I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

Do what you have been doing: mind your business.

If your neighbour is not your close friend, please mind your business. You think your neighbour is going to leave her if he finds out? Most beautiful girls have their men wrapped around their finger, just face your front.

Safitu:
If your neighbour is not your close friend, please mind your business. You think your neighbour is going to leave her if he finds out? Most beautiful girls have their men wrapped around their finger, just face your front.

I am never going to tell the guy that's for sure. What am asking is how to make the girl stop this unnecessary sudden over familiarity which might soon make the BF suspect something is not right.

thesicilian:
Do what you have been doing: mind your business.

I am minding my business but the girl is not minding her business any more and it's becoming worrisome.

DonKalidon:


I am never going to tell the guy that's for sure. What am asking is how to make the girl stop this unnecessary sudden over familiarity which might soon make the BF suspect something is not right.

open your mouth and tell her or text it to her if you have her number.

Safitu:
open your mouth and tell her or text it to her if you have her number.

Have her number ke, for what. Maybe I will try to warn her to stay away as she does before.

DonKalidon:
I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

Simple, assure her what goes on in her relationship with her boyfriend is none of your business his not even your friend shikena let her feel free

Na wa o. Shey if the guy find out some day come drink sniper you no go feel guilty sha.

Deepfeel:

Simple, assure her what goes on in her relationship with her boyfriend is none of your business his not even your friend shikena let her feel free

Yeah true talk.

NeekolazWorld:
Na wa o. Shey if the guy find out some day come drink sniper you no go feel guilty sha.

I don't need to feel guilty over anything.

Lol, the girl fcked up by coming close to you or trying to negotiate with you.

If it were me, I will lock up. I will look at you, you will know I saw you. Just as I know you saw me too.

You can then decide to go tell him, it will be your words against mine.

If anything is guaranteed, it is the fact that I will NEVER plead guilty. To you or to him.

Last last, I use emotional blackmail. Accuse him of not trusting me. Stop picking his calls.
He should go and date you...

He will come back to me and I will show you the real pepper dem.

MJBOLT:

why you no fvck the babe?

I left my brokus in Lag

DonKalidon:
I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

What do u want from us again? You are already doing the best thing. Mind your business and continue keeping your distance.

Op is it that it's impossible for a very beautiful lady not to be involved in runs??



Her conscience is pricking Her. You can simply tell her to drop the act as you ain't no snitch. Let her know you won't go singing like a canary to her boo.

Just mind your business as usual, tell her you don't have plans to reveal her secret to her boyfriend and she should stop monitoring you around that it's not convenient for you.

Guys you can now see the reason why we say men should marry virgins, the girl's boyfriend would think he has met a wife material but not knowing he is trying to wife a dog.

What a lot of women we call wife have done ehn, you ll be amazed. Best if the woman totally loves you, otherwise marry her or marry yourselves on mutual contract highlighting what you are both bringing into the relationship and what both of you must adhere to in the course of the relationship and for how long you want to both be in the relationship. If marriages were like this, it would ve be been easier. Talking of marriage We all decieving ourselves with "till death do us part", that shit only works when theres love, and even when the love is there, the contract terms should be well written out to guide both parties.

dont be an intruder.... just let go... if by any chance, tell her to stop and tell her to have a change of mind. so that the lord wont question you in heaven at the end simply because you have refuse to do what the worldly man will have done...

Back to the story of the girl, you and your neighbor man to man, you should let the nigga know wasup with his girlfriend you might be saving him pain and death ahead, if hes sensible, he ll appreciate you and act cautiously. He will forgive the girl if he loves her and shes ready to change.

DonKalidon:
I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

blackmail the chick and knack her
then find a way of letting the guy know you knacked her.
as the girl na confam olosho, it is a matter of price
your price is your feigned silence
he is sha not your close friend so it is not betrayal matter.

AntiBrutus:
Lol, the girl fcked up by coming close to you.

If it were me, I will lock up.

I will look at you, you will know I saw you.
Just as I know you saw me too.

You can then decide to go tell him, it will be your words against mine.

If anything is guaranteed, it is the fact that i will NEVER plead guilty. To you or to him.

Last last, I use emotional blackmail. Accuse him of not trusting me. Stop picking his calls.
He should go and date you...

He will come back to me and I will show you the real pepper dem.

I fear you oo

DonKalidon:
I have this neighbor that we stay in same apartment in Lagos and he is dating one very beautiful girl that likes forming good girl. Although she is a nice girl and very loyal to the guy but I have always been suspecting that this babe will definitely be doing coded runs because the babe is just too fine.
For like a week I noticed she had not come around because she always comes around almost everyday and sometimes stays over so I asked him and he said she travelled to visit her parents in Benin. Not like I had any business with their relationship because the guy and I are not friends just normal neighbors stuff that you always greet each other because you see everyday.

So I travelled to Abuja for a business and I was lodged in a hotel somewhere in life camp area. It's a nice place and I observed a lot of big men come there. I was at the bar one evening doing something on my laptop and to my greatest surprise I saw this my neighbors girlfriend with one fresh senior man obviously the man looks like excess money. Immediately she saw me I could see the shock in her face and obviously there was no lie she could tell me because of the way they romanticly held themselves. Even while they sat I observed the way the guy was romancing her and she couldn't tell him to stop because he is a big man and she knows she has been busted.
I already had it in mind that there is no way I will tell the guy anything of such because it's none of my business but the fear the girl has is now turning into something else.
First of all later that night I decided to chill in the pool and enjoy myself and I was surprised when she came to the pool as well to join me. Imagine her telling me not to tell her man and offering to do anything I want and you all know what that means but I knew what she was driving at and resisted her to the core. I noticed the senior lodged her in the hotel and comes like in the evenings then goes home because he obviously has a family at home, so you can imagine this girl that this my neighbors wants to marry. Anyways she became very close to me throughout our stay in the hotel till I left her there back to Lagos. I know she would have been calling her man anyhow to observe if maybe his behavior had changed and she will know I have told him but I didn't mention a word to him.

After some days she returned and I could see how excited my my neighbor was to see his GF again so in my mind I was like if only this guy knew what's up with this girl. The problem now is that the girl and I hardly talk before, just greet each other just but now the way she greets me and want to ask me questions or talk to me is even making the BF surprise and I am trying to avoid her in the best way I can.

What do you guys advice I do in this sort of situation?

you broke the bro code honestly.

SaucyBenks:
you broke the bro code honestly.

How did I break the bro code

DonKalidon:


How did I break the bro code

you don't keep such from a bro... Bros always must gat another bros back.

SaucyBenks:
you don't keep such from a bro... Bros always must gat another bros back.

Confirm

Keep minding your business my brother because if you dare snitch on her, she will definitely deny it straight up 100% and the dude will believe her. So maintain your lane biko before dem go use you settle for bed.

SaucyBenks:
you don't keep such from a bro... Bros always must gat another bros back.

Oh I see. And when they settle themselves or one kill the other I will be the enemy. Check my post very well to see if I mentioned anywhere that he is my brother or my friend. If it were you and I was just your neighbor then I told you something like that about your GF just like that, how will you react.

SaucyBenks:
you don't keep such from a bro... Bros always must gat another bros back.

How did he break the so-called bro code? They ain't even friends, just neighbors. What made you think that the said neighbor will believe him over his girlfriend? Besides even if he wants to tell the guy, what proof will be provide to ascertain his claim?

DonKalidon:


Oh I see. And when they settle themselves or one kill the other I will be the enemy. Check my post very well to see if I mentioned anywhere that he is my brother or my friend. If it were you and I was just your neighbor then I told you something like that about your GF just like that, how will you react.

ogbeni ill believe you cos the only work most beautiful girls know is olosho n like yiy said, SHE'S TOO BEAUTIFUL!

SaucyBenks:
ogbeni ill believe you cos the only work most beautiful girls know is olosho n like yiy said, SHE'S TOO BEAUTIFUL!

I will not also break the bro/sis code. I wasn't there when they started dating and am probably not the first guy he might know that has seen his gf do this before. Also I don't know his movements too so I don't know if he is faithful. Obviously no sensible guy will bring a side chick to their home so I can't become the speaker of someone's relationship. I just wanted to see how I can stop her from the unnecessary coming close because she feels unsecured I will talk one day. I can't even mention it to my own guys that come around so because I don't know if they will reason like you and do the unnecessary.

Hoes, hoes, hoes, hoes, hoes, more hoes, plenty hoes.
Hoes everywhere.

I swear if I were you, I will warn her never to greet me any time she sees me. I hate runs girls.

Of course I will mind my business by not telling the mugu boyfriend, but she should also mind her business by not having anything to do with me, not even "good morning"

Bunch of useless girls everywhere parading themselves as girlfriends and future wives.

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