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My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 10:26am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it. The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie. Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution. Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive? 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by madridguy(m): 10:29am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Tell her to take you to the next level for the ozza room or you stop with the ongoing wedding arrangement. #teamzipup till wedding night 75 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by thesicilian: 10:30am On Jul 19, 2019 |
omochelsea004:If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage. 588 Likes 40 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Nackzy: 10:31am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Chaaiii if you really love her as you say, you will make do with her least libido..what we do 4 love as far as you use to put your dick deh once in a blue moon that's enough 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Datingcomrade(f): 10:33am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well. Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once. 141 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by daddytime(m): 10:33am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Hmmm I often wonder how the "she" would take it if the tables were turned. Your fiancee could very well be a closet Lesbo or Bi. Dem many for Naija..na culture and over religiousness dey make dem die in silence deceiving themselves and their spouses 44 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Nobody: 10:33am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Wow it took 8 years to finally reach this obviously she won't be, if 8 years you guys can go on, it will be assumed that you are already cool with it. Mehn best of luck I don't ever wish to be in your shoes 59 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Nobody: 10:34am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Datingcomrade: Some people are asexual. Not everyone likes or craves sex 119 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 10:35am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Nackzy:bro, sex is very very important in marriage and again i will only be deceiving myself if i say i can cope with it, the truth is; i can't 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 10:43am On Jul 19, 2019 |
pcguru1:She is definitely one of those people you are talking about, she has Zero desire for sex 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by thesicilian: 10:46am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Datingcomrade:So after 8yrs he should keep looking for her weak point to activate? Even the buttons to nuclear weapons don't take that long to locate. 282 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tyup(m): 10:52am On Jul 19, 2019 |
thesicilian: 168 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tyup(m): 10:56am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Datingcomrade: the Prof in the house has spoken I hail o 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 10:56am On Jul 19, 2019 |
thesicilian:exactly my fear bro, if she is like this with no burden or pressure whatsoever, how will it be when she start taking care of kids, & other burdens that come with marriage, at that time will i even be relevant at all? 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tyup(m): 10:57am On Jul 19, 2019 |
thesicilian: Lol 11 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tyup(m): 10:59am On Jul 19, 2019 |
omochelsea004: more reasons why Nigerian girls are not my taste leave her if you can or get you a side chick pick either ways 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Munzy14(m): 10:59am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Op, I don't knw y u people always explore loop holes when it's time to seal the deal. If u dated her for 8yrs, you should know u aren't sexually compatible na. U would av ended and walk away.. But u kept on till last minute, u now reminisce reality. U said u have done everything possible, wat and wat could that be?. I hope u are good looking and maintain good hygiene in and out. Do u guys really have a real heart to heart talk? Are two of you comfortable with each other even when naked?. explore her Oga. She will open up ones u make her comfortable. If u are doing religious in a relationship, it will mess up everything. I swear if she is very comfortable with u, to extent she can be stack naked with u all day at home... Their is no way the drive will be lacking. if she is not sexually compatible with you, find a way to resolve this. Other wise you will cheat on her. And it will be a wreck. Nothing like she is cool with it. Sex is primary thing that binds us with women. U need it. 81 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 11:46am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Munzy14:initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Munzy14(m): 11:54am On Jul 19, 2019 |
omochelsea004:Check if she had a past, to me it appears she has a past that comes in the moment u want to... She really need to open up, if she is not using that to fast forward the marriage. let her understand marriage is life issue. U need sanity to be the best man for her in it. Her problem might be a case of mindset. 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by eaddyboy: 11:54am On Jul 19, 2019 |
thesicilian: 15 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Stargurl20(f): 11:57am On Jul 19, 2019 |
Everyone has BUT! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by ichidodo: 12:04pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Guy don't marry her...Sex or the inevitability that f**king will happen soon enough is next to oxygen in a marriage...If she is this cold before marriage imagine her libido after marriage. 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Ryan03(f): 12:05pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
tyup:Nigerian girls are not your type so you advise him to get a side chick, will the side chick be from another country? 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tyup(m): 12:15pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Ryan03: of course that's why we've instagram and I got a better pretty Hispanic chick on instagram to 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Michelle55: 12:23pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
No one is ever complete/perfect.. Op, that's her own imperfection, either you deal with it and accept her like that or let her go to avoid strain and infidelity during the course of your marriage. 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 12:38pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Michelle55:are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Michelle55: 12:41pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
omochelsea004:is she circumcised? I don't think there's any medication except you want to give her aphrodisiac? But the question would be for how long will you continue to boost her sexual drive if atall there's a medication for it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 12:48pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Munzy14:nothing bad about her past, she told me everything before we even started at all, she had a secondary schl lover then which was her first love, we met in higher institution & am her second nothing more & i believed because she is a kind of girl that doesn't like anything secret |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 12:58pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
Michelle55:yes she was circumcised... the person that did it no even try at all, & i knw that's the problem with her, but if there are medications that can help improve her sexual drive, i am ready to take it as one of my responsibilities, as a matter of fact i heard about one "Spanish fly" but i don't know much about it & i don't want anything with side effects |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by omochelsea004(m): 1:01pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
pcguru1:No i am not cool with it at all... |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Michelle55: 1:07pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
omochelsea004:find out more about it before administering it to her (but make sure it's with her consent) another problem we're faced with and can't do anything about it. If you can make do with her low sexual drive then it's fine. Just don't marry her outta pity. Be gentle with her while making out(make sure she's really in the mood else nothing would work) 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
bro,think am well o. marriage na life contract 9 Likes 1 Share |
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