Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,153,238 members, 7,818,806 topics. Date: Monday, 06 May 2024 at 04:44 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. (82817 Views)
I Honestly Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Ritual / I Honestly Need Your Helps. / Married Man With 7 Wives Gets 22-Year-Old Side Chick Pregnant With Twins. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) ... (22) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by HabaHaba: 5:30am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: So that I can get my pounds of insult from you, I will not shy away from telling you the plain truth :You are simply selfish and arrogant in demeanor. If you seek people's advice, whatever way they speak to you should never evoke your wrath because you personally appealed to be advised. If you are mature as you severally claim then a patient listening ear would be wisdom. You don't castigated people who counsel you no matter their age, sex or language. You just listen, reason along and make your decisions from the thought you collate from them. Finally, I strongly believe you could regret not marrying her and having those kids in a responsible home. Please always put yourself in the shoes of the girl (as your sisters, mother etc) or the parents and the kids (to be born and to live out of we'd lock. Imagine what those kids may turn out to be later. Wish you wealth of wisdom. & true maturity. 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Nobody: 5:33am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Timekeeper: see format 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by NkemChukwudi: 5:33am On Jul 07, 2019 |
akejujoe: You cannot do anything madam, just hope and pray you and any of your daughters do not find yourself in this position. Wetin you go do? Madam, nothing! You never jam mad man. And tell your girls that Nigeria is overpopulated please. Say no to overpopulation! |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Darlenelove: 5:38am On Jul 07, 2019 |
She's not smart and educated but her pussy was smart and educated for you? You exploited her adolescent age and miss use her in the guise of telling her you won't marry her. You took advantage of her younger age and had your way in her life. You think that you are smart enough to come here to talk rubbish. How on earth could a smart and educated man as you think you are would be fucking a small young girl whom you claim is not smart enough? Isn't that shows you're not smart enough too? You should be dating people you feel are in your caliber. She's good to be bleeped as you want and not good enough for marriage ba? God has given you a young beautiful girl but your selfishness and in human nature won't allow you to see God's plan for you. You think it's easy to find a girl who loves you deeply from her heart? It's better for a woman to love you more than a man love her. You will sooner regrets not marrying her. No one is complete in life. I repeat, you can never find that perfect woman that has all you need. I bet you. Among all, when you find one who deeply loves you, never let her go. Other imperfections about her could be perfected if you value her and know what you want. If you love her, take her to school abroad and in few years, you will never believe the kind of woman she will be. Being educated and smart enough as you are, you should have known what she just needs is education. You think it's just easy to find already made Lady and complete in everything? If you think so, loose her to another man and let see if you won't regret yourself. 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by tochez24(m): 5:41am On Jul 07, 2019 |
It will be selfish and inhuman for you to ditch her after making her double, she needs a chance with you bro, take her to abroad and you will be surprised on what she will become... There is no better compensation other than marriage because you have opened her womb for her, work on this girl and see results for yourself!!! She is not smart, have you borderd putting her in school She is a gossip, yes probably that was how she was raised, have you borderd training her?? She is this and that, Ask yourself if truly you have invested any quality virtue aside money in money? You knew the road to her vigina and you didn't care about her while enjoying her ripe juice bro. Your problem is that you never cared for her you just wanted her firm breast nd probably tight pussy!!!! With that been said, brother please be a man that you are 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by dhensity: 5:44am On Jul 07, 2019 |
martinskelly: Na man you be jare 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by coolcare(m): 5:46am On Jul 07, 2019 |
My thought on the main issue you have about been intelligent, yea its disgusting and tough to cope with that. However she will have her own place if strength only if you pay attention to it and see how you can help her grow. My brother with the way you describe her, she will be a loyal girl to you which is what you need as a man. I will advice you as you know her weakness try to know her strength also this will help you to build her. Let her set her goal and let her know that is your condition to marry her let, let her know she most grow. Let me tell you about growth, growth is not specific its relative. It may not necessary be academic either business or whatever she does daily she can grow in it over time. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by nwabuwa: 5:51am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Go and do introduction before she is delivered of her babies. Before then, have a written document that if the kids ain't urs that you will seek divorce. Kids are wonderful. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by NkemChukwudi: 5:52am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Triniti: Wetin you go do? Wetin you fit do? You never jam mad man like me.......nonsense! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Rollins777(m): 5:53am On Jul 07, 2019 |
You seem pompous, your kind of person need to be caned, with your write up, you are the proud type without nothing, how much are you giving her? Because if you are a big boy as you said, you couldn’t have traveled out of your country. Very childish characters show you are a mere boy, God punishes you for been insulting. sirdouglas: 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by omolola12345(m): 5:54am On Jul 07, 2019 |
With due respect, you are such an indecisive person if the story is true. You don't start what you cannot finish. You are supposed to call the relationship off when you know you will not marry her eventually. Why go ahead and have a continuous sex with her. That's the result of your dilly dally approach to the situation. You ought to have called the relationship off since before pregnancy is involved. Even if its triplet you must be responsible for it. I know a lot of guys are in your shoes presently. Lets be disciplined and know how to say no to what we know we don't want. Most ladies don't care, all what most of them want once they fall in love with you is sex and pregnancy. Nothing more nothing less. But you have to FLEE if you don't want them to get pregnant for you and put you in trouble. Except you are ready and sure that you want to settle down with them. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Nobody: 5:56am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas, I had to login to tell you one truth - you are a selfish and a very wicked man. 6 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Kakamorufu(m): 5:56am On Jul 07, 2019 |
You should have walked away when you had the chance. Walk and never look back. then, when you know you don't want to have something to do with her, why did you sleep with her without protection. :/ 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by ogunsbanjul(m): 6:00am On Jul 07, 2019 |
My brother what I will tell you is, no marriage is perfect(I mean no marriage is perfectly perfect) many are deceiving us in the society this days but deep down everybody knows. Nevertheless, I will not FORCE you to marry someone you have erroneously decided not to marry BUT as good creature who loves you, I will advise you to RECONSIDER her for your future and all the children God will give you in life, RETRACE your family background if you do marry more than one wives without crisis, REORGANISE yourself so that you will not regret for having children with different women because if you leave her after delivery you will one day marry to another woman and finally RETHINK, as in do the needful by marry her because you're destined to get married if not pregnancy wouldn't have come at all. Finally, from your narration it can be deduced that you're the real father of those unborn ejire arasoikun ejiwowo loju obi e, ikan mbabi meji lowole tomiwa. So please do not doubt it so that you will not compound the problem you have ignorantly started by revealing your sexual secret to the third parties which you should have avoided not because of today but tomorrow. Congratulations in advance because soonest you will be a responsible MAN 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Hum2020: 6:01am On Jul 07, 2019 |
It is a pity you fail in wrong hand first from your stories show that you are not only one your girlfriendis relationship with ok i dont thinks this pregnancy belong to you from the look of things you have a soft mind you found it difficult to hurt anyone close to you that is very nice of you but i have this advice for you give the lady help but dont accept that pregnancy ok because this will cause problems in future time nor now you may not understand me now i wish all the best |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by PeachtreeReside(f): 6:03am On Jul 07, 2019 |
I love the way you responded to mean insults in the name of advise! You are so cool!!!! She is was 19yrs when you met her, probably didn't have such a great education and as much opportunity as others her mate have. Is it right to judge any One with this ? Having one is enough wahala, but twins? She is locked down for life. Except she meets an understanding man. How much is the money enough to sort her out for life? She would need to move out of her parent's place, have a help for the twins, develop herself by learning a trade or going to school. She is way too young for all of these and I doubt she would get help from her parent's. You are sweet and resonsible guy and I'm sure you would marry her eventually because of your kids. You won't want them to suffer. There are worse things than all you listed. Whatever you choose to do, God be with both of you . 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Ositace(m): 6:04am On Jul 07, 2019 |
With the way you keep bashing people for criticizing you.. I don't understand o! Were you expecting everyone to support you? If you won't take criticism, since you claim it's your personal problem...why post your personal problem here and even beg for it to be moved to FP so people can advise you? From the way I see it, I'm not sure you need any advise cos your mind is made up already... And if you decide to ruin this poor girl's life, don't forget that tomorrow is pregnant with so many unknowns. And if your kids find out you refused to let them enjoy a normal family life like you did just because you think their mother is a slowpoke.... My brother, you go blame yourself o! 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Omudia11: 6:05am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Shut the fvck up. The person who called you an idiot was even too generous with words. You're a disgrace to the human race and a chromosomally deficient being. Who do you think you are? How old are you that you're feeling fly and downgrading others because you travelled out? Dude, I first travelled out at 18. 18 fvcking years old for my studies and heaven did not fall. Sit down somewhere and be humble. You're not God. You claim she's uneducated and doesn't fit your profile. You should've known that before sleeping with her and coming here to speak ill of her family. You're just a sore egocentric loser. sirdouglas: 6 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by joliecouer: 6:10am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Am not here to condem you because nobody is a saint . the faults I saw in your post is you keep having sex with her without protection knowing fully well you're not going to marry her. It is not a wise thing to do. Which one is your major concern now ; is it her not being smart or because she is from a tribe you don't want to marry. If it is because of her not being smart trust me by time she reach 24 years , your statement is going to change , even my fiancee ain't that smart at that age then but she is so smart now. But if the tribe is the issue that can be sort out , just pray about it because anything you think that is bad about them might affect your children. To me I don't see any reason why you can't marry her. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by wickyyolo: 6:11am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: Sharap. No be only u get dick. Goan marry your wife. If you were not ready why didnt u sleep with prostitutes. Smh 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by 24biznes(f): 6:12am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas:so every woman are now insensitive and Immature...Guy u get mind oo 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by henry4lov1: 6:14am On Jul 07, 2019 |
My brother why not groom her to be the kind of woman u want. It will be difficult at first but will get better later . that is my honest advise 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by NkemChukwudi: 6:17am On Jul 07, 2019 |
enocholumide: Foolish threat! You will do NOTHING! Trust me on that......... Nothing. Immaturity is worrying you. Na so crime easy to commit? So you can throw your own life away, abi? |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by geosegun(m): 6:19am On Jul 07, 2019 |
@OP: I can see that you are so full of yourself and think you are smart and the future is bright for you. That's not good enough. It's wrong to say that you are not going to marry her because the lady is not that smart enough and she from a preferred state or city? Just because of some unfounded stigmatisation? Look, marrying a lady that did not give you, physical, emotional, spiritual and financial troubles is worth considering...you are to complement whatever she is not or whatever she could be. That's[quote][/quote] why you can not let go of her too until you got her pregnant. You may regret this for the rest if you of your life if you let her go. You are have been selfish with your decisions and actions and you never realized it. You slept.with her several times.without protection, got her pregnant, rejected her disgrace her and disregard her family. Her sins? Because she loved.you? The lady may not need to even Jazz you...all she needs is to say one negative word/sentence into your life ( cause) and your eyes go clear. Someone called you a boy and you.ate angry? A man knows what good and will take.a.decision on about marry.the lady that loves him wholly and give him peace of mind. In you.post.you never mentioned her having any.bad character. She was.young and naive and at the age of 19 you can still mould her to a better woman. A woman will do anything for the man she loves. I got my wife at young age like yours and we grew up together. I thank my God every time I remember the wisdom he gave me to make the right decision. She was more.like the way you descibe your lady. I became worried at time. I wanted more. Even my people thought she was not the type for me just because she is from a minority ethnic part of Lagas state. Just imagine. I prayed to God to help me make the right decision. I looked at all the pros and cons. I realized aside from accepting whatever I say and the part of Lagos she is from? I have nothing more against her to let her go...what else.do I want than a woman that loves me whole heartedly and gives me peace of mind? I made a decision to stand by her. I allow her breast to satisfy me at all times and currently I am rejoicing with the wife of my youth. She made.my world beautiful in all ramifications. I sincerely pray you don't regret your decision not to marry the woman that will birth your twins? Make amends before its too late...you still have the chance now...no one knows tomorrow... 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Omudia11: 6:20am On Jul 07, 2019 |
You're more than a man. You're a demigod. God will surely bless you abundantly. grossintel: 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Nobody: 6:20am On Jul 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Well, she said she's having a twins. That's my concern. |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by lomprico(m): 6:21am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: Are you cancerian? And the word you are looking to describe her family is 'dysfunctional' 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by 24biznes(f): 6:21am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Hum2020:Don't just tell him outrightly that he shouldn't accept the pregnancy if he hasn't yet confirmed that it is his please coz I feel there is 80% probability that those babies are his 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by kingjrofficial(m): 6:22am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas:this ur matter don tire pesin...so u are implyin that u dated her bcoz of free pussie or what U said she's not intelligent, she's really not beautiful, her family are rude, she don't clean ur house, u can't marry from anambra,... Bla bla bla bla bla bla So wat advise do u need from we (the N'lander ) Here is my advise... Settle her family for the damage u caused their daughter, give her or support her with a hard earning business... then take 101% responsibly of those twins then when they're 5yrs or so, take them to stay wit u and hire a nanny or a baby sitter.... Use ur brain 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by VirginSearcher(m): 6:22am On Jul 07, 2019 |
cococandy:Have I slept with you before? |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Nobody: 6:23am On Jul 07, 2019 |
NkemChukwudi:That shouldn't b the bone of contention here. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by NLbabygirl(f): 6:23am On Jul 07, 2019 |
crunchyg: Haha.. Let me think about it |
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) ... (22) (Reply)
Lady Wears Bum Shorts In Hot Pre-Wedding Pictures / Reasons Why White Women Will Always Be More Attractive Than Black Women / 5 Reasons Why We Need To Stop Wasting Sperm
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 124 |