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Jozzy4:
Have experience the bold many times, So I knew you are right . its more reason why I don't like this low mentality exhibited by men , meeting a girl today and telling her you love her tomorrow, What nonsense ? . She will make demand as a strategy, to chase you away or if you are willing to give, then she play along .

Allow her to grow genuine feelings and See the beautiful Heart of a woman. That way balance occur, she want YOU , not your gifts or money

I cited the case of Wizkid to show the likes of Safitu and co, that - The fact that a man is a provider and rich doesn't make him Loyal, if he lacks discipline, watch your back, other ladies are coming to share him with you, of cos that same money will wive other ladies

Safitu:
No man is loyal. Whether broke or rich. Most men cheat , most men stray. It’s something the rich and the poor deal with so please spare me the bs.

mafiano1986:
Yes, but only if the woman has got her own money and is lonely.

PUSSYHOE:
No girls needs to get paid, that's why we call them hoes.

theButterfly:
Right on. That's me.

Resonates. It's good to know other Nigerian sistas w|o a "give-me-give-me" mentality exist. I'm sure her man cherishes her b|c he knows the chances of him finding these traits in another female in Nigeria are slim. When you're naturally considerate and kind, you tend to do things for others [including your man] /are thoughtful of them, and don't expect him to be doing all the giving.

frozen70:
You got it wrong


Once you are dating a lady take care of her, very simple explanation

She is also taking care of you and if you says that they don't take care of you guys, grab a vaseline and save your money

TanyLoe:
Please ladies ,
Stop coming into this forum to make it look like women are jobless. That we don't bath and go out in the morning to work.
It's annoying really.
U think going for a night shift everyday makes me happy?
But I have to because I don't want to be a liability to any man that will come into my life!
Your no man's responsibility until you guys are married even after that.
your heart. Now that is a woman talking, this kind of woman when a good man comes into her life he spends on her without thinking twice.
Your emotions
Your time
It's his responsibility not your family issues and if he wants to help don't misuse that!
Go out and make yourself useful
Don't sit and wait for a man who has his own issues to come and deliver you.
Respect yourselves please.
Jeez
Even my 18yrs old kid sister while waiting for admission got herself Into making of clothes, shoes and now she's is earning not waiting for any man to make it his responsibility

Safitu:
No man is loyal. Whether broke or rich. Most men cheat , most men stray. It’s something the rich and the poor deal with so please spare me the bs.

Jozzy4:
Seems your heart was broken before sorry dear



From " No man " to " Most men" . Good u corrected yourself on the hasty generalization .likewise many women cheat too, even those married to rich men with their ex many times.

A rich man has Higher chance of cheating with Fine girls much more beautiful than you are , u know ?

A poor man will often get rejected even when he made the advances to cheat., where is the money sef ? Lol , are u now contradicting yourself and saying Girls will follow a man who has no money ?

praxs:
You are a fool

Safitu:
Get this into your head that men and women are not the same. They do not have the same physically, mentally and emotionally abilities to handle situations. As rich as Rihanna is, she chose to date an Arab billionaire because she wants a man who can take control and be a man. No woman wants to date a man with no cash no matter how accomplished one is. Get that into your head and stop making excuses. We all want companionship, and companionship with someone who compliments us.

TanyLoe:
Please ladies ,
Stop coming into this forum to make it look like women are jobless. That we don't bath and go out in the morning to work.
It's annoying really.
U think going for a night shift everyday makes me happy?
But I have to because I don't want to be a liability to any man that will come into my life!
Your no man's responsibility until you guys are married even after that.
your heart
Your emotions
Your time
It's his responsibility not your family issues and if he wants to help don't misuse that!
Go out and make yourself useful
Don't sit and wait for a man who has his own issues to come and deliver you.
Respect yourselves please.
Jeez
Even my 18yrs old kid sister while waiting for admission got herself Into making of clothes, shoes and now she's is earning not waiting for any man to make it his responsibility

MariaLavina:
See your life? And one guy up there is questioning safia what she has to offer? just see?

Okay... Sex, won't you buy condoms, will you do it in the air( since air is free), what about food to regain energy you lost? if she gets pregnant, abortion fee nko? baby things (if you want to keep it) and so on.

Jokes: Only a happy man can crack jokes, a happy man is he with satisfied stomach and pocket ( money) Poor man don't joke.

Quality time: doing what? licking her ears?abi? in the air maybe. No be inside apartment with correct electricity watching movie even that one as cheap as it is it involves money.

Attention:how do you give her attention? By staying with her all day and night doing nothing abi?


Bros you failed! Next person!

Jozzy4:
The so called Safitu seems to be making points but she is going extreme, In Africa here ... Most women who want a man for his money and financial abilities are often shocked to discover the same money that Marries her , can easily get him other girls/wives . hence this rivalry breeds theirs own depression as they most times like to take charge , But here is the man going after younger women.

Note: am not supporting laziness of a man, But I STRONGLY believe money shouldn't be the primary force that bind two people together

frozen70:
Is because you are a farmer, that's why you want to plant your vegetable in her garden

Funmmyastic:
I like your comments Aunty,very logical and straight to the point.

LillyVal:
Women see the little things, men see bigger things.

One pays attention to detail, the other often looks at the broader horizon.

Safitu:
Like I said, rich middle class and poor, men will be men. My problem is not cheating, it’s what most married women deal with anyways. Even the men who are jobless with nothing to offer will shamelessly cheat on their wife who is doing everything for them. If I were to pick, I would rather be cheated on with a man who has money than a man who has nothing.

Safitu
No woman wants to date a man with no cash no matter how accomplished one is

Jozzy4:
Compare the above with your earlier comment below



So who are the jobless men and poor ones cheating with ? That's my question

If women doesn't follow men who don't have cash, How come a poor man cheat ?

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

Safitu:
OGA please go and marry a lady that will feed you since that’s what you want. Or a woman that will pet you and treat you like a child. You live in Nigeria where it’s predominantly men who provide, and you’re arguing a baseless argument that doesn’t really apply in the real world? In Nigeria, we don’t respect men who cannot provide. We don’t respect men who look for women to help them out. We don’t respect who look for corners to cut. If you’re fine with that, then please live your life peacefully and let me see road for better tin.

TanyLoe:
Please ladies ,
Stop coming into this forum to make it look like women are jobless. That we don't bath and go out in the morning to work.
It's annoying really.
U think going for a night shift everyday makes me happy?
But I have to because I don't want to be a liability to any man that will come into my life!
Your no man's responsibility until you guys are married even after that.
your heart
Your emotions
Your time
It's his responsibility not your family issues and if he wants to help don't misuse that!
Go out and make yourself useful
Don't sit and wait for a man who has his own issues to come and deliver you.
Respect yourselves please.
Jeez
Even my 18yrs old kid sister while waiting for admission got herself Into making of clothes, shoes and now she's is earning not waiting for any man to make it his responsibility

Safitu:
Like I said, rich middle class and poor, men will be men. My problem is not cheating, it’s what most married women deal with anyways. Even the men who are jobless with nothing to offer will shamelessly cheat on their wife who is doing everything for them. If I were to pick, I would rather be cheated on with a man who has money than a man who has nothing.

lukui:
what else do women have to offer except their pvssy

Lowkeey01:
Stop confusing yourself, there is a very big discrepancy between a set written theory and reality.

Obodo999:
Your view of a relationship is abject, unreasonable and selfish. What exactly will you be contributing to the man's life and please speak for yourself. Why should a man date you? . Unless you can give objective answers to these, you have no right to expect anything from a man