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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by samuelchimmy(m): 8:02pm On Jul 06, 2019
J111333:
Mods, kid's section please. undecided
I'm not a kid bro, I've been in the game too long, but I've found a rare gem amongst the more than 32women I've dated all my life
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by samuelchimmy(m): 8:04pm On Jul 06, 2019
Eze2000:


That's what they are killing the girl in the house for and she cant tell you. My guess is the mother is calling her a who.re to her face already. if they didnt like you they will stop their daughter from seeing you, trust me.

The girl's parents like u its the funication thing.

The whole issue is coming from her mom for heavens sake, use your head.


Your being broke could be the cause of this also. Would have liked to ask you more quesrions before making a final answer but must be one this 2 thing nothing more
I am not broke, I am not too rich, but I'm well to do
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by samuelchimmy(m): 8:05pm On Jul 06, 2019
Romeo3:
Samuel face your studies.
huh lipsrsealed
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by samuelchimmy(m): 8:06pm On Jul 06, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
How old is she? The mom's attitude sounds like you are troubling her young daughter. If she is too young, let her be. Let her concentrate in life for a while, wait for her to add more years......tell her about it, then hear her response.
at the onset of our relationship hear mum gave her consent to both of us dating, though she's just 18
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Skmoda360(m): 8:13pm On Jul 06, 2019
Dickhead02:
Chai women are scum
Trash....wetin you dey talk? lipsrsealed undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:20pm On Jul 06, 2019
18,.....no wonder. Mum is suddenly uncomfortable that daughter is dating and may have sex. Her mother is right undecided
samuelchimmy:
at the onset of our relationship hear mum gave her consent to both of us dating, though she's just 18

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 06, 2019
Skmoda360:

Trash....wetin you dey talk? lipsrsealed undecided
You blind? you no see waiting I type?
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by NnamdiN: 8:49pm On Jul 06, 2019
samuelchimmy:
grin lol, it's not funny, I'm sick, I still haven't replied her
don't give her that power over you. Ignore or "oh okay" her

That's what I'd do grin grin grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by MrStealYourGirl(m): 9:05pm On Jul 06, 2019
If after 3 weeks you don't see her with another guy, call someone a bastard. Sha if im no happen try to get her mum's trust.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by MrStealYourGirl(m): 9:06pm On Jul 06, 2019
NnamdiN:
I swear
his phone has him covered
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by NnamdiN: 9:11pm On Jul 06, 2019
MrStealYourGirl:
his phone has him covered
I swear down. All three options make sense
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by T3ndrils: 9:15pm On Jul 06, 2019
samuelchimmy:
I love this girl die, and I know she loves me too, cry
I'm trying to calm myself down , I have not replied her.... I don't even know where to start replying her...

I just weak, suddenly my stomach is empty.....
Pls help me guys what should I do

I'm sorry for the things you may be going through right now tho, but this shouldn't have happened if you had options. Guy believe me you were not loved the way you thought you were. If she really loved you then those things her mother were telling her would be trash. She didn't feel the FEELS with you bro and from the way things are going on now its as if you are the one that has invested too much in that r/ship. A girl that really loves you would hardly let go.

Advice...

From my opinion, reinforce your masculinity by keeping your cool, smile and tell her "Aright then, nice knowing you, have a nice life"... this may be very hard for you now but trust me, it will subconsciously weaken her state of mind and she'll keep having second thoughts and DON'T ever be available for her even if she changes her mind.

I'LL always say this ; Master yourself and Conquer, Master your Emotions and Reign.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 9:31pm On Jul 06, 2019
samuelchimmy:
I love this girl die, and I know she loves me too, cry
I'm trying to calm myself down , I have not replied her.... I don't even know where to start replying her...

I just weak, suddenly my stomach is empty.....
Pls help me guys what should I do
Go sing and dance tomorrow in church
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jul 06, 2019
Deepfeel:

That's not break up na she still loves you, the mom is the problem, so if really you love her and your intentions towards her and genuine, guy put yourself together and prove to her mom you are not really what she thinks you are
hahahaha

Tell d poor boy to go and hustle
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 9:41pm On Jul 06, 2019
samuelchimmy:
I've been to their house severally, I have not figure out totally what kind of woman she is, but she's kinda raz in her use of language (likes material things alot,)
u see ba

I talk m,go hustle
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by XklusivGistBlog(m): 9:48pm On Jul 06, 2019
samuelchimmy:
i have not replied her yet, are you guys suggesting I take fate like that, without saying anything just like that... What should say, I can't let the 1st ever person I actually loved to go like that

Mumu, the 1st person you love is only a lesson.
Ozuor
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jul 06, 2019
samuelchimmy:
I love this girl die, and I know she loves me too, cry
I'm trying to calm myself down , I have not replied her.... I don't even know where to start replying her...

I just weak, suddenly my stomach is empty.....
Pls help me guys what should I do


Pls ask for last sex
Is your constitutional right

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jul 06, 2019
samuelchimmy:
which hustle, who told you I'm broke
double ur hustle bro

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Martinez39(m): 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2019
Why is it that most guys don't know how to handle their shit? You guys are probably the reasons why lilwetdick thinks many self acclaimed NL alpha males are spineless dudes with no self esteem.

For goodness sake, if a girl says she is not doing, let her go. Where is it written that if you don't marry her, you will be miserable in life? It's a huge mistake to fight for someone that's not interested. Man up and leave.

Truth is, if a girl really likes you, even her parents disapproval won't stop her. The same applies for guys. Are you trying to tell me that if you are Bill Gates, she will listen to her mum? grin Oga, your babe is not interested and probably has her eyes on another dude. Her excuse is ludicrous.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by marriage1: 10:23pm On Jul 06, 2019
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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by godstime88(m): 10:33pm On Jul 06, 2019
choose option C
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jul 06, 2019
Probably you have nothing to offer thier family. Gosh... you seem useless to them. lipsrsealed These days guys with no job, or even any source of income ,even if na yahoo, be thinking about relationship. Dude, have something meaningful going on in your life first. angry
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Pinkybush: 10:52pm On Jul 06, 2019
Eze2000:


That's what they are killing the girl in the house for and she cant tell you. My guess is the mother is calling her a who.re to her face already. if they didnt like you they will stop their daughter from seeing you, trust me.

The girl's parents like u its the funication thing.

The whole issue is coming from her mom for heavens sake, use your head.


Your being broke could be the cause of this also. Would have liked to ask you more questions before making a final answer but must be one this 2 thing nothing more
Guy u are so on point. Exactly what I'm going through. Some mothers enh...
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jul 06, 2019
Do you have job/work? Are you well-read? You blaming mothers but check yourself too.
Pinkybush:
Guy u are so on point. Exactly what I'm going through. Some mothers enh...
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by clive2u(m): 11:48pm On Jul 06, 2019
Should we help u with food or what?
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Bamz(m): 12:00am On Jul 07, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
18,.....no wonder. Mum is suddenly uncomfortable that daughter is dating and may have sex. Her mother is right undecided

You always say the right things wink

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Jgoldie: 12:05am On Jul 07, 2019
It hurts at first,then you get immune to it as you grow
Re: My Girlfriend Just Sent Me A Breakup Message Because Of Her Mum_pic by Eze2000(m): 1:16am On Jul 07, 2019
samuelchimmy:
I am not broke, I am not too rich, but I'm well to do

Then it's all about the girl's affair with you out of wedlock. Make her your fiance with full ceremony and have rest or you are done.

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