luminouz:

Lol,nice one

tommyken:

I followed your advice bro, I went to her house with a friend with an intension to tell her no need to hold a grudge against me when we could all moved on happily but guess the funny thing? She lock herself inside the room with key that she don't want to see but she can talk with my friend. So I went outside and she began to list all my sins to my friends and she swear that she will never forgive me till she die.
Well, you advice me to " give her a kind of victory she deserve" and move on which I have done. At least I have move on happily and holds no grudge towards her. Thank you.

Deicide:
Don't they all?

If only you knew what ex's say about us behind our back esp to their new B.f.

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

SaucyBenks:
listen... Listen bro... Lemme tell you what everyone here is scared to tell you...

She has become obsessed with you and won't mind if she gets to Bleep you again and again, she doesn't just want to say it... I bleeped my pastor's daughter who was so mean to me.. Guess where I bleeped her the very first day we talked "in an incompleted building" and it continued till she left for school... She misses you bro, use your head, invite her over and let the rest be history

I hope you have something left to keep for your future wifey sha?

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Magnoliaa:


I hope you have something left to keep for your future wifey sha?

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

eezeribe:
Op, don't give her any fuccking victory... She can even die from hating on you, no problem...
Since you have moved on, forward ever... Backward never

whiteeyes:
No, don't say that!! Heaven honours the tears of a woman passionately especially when she is hurting for no just cause.
You see @poster, I'll tell you to apologize, speaking out of experience.
I had this relationship for about 5years, gave and put my all in it to succeed. The guy hurt me in the end, i vowed never to forgive him because he never considered my emotionally grieving heart. He went ahead and got married to another, till today as I type, no offspring yet after more than 10years.
Yes, I eventually forgave him and moved on but it's a scar never to be forgotten. What am I saying? Do NOT allow this issue linger, ask her to forgive while still fresh, tuck in your ego and kneel for her. You might have hurt her in several ways and she stomached it all for love, she's hurting because of her sacrifice for you. Yes, not all relationships must lead to marriage but, must not end in hate either.
Good luck!

luminouz:

Your case is quite weird.
Someone fvcked other men concurrently and currently while still dating you and you still went to her house to beg her? I don't get you unless you are not telling us the full gist. Why would she be angry knowing she cheated on you? What are u hiding bro?
Your story is not correlating abeg

luminouz:

His story is weird.
He is either very weak emotionally or something is seriously off with his story.
How can you catch your gf on a cheating spree and she will still have the guts to be 'bitter' with you...unless she did all that to feed,clothe or send you to school,finance your biznez, with your full knowledge and support of her cheating ways.