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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Unrated900(m): 11:51pm On Jul 19, 2019
Jchi9876:


but you fuckkkk another woman outside and you no want another man to Bleep your own woman

which kain person you be grin grin



Omo this your mentality shallow ooooo belive me

So if a woman assist you and you tells your wife it means you have bleeped the woman..

Have you ever met a woman who gives you a ride on your way to work and during that period you kept on smiling to her and she keeps looking at you like a mugu.

On getting down you ask for her number and she says guy Goodluck just a ride.

That’s the answer to your
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by MrFly(m): 11:52pm On Jul 19, 2019
Codeine, tramadol and ikong ekpo
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Youngzedd(m): 11:52pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o

Send me a PM. I have something for you.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Jchi9876: 11:53pm On Jul 19, 2019
Unrated900:




Omo this your mentality shallow ooooo belive me

So if a woman assist you and you tells your wife it means you have bleeped the woman..

Have you ever met a woman who gives you a ride on your way to work and during that period you kept on smiling to her and she keeps looking at you like a mugu.

On getting down you ask for her number and she says guy Goodluck just a ride.

That’s the answer to your


Don't change the narrative. You fuckkk that woman per your initial comment no dey lie like small pikin

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Jchi9876: 11:55pm On Jul 19, 2019
Unrated900:




Omo this your mentality shallow ooooo belive me

So if a woman assist you and you tells your wife it means you have bleeped the woman..

Have you ever met a woman who gives you a ride on your way to work and during that period you kept on smiling to her and she keeps looking at you like a mugu.

On getting down you ask for her number and she says guy Goodluck just a ride.

That’s the answer to your


married man whey dey proud say him get side chick hahahahahaha

you funny ooo

your wife go use me as side man friend I go dey fuckkk wetin you fuckkk remain

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by hassan4: 11:59pm On Jul 19, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

She's a lesbian or not into you. Do not take the relationship further.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by lilyheaven: 12:00am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it

Something must have happened when she was younger, it could be sexual assault, some ladies who were sexually abused at early life tends to behave in this manner unknowingly.
During a pre-intimacy, they will be enjoying it, they will carry you along, sometimes they will even be the ones that will initiate the process, but as soon as the penis touches the vulva, they will be a replay of hurtful pain in the brain, causing her to change her mood immediately.
Is she easily scared of something?
You can go ahead and marry her, but you will always be the one to ask for sex, maybe she may crave for sex when she is pregnant.
I wish you luck
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by seunak2016: 12:04am On Jul 20, 2019
try SPANISH FLY drug ,it helps. Google it and see for yourself
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Onyi22(f): 12:07am On Jul 20, 2019
Let her make use of Kayamata, it's works like magic.....
I was once in her shoe, I lost two relationship because of this same issue, but thank God for a friend who recommended kayamata for me, I must tell u, my guy is d one avoiding me for sex
U can DM me for more details

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by AmeLonRo(m): 12:08am On Jul 20, 2019
Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.
. Go on. Explain in detail biko.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by joytothewise(m): 12:11am On Jul 20, 2019
Do your findings from her friends about her past... consult her besties, go c her mom, you mayb too perfect for her.. change ur style.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by GreatManBee: 12:15am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004 guy you're not meant to be having sex. Come on! Keep yourself until after marriage. Sex is for married couples ONLY.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by zubam(m): 12:25am On Jul 20, 2019
Don't give up, do more to charge her up. Never give up, my bros.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tobby20: 12:43am On Jul 20, 2019
Spiritual wife loading

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Famax(f): 12:50am On Jul 20, 2019
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omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Onyi22(f): 12:59am On Jul 20, 2019
Niyiboi:
Buy her some Spanish fly and see her flying on the bed lol
Pls where can I get it?
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by idonhammer: 1:01am On Jul 20, 2019
Gerrard59:


Is that not adultery? Which bible do you folks read these days sef? And why do you believe the man should cheat but the wife shouldn't? What about him contracting diseases and infect the wife, some of which have no cure?

Besides, having a side chick let alone two is very expensive. I see most men having side chicks these days when they don't have at least $10K as liquid investment; coupled with children's school fees, rent, health care, entertainment, clothing etc. Side chick is not for the financially fainthearted.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by grandstar(m): 1:08am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

She might be circumcised so may have a weak libido. Many don't even enjoy sex and see it as a nuisance.

If you don't think you are sexually compatible because of it, may make sense to leave her. Once you're married, you may feel really frustrated and may be tempted to look outside. From there, trouble may beginning to build

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by grandstar(m): 1:12am On Jul 20, 2019
thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

My thoughts exactly. I have a Chriatian brother who has been married for several years. His wife has no interest in sex and finds it amusing when she hears our member has been disfellowshipped because of it (I'm a Jehovah's Witness). He said he can count the number of times he's had sex with her just by counting the children. He told me this as far back as 2012 and by then, he had been married for at least 10 years.

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Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by awa(m): 1:18am On Jul 20, 2019
Bros,
This is a very a big problem ohhhh....I will advise you to really make her know that you are not comfortable with her in terms of that
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by joycejohn2223: 1:21am On Jul 20, 2019
Here’s my advice if you’re seeing this. X-videos I mean blue films would help her. I’m in the same shoes as your fiancée. I have a very low sex urge. Whenever my husband and I need to make out and I’m not in the mood, we would just turn on a porn video and that is it. Good luck to you two.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Enemyofpeace: 1:36am On Jul 20, 2019
You better leave her now while you can. You guys are not sexually comptable
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Enemyofpeace: 1:37am On Jul 20, 2019
joycejohn2223:
Here’s my advice if you’re seeing this. X-videos I mean blue films would help her. I’m in the same shoes as your fiancée. I have a very low sex urge. Whenever my husband and I need to make out and I’m not in the mood, we would just turn on a porn video and that is it. Good luck to you two.
yinmu
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Judybash93(m): 1:52am On Jul 20, 2019
Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.

Word
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by royalair(m): 2:19am On Jul 20, 2019
Just buy her Spanish gold fly it catalyzes libido don't come tomorrow complaining to us of a broken waist
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by senchibi: 2:39am On Jul 20, 2019
She might be a lessbain . Yes yes I said it . They still get married , but don't find sex with a guy a do or die .then see if she attended an all girls sec school. If yes. .. Then you're married to a lesb .
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by tiger28: 3:33am On Jul 20, 2019
daddytime:
Hmmm

I often wonder how the "she" would take it if the tables were turned.

Your fiancee could very well be a closet Lesbo or Bi.

Dem many for Naija..na culture and over religiousness dey make dem die in silence deceiving themselves and their spouses
BEST COMMENT ever..... There is wisdom in this statement. Most of these UNDERCOVER lesbos just dey use these guys to COVER their shameful lifestyle
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by cooltola(m): 3:36am On Jul 20, 2019
No sex before marriage. Maybe your woman is one of those female who want to have sex after the wedding date or wedding nite. instead of you fretting and seeking advice from strangers on nairaland . Just communicate and tell her how you feel.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by patomberekpe(m): 3:52am On Jul 20, 2019
Nackzy:
Chaaiii if you really love her as you say, you will make do with her least libido..what we do 4 love as far as you use to put your dick deh once in a blue moon that's enough
Sometimes some of You give advice on What You can't do,You expect others to do them.
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by Tonway(m): 3:54am On Jul 20, 2019
omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?


Na Anambra girl she go don circumcised (Female genital circumcision no dey gree them charge
Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Like Sex, I'm Facing Huge Problem With Her by bluefilm: 4:20am On Jul 20, 2019
Your faincee is a lesbian.

Sorry.

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