing this useless tradition all in the name of caging women, shame on them. Real shame.
The man is a gentleman else he would have raped his wife and society will support him.

Why is the world cruel to women?
From our useless religions to cultural practices.

Look at how easily the suggestions for infidelity are being handed out left right and center.
Lmao.

Suggest it and watch them hyperventilate until their heads blow up

Ishilove:
For those saying the man should get a girlfriend, are women allowed the same option if their husbands are not meeting up?

Your mind is already on other women.
I can’t count the number of times you’ve said the phrase about getting a side piece.

You’ll reap what you sow the moment you start sleeping outside. (If you haven’t already).

Work on your marriage. Can you guys move in together?instead of weekly visits. Maybe the spontaneity of not having a weekend sex timetable might help you guys. Timetables are boring.


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kennydotkom:
Thank you bro. I am 42yrs old and she is just 32years old, in a marriage of 6years. I do tell her that, now u are still young like this and you no longer find sex fun, what of when you are 40 years , that means you will push me out to start looking for girl friend. She doesn't cheat at all I can vouch for her . I will take ur advice

kennydotkom:

Thank bro. Just that I don't like cheating on my wife because she is not the cheating type too, maybe because she was circumcised that is why she has low sex drive.

You saved the best for the last.

The circumcision gives another angle to the issue on ground.

sassysure:
So sorry @op.

This seem genuine.
If your wife is circumcised, it will take a lot, I mean a lot to get her to have sex.
She was initially into it cos u guys must give birth. Once the children came, case closed.

Circumcision comes with emotional and psychological trauma, make no mistake about that. U fuel it also by reminding her how frigid she will be when she reaches 40.

I have met only one circumcised lady and boy, it wasn't fun for the boyfriend. They cohabitated in school for 2 yrs plus and the guy left her a virgin. Was very hard for this guy and he was planning on long term relationship. The babe said she has never for once had sexual feeling. A man coming near her irritates her a lot.

With this scenario, u can go back to the drawing table and try to pull the emotional plug she needed from you instead of trying to remind her u have needs.
And believe u me, a normal woman who is emotionally put off by you can stay with you for yrs and still won't be moved.
But in your case, it woman isn't normal.
Reach out and start afresh with her. If u make her feel worthy and sexy inside, she will show it.
U can stop demanding for sex when you are around. U won't die. It's all in the head and baseless assumptions.
Do your bits together when u are around by enjoying each other's company and do always assure her she is perfect for you just the way she is.
Her groove will come back with time.
All the best man.

I read somewhere that u have to really stimulate a circumcised woman real good for her to feel. So enough licking and stretching. She will be watching your facial countenance the way men watch woman's face when on the act.

And those ediots still practicing this useless tradition all in the name of caging women, shame on them. Real shame.
The man is a gentleman else he would have raped his wife and society will support him.

Why is the world cruel to women?
From our useless religions to cultural practices.

OP said wifey is very cool with pre-intimacy till penetration.

I thought circumcision would kill the feeling.

bukatyne:


OP said wifey is very cool with pre-intimacy till penetration.

I thought circumcision would kill the feeling.

Maybe I skipped that part.

If that's the case, there must be something she is not telling the man.

How will the husband know if she dont talk?

She is the one who should be here, not the husband.

I just fee for them. There is a limit to how far a man can take especially if all coasts are clear.

sassysure:

Maybe I skipped that part.

If that's the case, there must be something she is not telling the man.

How will the husband know if she dont talk?

She is the one who should be here, not the husband.

I just fee for them. There is a limit to how far a man can take especially if all coasts are clear.

True.

Same with another thread.

I said it was the wife that was required

kennydotkom:

Thank bro. Just that I don't like cheating on my wife because she is not the cheating type too, maybe because she was circumcised that is why she has low sex drive.

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She's probably getting it somewhere else.

kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

Bro I am very sorry to tell u this.... She has been cheating on you.....