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Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by MarieSucre(f): 4:09am On Jul 27, 2019 |
Jasparrow1: Kazyhm So all the big men who look down on poorer and less powerful men who cross their path, all the ones that they will send their guards to beat or harass them, and be asking them "do you know who I am"? They are all women se. Recently Elisa Abbo beat up a woman in a intimacy gadget shop, an Akwa Ibom commissioner beat up a craftsman who he was owing money, there are countless stories of men beating, assaulting, arresting, harassing, oppressing or getting people to walk out of their compound other men who they feel are lessesmm than them in one way or another hence cannot fight back but yet you are blind to all these. Only a quick search on nairaland will clear your doubt but instead it's to be crying how women make poor men feel bad. Honestly, I feel women who behave disdainfully towards men because they feel they are poorer are horrible people. And unlike you I don't just cry online, I have called out women in my circle who have behaved in such a manner, it speaks badly of a person and I do not like to be associated with that and will not sit quietly and just watch. The take away from this sha is that nobody owes you a relationship. Simple! Whether you're a man or woman. You can only hope they feel the same way about you as you do about them, but if they don't, MOVE THE FVCK ON!! |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by MarieSucre(f): 4:20am On Jul 27, 2019 |
Nesso: I just want to make a quick correction If you don't mind. I don't think it is solely about making the man strive better but ensuring the survival of whatever offspring they get. In the old days, By the time a woman was 4 or 5 months along, it would get increasingly hard for her to source for food, whether from hunting, fishing or farming, all very tenous activities and that's where the male partner came in. Note, even the first few years of a childbirth there was still that handicap, assuming she knew how to hunt, the last thing one would want to do would be carry a toddler one hunt, the cry of the baby alone could make you another animals food. Finally, each pregnancy manifests differently, so even if she was somehow able to carry out all the above mentioned tasks during a previous pregnancy and sustain her and her child, they next pregnancy might have more complications, and who would be ideal to fill the gap, the man who contributed his seed to the conception of that child and he would have more incentive because, well it's his child. Now, we are in the modern age so of course the dynamics have changed. Occupations have become more lenient, you can work from your office with AC blowing you, you can hire professionals to watch a child or you can work from home. So a couple can do what best works for them, if the woman wants to stay at home and the man goes to bring in the means of sustenance or if the man wants to stay at home and the woman brings in the means of sustenance or if they both want to go out and bring in the means of sustenance, or if they both want to stay at home and rely on their sugar mummy(I'm just kidding), these are all options now. You get the idea. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by seguno2: 5:21am On Jul 27, 2019 |
tensazangetsu20: Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Shoutout to all the petty and irredeemable tribalism folks here. Una see una photo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Logobenz1: 5:35am On Jul 27, 2019 |
seguno2:lol
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Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by kazyhm(m): 6:39am On Jul 27, 2019 |
MarieSucre: I agreed with you however those are rich men vs their aids, sales person and poorer friends. My point is you don't even have to be poorer than ladies.........the prerequisite for bad treatment from them is in their head.....they treat you by their own perception of you even if they have no idea of who you are in the first place........... I can tell you from experience in my place of work.......like for example a lady that is far junior to me in level talked to me rudely in fact reported me to her friend (same level with her) in HR department to discipline me........thinking I'm a corper............just because i look young. At the end, I had to plead with her HOD not to give her query after she and her friend had written an apology letter to me. Nairaland is even worse with ladies....... They insult you anyhow even without them having an Idea of how you look.......they describe you in an unimaginable manner..............meaning you didn't search well enough to come to such conclusion |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Truthsbitter: 8:21am On Jul 27, 2019 |
MarieSucre:If I understand your question rightly. you're saying what do I think is the ideal situation concerning women's approach to financial realities. concerning financial approach, to me there should be no restrictions to women as much as it is to men and there should be restrictions to women as much as it is to men. if possible allow more opportunities to women when it involves simpler and/or less complex jobs. But I advice that women of this age shun relying on men for financial gains or liberation( it would solve a lot of relationship mismatch, mistakes). hustle to pride yourself a free woman whose decisions to relationship with men is not particularly made on level of the mans financial background (it will help women be more responsible for their choice of man or relationship). Now in terms of women living off men, I have got no problem with that as long as the man was not forced to give out his money(even if he was deceived through fake love by the woman just to get money from him, as we see it happen often " i cuss men who propose in public because they were deceived into thinking they were loved". that is why i also cuss girls who claimed to be deceived into sex by marriage promise). sorry for the last part I was only stretching my opinion and thoughts . i cuss men who propose in public because they were deceived into thinking they were loved |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Gerrard59(m): 10:14am On Jul 27, 2019 |
pocohantas: So, but the OP (Tensazangetsu20) has criticised NL's males for doing the bold. Apparently, he's a hypocritical red piller. 1 Like |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Gerrard59(m): 10:20am On Jul 27, 2019 |
Truthsbitter: But those kind of women are said to be proud, haughty by the vast majority of NL males. On one hand, women should be financially independent, on the other hand, these women are proud and cannot be submissive (whatever it means). Hypocrisy everywhere! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by pocohantas(f): 10:40am On Jul 27, 2019 |
Gerrard59: 99.83 percent are. Just open romance section and na only woman matter full everywhere. Always thought women are the "emotional ones". Nawa! By the way, read the OP again. An Hausa woman helped them get the partnership, he didn't create a thread "WHY DO WOMEN HELP POOR MEN". But one woman misbehaved and he rushes to create a thread "WHY DO WOMEN LOOK DOWN ON POOR MEN". This is why I have always asked NL resident alfah males, WHY DO THEY ONLY GENERALISE WOMEN ON EVIL? 5 Likes |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Truthsbitter: 11:15am On Jul 27, 2019 |
Gerrard59:Who said they must be proud? anyone who assumes that all independent women are proud is naive and perhaps an hypocrite but yet it is not entirely correct to say financially independent women are not proud women. The truth is that people who are financially independent or rich tends to become proud easily ...whether women or men. But whatever the case maybe (criticisms or no criticism, hypocrisy or no hypocrisy). The truth remains that it is better to be financially independent than to become a liability especially forcing oneself into a relationship with the intention of being financially liberated ...bad mentality. |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Gerrard59(m): 2:45pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Truthsbitter: However, it's pertinent to note that women marry up not down. So, at the end of the day, the vast majority of women will marry men who have more financial resources than they do. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Gerrard59(m): 2:47pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
pocohantas: Product: Hypo by Crisy Producer: NL resident's Alfa Meils Expiry date: E no dey expire. . 2 Likes |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Truthsbitter: 4:22pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Gerrard59:true so bro, but financially independent. |
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Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by MarieSucre(f): 7:41pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
kazyhm: I see what you're saying but I want you to understand where I'm coming from. Have you seen the way men talk about women on nairaland here. "cheap", "LovePeddler", "slut", "olosho" etc A lot of ladies are always on guard. |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by kazyhm(m): 7:58pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
MarieSucre: Alrt. I understand |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by healthserve(m): 6:57pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
djon78: Wise |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:41pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Re: Why do women look down on poor men? by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:42pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
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