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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by dingbang(m): 4:47am On Jul 25, 2019
Celestial777:



Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las
the guys who bleeped her are in sexuality section

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by desoul2004(m): 5:06am On Jul 25, 2019
What exactly are you begging her for? So, you wanted her to celebrate your departure. Guy, if you ever try to beg her, you'll regret it later.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by enemyofprogress: 5:12am On Jul 25, 2019
Bros talk true your mind still dey there
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by desoul2004(m): 5:19am On Jul 25, 2019
More than 11k views, not up-to 10 ladies contributed something. What is wrong? Are they all cheating but haven't been discovered as well?

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Abolajihowells2: 5:29am On Jul 25, 2019
Unik3030:
u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u



Ondo girls and money I swear dem be 5&6 japa for ur life
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 5:33am On Jul 25, 2019
akaahs:
Hope we aren't dating the same girl. My ex used to have the same character and attitudes not until I decided to frustrate till she quit the relationship by herself.
Till up to date, she is so pained after 3 years each time my friend called her , she keeps lamenting what I did to her thinking I ll come back and apologise.
Ops don't ever apologise, there type ll never apologise either they think they have what it's takes to attract their kind of guys. Just live ur life nature has a of resolving such issues. Move on.

The question his did u frustrate her ? Were your actions commiserate with her own behaviour .did the weight of your actions hold equal kg to hers? My dear this is what revenge isn't good....if your actions were more evil or she had pure intentions then best you know how to appease her

Don't deceive your self or that young man..nature is KARMA the fact that time moved doesn't mean it forgot .you would be having issues but have no idea its a rope pulling you due to your actions..nature never resolves ..it moves u forward to meet fruits of your labour .why do u think you have death then hell and paradise ?

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by deltateam: 5:46am On Jul 25, 2019
tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

I will say you humble yourself and go with a friend to beg her for forgiveness. Maybe not for 'your' sake but for hers. We are meant to leave others better than we met them.

I believe she also has other good qualities which you can highlight on and appreciate her for, then you guys can laugh it over. Then you can move on. She's hurting, would you be happy if her pictures surface that she drank sniper? For something that could be avoided?

Okay do it for us, the Nairaland progressives.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 5:47am On Jul 25, 2019
placeofallure:


Sorry bro, but your post gave me a lot of headache trying to figure out You can hire me as your English tutor. No malice intended.

We have been discussing one of your hoe specie matter here .. olosho everywhere
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Godmademan(m): 5:59am On Jul 25, 2019
Celestial777:



Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las
Learnt something new. My blacklist is almost comprising all 36 states based on data available. Bettet woman for marriage dey this Nigeria sef?

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by cutedharmee: 6:01am On Jul 25, 2019
See special advisers on relationship matter full nairaland grin grin grin grin. Una wehdone o
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by CaptainKodak(m): 6:14am On Jul 25, 2019
eezeribe:
Op, don't give her any fuccking victory... She can even die from hating on you, no problem...
Since you have moved on, forward ever... Backward never


You forgot that she can even kill the guy. Never underestimate the sway of an angry woman!
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by sitoemmanuel(m): 6:16am On Jul 25, 2019
ceeroh:
She deserves no fuvking victory... Heck! You said this girl was cheating on you.

Don't give a damn about what she says to people and don't let anyone manipulate you.
have heard the side of the ex girlfriend?
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by TemmyT002(m): 6:17am On Jul 25, 2019
Charleys:
Send her Recharge card. That's all she wants.

Hahahaha
Nawa o
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by TemmyT002(m): 6:18am On Jul 25, 2019
Unik3030:
u self dey date ondo girls, they too like sex n money n they see no big deal about having multiple partners. the worst thing is if ondo girl born 10 children for u e no mean say she no go leave u


Nawa for you oooo
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by TemmyT002(m): 6:20am On Jul 25, 2019
Texman21:
just let it goooooooooo

just let it beeeeeeeee

why dont you be youuuuuu

and i will be me








just singing
Hahaha
Plenty weird people for here o
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 6:31am On Jul 25, 2019
EmekusTHEgreat:


I understand what you're saying but I have to ask, did you by any chance disvirgin this lady, that might be what she means by "sacrifice".
Yes I was the one that disvirgin her..
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by BareFacedLies(m): 6:32am On Jul 25, 2019
luminouz:

Did u read at all?
Or the fact that she actively fvcks other men is lost on u?
Which suitors did she turn away then? undecided

Error of assumption...

The poster said and i quote "I broke up with her because of her cunning and cheating nature".

Where in the post did he say that he caught her with multiple guys?

Oversabi people like you just quickly jumped to conclusions!

The fact is that when an individual is tired of a relationship he/she hinges his decision to quit on a trivial issue like the OP has done here

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by SammyTJack: 6:38am On Jul 25, 2019
Never date a trickish bitch
What else did u expect
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Funkyswagzz(m): 6:44am On Jul 25, 2019
Women are like rats.. when they bit ur finger as u r sleeping and they realise u r about wake they will blow it to make u sleep. It makes me scared of getting married

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Nobody: 6:46am On Jul 25, 2019
deltateam:


I will say you humble yourself and go with a friend to beg her for forgiveness. Maybe not for 'your' sake but for hers. We are meant to leave others better than we met them.

I believe she also has other good qualities which you can highlight on and appreciate her for, then you guys can laugh it over. Then you can move on. She's hurting, would you be happy if her pictures surface that she drank sniper? For something that could be avoided?

Okay do it for us, the Nairaland progressives.
I have done that for the sake of peace but she lock her self inside that she don't want to see and even say she won't forgive me she die....

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Unrated900(m): 6:51am On Jul 25, 2019
OP give her the victory
It cost you nothing and stop been proud over her.



That victory May tends to open more doors to you since she is from the marine spirit

My dictionary’s team is ahead ahead.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by badonkadonk: 6:53am On Jul 25, 2019
tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Better move on... Face your life and happiness. Make she use her bitterness cook bitter leaf soup, chop.

Leaving her was the best decision.
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Unrated900(m): 6:54am On Jul 25, 2019
Celestial777:



Bro pls ignore her...i have been in a similar situation. I broke up with the hoe cos I found out she od bleeping like nine guys plus me at yje same time. She own a wine kiosk and I spend most of my time after work there. I never know she is a paod olosbo as well. Other guys bleep her for 5k and so one while i was busy planning future with her. The day I found out I didn't fight her.. she had a child though. She usually takes the two year old with her if she is going on mission sometimes.
I tuse style discharge her and then she begin tell people how bad I am. In fact she carry my matter go Alfa Dem side. Bro I hear weinn
But now i am better pls fear ondo gals..
Jus leave her alon I beg you. She will be fine lad las




Shey na your phone Dey now-type bro abiiii na u Dey rush to comment base on eagerness cos this your writes up ennnnnn no be here oooo

Well U did right those girls at times can be somethings else but my guy belive me those girls still won’t hear words
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Unrated900(m): 6:55am On Jul 25, 2019
tommyken:

I have done that for the sake of peace but she lock her self inside that she don't want to see and even say she won't forgive me she die....



Let her go and die then

She is angry she loose you

May be you are her ATM

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by babslepe: 7:04am On Jul 25, 2019
boiz2men:
Hey make peace with her but don't beg.

You never know what will happen tomorrow. Make peace with all men
not so soon he should let sometime pass .
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by CLEVER123(m): 7:05am On Jul 25, 2019
Don't be manipulated by her antics bro, all girls are d same. its just that some are more bitchier than others.

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by frozen70(f): 7:08am On Jul 25, 2019
tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Women feels the pain of relationship more than men especially when they are not letting go

Send a message to her to stop tarnishing your image that you don't like it

She will reply you with tantrums and crazy words, just reply her with smiles and from there you guys can start chatting

Calm her down and let her know that you have some challenges and need to be focused

You are not dragging authority with her

Real men don't fight women even if she is fighting you, it's there nature yo throw tantrums

Remember your good times and you can still relate but without sex

What she is doing now is like she is mourning the relationship, she will be over it with time but it's a painful situation

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Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Mursz: 7:10am On Jul 25, 2019
You sef harbor sweetness towards her..... case closed
Re: My Ex- Girlfriend Harbours Bitterness Towards Me. by Ladotrader(m): 7:14am On Jul 25, 2019
Bro ...
You did your best ,it now left to her....
Just let her know that she should keep the hate away from you..
And you move on
But you can try and give a offline message either using your own number or anyone putting your name as sub headings
And that will be your last message to her
Send apologies to her and wish her the best ..
Not every relationship leads to marriage and that's life for u

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