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efemena24:
Hey man, you don't have to be scared of anything! I met my current girlfriend when I was in 200l. Then her ex boyfriend was/is a cult member(she wasn't happy dating a cultist) I asked her out and she accepted. We've been together for 2 years and a few months. The ex or any other cultist did not threaten me
No cult member will come harm you because you're dating someone they like or have crush on...I might be wrong though. Be safe✌�✌�
P.S: I'm a Jew man��

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Freehuman:
The question now is if she loves you not if you love her.
She's definitely not innocent and she's definitely stupid is she's innocent. When a girl is in a relationship and keeps telling you her male friend invited her and she went out with him dump such girl . She can't take decisions for herself and doesn't know what she wants.

If she loves you and is innocent of cultism, let her tell the cult guy that she doesn't want him for a boyfriend and if he insists or threatens find 50,000 naira go pack 25 soldiers armed to their teeth for barracks make them arrest the cultists wey dey worry the girl place them for guard room make them sign undertaking say if them rape the girl or anything do am them go shoot them. No do make dem sabi say na you. The Girl fit yan the guy prior to this raid that her favourite uncle who always shower her with gifts is a high ranking military officer. Believe me guys go distant from the girl.
Na Egede men dey find your girl lol.
You also have to exercise patience and don't court her openly. Give her a break and resume when the tension has reduced. But after all these the girl would leave you. Take heart in advance.

Bizibi:
that girl must be in black bra.....

joylegacie7:
I actually wished it could be summarized for e but one thing in life i hate is this: boyfriend and girlfriend i see it as a childish stuff that leads to immorality and all the sorts

That's why most people fall into trouble commit suicide and the rest just focus on God, your studies come out of school and marry your best friend if it God's will...

That's my advice..i prefer having a bestfriend who i can see as my Elder brother than a boyfriend

Worksunlimited:
When e ask, why you no appear?

waynejesus:
Okay write your will then and wait for death to come ode

lefulefu:
gbam!

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take shit from nobody.

JastSiryin:
While manipulating him into assuming "bf" responsibilities abi?. Mtcheew! You girls ehn

victorian:
Hmm ok

She's a student dating an older guy who didn't know she has a school boyfriend ,same school in one of the higher institutions. She has done several abortions for the school bf, because she claimed she was in love. Immediately she graduate her older boyfriend who is very comfortable and rich married her in lavish marriage ceremony.

He doesn't want her to work, let her just focus of getting pregnant and having children.

Everybody was happy except the school boyfriend who still loves her and wished he was the one marrying her even though she had aborted for him.

Oya, take in for your husband, became a herculean task. She has gone to hospitals, they told her point blank she has tampered with her womb and it's only a miracle will make her pregnant at this level. She went with her mum. Her mum was heartbroken, dissapointed but the deed is done already.
They went back home, telling her husband she is fine but it's just some hormonal imbalance , which drugs can solve and in a month time she will be pregnant , Doctor said she will be placed on drugs and injections. The husband doled out money, gave her. She paid for fertility drugs, took injections for months, but nothing.

The mother of the girl came again and said they can go into herbal and there is a man somewhere who is perfect with helping women have children. The husband gave out money, she and her daughter went, the herbal doctor too said the same thing, her womb has been badly tampered with, he said maybe the massages will work. After series of massages and herbs to drink, nothing.

The husband no longer comes home as he used to. Always travelling and claiming late at work. He's getting impatient with his young wife. She is on a hot seat in her marriage as I type. When she told me everything , I was like but for God sakes! Why commit all those abortions? Ha! She said she was naive with youthful exuberance and didn't know it will be like this. And she loves her school bf so much, so they are always having sex. And moreover babes in school are doing it. It's a normal thing.

I said normal ke! She said so I have not done abortion before? With shock in her eyes.. I replied nope. My mum will kill me and moreover I didn't stay in hostel all through my school days, I go from home to school, no night parties, my mum is always on my neck! As per her only female child. She is always on my case. So I had to calm down listen to mum. She sighed and said ha! I'm lucky o. I said eeyah.

I then said anyways the deed is done. Na prayer remain. Be hopeful God will do it. But my concern is if your husband will be patient because he's not a Young man, he looks advance and no child. Hmm babe na WA o. Such men will be desperate o, cos of his age. Assuming you marry a young man, he for patient small but with your husband look and age, hmmmmm e get as e be o!

She started crying, I was like look crying will not solve your problem, because this is a huge problem on ground. Babe, na miracle remain and it's only God that can give such miracle. Ha! Babes na WA o.

The husband knew her elder sisters, who are married with children, when he was dating her . Those ones got married late but before 3months into their marriage, they were already pregnant , within three years, her elder ones have kids littering in their husbands house, so the older man felt, the same will be my friend's case. But unfortunately she ruined such luck with I'm in love.

Honestly I feel for her. I pray God helps her marriage and give her lots of children starting from this year in Jesus name. Amen

That's her story.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

nuelyoyo:
WOW!!
I really feel sorry the man. Nobody said she shouldn't have had sex when she was in school, but she should have insisted on condoms. There is no magic about it, if one indulges in unprotected sex frequently, pregnancy is guaranteed.
But the girl sef, so after going through the painful process of abortion for the first time, she didn't learn her lesson to stop unprotected sex.
I just pity the innocent man that married her
This is the reason why some men are looking for virgins to marry.

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

subcbouy:
oh you shared my view. Can you join me in coffee's table?

DavidEsq:
Cultists be looking at u like:
"Ah ah! Can't we just threaten u small"?

Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

victorian:
I feel sorry for both of them

I asked her that same question, that after one abortion, why didn't she learn and just take precautions and be careful. She said the abortion process only last for 10/15minutes and she's good to go later in the evening. And she didn't have anyone advice she and her school boyfriend. They were carried away with catching fun.
Only a miracle will make that marriage last.

U say men are looking for virgins to marry? Lol

You men are very funny o.

Who are the ones disvirgining girls upandan? Spirits abi?

When una spoil another person daughter with dickkk, saying u are having fun. How will the virgins now materialise, in the spirit realm bah?

Men waiting to marry virgins, go wait taya!

Virgins are almost extinct species. A man cannot be breaking hymens upandan and be expecting to marry Virgins later in life.

Ko le werk!

Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.

Xbursta:
Bro same tin happened to me
to the extent when i went for holiday i started receiving several calls from cultist asking me to join there crew i just formed network problem no Yes no No
mhen when i came back to skul mhen i resumed church boy full time even if i see the girl for road i dey change lane but i swear till 2day i still dey miss her..
Her name was Rose from kd that girl joy pass even Rihanna own.
i loved her like my life but left her like like my last
Las Las Leave Her

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

Datazone:
Haha. Cultist dey KD?

Mexyz:
My Colleagues in the Office had to ask me if everything was alright, seeing the way I was laughing after viewing your profile pic.

Lol
Glad it did brighten ur day.

Xbursta:
Enter Nuba Poly u go know
them even get their own house if u want i go describe