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Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Nobody: 1:06am On Jul 07, 2019 |
cnonyechi:i don't understand this comment ooo is it a must that he must marry her? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by UzomaFC: 1:11am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Bros if it's possible for U, go n seek Gods face and ask the holy spirt to guide U and direct Ur decisions wo that U won't make a terrible decision that U ll regret in the future. I want U to be sincere and determined to seek Gods counseling about it. Again meet an elder that U knw that's wise and also seek counsel for bible says with many counsels one will go2 war and conquer. I also pray that U be patient n never leave tbe presence of God until he answers U. and don't let any1 make U take wrong steps in this issues. Note b4 U strt, U ll need to repent of ur sins n both the young girl for both of U hv sinned because U both committed fornication because the scripture says "Marriage is honorable but bed undefiled. Seek to knw what He thinks about it or what He wants to use this situation to teach U. because U sd U ll not marry from Anambra meaning U re still bearing unforgiviness in Ur spirt. And maybe God wants to teach U 1 or 2 things to show He is the master planner. Am a proud father of 3 by Gods grace so am talking from what life has thought via Gods plan n purpose. Thanks n Regards. 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Theboss100(m): 1:13am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Will U Shut Up! Yes, I Said SHUT UP!! Nairalanders Should Kw Me By Now. I Hate Rubbish. How Will U Not Be A Boy When U Reason Like. U Dnt Like Her And She Dnt Fit Ur Wife Profile But Yet Ur John Thomas Is Seriously Digging Deep. U Can't Think For Urself But Ur Dickson Yet U Want To Be Addressed With Respect. Na Small Pikin Brain U Get. He Asked U A Question Who Are U Leaving The Girl To Marry After Messing Her Up? Me? U Must Be Crazy. U Better Go Get Ur Wife Else U Will Regret It. Abeg Shift [quote author=sirdouglas post=79985151] In as much as you are trying to be mean. I understand your point. For the record, I am not a boy. I will appreciate if you address me with more respect. Marrying her will not be such a bad idea but we may not enjoy the marriage. Especially her. She has said it over time that she knows that I don't love her. In as much as that is not entirely true, it is not far from it. She doesn't fit my profile for a wife and that is why I have been trying to end the relationship. 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by rinzaugustine: 1:16am On Jul 07, 2019 |
You have already complicated her life and yours by getting her pregnant when you know you never intended to marry her.If that girl use those babies to curse you..you no go see better for your life..yea,true.If she is your daughter or sister ,would you be here seeking for such advice 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by EMIOMOADEOYE: 1:18am On Jul 07, 2019 |
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Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by bigfrancis21: 1:19am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: First go get a paternity test done to confirm you are the father to remove the possibility of heartbreaks in the future when you find out 15 years from now that they are not yours. Second, the gene that determines twins is passed down mostly from mother to daughter. I.e it is maternally inherited. Men may inherit this gene from their mother on their x-chromosome (men are XY - X from mom, Y from dad, women are XX - X from each parent) but since they do not ovulate it lies dormant in them and is transmitted to their daughter, if any, (girls who are XX get one x from the dad and one x from the mom) who in turn stands the chance of having twins. In your case, this girl is not related to you by blood neither is she your daughter, thus your sperm here has zero chances of inducing twins in her. It doesn't work that way. If she is correct about having twins, then she inherited the twin gene from her own mother or father, not you. That is, her being pregnant with twins, in no way, does NOT confirm nor attest to you being the father of the children. Third, again go get a DNA test done. My 2 cents. 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by STENON(f): 1:21am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Some topics are just comic relief... You don't love her, but you were having sex with her. You don't see future in her, yet you always accept her back at anytime she apologizes You'r processing your visa, yet you won't let her rest with your sexual demands... SMH !!! Now you are abroad and you have twins awaiting you in Nigeria. Bro, Your village people have finally picked your call, You better start buying pampers and twins clothes. I just hope your story won't be like Regina Daniel's Father in the nearest future. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by mcocolok(m): 1:21am On Jul 07, 2019 |
daddytime: Abeg leave that zombie , he don give girl belle finish he run go abroad . Thunder fire am . He still get mouth to dey call the family useless family and disorganize but him prick dey organized abi. The guy is so proud and full of shit. Just small jab wey dem throw give am, he no one descend to people level . He think say he dey talk to secondary school students . We dey vex for naira land oooo 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by hakeemhakeem(m): 1:28am On Jul 07, 2019 |
bro weldone o how did you knew that you the std have is well treated you infected her gonorria,pls house allow him to marry girl with brain, wise and smart that will send him to his early grave and corner his properties. see you that is smart and well articulated can't you get professionals to run your so called business Mr dangote.if I happen to be the girl family I promise you.you will never find a person to call wife,if you approach girls you will looks like gorilla in their faces or that your leg btw your two legs will goes home before you leave the world swwwwww oni ra nu jati jati bro why my calling bro guy don't play with life o,you are taken the family silent has notting abi? 4 Likes 1 Share |
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Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Theboss100(m): 1:34am On Jul 07, 2019 |
[/quote] I Know What U Did. U Used Her To Experiment If U Can Impregnate A Woman, To Know If Ure Sterile Or Not. The Later Is The Case. BOOM! You Just Scored Two Goals With One Shot On Target. And I Kw U Have Concluded To Marry Her, U Just Want To Ur Topic To Hit Front Page. My Brother FEAR GOD. Stop Tempting Him Cus U Can't. My Final Say To U Is This, Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover. Ure Been Tested, But Ure About To Fail The Test. THINK 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by MrMou: 1:35am On Jul 07, 2019 |
If she likes, she should give birth to quadruplets, it's not your business but hers! Na she no get sense! Mumu girl! You already told her you don't want her & won't marry her but the dunce still didn't listen & got pregnant instead of her to focus on her future! You better don't marry her out of pity whether the pregnancy is yours or not & just face your future! She'll be alright, & if she isn't, it's still her business! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by skukimania(f): 1:39am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Joebie: I hope you will be giving this exact advice if this later happen to your daughter in future? So now, the op is the victim and needs to be pitied? 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by skukimania(f): 1:42am On Jul 07, 2019 |
nuelyoyo: So why did op not stand his ground then and refused her the way he is standing his ground now and emphatically saying he can't marry her? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by skukimania(f): 1:45am On Jul 07, 2019 |
dyze: I am practically blowing you kisses here Thank you so very much! The op is one hell of an arrogant guy. 7 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by GGirll: 1:46am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: Please I've just read few of d opinions of some well meaning Nigerians who had offered you some solid advise but I must tell you.....your responses sounded as though you are being defensive n even somehow proud. That said my only advise is that you should marry her n be in d lives of your kids properly don't let them suffer with their mum for ever knowing you. 10 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by mmadu5(m): 1:56am On Jul 07, 2019 |
OP i feel for you especially the fact that you had to cope with her even though you saw the signs that she wasnt the one for you still baffles me anyways make sure you get a DNA test after she gives birth to determine if they twins are yours before anything else , that way you will know for sure if they turn out to be yours , no problem , kids are blessing , even if your dont want their mom wont change anything , i wish you all the best , 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by princessayesha(f): 2:02am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Sorry but why are people living like animals now? humans are supposed to marry before having sex. I mean...how do you feel as a person that many people had seen your unclothedness? 6 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Lenny9000(m): 2:02am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: Another thing that I have noticed about you is how much you value self respect and how it pains you whenever anyone seems rude etc... So I have to ask you, what were you expecting with such a story? That people should pet and sympathise with you? Truth is many Youths run around Naira land INSULTING people for the slightest thing, but strange enough they have not really done that to you but rather giving you their opinion in some what anger because of your story. I think you should Man up and take the Criticism and forget your own ego for now cos it is indeed a messy situation. The Minute you Sleep with a girl without Protection then you Must also be ready for Pregnancy. Personally I don't even subscribe to Girls using Pills but rather Guys straping themselves up whenever they want Sex, except she is your Wife, Fiancee etc.. I can't advice anyone to marry someone they are not in Love with or put themselves in such misery. Yet you have to also think about the girl and your unborn kids, and how they would view you in the future when they hear this same story from you or their mother. I wish you well 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by nani212(m): 2:04am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas:sirdouglas We are all human beings with a trait of selfishness in us all. You know the right thing to do but you are just here looking for people to validate your desire to do wrong. You led the girl on and she is pregnant for you now. It’s either you get married to her or you forget about her forever because she will never forgive you. Remember what goes around comes around. 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by MrMou: 2:06am On Jul 07, 2019 |
papiforreal: Go & sit down one place! Which karma? Naso karma dey work! Karma dey & nothing don do you since despite all the bad things wey you don do for this world! Did he rape her? Karma will also catch up with her for trying to tie his destiny down when he's told her several times he doesn't want to marry her! Free the guy; the girl is the dunce here! The best he can do for the dumb cheat is to take care of the child ONLY after confirming the paternity, because I no understand how someone can shamelessly lie she got gonorrhea from toilet when you clearly can't! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by MrMou: 2:16am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas:Bro, if you marry that cheat of a girl, I will personally swear for you. How can she lie she got gonorrhea from toilet You CAN'T get gonorrhea from the toilet, bro; she's been sleeping with someone else! By the way, you've already told her several times that you can't marry her yet she keeps coming back like the dunce that she is instead of her to face her future! You better face your own future & don't let one mumu tie you down. If it even happens that you're the father of the twins, then just take care of your children, finish! Do NOT have anything personal to do with the nonsense girl! 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Chyma1(m): 2:18am On Jul 07, 2019 |
I'd advice you to marry her, you won't regret it. She's only 20 and not really exposed to life; that's why she's naive and behave the way she does. Just be patient with her and as the years go by, she'll mature into the woman of your dream. You need to understand that there's no perfect woman out there. 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by AreaFada2: 2:30am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: Let me first address the twin stuff. As a man, you can have twins all around you in the family, it still doesn't increase your chances of having twins yourself. While you might possibly have the gene, you do not ovulate. So you cannot increase your chances. But if you have the gene and pass it on to your daughters, they will have double the chances (through hyper-ovulation) of twins compared to those women without the gene. That only goes for fraternal (non-identical) twins. Genetics play little role in identical twins because it happens randomly. So do DNA test when babies are born if you have any doubt. Up to 40% of first born kids belong to another man outside. Lots of girls juggle several boyfriends these days. Now to the matter. Well, by now you know you should have used contraception and other mistakes you made. So no need flogging the issue. As it stands, since you have said you cannot marry the lady for several reasons, do not marry her out of pity. Both of you will be unhappy if you do. If the babies turn out to yours, it will complicate your life no doubt. But that's the price of indecision regarding letting her go when you wanted her to go. But it's not all bad. Get your parents involved. Try to reach an agreement with her and her family about the way forward. It may not be easy but can be done. Sort out financial commitment towards the upkeep of the kids. Do not panic. If you can suspend the traditional stuff about child recognition until after DNA test do so. Unless you are ready to accept the babies whether they are yours or not. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by LadyDoubleJ(f): 2:31am On Jul 07, 2019 |
I perfectly understand your plight and I commend you for your efforts so far, the reason she kept coming back to you after realizing you truly don't want to settle down with her is simply because she loves you and wished you can change your mind someday, no wowan chooses to end up being a Bleep mate. You met her at the age of 19 and at the age of 21 she is already about to deliver twins for you, I believe that she isn't matured enough to reason the way you really wanted but as time goes on when reality hit her she will be able to read you perfectly well what am saying is that most times age has a lot to do with someone's behavior/attitude. Again you can afford to be with other ladies during or after the break up as you were searching for a wife material but something kept bringing the two of you together and now kids. I think you are destined to be together, if you leave her it will be very painful to her as she will become a mockry to people around her and the taught of it Will continue to hunt you. Marry her and leave the rest to God bc where you are running to might be worst than what is pursuing you. 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by OnlyJesusSaves: 2:52am On Jul 07, 2019 |
I think u really need to work on ur temper. It's very hot n makes u sound too arrogant n proud in ur response to comments.That said, I pray God gives u a perfect direction on this issue. All d best bro! Its well sirdouglas: 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Nobody: 2:52am On Jul 07, 2019 |
And how old are you to even mess with a 19 year old girl? From your write-ups, you are probably in your 30's. This is a classic example of a pedophile. You are lucky that family seems like a poor family that doesn't have anyone to fight for them. If you had done this mess with my little sister and still had the guts to come to my family and spew this bullshit, you wouldn't be here today sharing the story. And in all your cockk and bull stories, you never talked about her education other than she's not smart enough. Wasn't this little girl supposed to be in college or University when you put her in mother's way? Young Man, if you know what's good for your silly pedophilia self, go and marry that girl and live with the consequences of your stupiid actions! Nonsense #LongHiss 8 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by OnlyJesusSaves: 3:02am On Jul 07, 2019 |
Exactly my point. I had told him that earlier on. Arrogant is an understatement. I pray he learns humility in life b4 its 2 late quote author=skukimania post=80017361] I am practically blowing you kisses here Thank you so very much! The op is one hell of an arrogant guy.[/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by Joebie: 3:39am On Jul 07, 2019 |
some are advising him to marry against his wish just because he made a mistake. It doesn't work like that. There is no guarantee that marrying her will fix the problem. It will most likely make the situation worse. I will tell you why because the girl in question will be affected psychologically knowing he married her out of pity and he doesn't truly love her. He himself can hardly find happiness. Both of them can move on to find someone else that will make their lives more pleasurable. But they must remain friends for the sake of the kids. If I were her father I wouldn't want such a marriage. I will give her all my support and not stop loving my daughter, advising her to learn her lessons. Some people make painful mistakes in their later in their lives. But this girl if she learned from this can become a stronger person. Modified And may I add, he too has a lot to learn from this. skukimania: 1 Like |
Re: She Is Pregnant With Twins But I Honestly Don't Want To Marry Her. by rOsy247(f): 3:39am On Jul 07, 2019 |
sirdouglas: If trully you clearly told her from the onset that you not gonna marry her you are in order. Never marry out of pity else you gonna regret it. Just keep taking care of her till she delivers. Then continue taking care of your kids from there. If she n her family will allow you lay claim to the kids, fine and good. Just go ahead and do so. 1 Like |
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