loswhite:
If you meet the one that likes sex now you will come and tell us she is sex addict and probably suspecting her of cheating...lol. Marriage is not about sex ok. There is no perfection anywhere, just imagine your wife to be was planning to end marriage simply because you cannot satisfy her in bed, how would you feel? When you love someone you love them with their flaws and imperfection and you have to sacrifice some of the things you like because of love... So stick to her and continue to do alot of romance

Michelle55:
is she circumcised? I don't think there's any medication except you want to give her aphrodisiac? But the question would be for how long will you continue to boost her sexual drive if atall there's a medication for it.

Budex40:


NA LIE...!!!!!!! THERES NOTHING LIKE ASEXUAL. IF U FIND IT HARD TO GET TURNED ON, U HAVE A HEALTH / MENTAL PROBLEM. TAKE IT FROM A DOCTOR WITH 10YRS EXPERIENCE

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Gaspardd:

You re the problem here man. And re u stupid? You shld take herb to reduce ur sex drive and not she to increase hers.

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.

omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it

1x2x3:


Be giving her Spanish fly till she develops wings and fly away.

Bro there are 2 things you can do here..... 3 things actually.

1. Marry her and manage it like that
2. Marry her and have an alternative for sexual desires.
3. Don't marry her.

Harjibode:


1.2.3

Just like your moniker

omochelsea004:
exactly my fear bro, if she is like this with no burden or pressure whatsoever, how will it be when she start taking care of kids, & other burdens that come with marriage, at that time will i even be relevant at all?

omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?...... omo... that one go tough o

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

omochelsea004:
bro, sex is very very important in marriage and again i will only be deceiving myself if i say i can cope with it, the truth is; i can't

thesicilian:

So after 8yrs he should keep looking for her weak point to activate? Even the buttons to nuclear weapons don't take that long to locate.

Ikville:


Agreed, but u can't deny d fact dat physical closeness or union is an essential part of marriage. Tho it may not be built on sex, it's been known to hav kept marriages alive. Evrybody knows d benefits of sex in marriages & lack of it can bring a whole lot of pressures & frustrations on d marriage. If dez luv & un'standing, dere will definitely be a compromise (Daz wot dey need, not 'sacrifice')

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Ladygenny:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glb4oqghN5w

pcguru1:


I'm not a doctor I just went with what I read in a medical journal.

Budex40:

Is it a journal of gynaecology ?? What year was it published ??

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

daddytime:
Hmmm

I often wonder how the "she" would take it if the tables were turned.

Your fiancee could very well be a closet Lesbo or Bi.

Dem many for Naija..na culture and over religiousness dey make dem die in silence deceiving themselves and their spouses

desiregold:
As humans, our libidos differs.

The poster's libido may be higher than that of his fiancee, hence the lack of interest in sex on her part.

Hope you know being a Bi has nothing on having interest in sex. The only thing is that they swing both ways perfectly.