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ITbomb:
If I were you, I would give her "the kind of victory that she wants" and move on (as long as it doesn't cost me anything) .
It's a small world bro.

I followed your advice bro, I went to her house with a friend with an intension to tell her no need to hold a grudge against me when we could all moved on happily but guess the funny thing? She lock herself inside the room with key that she don't want to see but she can talk with my friend. So I went outside and she began to list all my sins to my friends and she swear that she will never forgive me till she die.
Well, you advice me to " give her a kind of victory she deserve" and move on which I have done. At least I have move on happily and holds no grudge towards her. Thank you.

placeofallure:
Sorry bro, but your post gave me a lot of headache trying to figure out You can hire me as your English tutor. No malice intended.

Mr English man I no send u, I dey speak and write English as oyobo dey speak nd write mine

But where is lalasticlala sef

Just move on. You apologized she said she won't forgive you till she dies. Her problem. Forgiveness belongs to God not man.

SaucyBenks:
listen... Listen bro... Lemme tell you what everyone here is scared to tell you...

She has become obsessed with you and won't mind if she gets to Bleep you again and again, she doesn't just want to say it... I bleeped my pastor's daughter who was so mean to me.. Guess where I bleeped her the very first day we talked "in an incompleted building" and it continued till she left for school... She misses you bro, use your head, invite her over and let the rest be history

Must you tell us that it was a pastor's daughter.... you bleeped a girl is enough Bruh...smh

tommyken:
I followed your advice bro, I went to her house with a friend with an intension to tell her no need to hold a grudge against me when we could all moved on happily but guess the funny thing? She lock herself inside the room with key that she don't want to see but she can talk with my friend. So I went outside and she began to list all my sins to my friends and she swear that she will never forgive me till she die.
Well, you advice me to " give her a kind of victory she deserve" and move on which I have done. At least I have move on happily and holds no grudge towards her. Thank you.

She still loves u. She wants more sex ,give her

Relationship matter... And heart break in between.. ;DRelationship matter... And heart break in between..

It's too early. Just last month. Time is a healer. Ignore her completely.
With time she will forget the hurt and move on.

With time, she will forgive you. Begging her means she will give you a condition to take her back before she can forgive you.

She's manipulative, flee from her for your own life. Run away very fast and far away from her if you love your life and your future.

A word is enough for the wise.

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

I thought the said ijebu woman worse pass?

Charleys:
Send her Recharge card. That's all she wants.

Bro, you wicked oooooo

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

Did u just say ondo girls?
Where do u stay bro?

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

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How is her bitterness your problem?

Some of you worry about unnecessary things.

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Dump her arse.... period!

You wan turn captain save a hoe abi ?

A hoe is always a hoe

Only God Can save them bro

Japa real quick. She be Giran ninu aye

BareFacedLies:
In that case she has every reason to be bitter towards you cos she probably turned away other potential suitors cos of your promise

Did u read at all?
Or the fact that she actively fvcks other men is lost on u?
Which suitors did she turn away then?

Dunno why naija ladies be like that
Having same experience with one,
For 6yrs was asking her out she refused.
Later when she found out that I traveled out of
the country, she got me contact through a friend. Came back later we had 3months romance but my h@has been taken by another.
She later marry another and I to another
But she is not saying anything good about me and ready to kill saying I disappointed her.

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

tommyken:
I followed your advice bro, I went to her house with a friend with an intension to tell her no need to hold a grudge against me when we could all moved on happily but guess the funny thing? She lock herself inside the room with key that she don't want to see but she can talk with my friend. So I went outside and she began to list all my sins to my friends and she swear that she will never forgive me till she die.
Well, you advice me to " give her a kind of victory she deserve" and move on which I have done. At least I have move on happily and holds no grudge towards her. Thank you.

Your case is quite weird.
Someone fvcked other men concurrently and currently while still dating you and you still went to her house to beg her? I don't get you unless you are not telling us the full gist. Why would she be angry knowing she cheated on you? What are u hiding bro?
Your story is not correlating abeg

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

I understand what you're saying but I have to ask, did you by any chance disvirgin this lady, that might be what she means by "sacrifice".

You are operating from a point of scarcity. You don't have much girls in your life hence you are so attracted to her which is bad. No 1 rule in relationship, who ever has the power to let go is in control.. My advice for you let go, there are many fish in the sea I can bet you if you up your game, you would be spoilt of choice...

EditorsPalace:
It's too early. Just last month. Time is a healer. Ignore her completely.
With time she will forget the hurt and move on.

With time, she will forgive you. Begging her means she will give you a condition to take her back before she can forgive you.

She's manipulative, flee from her for your own life. Run away very fast and far away from her if you love your life and your future.

A word is enough for the wise.

His story is weird.
He is either very weak emotionally or something is seriously off with his story.
How can you catch your gf on a cheating spree and she will still have the guts to be 'bitter' with you...unless she did all that to feed,clothe or send you to school,finance your biznez, with your full knowledge and support of her cheating ways.

tommyken:
Yes I did....

Now your story has taken a different turn. Her type will scatter wedding oo, be careful how you resolve your issues with her.

..

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

Doesher name start with T?

Celestial777:
Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las

Ondo girls Abeg I can't shout for ondo girls make I jappa

Charleys:
Send her Recharge card. That's all she wants.

What's doing you?

luminouz:
Your case is quite weird.
Someone fvcked other men concurrently and currently while still dating you and you still went to her house to beg her? I don't get you unless you are not telling us the full gist. Why would she be angry knowing she cheated on you? What are u hiding bro?
Your story is not correlating abeg

Obviously.

The full gist never show yet.

And that's one thing I hate about this forum, half gist expecting solid advice.

The guy would never nurture the thought of apologizing to a gf who cheated on him; on top matter he went with an arbitrator...

A large part of the story have not been shared.

@Op why did you leave the girl, because she cheated?

And what are the many promises you made to the babe when the relationship was ongoing?

Plus, how faithful have you been to her?

This doesn't mean girlfriend matter is a priority; na money ooo, just wanting to put things in better perspective so as to best fashion my advice.

Soul47:
Obviously.

The full gist never show yet.

And that's one thing I hate about this forum, half gist expecting solid advice.

The guy would never nurture the thought of apologizing to a gf who cheated on him; on top matter he went with an arbitrator...

A large large of the story have not been shared.

@Op why did you leave the girl, because she cheated?

And what are the many promises you made to the babe when the relationship was ongoing?

Plus, how faithful have you been to her?

This doesn't mean girlfriend matter is a priority; na money ooo, just wanting to put things in better perspective so as to best fashion my advice.

U nailed it bro

luminouz:
His story is weird.
He is either very weak emotionally or something is seriously off with his story.
How can you catch your gf on a cheating spree and she will still have the guts to be 'bitter' with you...unless she did all that to feed,clothe or send you to school,finance your biznez, with your full knowledge and support of her cheating ways.

Seriously. It seems he's still in love with her. And she's still in love with him or pretending to love him.

But it's better he forgets her & move on.

EditorsPalace:
Seriously. It seems he's still in love with her. And she's still in love with him or pretending to love him.

But it's better he forgets her & move on.

Lol,nice one

shes bitter and hurt because her bank has closed , im sure you do every thing for her ,, mugu no pay again