hammerVJ:



So ogini mere?

niaralandtopuser:

Bleep kill you there. did she not also bleeped me?

Angelfrost:


Wrong... The ladies deliberately get pregnant in order to half their "market value", and if possible allowed to go on a free transfer (football fans will understand)...

It's either that, or they turn to perpetual Shiloh participants.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Where I'm from in Anambra, d list ain't that outrageous though.

TroubleMaker47:

Has any of ur brothers or uncles married an imo state girl?

hammerVJ:


Ok! This one is social media list and propaganda against Igbo culture by Afonja.

RTSC:

Imagine a girl as beautiful as genevieve with a PhD in mechanical Engineering.

C'mon, you need to compensate her parent well.

Angelfrost:


Keep lying to yourself, and those uninformed... I have attended, and seen such lists...

I even have a friend trying to source close to 1.5 million just to cover traditional marriage requirements. This was after negotiations.

hammerVJ:


Ok! This one is social media list and propaganda against Igbo culture by Afonja.

Humility017:


so all this while they trained her...they did so in view that they will be paid through her dowry and marriage list.

in my place even should a woman have a PhD x 3...her bride price is put at #2500 and the items not more than 20k to be purchased.

some families even ask for less....

it does not make sense asking for such a huge sum as dowry and items

AwkaetitiBabe:
I don't think so dear.

hammerVJ:



Are u the Afonja carrying this propaganda to blackmail the good people called Ndiigbo?

Angelfrost:


Guy, get offended all you want... Resorting to cheap tribal tantrums will not mask the rot and greed in some Igbo practices with regards to marriage...

Any way, good thing some of your people are getting smarter, and curbing their appetites.

maxiuc:


What do you expect from people that share boundary with Mbaise people

Dem nearly finished my brother, the first day my brother went to his in-laws house he went there with his Sienna car next he went again with his Lexus car then finally he exposed himself he went again with his Venza case closed Naso his in-laws and kinsmen go amend list ooooo because they have seen the boy is loaded my papa no gree see arguments my dads list was different from the one they brought out why we ask why wasn't the list corresponding with the one they gave us earlier why this new one that was how they started saying that the gave the outdated list that we should work with the present one they just brought no be small quarrel my brother was saying that my dad should forget about the stuff that it is nothing no be money e go cost Naso my dad give am better slap and sent him out after several arguments we finally used the old list they gave us initially it got to the extent that we were prepared to go that they should take their daughter and eat we are no longer interested in the marriage na so their daughter run come outside threatening her parents that if anything should happen to her marriage today that they will definitely see her dark side like play like play the girl pack her bags ooooo her senior brothers supported her serious quarrel between the children and parents, Hehehehehe we the in-laws that came to marry was laughing loud because they are exposing themselves how the uttered the list, las las after the quarrel everything went successful

The kinsmen are responsible for all this list adjustments

Some Mbaise people sha

If you want to marry please come to mbaitolu is cheaper there

Next time if you are going for this marriage stuff Carry people who are rooted in traditional affairs
U papa gave ur bro a better slap abi?you no evn sabi lie with small sense.

hammerVJ:



How many Igbo traditional marriages have u contracted Mr Social Media Igbo specialist?


Did our parents not marry under the same tradition?

Angelfrost:


That first question goes both ways, sir... How many did you witness that formed the basis of your consistent emotional rebuttals?...

Your second question was clearly poorly thought out... Did our parents bear such financial burdens? If they did, were the cost and standard of living in their time identical with what pertains today?... Isn't culture a dynamic thing that should be subject to generational review?...

Michelle55:
Ehen. You don't mean it! Are you willing to love and look beyond hunger if your hubby spends all he has during your marriage?

hammerVJ:



U are a very lazy man, get ur finance in order.



We dont want beggars on our street in Igbo land, particularly not children.

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

chiommy123:
If you really love your bride you look beyond the list

NORSYK:
I havent seen where a marriage was called off because of marriage list.
Besides the things on the list are not compulsory, for instance the wrote 100 tubers of yam, if you decides to buy 10 out of the 100 nobody will reject it