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rex444:
So our babes do ask guys out? Wonderful....don't shy out y'all let's make it fun ....oya spill d bin

rex444:
So our babes do ask guys out? Wonderful....don't shy out y'all let's make it fun ....oya spill d bin

logik29:
My guy dem dey ask oo plenty girls wey ask me out i no gree oo i just dey waya dem when my body need warming.

SteveOfu:
Moe
@Mochievous
I’m going on a break but it just occurred to me to do this. Ladies, please share your stories of rejection from a guy you shot your shoot at. Until we as women begin to normalise rejection, we will forever be reluctant to go after what we really want. I’ll start.

So there was this guy I liked, we went out a few times and in my head we had a connection. Anyway one day, after what I thought was a great evening, I go “can I kiss you?” And he goes “oh shit. I’m so sorry if I gave the wrong impression, I just really like talking to you.”


Some people are sending me DMs on this. I’ll respond to as many as I can but I’m not going to share them here. The post was clear for a reason. To bring rejection out in the open and start to normalise it. So if you have stories, please share em here yourself.


Let me share mine
So we both agreed it was just bangs, but I started catching feelings, went to his place and told him "I know we agreed it was just for fun, but I kinda like you " he said "I know, I sensed it, but I don't like you like that yet". We banged and I left and travelled the next day.

Told a man I loved him and he told me I stressed his life so that ship sailed a long time ago. Hung up on me.
Another said there’s no future in it.

One laughed and said, “if only you were lightskinned”.

Gathered my L and decided to save my shots. To Jesus be my glory tbh.

MariaLavina:
Child abuse!

logik29:
Is not child abuse.If i would have accepted i wouldnt have enjoyed anything. Feminist suspected.

MariaLavina:
They are abusing you.

rex444:
wonderful.....still sounds like finding water in d desert to me

logik29:
lol...Why do you think so?? No allow innocent face deceive you oo.

MariaLavina:
And he took down his profile picture!

Damn I should have saved that! All these teenagers forming alphas!

MariaLavina:
Na so!

Onyenna:
Yeah... They do...

I've been asked out on two different occasions.... [story for another day]...

truthsayer009:
Bros, e get as e be. But the story is true.

logik29:
My guy dem dey ask oo plenty girls wey ask me out i no gree oo i just dey waya dem when my body need warming.

catwalq:
I don't have any ma'am. I've never been interested.

MariaLavina:
And he took down his profile picture!

Damn I should have saved that! All these teenagers forming alphas!

truthsayer009:
Who?

Marcofranz:
Naija girls don't literally ask guys out they rather give green lights, and those weird moves.

logik29:
I dont think there aint an age limit to being alpha.SHOUT OUT TO ALL ALPHA MALES AND RED PILL MEN OUT THERE WE TRULY ROCK.

MariaLavina:
You too like amebo....



Read the thread carefully, boy don show himself.

LillyVal:
SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE

truthsayer009:
They do, a lot of them.

My former workplace, a girl kept giving me greenlight. I didn't really like her. So at then end, i obliged & just wanted to chop and move immediately as her ass was quite big.

Then when i found that she was a virgin, i just felt it would too wicked for me to just chop & move as it would mess up her future dating life. I rather not chop at all.

Na so i just free the girl oh. She felt bad Lmao. She didnt know i did her a favor.

MariaLavina:
I don't shoot, I'm not a hunter.

SammieRexx:
Bros I cut cap for this your lie ooo......you see virgin babe with big nyansh.....give u gree light and yoh come say no....thank you

IamPlato:
Lol... Na Them

DaBogu:
Reminds me of when I was hanging out with this guy for a while, we were so cool that he would get me lunch when I least expect, on my free days, he would take me to the movies and all. We connected on a whole different level. Everyone around me thought he was “the one” but Oga now said, “ahh, I had no idea I was leading you on, I just felt you were my gee, I’m not ready for anything serious ”, gee kee you dia. I wanted to die. I lost appetite totally, was so broken. Guy dropped me off, on my way sef I off wig, what’s the point of looking fine

SammieRexx:
Bros I cut cap for this your lie ooo......you see virgin babe with big nyansh.....give u gree light and yoh come say no....thank you