omale88:
If you haven't attempted taking your life before then don't say a thing on this thread, you think what leads to suicide is a joke?you think to decide to take your own life is child's play?if you have never thought of suicide then you haven't reach the peak of your problems in life yet,now you think those who commit suicide are being foolish because you think like an infant,you have no ideal what real depression is, you have no idea of what it means to be marooned at the middle of the Pacific to swim your way to life while sailors cheer you up passing by in their ship,you have no idea to be in a situation where no one believes you or wants to understand you,you have no idea of what it means to seek money for a surgery and people who can afford to give you that tell you all they could offer is a prayer,as I have said you have no idea about this ailment called depression you are on your own in depression no angel or demon can pull you out of that because they don't feel,God gave only a man the power to do so,but when a man fails,you would be dragged into a sees pool of darkness then perish,but when you survive you become in evitable because you have conquered death in a battle to live and die with a purpose.only those powerful people can relate to what I have written, so I urge all you kids blaming people for comiting suicide to shut it!.the only reason why you blame people for comiting suicide is because you think their choice or options are as clear as yours. You have no idea.

the pick of a person problem is define for each person. I have seen people committed suicide for far less of what i have encountered in life and i have never taught of suicide once. If suicide is justified base on what people face, then more than half of nigerians are justified to commit suicide which is awfully foolish.

In conclusion, only people who have one-way thought and selfish at same time. That is, people who are irrational, commits suicide.

Nopanties:
You can go and die with your long story. Mumu igala person

If you have no uplifting words for someone who might be down, it's best for you to not say anything because your words will come back to haunt you definitely .

Shebi FG banned Sniper because of the rate of suicides in the country...

Waiting for them to ban Ampiclox, Feldene and Flagyl too with this news!

Useless ruga government!

Nopanties:
You can go and die with your long story. Mumu igala person

I'm not dead am I?pray for knowledge and understanding which you lack in abundance.

Isahalbash:





If naso people wey dey war zones supposed dey commit suicide everyday.


Nobody can make you sad or unhappy unless you give them d room to do so.

The happiness you're looking for, is within you.

Do you know soldiers are suicidal thats why they do their job? Thats why I said you have no idea.

151487made:


You nailed it

Thanks for understanding

Seenyo:


#timeless/priceless WORDS ON MARBLE!

Thumbs up!

Cheers, thanks for understanding

Vince77:


God bless you for ever

Amen,thanks for understanding,God bless you too

ABSAO:
She committed sucide reason known to her only! RIP to her!. We Love you but God loves you more!

RIP ke OGA she's nt dead oh. Receiving treatment @ Abuth and responding wella self! You guys are too quick to post shit and concluded without thourogh findings! I repeat...Shes alive!!!!!!!!!!

tuhamworld:


This is nothing but the truth..

Depression is real and only those who've been there and come back can tell the story

God bless you wisdom

tytachile:
so nairalander finally found a way of writing the F word like this (Fvck). Mods what can you do to change it bleep now?

It's human nature to Always look for how's to bypass rules unfortunately I've not risen above the urge too

Tareq1105:


I don't know your religion but I want you to know that whatever anyone is passing through, Jesus Christ said it has expiring date. It's just for a while. It'll not consume you but to bring out a better you.

Jesus said to those that are in Christ, there's hope for them.

No matter the situation, no worries, no problem, no circumstances would make a true believer, who believe that God is his father, to take his own life.

God wants us to take up our Cross while trusting Him for a change of story for our next level breakthrough. Suicide is not of God.

I want to suggest that Religious Knowledge be made compulsory in our schools including higher institutions irrespective of your course of study.

Commuting suicide doesn't solve the problem most times but rather leave the love ones with pains.

May God grant the family and friends she left behind the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.

Depression has no religion thats all I can say,the only cure to depression is to show affection in expression to those in it.

Indispensable85:



There's no excuse for suicide, it doesn't solve a thing. Suicide is for the mentally weak, some of us have gone through very terrible phase in life and came out stronger. Suicide is never an option and should never be defended under any circumstance.

That s why I said you have no idea.

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omale88:

God bless you wisdom

but to be honest.... What had the small girl faced in life


That no one has never faced??

Most of us are just too small to think of committing suicide
Especially when it comes to education matter......

The only thing I know that can cause this

Peer pressure and heart break

Meeyankee:

God bless you.you just made my day.one of the most intelligent comment I have ever seen here.i never knew people with this.kind of wisdom still exist here.

Thanks for the compliment, I survived I know the tale.

ellalina:
]when okorocha created ministry of happiness ,Nigerians nearly tore him in half but this is a man that knows the people.
We need to pay attention to mental health.
However

I was depressed for most of my early youth. At some point I was on top of apo bridge and wanted to Jump Down. I was diagnosed of a terminal illness ,i lost my admission and my Job in 2 weeks.
I swear I was waiting for a truck to pass so I can jump
in front of it.

Today I am a graduate, got a very very good job and and am no longer living on drugs.
When you are depressed, go and read testimonies.

Can undergraduate's apply for your job? i need money

omale88:

Thats why I said you have no idea

No matter what you're going through, just remember that someone is going through worse .

hareskay:
I'm surprised that with what you've typed, it's more or less like you're encouraging people to have thoughts on committing suicide, by giving reasons. Fine! Life is full of ups and downs. Nevertheless, if anybody is facing one or two challenges, it's better to speak up rather than having the thoughts.

If you Listen well then you should Read well,I never said suicide is an option but that those who commit suicide where in a situation where they couldn't think it was wrong, they where sick, can you stop a mad man from picking rags or eating trash?thats how depressed people think too.

[quote author=omale88 post=80024775]
Do you know soldiers are suicidal thats why they do their job? Thats why I said you have no idea.[/

Yes, but still they don't want to die. That's what happened when you have not passed through hardship in your life.


Many of us have passed through depression before, maybe even worse; but still, we didn't commit suicide.

shesawesome:
I can't like this enough...so on point

Thanks for your understanding

Horus:
People who commit suicide find themselves there because they are so attached to life. They are so attached to some pleasure, so attached to some joy, that they want to kill themselves. And when they kill themselves, they find themselves in a greater dilemma.

The restlessness and desires which had created such intense agony inside them do not go away. Their body has gone, but the agony remains.

It is like, someone is shivering in the cold, and he goes out in the open and says: I am so cold and removes all his clothes. Will the cold become any less? No!

It is only through the body that you can dispel the agony and get rid of misery. Instead, you destroy the very instrument by which you can get rid of agony. That is why knowledge is so important. We must realize that suicide is the worst thing. It is not the solution.

Deep !

shesawesome:
I can't like this enough

Thanks for understanding

addicted268:


I know what depression is.I was depressed for straight 8months.I cannot tell my story.I was dying inside but no one was seeing it.when it felt my mind was leaving my body I would tap my arm n say "this too shall pass and addicted, you ll be fine eventually"... All thru d period,d only thing that kept me from thinking of suicide is that I have a family who love me more than life itself.I lost one of my sisters to leukaemia n I saw the impact it had on my parents.I would never want to put them thru such again.

now imagine "the family who love you" was not there?

Graduateacher:


She was a student, don't rule out heartbreak and relationship issues, it might be poor performance in academics, it might not be lack of money

Who knows? It is all now late isn't it?

iwantolive:
Thank you.the fact that people don't understand depression is depressing. To me depression is the worst thing on earth.. It will rob you of everything.
Joy,happiness, excitement and evry positive thing on earth.. I just hope people start to understand it and reach out to the sufferers sufferers..

I don't even wish for my enemies to be depressed

uruba23:

There is always genuine reasons to end it all,and it is not limited to Age or Class but what is important is to look at all the options available before taking such decision, because people would still go for Owambe whether or not you are alive.I have seen a man walk pass me looking depress before I could say jack Robinson he jumped into the beach around elegushi ,he called for help no one could save him,no one knows his identity .I believe God is merciful sha so I pray he doesn't give me problems that has no solutions or no options.

When one is depressed that person is like a mad person,they are in no position to make the right decision.

Neddstark:


I have contemplated. I was emotionally weak and had a lot going on then. But your opinion here supports it and condones people being weak. Not proper. People MUST understand life is a gift and suicide is extremely thoughtless and silly.

Read it again and pray for understanding, yes you had hard times but don't pray for depression, worry and depression are two different things

InansBobo:
Life that she didn't give herself, she's now taken it. That's wrong!

Oshe assistant Jesus

Horus:
People who commit suicide find themselves there because they are so attached to life. They are so attached to some pleasure, so attached to some joy, that they want to kill themselves. And when they kill themselves, they find themselves in a greater dilemma.

The restlessness and desires which had created such intense agony inside them do not go away. Their body has gone, but the agony remains.

It is like, someone is shivering in the cold, and he goes out in the open and says: I am so cold and removes all his clothes. Will the cold become any less? No!

It is only through the body that you can dispel the agony and get rid of misery. Instead, you destroy the very instrument by which you can get rid of agony. That is why knowledge is so important. We must realize that suicide is the worst thing. It is not the solution.

Absolute thrash, spoken by a man who's irrefutably high on a toxic dose of 'spirituality'

There are psychiatric regimens and antidotes available OTCs to mediate suicidal ideations depending on its aetiology(underlying cause). But please don't self-medicate,consult a psychologist for prescription guild lines

tipsy01:

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If only U truly know... If only U av been pushed to d wall of great Debt .. If only U know what it feels to survive on nothing without the hope of what to leave on the next day.
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Some of us are still fighting it ...maybe just because of the Loved ones that would be left behind.
Cos if its just personally... There is nothing to live for.... No one will believe our stories of being in need.
When those U relate ur need to will only promise & stop picking ur calls. They start mocking U. Even those so called Friends U thought u helped & are like confidants. They stab U by making mockery. Everyone is saying talk to sombobdy...wat happens wen there is no one else to tall to
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U don't know how it feels to have & not have anything anymore.
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Its not easy holding on... Its not easy @ all.... How I wish there were options. . just d love ones left.

May God bless you.this is one of the nairalanders with active brain..

damtan:

Thinking of suicide is a thing, executing it is another. Quite alot of people might have thought Of suicide but are strong enough not to carry it out. I once imagined a rope in my neck but quickly went out to meet with friends. Suicide isn't the only option o jare

You guys should stop quoting me wrong, try understanding the text properly,if you where really depressed and you had that rope around your neck you would have been dead by now,yours was just a case of worry and not depression,thank God for your life.