Deicide:
Person way fit kill innocent life, her own child fit kill you

Don't Think In That Way Sir.

I believe there are somethings that are better left in the closet or unsaid, and this would qualify as one of them for me , unless ofcourse it's really affecting me psychologically and/or physically . In as much as I'm a big fan of heart to hearts, openness and playfulness in a relationship , there are still things I would rather not know about my partner's private escapades with his previous lover .

Fountainofyouth:



Op said psychological virgins should stay away





Immature peeps should also stay away

Abortionists will be pained

ThothHermes:
Abortionists will be pained

Diick hoppers feeling like psychological virgins

AwkaetitiBabe:
Has any woman aborted for u?

No o never

I would have been an issue 20 years ago, but am wiser and older now.
So it won't change anything.

Joromi12:
Dont tell unless it has damaged ur womb . My ex had 1 that almost cost her life . She is married now with twins. The husband never knew

Wow

I remember how that changed my relationship with One Mary Jane. Babe looked so holy and pious till the day she dropped the shocker. Told me she has had three abortions. That truth changed everything about us.

MissRaine69:
Would your perception of her change or would you rather not know? Women would you tell him? If you are a psychological virgin this post is not for you.

Funny enough I as going to hook my nest buddy with a babe that recently did abortion. I was so downcast cause I knew they both would be perfect for one another because they shared similar characteristics. I gave up on hooking them upnwith one another. Guess what, he called me recently asking why I didn't introduce the chick to him again. After I told him and explained the circumstance , he said he understood and he's still going to court/marry her, that anything from me is good with him. Can you beat that? It depends on individual, for me its a no no.


What do you mean by psychological virgin plz

vivalavida:
I remember how that changed my relationship with One Mary Jane. Babe looked so holy and pious till the day she dropped the shocker. Told me she has had three abortions. That truth changed everything about us.

Did you break up immediately?

I have trust issues ,asking that kinda question will just breach the trust I have in her ,so asking is a no no for me.

kunleweb:



Funny enough I as going to hook my nest buddy with a babe that recently did abortion. I was so downcast cause I knew they both would be perfect for one another because they shared similar characteristics. I gave up on hooking them upnwith one another. Guess what, he called me recently asking why I didn't introduce the chick to him again. After I told him and explained the circumstance , he said he understood and he's still going to court/marry her, that anything from me is good with him. Can you beat that? It depends on individual, for me its a no no.


What do you mean by psychological virgin plz

The sanctimonious crew that litter this forum. They are virgins in their minds only!
Now back to your story. You judged her unfairly I might say. You potentially could have deprived your friend of a soulmate based on your perceptions of her actions. Women make decisions due to circumstances being forced on them sometimes. I live in a country where abortions are legal so women don’t have to resort to methods that could kill them or cause permanent damage.

Dracoe:
I have trust issues ,asking that kinda question will just breach the trust I have in her ,so asking is a no no for me.

May I ask a bold question? If you have had unprotected sex at some point in your life how do you know there is a woman out there who might have done the same where you are the father? Secondly your trust issues are a reflection of you and your personality traits if she lies and you find out later would that not exacerbate matters more?

MissRaine69:

The sanctimonious crew that litter this forum. They are virgins in their minds only!
Now back to your story. You judged her unfairly I might say. You potentially could have deprived your friend of a soulmate based on your perceptions of her actions. Women make decisions due to circumstances being forced on them sometimes. I live in a country where abortions are legal so women don’t have to resort to methods that could kill them or cause permanent damage.

To think that they're both photocopies of one another is scaring. I didn't judge her. I have expectations for her to be a decent lady. Doing that shii at 33 implies plain stupidity. If I follow through with this project, shell answer to me


I easily forgive mistakes but not deliberate actions. Doing this shii at 33 doesn't make sense. No lady above 22 should so cheaply babydump. What's not right isn't right.


I take my sperm very serious. It would require serious work to have my sperm. I place a premium on my self. So there's no one out there carrying my seed, cause even as a kid, I placed premium on my seed. This has been my mentality since as a teen


Missjoy29

kunleweb:




To think that they're both photocopies of one another is scaring. I didn't judge her. I have expectations for her to be a decent lady. Doing that shii at 33 implies plain stupidity. If I follow through with this project, shell answer to me

You looked at the surface a common mistake men make. At least let him decide autonomously to date or not. Most men are quite understanding of this issue.

MissRaine69:

You looked at the surface a common mistake men make. At least let him decide autonomously to date or not. Most men are quite understanding of this issue.

It goes beyond understanding. See I can marry a woman who was gan raped aborted and all, but a woman who willfully aborts has issues a lot, self love, lust, selfishness, greed all of which led to the abortion. Abortion is purely an indicator of ones character and I have to GI for the very best, it has little to nothing to do with mistakes. Even as men, we expressed caution, we expect more from women and its thus simple.



Its unlafy like to have wanton list as this generation exudes. A lady should be a queen and pride herself as such not open to any fly that perches around. If this was obeyed, there won't be abortion. Any Lady who commits an abortion above 22 is cheap my dear. Its not a mistake, its what it is, an unpaid wh.ore

kunleweb:



It goes beyond understanding. See I can marry a woman who was gan raped aborted and all, but a woman who willfully aborts has issues a lot, self love, lust, selfishness, greed all of which led to the abortion. Abortion is purely an indicator of ones character and I have to GI for the very best, it has little to nothing to do with mistakes. Even as men, we expressed caution, we expect more from women and its thus simple.



Its unlafy like to have wanton list as this generation exudes. A lady should be a queen and pride herself as such not open to any fly that perches around. If this was obeyed, there won't be abortion. Any Lady who commits an abortion above 22 is cheap my dear. Its not a mistake, its what it is, an unpaid wh.ore

You have a rigid dare I say a bit sanctimonious way of looking at life but I respect that so no vex
You have much to learn and experience that’s what i will say in parting.

MissRaine69:

You have a rigid dare I say a bit sanctimonious way of looking at life but I respect that so no vex
You have much to learn and experience that’s what i will say in parting.

Nah. Its a soft spot you have to alleviate the emotional trauma/shame attached with the act. I'm simply disscoaited from such shame hence can be bold and upfront without any neediness to play neutral. As kids, ladies were taught to treat their bodies with respect. Any it's purely the sign, a lady in such a scenario is cheap, doesn't place good value on herself,has poor esteem hence needed sex as an outlet and did not care about future relations during the act.


Sorry I'm blunt its what it is and doesn't alleviate the severity of such cases these days. If not for improved medicare, HIV and AIDS would have done much more damage.

kunleweb:




Nah. Its a soft spot you have to alleviate the emotional trauma/shame attached with the act. I'm simply disscoaited from such shame hence can be bold and upfront without any neediness to play neutral. As kids, ladies were taught to treat their bodies with respect. Any it's purely the sign, a lady in such a scenario is cheap, doesn't place good value on herself,has poor esteem hence needed sex as an outlet and did not care about future relations during the act.


Sorry I'm blunt its what it is and doesn't alleviate the severity of such cases these days. If not for improved medicare, HIV and AIDS would have done much more damage.

Parallel lines that’s our end recourse adieu nice chat

kunleweb:




Did you break up immediately?

Not immediately

But gradually it went downhill

I always had that thought at the back ofmy mind

vivalavida:


Not immediately

But gradually it went downhill

I always had that thought at the back ofmy mind

Good. Selfish beings. If they had humanity in them they would have considered their actions had consequences in those moments of burning passions

MissRaine69:

May I ask a bold question? If you have had unprotected sex at some point in your life how do you know there is a woman out there who might have done the same where you are the father? Secondly your trust issues are a reflection of you and your personality traits if she lies and you find out later would that not exacerbate matters more?

Your first question; I would most probably never know, and I can’t direct any feelings or thoughts to something I have no knowledge of unless she tells me.
Your second question; that’s why I said I would never ask...asking is a no no for me.But if she tells me herself she has had an abortion,I would have my reservations at first then if I truly love her it wouldn’t change anything.

MissRaine69:

The post above your original comment is a good example.

Why should he lowered his standards for a woman who had killed her unborn baby? Please don't blame him.

Dracoe:

Your first question; I would most probably never know, and I can’t direct any feelings or thoughts to something I have no knowledge of unless she tells me.
Your second question; that’s why I said I would never ask...asking is a no no for me.But if she tells me herself she has had an abortion,I would have my reservations at first then if I truly love her it wouldn’t change anything.

Don't let that feminist abortionist woman blackmail you.

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Unless I specifically ask, I'd honestly rather not know.

If I ask, I expect the truth no matter how bad. If I'm the right mature man for her, I'll stick around. If I'm not, then she would be better served finding a more accepting man.

As to where I am right now in life, I feel like an abortion means she was letting a man who had not married her dick her RAW.

That's a scary thing....

Nobody said you should not enjoy dick as a spinster, but for heaven's sake, enjoy it with sense!

Obodo999:


Why should he lowered his standards for a woman who had killed her unborn baby? Please don't blame him.

How is his standards lowered? Because someone had a termination then that gages standards I am sure you are the same mofos who have issues with single mothers. Her body her choice your patriarchal view of perfection is skewed.

MissRaine69:

Parallel lines that’s our end recourse adieu nice chat

Is it because you don't want want to hear the truth he is saying?

MissRaine69:

How is his standards lowered? Because someone had a termination then that gages standards I am sure you are the same mofos who have issues with single mothers. Her body her choice your patriarchal view of perfection is skewed.

You need to confess and repent if you have killed your unborn child.

Obodo999:


Don't let that feminist abortionist woman blackmail you.

When was the last time you saw someone smile because you entered a room?

Obodo999:


You need to confess and repent if you have killed your unborn child.

The trouble ain't there is too many fools, but that the lightning ain't distributed right.....