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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by marriage1: 5:38pm On Jul 10
SHE DROPPED A SUICIDE NOTE.

“Dear mum,
It’s with a heavy heart that I write you this note, knowing the amount of pain it is going to cause you.

Mum, I want you to know that I love you dearly and will ever love you. If I am given the opportunity to live again I will still choose you as my mum and our family will still be my place of birth.

But unfortunately, I know that there is not going to be any such opportunity.

Mum, I didn’t want to do this, but I was compelled by circumstances beyond my control to take the plunge.

I tried my best to pull through, but my best was not good enough. I battled alone for about thirteen months now until my strength failed me.

You and dad could not decipher what I was going through and maybe I should not blame you for that.

My one and only brother came very close to understanding what I was passing through but it was too much for his young mind to comprehend.

Mum, I know that you and dad loved me and did everything you could to prove that to me but I was not feeling loved.

You provided for me more than I even wanted, took me to places that most of my mates have not even heard of, yet despite all these my heart was longing for love.
I needed someone who would love me for who I was. I needed someone who could reach to the depth of my soul and feel the vacuum there.

The material provisions you spoiled me with could not do that. And I was alone all the while, despite the fact that we laughed together and had gist as a family.
Then came the last straw that broke the camel’s back.

Your brother, Uncle Tony who came to live with us, made me to believe that he knew exactly what my soul was longing for – companionship.
He chose to stay with me when you and dad were too busy to notice my loneliness.

He tried to keep me company when I needed someone to talk to but had only gadgets and teddy bears as my company. I was fooled to trust him and he hacked into my foolishness. And he did it perfectly and deeply.

Mum, your brother raped me and used me as intimacy gadget for three whole years. I expected you or dad to notice but none of you did.
When he left our house last year I was shattered because I have grown to fill the void of your presence with his dirty deeds. I couldn’t complain because I was afraid to lose him, but when he eventually left for Canada the magnitude of the emptiness in me became too heavy for me to carry.
I struggled to forget those experiences but I could not. My grades dropped in school and you and dad quickly arranged for a home lesson teacher.

Mum, that singular act instead of helping me fueled what is about to happen to me a few minutes from now.

The home lesson teacher you brought so much reminded me of Uncle Tony and, on several occasions, I felt like grabbing him and making him to fill the gap that Tony’s absence created in me.
Mum, I had to do this because I was lonely. Did you ever imagine what I was doing in my room all the time I stayed there alone? Couldn’t you for once have gone out of your way to just spend some time with me so that we could talk?

There are many things I would have liked to tell you but I don’t want to add to your pain so let those other torments be buried with this undignified body of mine.

Please make sure that my brother David doesn’t get to the point where I am now.

Also, tell your friends and colleagues who have children to find out what is happening with their beloved kids before it gets too late.

Many of the things parents do in the name of showing love are not what we the younger ones need.
I would have gone, long hours before you will get to read this note.

But one cheering thing is that David is still there with you. Transfer the love you had for me to him.

My bank details and the passwords to my phones and laptops are all in the piece of paper I dropped in the drawer of your dressing table.

I miss you and it pains to empty the content of this bottle in my hand into my mouth but I am constrained to do it all the same.
Tell dad and David that I love them. Tell our pastor that I will miss his sermons and long prayers. Tell my friends not to envy me.

Goodbye mum.”

That was the suicide note a 15-year old girl dropped for her mother before taking her life.

https://allsinglesandmarried.blogspot.com/2019/07/the-causes-of-suicide-you-must-avoid.html?m=1

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Randy91(m): 5:40pm On Jul 10
Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.



LOVE kill u diagrin grin grin

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by fireback: 5:41pm On Jul 10
That girl already belong. She just want to test you to know your view on cultis, she already attending their anniversary. It better you quit that relationship now that it's still young before she begin to commit herself to you so much and it becomes too late to quit. If you don't quit, one day, one of those cult group will mistake you for their rivals, and you are not covered because you were not watching your back. Pls leave the girls and face your studies except if You know you are there to study WOMANTHOLOGY.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by dairykidd(m): 5:42pm On Jul 10
Kalashnikov102:
1- Avoid PDA

2- Stay Sharp

3- Don't move around isolated areas around the school alone

4- Don't keep late nights

5- Pray to God about the relationship and your life

6- Cult guys are scared too!! exhibit confidence when walking

7- Watch the body movements of the guys hitting on her whenever you spot them

8- Have some friends who are cultists too.. Especially those in your area or class.. Jus learn to Crack jokes with dem and move on.

9- Always have an update from her about the guys hitting on her

10- Do you plan on settling with this girl or you jus want relationship wey go end for school gate



Note!!! I ain't a cultist.. I did same while in school and it paid off!

Kudos to all the graduates on Nairaland.. E no easy especially when you school for South wink

No need for no 9 bcoz he will bury himself eventually... Ó ma easy

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by dingbang(m): 5:43pm On Jul 10
Cut PDAs with the girl. Only invite her to your crib.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by marvelous000(m): 5:48pm On Jul 10
Kalashnikov102:
1- Avoid PDA

2- Stay Sharp

3- Don't move around isolated areas around the school alone

4- Don't keep late nights

5- Pray to God about the relationship and your life

6- Cult guys are scared too!! exhibit confidence when walking

7- Watch the body movements of the guys hitting on her whenever you spot them

8- Have some friends who are cultists too.. Especially those in your area or class.. Jus learn to Crack jokes with dem and move on.

9- Always have an update from her about the guys hitting on her

10- Do you plan on settling with this girl or you jus want relationship wey go end for school gate



Note!!! I ain't a cultist.. I did same while in school and it paid off!

Kudos to all the graduates on Nairaland.. E no easy especially when you school for South wink
The most deadly war is guerrilla warfare. that's why boko haram thrive. because, you'll not know when and how they will strike.
it'll take only one arshole on the back of a bike, to sneak in on you and feed your skull with copper diet, and most atimes, those hitmen are outside cultist, who don't need to surreptitiously carry out their mission.

So, all you said about evading is inutile in the face of a determined assailant. naivity and ignorance is not an excuse when it comes to life.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by ladiesreject(m): 5:51pm On Jul 10
The only girl I will risk my life for to be with is a girl I plan to marry in no distant time and I must be extremely sure she loves me and is not seeing another guy.

Oga, free that girl for the following reasons

1. You're not even sure about her love yet, it's just the normal lovey dovey phase.
2. How are you sure she won't fall for them sooner or later?
3. You can't protect her and yourself in that environment.
4. Do you see a future with her after school to take it to the next level? Or it's just this school love that is all about fvcking, unwanted pregnancies and abortions? This is the only reason that should make you want to continue.
5. You're in sch, you'll always see another girl, just free her abeg.
6. Please, never try to step on those rogues toes, especially because of a pussy. They can kill for it.
7. Last last, suit yourself

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Budex40(m): 6:16pm On Jul 10
Seems ur Village people are using your picture to fan Corn......

Its better u end d relationship ASAP and join one SU fellowship on campus too. Blend for the fellowship wella, that way dem no go come for u . Infact anything gf, stay away from it while on Campus

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Fatasy(m): 6:50pm On Jul 10
Yes be a hero,stand up and show them you are africa realest SHINA RAMBO ,dnt take POO bro.

Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take poo from nobody.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by SmellingAnus(m): 6:50pm On Jul 10
Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.
don't be a fool and die because of a woman that's will still go and bang those cult guys the same night you will be killed... Your safety is more important... Think about your family that will be in tears if anything happens to you... Politely tell her that you love her but you are not safe so it's better the relationship ends peacefully... If you don't, you may end up being a cultist just to protect the relationship...


Go through this thread below...

https://www.nairaland.com/5207293/story-cult-phase-included

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by efemena24(m): 7:34pm On Jul 10
Hey man, you don't have to be scared of anything! I met my current girlfriend when I was in 200l. Then her ex boyfriend was/is a cult member(she wasn't happy dating a cultist) I asked her out and she accepted. We've been together for 2 years and a few months. The ex or any other cultist did not threaten me
No cult member will come harm you because you're dating someone they like or have crush on...I might be wrong though. Be safe✌�✌�
P.S: I'm a Jew man��

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by CyberWolf: 7:38pm On Jul 10
Go knack your own bam, 2 can play the game.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by frankanyiks(m): 7:40pm On Jul 10
If you can't be them,
You join them.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by uthlaw(m): 7:46pm On Jul 10
stay and die for her because you love her,at ur age u still talking about you love her...stay put make you die for nothing!

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by ralmix(m): 8:29pm On Jul 10
Ziel20:
Be a hero bro. Stand up and show them that u don't take poo from nobody.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by WoeBetide666: 10:02pm On Jul 10
Cult boys are insecure, poor and toothless bulldogs.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Xbursta(m): 10:03pm On Jul 10
Bro same tin happened to me
to the extent when i went for holiday i started receiving several calls from cultist asking me to join there crew i just formed network problem no Yes no No
mhen when i came back to skul mhen i resumed church boy full time even if i see the girl for road i dey change lane but i swear till 2day i still dey miss her..
Her name was Rose from kd that girl joy pass even Rihanna own.
i loved her like my life but left her like like my last
Las Las Leave Her

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by judgementyard(m): 10:35pm On Jul 10
Dis one still dey ask question! Na body go tell you later! grin
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Opus85(m): 10:40pm On Jul 10
The truth is that this guy will not heed to all this advises we are giving him here. My guy, better leave that girl with style umlees you want to become a cultist too because very soon those guys will want to oppress you or molest you to show the girl they arr superior to her so called boyfriend.

Na book dem send you go read for school, no go risk your life because of woman. So far na university, you go see babe wey even fine pass the girl date for school.

Most of this cult guys act before reasoning. Their orientation is destroy before reasoning. I have lived and done things with them for 6 good years in school and know what i am telling you here.

For the sake of your parents... LEAVE THAT GIRL

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by vingeophysicist(m): 10:42pm On Jul 10
Young man, you don't value your future. That lady in question is likely a cultist or a potential one. She is attracting her own kind and putting your life in danger. Please op pity your parents and end that relationship.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by J111333(m): 10:43pm On Jul 10
If there hasn't been a threat on you, hang on to your girl.
Wait until they act before you react but something tells me your girl likes the attention she is getting from the cultists and that's a problem.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Olorunnim: 10:50pm On Jul 10
Dude I don't know you ooo but I love you, So RUN for your life.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by luvyaself95: 11:01pm On Jul 10
When you don't value your life you start misbehaving...

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by technicallyrich(m): 11:30pm On Jul 10
From my experince,the worst misxtake people make are normaly betwen the ages of 20 to 30.
Believe me if you are serious with your studies and graduate with a good grade,luck might just smile on you.but if you mumu you might not even graduate at all or with a third class.
THE GIRL,i dont discuss about the zoo girls as they are useless.and their fellings are fickle.with time you will understand.
THE CULTIST-you can use soldiers or sars and pick them up if they threaten you,while they sigh undertaking for your life.
Or you can join vikings confraternity.they are the only group aiyes fear from my experince in school.
They are more brutal and dont fear them.
Depending on the school shall as every campus has a mothers deck that rule.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by smeag0l(m): 12:00am On Jul 11
Bros, e be like say all the OT wey dem don dey give you here since no gum you. The only reason you are in that place is to read your books and mind your business. You really need to read saynotocultism's and moneysoldier007's stories here on NL and then you'll know you need to stay a 100 miles away from a girl who attracts only cultists(This may even be as a result of something she does by way of appearance or dressing). Bros, I'm assuring you of one thing, If you no back out and dem snie you, she go come your candle night carry one of those kushmen follow body. A word is enough for the wise!
Timil:
Hmmm.... this is actually what my girl wants though she hasn't said it but from her reaction to the whole situation this is what she wants but when I think of my life and think of the fact that if I end up dead in the process she will surely get another man. I reconsider going down this lane.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by crackhouse(m): 4:01am On Jul 11
Your village people are cooking your meal seriously.... it will be done soon..

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by shege45: 4:06am On Jul 11
Timil:
A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.
continue ur relationship but dont be seen too much in public with her. Its not like they have given u any threat
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by shege45: 4:08am On Jul 11
marvelous000:
I'm really fighting hard not to insult you, but ask yourself this question; if peradventure, those cultist use you as statistics (kill you). what will become of the girl you're staking your life for? I bet, 6yrs from now, she must have forgotten your name. probably, married to your killer who is a changed man and a born again.
conversely, if you survive. what will be the benefit of it all. pússy? you mean; you want to use your life as quid pro quo for pussy?


My sympathies are with your parent, since you want to waste.
lol una funny ooo. A cultist would not kill him on dat basis. They would just warn him , then he shld back off. But for now no warning. So why run?

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by shege45: 4:10am On Jul 11
fireback:
That girl already belong. She just want to test you to know your view on cultis, she already attending their anniversary. It better you quit that relationship now that it's still young before she begin to commit herself to you so much and it becomes too late to quit. If you don't quit, one day, one of those cult group will mistake you for their rivals, and you are not covered because you were not watching your back. Pls leave the girls and face your studies except if You know you are there to study WOMANTHOLOGY.
this person reason well

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by shege45: 4:13am On Jul 11
J111333:
If there hasn't been a threat on you, hang on to your girl.
Wait until they act before you react but something tells me your girl likes the attention she is getting from the cultists and that's a problem.
simple truth. No warning yet. Until u are warned, don’t mind . Just avoid seeing her publicly
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by ojuu4u(m): 4:16am On Jul 11
technicallyrich:
From my experince,the worst misxtake people make are normaly betwen the ages of 20 to 30.
Believe me if you are serious with your studies and graduate with a good grade,luck might just smile on you.but if you mumu you might not even graduate at all or with a third class.
THE GIRL,i dont discuss about the zoo girls as they are useless.and their fellings are fickle.with time you will understand.
THE CULTIST-you can use soldiers or sars and pick them up if they threaten you,while they sigh undertaking for your life.
Or you can join vikings confraternity.they are the only group aiyes fear from my experince in school.
They are more brutal and dont fear them.
Depending on the school shall as every campus has a mothers deck that rule.



Mistakes we human beings make is between 15 early puberty and 27 about to enter adulthood to fend for oneself and others then one will know kaki no be wood

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