Deepfeel:

I just answered the question, "can a man make a woman happy without money"

You think you did, but you didn't. There's a difference.

Safitu:
If you like, cry and get mad. The truth shall always remain the truth. No money no love. It’s not about being a millionaire, but you must set a stable foundation for yourself and your partner to build on. A lazy man with empty pockets can never be respected by his woman or the people around him.

Why are you more concerned about a mans respect? Dont women like to be respected too? Or do women love to be treated as trash? Why not make money and let your husband respect you and people around you too? Are you allergic to respect?

MariaLavina:
You think you did, but you didn't. There's a difference.

Tell me the difference

Deepfeel:
Tell me the difference

Really?


Never mind.

A woman can have all the money in the world, instead of her man to respect her he will feel intimidated and inferior. So this is not about women, this is about men, I’m focusing on that and that’s what the topic is about. Make money as a man, make yourself proud.

Deepfeel:

Why are you more concerned about a mans respect? Dont women like to be respected too? Or do women love to be treated as trash? Why not make money and let your husband respect you and people around you too? Are you allergic to respect?

MariaLavina:
Really?



Never mind.

Maybe you will say the difference is religion and tradition says men are superior to women that's why

MariaLavina:
To all these hypocritical beings wanting Safiatu's head for lunch here's a question :

Can a Nigerian Man make a Woman happy without Money?

TBH, the answer would be an emphatic NO!
But that's largely because a typical nigerian woman would only (well mostly) derive happiness from a man with money.
PS: don't be fooled by the (f). I have a c0ck.

Safitu:
A woman can have all the money in the world, instead of her man to respect her he will feel intimidated and inferior. So this is not about women, this is about men, I’m focusing on that and that’s what the topic is about. Make money as a man, make yourself proud.

You should do same

I’m talking about men. Stick to the topic.

Deepfeel:

You should do same

Deepfeel:

She's just thinking like a typical Nigerian girl, with no dreams or career, her biggest dream in life will be to marry a rich man, instead of dreaming of been rich herself

There's no girl on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor man.

Safitu:
If you like, cry and get mad. The truth shall always remain the truth. No money no love. It’s not about being a millionaire, but you must set a stable foundation for yourself and your partner to build on. A lazy man with empty pockets can never be respected by his woman or the people around him.

In summary, it really isnt about the bloke's financial background or capability, it's more about his willingness to spend on the lady right?

catwalq:


There's no girl on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor man.

There are thousands of girls who dream of competing with men not living under their riches, there are thousands of girls who dream of being richer than the man they will love to marry, so what are you talking about? Why not dream of achieving what men achieve instead of dreaming of a man who has achieved if you can achieve it yourself, men don't dream of it

Altern8:
Can a guy be happy if he doesn’t have money to enjoy life?

These days, I think guys should focus more on themselves and make money before committing to serious relationships. All those vacations in Dubai, Paris and even some exotic locations in Naija are not cheap at all.

Make money and flex your babe and make her feel good.

Or date a babe who doesn’t care about such gifts and trips. Such babes are rare sha, that is, if they even exist at all.

we have babes who are not materialistic but you just have to assist her in some things. a friend of mine that have a good working class babe just lost her because he never gives her anything. she don't ask either but last week, she asked for 8k to make hair and my guy said he can't give it to her cause it is too much. his reason was that his salary is 50, how can she demand for such amount for hair? this is a very loyal babe, ask for nothing, even buy you stuffs. the babe just lock up, when he told me, I told him he was wrong o

ednut1:
but many women these days are breadwinners of the house due to jobless or economic hardship and are coding it

thats where a good woman comes in, when you have, you spend on her, when you are down, she takes over

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

You are a fool

Ryan03:
we have babes who are not materialistic but you just have to assist her in some things. a friend of mine that have a good working class babe just lost her because he never gives her anything. she don't ask either but last week, she asked for 8k to make hair and my guy said he can't give it to her cause it is too much. his reason was that his salary is 50, how can she demand for such amount for hair? this is a very loyal babe, ask for nothing, even buy you stuffs. the babe just lock up, when he told me, I told him he was wrong o

8K out of 50k salary. Your guy probably did some quick maths and thought 8k was too much to spare at the time. I would have paid it anyway, since it was the first time.

You see, this universal culture of patriarchy conditions Ladies to be dependent and guys to be “providers”. Guys should take care of their babes, guys should pamper their babes. Patriarchy. That’s our reality today.

Man’s got to hustle hard to level up.

Get this into your head that men and women are not the same. They do not have the same physically, mentally and emotionally abilities to handle situations. As rich as Rihanna is, she chose to date an Arab billionaire because she wants a man who can take control and be a man. No woman wants to date a man with no cash no matter how accomplished one is. Get that into your head and stop making excuses. We all want companionship, and companionship with someone who compliments us.

Deepfeel:


There are thousands of girls who dream of competing with men not living under their riches, there are thousands of girls who dream of being richer than the man they will love to marry, so what are you talking about? Why not dream of achieving what men achieve instead of dreaming of a man who has achieved if you can achieve it yourself, men don't dream of it

Deepfeel:


There are thousands of girls who dream of competing with men not living under their riches, there are thousands of girls who dream of being richer than the man they will love to marry, so what are you talking about? Why not dream of achieving what men achieve instead of dreaming of a man who has achieved if you can achieve it yourself, men don't dream of it

Any sensible woman will definitely want to control her own resources, that's a given. I'm talking about desires and wishes, and I reiterate,no woman on earth dreams of ending up with a poor man . Whether she be broke or made.

babyfaceafrica:
look she is been realistic, hardly will u see a naija babe that will stay with you without money

You guys are so funny....is it that most of you don't leave in Nigeria? Ppl are getting married including security men are you saying they are married to fellow men? There are alot of poor family in Nigeria....lol are there no women in the family? Please you ppl should shut your mouth and stop saying rubbish on the internet? Nobody will stay with you when the only thing you have to offer is money.

MariaLavina:
Bobo argue with your keypad. This isn't a competition biko.

Useless generation of girls...zero values the only thing in you ppls head is money it doesn't matter where the money come from smh

Safitu:
Get this into your head that men and women are not the same. They do not have the same physically, mentally and emotionally abilities to handle situations. As rich as Rihanna is, she chose to date an Arab billionaire because she wants a man who can take control and be a man. No woman wants to date a man with no cash no matter how accomplished one is. Get that into your head and stop making excuses. We all want companionship, and companionship with someone who compliments us.

Lol really but how come as rich as Jenifer Lopez is she once dated her backup dancer?
What control are you talking about? If Rihanna wants someone to control her why didn't she stay with Chris Brown cause Chris was really in control,

If you believe men are superior to women than keep it to yourself, but know that not all women share same belief with you, speak for yourself not all women, there are women who say they will never get married to live under a man

You Nigerian girls are raised the wrong way that's why you see marrying a rich man as the ultimate achievement in life

catwalq:


Any sensible woman will definitely want to control her own resources, that's a given. I'm talking about desires and wishes, and I reiterate,no woman on earth dreams of ending up with a poor man . Whether she be broke or made.

Haven't you heard of women who have everything in life and all they desire from a man is just true love? They are thousands of them out there, even here in Nigeria they are rich women who desire a husband that will love them, most of them even enrich this young men and give them money to go pay for their pride prize

Deepfeel:


Haven't you heard of women who have everything in life and all they desire from a man is just true love? They are thousands of them out there, even here in Nigeria they are rich women who desire a husband that will love them, most of them even enrich this young men and give them money to go pay for their pride prize

You are missing my point. Dreaming of marrying a rich man and actually marrying a rich man are two different things.
Just like some people desire tall guys or fair guys,but in most cases they end up with something different.

So,universally all girls DREAM of marrying rich men. Now whether they end up with rich men or not is another thing entirely. Do you understand what I'm saying?

Safitu:
Pele

baby girl am not hating oo. But i cannot marry or recommend any guy i know to marry you. Good luck to whoever can put up with this your mindset. I cannot can!

catwalq:


You are missing my point. Dreaming of marrying a rich man and actually marrying a rich man are two different things.
Just like some people desire tall guys or fair guys,but in most cases they end up with something different.

So,universally all girls DREAM of marrying rich men. Now whether they end up with rich men or not is another thing entirely. Do you understand what I'm saying?

How do you know universally all girls dream of marrying a rich man? A girl that's born with riches with a lot of inheritance will never dream of a man with riches, rather a handsome loving man is what she will dream of, cause she already has all a man can ever give her get my point too

Deepfeel:


How do you know universally all girls dream of marrying a rich man? A girl that's born with riches with a lot of inheritance will never dream of a man with riches, rather a handsome loving man is what she will dream of, cause she already has all a man can ever give her get my point too

Dreaming of being with a rich guy is what it is - A DREAM.
But being with humble guy is a reality.

Ask all your female friends,sisters,female relations to list out ten attributes of a worthy mate and see if 'rich' won't show up on the lists.

OGA please go and marry a lady that will feed you since that’s what you want. Or a woman that will pet you and treat you like a child. You live in Nigeria where it’s predominantly men who provide, and you’re arguing a baseless argument that doesn’t really apply in the real world? In Nigeria, we don’t respect men who cannot provide. We don’t respect men who look for women to help them out. We don’t respect who look for corners to cut. If you’re fine with that, then please live your life peacefully and let me see road for better tin.

Deepfeel:


Lol really but how come as rich as Jenifer Lopez is she once dated her backup dancer?
What control are you talking about? If Rihanna wants someone to control her why didn't she stay with Chris Brown cause Chris was really in control,

If you believe men are superior to women than keep it to yourself, but know that not all women share same belief with you, speak for yourself not all women, there are women who say they will never get married to live under a man

You Nigerian girls are raised the wrong way that's why you see marrying a rich man as the ultimate achievement in life

LillyVal:
Can a man makes a woman happy without money?

What women really need from a man us attention and affections

Money comes in because you want her to look good and have good looking appearance

It will be most unfair if you want her to be faithful yet you can't afford money fir her monthly pad, recharge card whatever

If someone should do that for you then you don't blame her

And is my life going to end because of this?

Eroms4life17:
baby girl am not hating oo. But i cannot marry or recommend any guy i know to marry you. Good luck to whoever can put up with this your mindset. I cannot can!

Deepfeel:


Haven't you heard of women who have everything in life and all they desire from a man is just true love? They are thousands of them out there, even here in Nigeria they are rich women who desire a husband that will love them, most of them even enrich this young men and give them money to go pay for their pride prize

They give men money to pay their bride price,even set up something for these men. You know why?

Because they want these men to stand on their own and take up the responsibility of being the providers.
Why do you think a working class woman who can afford life's luxuries will still gush and brag over a cheap gift presented to her by her broke bae?

Safitu:
And is my life going to end because of this?

Genevieve nnaji should be answering this question!

Your faithfulness to a man is dependent on the materials things you receive from him?

How is it a man's responsibility to be buying pads/feminine hygiene products and recharge cards for you?

frozen70:


What women really need from a man us attention and affections

Money comes in because you want her to look good and have good looking appearance

It will be most unfair if you want her to be faithful yet you can't afford money fir her monthly pad, recharge card whatever

If someone should do that for you then you don't blame her