tonyhoney:
Bros, I know you won't like my advice. But I will still say it. Leave her alone and find someone you are sexually compatible with. or else you will leave the rest of your life complaining, side-chiking, lying, and possibly eventually divorce. A marriage without reasonable sex brings agony , conflicts, hatred, and misplaced aggression. The best time both of you can discuss how to progress, the matters in the family and the success of your children is when you sleep together in one love, in one emotion, in one heart. And these come only when you have lovely sex together. Let those who have ears take to what the spirit is telling the church. Speaking from serious experience[b][/b]. Thanks

omochelsea004:
bro, sex is very very important in marriage and again i will only be deceiving myself if i say i can cope with it, the truth is; i can't

Slyjay1:


God bless you. This is exactly what I’m passing through RN. I’m confused because I really do not want to cheat on her. We are married for 2 yrs now. Dated for 7 yrs but I wasn’t bothered because she always said I’m reducing her bride price and she’d change once we married. Now, I’m stuck. I need matured advice pls.

frozen70:


Talk to her about it, she will tell you what the exact problem Is

Once a woman is with a man she loves, her body response are super

But being with a man and no body response, is not a good one

It could be psychological

It could be a bitter experience

If she is not a virgin, then why the lost of interest ❓

Have you tried turning her on by touching her body in different ways and areas ❓

Her breast needs to be fundled as romance goes on and she will be the one to ask you in

Without getting sex enjoyment In marriage, be ready to get it outside, but for how long ❓

Anyway, if you are ok with everything about her and you can manage her low sex drive, then deal with it

Sex is one of the things that calms a man down

Besides, women naturally have their own internal automatic stimulant, that's why you hardly see women sex enhancing drugs any how if not of recent

Let her open up to you just be calm and give her audience

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Michelle55:
No one is ever complete/perfect.. Op, that's her own imperfection, either you deal with it and accept her like that or let her go to avoid strain and infidelity during the course of your marriage.

pocohantas:
After 8 years,

Local man suddenly remembers the BUT he can't live with.

The BUT he has lived with for 8yrs.


Do you know how many awards Ronaldo has won in the past 8yrs?

I would never understand why women date a man for years. Never!

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Nackzy:
Chaaiii if you really love her as you say, you will make do with her least libido..what we do 4 love as far as you use to put your dick deh once in a blue moon that's enough

Ashiiboo:
A good herbal remedy you could try is Fenugreek, it helps boost her libido and increases her sexual drive and you are correct about the Spanish fly stay far away from it. Fenugreek not only does that but it's good for the body overall and it helps improve the sex drive in males. I think you can give it to her in shakes, cereals and porridges. You seem to love this woman so try it and tell us that works out.

Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.