Omg!see business

maxiuc:


What do you expect from people that share boundary with Mbaise people

Dem nearly finished my brother, the first day my brother went to his in-laws house he went there with his Sienna car next he went again with his Lexus car then finally he exposed himself he went again with his Venza case closed Naso his in-laws and kinsmen go amend list ooooo because they have seen the boy is loaded my papa no gree see arguments my dads list was different from the one they brought out why we ask why wasn't the list corresponding with the one they gave us earlier why this new one that was how they started saying that the gave the outdated list that we should work with the present one they just brought no be small quarrel my brother was saying that my dad should forget about the stuff that it is nothing no be money e go cost Naso my dad give am better slap and sent him out after several arguments we finally used the old list they gave us initially it got to the extent that we were prepared to go that they should take their daughter and eat we are no longer interested in the marriage na so their daughter run come outside threatening her parents that if anything should happen to her marriage today that they will definitely see her dark side like play like play the girl pack her bags ooooo her senior brothers supported her serious quarrel between the children and parents, Hehehehehe we the in-laws that came to marry was laughing loud because they are exposing themselves how the uttered the list, las las after the quarrel everything went successful

The kinsmen are responsible for all this list adjustments

Some Mbaise people sha

If you want to marry please come to mbaitolu is cheaper there

Next time if you are going for this marriage stuff Carry people who are rooted in traditional affairs

Akwa Ibom bride price is nt like dis...ayam confused

That is were my girlfrd come frm 2

Humility017:


so all this while they trained her...they did so in view that they will be paid through her dowry and marriage list.

in my place even should a woman have a PhD x 3...her bride price is put at #2500 and the items not more than 20k to be purchased.

some families even ask for less....

it does not make sense asking for such a huge sum as dowry and items

Please sir, where are from? so that i can come and marry as many women as i want to marry.

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

Would you join him to pay the money incase he doesn't have more one quarter of the money to finance the bill?

If you really love him also you should also assist him to pay this humongous bill.

Anyway, wetin consign me sef

BULLIONVAN4:
the amala or amara there stands for grace and not that amala you're thinking.

its actually ihe ama ala..items that are needed to appease the land, omenala(tradition)

Mhjgembu:
Thank God I m from taraba

Is marriage cheap in Taraba ? If yes,

Make I begin to search Taraba girl on social media

This is one of the challenges thier women are going through and their people are complacent with it

Their tradition in marriage of their daughters has made so many of them to marry outside the state because their men can't afford the requirement

Even their men marries outside their state for same reasons

Watch it, most ibo people married to the yorubas are mainly form Imo state, because the yorubas doesn't know the difference

Is not as if their daughter's makes good wife, they are good at having their husbands alone to themselves

They have this domineering treath of not wanting anybody from the husband families close to their husbands except her.

And the worst is, if you don't finish that marriage rites, if anything happens to her and she dies, you must complete it before the family will permit you to go ahead with the burial

Most single ladies you see all over check it, they are from there and its affecting them because no one is fighting against it

It's a community or family thing, if you refuse your own intending inlaws to have such list, then you won't attend others and probably you will be ostracised

Flashyoil1:
See more of it here https://thickmatch.com/see-viral-marriage_list-got-people-talking-media/

is all this things negotiable ? If not man pikin go run oo.

Stage 1,2,3,4 see list... Na Illuminati i want join

thesicilian:
They are not ready to give out their daughter in marriage

You are absolutely right.

They are wicked, they think they are plugging money from tree.

If on one condition!!

After paying this!!! If ever her family put face for my matter either physically or spiritually, they must die

Haha haha

No wonder NWANCHI dey say make I help am get Yoruba girl for serious relationship..

Michelle55:
That's not an issue na... I'll simply carry belle for hubby, Infact na dem go dey beg hubby to bring the one wey im get sef.. My people can't try this shiits with me else na dem go suffer am.. So if dude give them all his life savings, Wetin im go use take care of me biko? To make matters worse, I no dey hear word(if dem do anyhow, I show dem anyhow )at the end of the day, shame na dem get am.wetin consign Agbero with overload

People like you scare for Nigeria.
If you be my wife na new car every two years.

Greediness+poverty

No list is better than the Yoruba list

Yoruba has the best list

Just 45 tubers of yam

Then bride price is 5k

Take your wife away


Compare to the igbos

They will want to open breweries on ur head

Thank God I married an Igbo woman


And am happy they open breweries on my head because their Pikin head good for me

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

What if the groom can't afford all the things on the list?

BULLIONVAN4:
Please sir, where are from? so that i can come and marry as many women as i want to marry.

I am from Edo...even Delta state practice similar marital rites

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

Arrant nonsense

Tajbol4splend:
This is the list you get when you are getting married to a lady from a home of limited means.

families don't bring list in igboland, it's the community that owns a child and it's the community that brings a list

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

because the money is not from your pocket

nzeobi:

families don't bring list in igboland, it's the community that owns a child and it's the community that brings a list

poverty stinking community

I don't know why some people are regorganise the fact that it I marriage union and not marital exploitation

jafol:

At first I thought it was my eyes lol so igbos Dey eat Amala secretly and they will come nairaland disturbing Yorubas

pronouncing it is different and it means "culture" not food...seek wisdom

NORSYK:


You never loved the girl nor intended to marry her, stop using the marriage list as an excuse of not marrying her.
Those things on the list are not a must neither are they compulsory
For instance where they requested for 100 tubers of yam and you provided 10 tubers out of 100, 10 cartons of beer you give 4 cartons nobody reject your items

When is ur turn pay....... What i did in that gurl life, i dont think u can do it, from schooling to set up the business, i cant kill ma sef, i do what i can do. Love is more than mere emotions, nowadays u have to use ur head, i so so happy, the woman i marry now, all ur list were just 365k, i bought even give change sef, close to 2 mil no be joke. I knw my worth, kilode, cos i be outsider.

I learnt my lesson the hard way, i never made findings in what i wanted to venture in..... Best advice, stay your lane.

BULLIONVAN4:
the amala or amara there stands for grace and not that amala you're thinking.

...and what do you think our "amala" does to the spirit

nzeobi:

families don't bring list in igboland, it's the community that owns a child and it's the community that brings a list

Whoa! Never knew this

NNEWIsuper:

pronouncing it is different and it means "culture" not food...seek wisdom

I know one Biafra fool will answer as if I don’t know it means something, so what’s ewedu in Igbo? Lol

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

Shatapp. Hypocrisy of the highest order. How can I expect you to see anything wrong in it, just because it suits you. Dont call a spade a spade.
Only Pray you don marry oh, or else you go know sey this money reach to build new airport.

Gbege! I have entered one chance o, anyway I'm in already and there's no going back. All I'm asking is for God to shower some blessings, that list can be settled.