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Your matter much o.

Just try and engage yourself in social activities.. Go out and watch football matches, sometimes go to public bars and take some bottles of beer with fish pepper soup, compliment beautiful girls around you, let them know they're beautiful. Some weekends, keep late night for just no reason, don't just lock yourself inside room every time.

You have too many bad vibes!

Lol, i use to feel most of these things especially the alone part. I hate being around people, Dont visit me, i wont visit you, Dont call me, i wont call you either. I pretend to like people so that i wont look out of place. I laugh when they do, talk about things i'm not interested in just to seem normal. I keep to myself due to several betrayals from so called friends but i Dont hate compliments tho, i just hate you touching me or coming too close. But now, almost all that changed. First, i accepted that its my person and there is nothing wrong with me, then i began making some adjustment, i stayed true to myself, if i Dont like you i wont pretend to. I stay around family members i'm Comfortable with, i Dont feel Sorry for Telling you how i feel especially when you say something bad to me, i applied for a job i love, got employed, started working and focused on making money. In the process, i met a girl who is so real and love me for me. Its been over a year now and i'm just so happy

With all you have written here, i don't even know how to talk to you so you don't end up doing something to yourself. But you need to visit a pastor

You are not alone.

pagimo:
With all you have written here, i don't even know how to talk to you so you don't end up doing something to yourself. But you need to visit a pastor

Pastor What for?

His problems would double the moment he seeks a Pastor. An average Nigerian pastor would tell him that his uncle from the village is behind all these and you know what that means.

Ryan03:
Lol, i use to feel most of these things especially the alone part. I hate being around people, Dont visit me, i wont visit you, Dont call me, i wont call you either. I pretend to like people so that i wont look out of place. I laugh when they do, talk about things i'm not interested in just to seem normal. I keep to myself due to several betrayals from so called friends but i Dont hate compliments tho, i just hate you touching me or coming too close. But now, almost all that changed. First, i accepted that its my person and there is nothing wrong with me, then i began making some adjustment, i stayed true to myself, if i Dont like you i wont pretend to. I stay around family members i'm Comfortable with, i Dont feel Sorry for Telling you how i feel especially when you say something bad to me, i applied for a job i love, got employed, started working and focused on making money. In the process, i met a girl who is so real and love me for me. Its been over a year now and i'm just so happy

happy for you. Even if I settle with a girl that loves me, I'd mess things up with my weird attitude n lifestyle... Its complicated.

Davash222:
Your matter much o.

Just try and engage yourself in social activities.. Go out and watch football matches, sometimes go to public bars and take some bottles of beer with fish pepper soup, compliment beautiful girls around you, let them know they're beautiful. Some weekends, keep late night for just no reason, don't just lock yourself inside room every time.

I know that will help in a way.. But I need a push

I think you should channel your creative mind to writing, preferably novels

SaucyBenks:
happy for you. Even if I settle with a girl that loves me, I'd mess things up with my weird attitude n lifestyle... Its complicated.

Thats why you need to start adjusting some things, it will take time but if you really want to, you will do it

The negative vibes attached to ya Introverted nature is too much oh.

The guy Mata too plenty so tey, i nor know wetin to tell am

pagimo:
With all you have written here, i don't even know how to talk to you so you don't end up doing something to yourself. But you need to visit a pastor

visit a pas- what? He needs a doctor for serious counselling

Just determine to change.....talk to 40girls,at least 5 will have ur time

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