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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Iyajelili(f): 1:27pm On Jul 25
Celestial777:



Really ..tell me sontin

Na internet be this.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by CosmicJames(m): 1:50pm On Jul 25
tommyken:

I followed your advice bro, I went to her house with a friend with an intension to tell her no need to hold a grudge against me when we could all moved on happily but guess the funny thing? She lock herself inside the room with key that she don't want to see but she can talk with my friend. So I went outside and she began to list all my sins to my friends and she swear that she will never forgive me till she die.
Well, you advice me to " give her a kind of victory she deserve" and move on which I have done. At least I have move on happily and holds no grudge towards her. Thank you.

Is there something you are not telling us?
You actually sounds guilty of the matter.
Otherwise I don't understand the kind of
"Victory She Deserves " that you are talking about

I mean how the hell a girl I decided and promise to marry will cheat on me then still deserve some kind of victory to the extent you will have to go and beg her?

Like seriously, you actually appears guilty of the matter. Yes, you are guilty of this matter.

Otherwise, you just made a big mistake by going to beg her.

You would have made it very clear during the good old days that the offense of cheating is a no, no. And that she should consider it all over the day you catch her cheating.

I actually don't know what the principles of the relationship were for your ex fiance to cheat on you and still feels you owe her something.

She was supposed to be the one trying hard looking for your forgiveness for breaking your heart and for the disappointment.

But it is now the other way around

I'm not understanding

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Celestial777(m): 2:00pm On Jul 25
Iyajelili:


Na internet be this.


Okay give me ur number make I holla u
Or make we chat for whatsapp
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Celestial777(m): 2:01pm On Jul 25
CosmicJames:


Is there something you are not telling us?
You actually sounds guilty of the matter.
Otherwise I don't understand the kind of
"Victory She Deserves " that you are talking about

I mean how the hell a girl I decided and promise to marry will cheat on me then still deserve some kind of victory to the extent you will have to go and beg her?

Like seriously, you actually appears guilty of the matter. Yes, you are guilty of this matter.

Otherwise, you just made a big mistake by going to beg her.

You would have made it very clear during the good old days that the offense of cheating is a no, no. And that she should consider it all over the day you catch her cheating.

I actually don't know what the principles of the relationship were for your ex fiance to cheat on you and still feels you owe her something.

She was supposed to be the one trying hard looking for your forgiveness for breaking your heart and for the disappointment.

But it is now the other way around

I'm not understanding




You can type English aha
My own keypad they type ibo sontims
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by tommyken(m): 2:43pm On Jul 25
CosmicJames:


Is there something you are not telling us?
You actually sounds guilty of the matter.
Otherwise I don't understand the kind of
"Victory She Deserves " that you are talking about

I mean how the hell a girl I decided and promise to marry will cheat on me then still deserve some kind of victory to the extent you will have to go and beg her?

Like seriously, you actually appears guilty of the matter. Yes, you are guilty of this matter.

Otherwise, you just made a big mistake by going to beg her.

You would have made it very clear during the good old days that the offense of cheating is a no, no. And that she should consider it all over the day you catch her cheating.

I actually don't know what the principles of the relationship were for your ex fiance to cheat on you and still feels you owe her something.

She was supposed to be the one trying hard looking for your forgiveness for breaking your heart and for the disappointment.

But it is now the other way around

I'm not understanding


You won't understand, sometimes its better to lose the battle but win the war. I just wanted posterity to be in my favour in the future. A time will come she will look back and realise how foolish she was but guess the funny thing then; I will have move on and living a better life. So you see I made a long distance calculation before I went to sought peace with her.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by generationz(f): 2:43pm On Jul 25
Celestial777:


Yes


grin grin grin I might know the person you are talking about o
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by EmekusTHEgreat(m): 2:50pm On Jul 25
tommyken:

Yes I was the one that disvirgin her..

That's why I don't date virgins, if you disvirgin them, they start feeling that you owe them the world... That was a rookie move guy.

I'm not one for talks of fetish, hearsays or conspiracy theories but popular belief states that since you've broken a blood covenant and you're indebted to her in some way. If she chooses to go to a dibia Bros, na you and you alone ohh, hear Yoruba girls.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Celestial777(m): 3:00pm On Jul 25
generationz:



grin grin grin I might know the person you are talking about o
Hmm tell me sontin
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Sensiblerealist: 3:10pm On Jul 25
Like a few people have posited earlier, you weren't really clear on the type of 'cheating' nature. Moreso, there is this admission of righting your wrongs in your subsequent relationship, so that says something as per the kinds of grudges she is still holding.
Anyways, trying to reach out is a good thing and as far as you sincerely trying to clear the stables completely, posterity will judge the rest.
Goodluck with your next steps


You won't understand, sometimes its better to lose the battle but win the war. I just wanted posterity to be in my favour in the future. A time will come she will look back and realise how foolish she was but guess the funny thing then; I will have move on and living a better life. So you see I made a long distance calculation before I went to sought peace with her.[/quote]

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by folake4u(f): 4:00pm On Jul 25
Godmademan:
lol. Are you from ondo too?



Lol no. but why would you say there aren't any good women in Nigeria? You no wan marry? undecided
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by folake4u(f): 4:02pm On Jul 25
Godmademan:
lol. Are you from ondo too?

Lol no. But then again not all women are bad
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Barzinime(m): 4:15pm On Jul 25
Butiii are you living with them Obasanjo, Babangida & Buhari for you to know what is happening in their private lives?

luminouz:

Aunty, stop all this karma talk...if karma was solo active,why is there so much evil or why politicians(obasanjo,babangida,even buhari) still dey alive with their kids prospering? Karma is a fear word invented for the weak to feast on.
On the guy you quoted, how is it possible for a domineering girl not to know she is like that? Or how her actions are hurting a guy? What's with the 'calling her to beg her stuff' when she hurts you every time?

Sometimes you need to man up and end shiit,never looking back or else the guy or girl won't learn or make amends and he/she will still continue hurting other people.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by CosmicJames(m): 4:40pm On Jul 25
tommyken:

You won't understand, sometimes its better to lose the battle but win the war. I just wanted posterity to be in my favour in the future. A time will come she will look back and realise how foolish she was but guess the funny thing then; I will have move on and living a better life. So you see I made a long distance calculation before I went to sought peace with her.

Got it. You seem to be a very nice person.
All you wanted right now is for both of you to leave in peace even after the breakup.
But she's insisting that there must be no peace

I had a similar experience. But in my case, I defaulted. Then I begged and try everything within reason to get my ex together. But all my efforts proved abortive.
Finally, we broke up. But she continues her bitterness towards me. She won't greet me neither would she talk to me. And she was very, very bitter!
But it was clear before we part ways that I have no evil intentions towards her.

3yrs later, she's now calm and talking to me.
Now, I can even get her rolling again if I really want

Time have healed her

Your ex least expect the breakup and is tearing her apart.
There's nothing you can do now to get her together.
I think you have reached your limit.

Now, just relax. Forget all she said and is saying now. Time heals. In few years, she will be calm. But she will most likely regret then especially if you become very successful.

But be sure you are really innocent in this matter because two things is definitely going to happen

Two of you are going to be involved in another relationship. Then the two things will happen.

That's when you will know and understand that every of our actions counts

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by tommyken(m): 5:27pm On Jul 25
CosmicJames:


Got it. You seem to be a very nice person.
All you wanted right now is for both of you to leave in peace even after the breakup.
But she's insisting that there must be no peace

I had a similar experience. But in my case, I defaulted. Then I begged and try everything within reason to get my ex together. But all my efforts proved abortive.
Finally, we broke up. But she continues her bitterness towards me. She won't greet me neither would she talk to me. And she was very, very bitter!
But it was clear before we part ways that I have no evil intentions towards her.

3yrs later, she's now calm and talking to me.
Now, I can even get her rolling again if I really want

Time have healed her

Your ex least expect the breakup and is tearing her apart.
There's nothing you can do now to get her together.
I think you have reached your limit.

Now, just relax. Forget all she said and is saying now. Time heals. In few years, she will be calm. But she will most likely regret then especially if you become very successful.

But be sure you are really innocent in this matter because two things is definitely going to happen

Two of you are going to be involved in another relationship. Then the two things will happen.

That's when you will know and understand that every of our actions counts

Thanks, you seem to understand me and the situation better. I really appreciate.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 5:28pm On Jul 25
Barzinime:
Butiii are you living with them Obasanjo, Babangida & Buhari for you to know what is happening in their private lives?

Are you?
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Barzinime(m): 7:03pm On Jul 25
Ogbeni go & sleep. You don't have anything to say
luminouz:

Are you?
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 7:07pm On Jul 25
Barzinime:
Ogbeni go & sleep. You don't have anything to say
Do you?

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 7:10pm On Jul 25
Sulukag:
I remember calling a girl to branch my place when she is coming from school so that i can give her bedroom coaching in da oza room. The line she knows does not have airtime so i used my second line to call and she said who is this,i told her to guess. She mentioned Uche ,John e.t.c when it got to the 5th name i just cut off the phone and the konji wey dey catch me turn to jikon. This is someone i called 2 days ago. Some girls are confirm public hoe
Lmaoooo...
U no well

Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 7:13pm On Jul 25
Celestial777:


I stay in Abk
OK,been hearing a lot about the ondo girls o
Are they that bad?
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 7:14pm On Jul 25
TLION:
. Ondo gals bro I see them I run
Why naaaa?
Ttiger,whyyyyyy?
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 7:15pm On Jul 25
purples25:


Well, good moves then............i wish you happiness
You seem very level headed and mature
Me likey! cool
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Celestial777(m): 7:20pm On Jul 25
luminouz:

OK,been hearing a lot about the ondo girls o
Are they that bad?

They are for bad relationship and marriage
But no state sabi Bleep pass them
Top ten my bro
I rebuke the devil..he dey tell me something
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 7:41pm On Jul 25
Celestial777:


They are for bad relationship and marriage
But no state sabi Bleep pass them
Top ten my bro
I rebuke the devil..he dey tell me something
Wow...
I thought akwa ibom/calabar gehs are the best o cheesy
Lol@the devil.
Wetin him dey tell u oh
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Godmademan(m): 7:44pm On Jul 25
folake4u:




Lol no. but why would you say there aren't any good women in Nigeria? You no wan marry? undecided
It was an open question. Thing is if one goes by info regarding some tribes or states the choice is hard to make. Africans marry not just the spouse but the family. If the spouse is an angel but the family or tradition is terrible, problems are bound to arise in future.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Celestial777(m): 7:44pm On Jul 25
luminouz:

Wow...
I thought akwa ibom/calabar gehs are the best o cheesy
Lol@the devil.
Wetin him dey tell u oh


He dey tell me.make I call one ondo
Girl for next street ...
I Will not call the girl .....and the girl get big yansh...scatter it scatter it yes yes
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luminouz(m): 7:46pm On Jul 25
Celestial777:



He dey tell me.make I call one ondo
Girl for next street ...
I Will not call the girl .....and the girl get big yansh...scatter it scatter it yes yes
Lmaoooo

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by folake4u(f): 9:11pm On Jul 25
Godmademan:
It was an open question. Thing is if one goes by info regarding some tribes or states the choice is hard to make. Africans marry not just the spouse but the family. If the spouse is an angel but the family or tradition is terrible, problems are bound to arise in future.



Yeah that's true. Especially where the family doesn't like you.

I understand your point now.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by CosmicJames(m): 9:39pm On Jul 25
tommyken:

Thanks, you seem to understand me and the situation better. I really appreciate.
You're most welcome brother.
I was once there. I'm in a blissful relationship right now. So understand that I'm commenting from experience. Both good and bad. Yes, I've experienced both.

It might interest you to know that there is a reason why I insisted that you should be sure that you are innocent in this matter.

I wish you good luck in your next relationship

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Magnoliaa(f): 11:28pm On Jul 25
SaucyBenks:
lol... and you're brand new grin grin grin grin don't make me laugh ahbeg.

For your mind now, you've finished me with the quote bah grin grin


Nah, I never intended to 'finish' you or anything. I am merely stating a fact: you've been used.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by purples25(f): 4:09am On Jul 26
luminouz:

You seem very level headed and mature
Me likey! cool

Thanks smiley
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by luvyaself95(m): 7:23am On Jul 26
Kingpinukecy:


Bruh, whether u like it or not, if u can't make peace with her, jux know that this issue will alwz be there between the two of u.

When I broke up with mine, I broke up in peace and move on. here I am. we do talk as if we are together uptill now. but we r jux mere friends u know.
The same with mine she even cheat oh is not that am a fool but you know girls they are have stupid behaviours and confusion being so man is the one to set them on the right path...
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by SaucyBenks(m): 7:32am On Jul 26
Magnoliaa:



Nah, I never intended to 'finish' you or anything. I am merely stating a fact: you've been used.
lol... OK.

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