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ebonyggurl:
You don't seem to get my question. I mean what quality or usefulness will he serve as a boyfriend that will make a woman want to marry him?

oh you mean HE MUST PROVE HIMSELF even before marriage that he can provide?
I get you.

But you girls don't wanna prove yourselves too. Some can't even cook or do laundry before marriage. I guess it's all square: No marriage spouse activity before marriage

Most girls this generation are nothing to write Home about They are all gold diggers even the one you have so much hope for is still a gold digger! Its like peak milk, Its in them, even though they don't show it yet its there.

Gone are the day when titles like gold digger are being frowned upon. This days Society has accepted and embraced it that's now a norm. You even hardly hear the word anymore. Both men and women alike......... Parents encouraging there daughter to marry rich men etc Why don't parents encouraging there daughter to be self made?

Basically society today is no money no sex so as a guy if you wanna have sex why don't you just get yourself a prostitute, the class of prostitute depends on the amount you are willing to spend at least here you are in Charge and prostitute are honest upfront, its money they want so you give them and get what you want sex! Instead of being emotional, mentally and financially destroyed by one girl you call a Gf to much energy wasted. And yes it is that serious.

A good point the op made was about the male ego. Guys should learn how to control their ego....Me personal i have sold my ego to the Devil, shame doesn't love here anymore.

I just wish all guy are this woke so that we would return this leaches to their default settings! Relationship no longer interest me cause everything now is Game and i no get that kind energy.

jackals:
Be sensible at lest. I am not happy with the way ubunja keep dishing out all of these. but believe me all that he posted here are what I have practiced myself but weak guys like you keep falling, while we use your money to take care of men that know their worth and are not pussifed like you are. And hey before you say i am ubunja, i am not him. but say whatever you like

You are wrong, simple! There is no 2 ways about it. Instead of you to recognise that fact and work on changing yourself, you're rubbing it in this innocent guys face, someone who did nothing to you, calling him 'pussified' and other derogatory names.

Sister, what is wrong with you. It's not too late to go back from this path and stop hurting these men. Hustle your hustle, get you own doe. Some of these men will not like it because they might feel they can no longer control you but that is inconsequential to the feeling of independence you'll feel.

Quit this lifestyle abeg.

Ubunja my man
Always dropping it like its hot �

daviesblaze:
Ubunja my man
Always dropping it like its hot �

I try brother.

ubunja:
Also be wary of the girl with the bandaged foot walking around limping. That's how women hide an STI infection. If you know you know.

HI bro. Can you please throw more light on what you mean by the above statement?

BossDante:
HI bro. Can you please throw more light on what you mean by the above statement?

When women have STIs like syphilis and gonorrhea that make walking painful that they have to limp, many times they bandage the foot so people don't suspect the exact cause of the limp.

While many are thinking she sprained her ankle, it's her pussy that's wound-infested.

ubunja:
When women have STIs like syphilis and gonorrhea that make walking painful that they have to limp, many times they bandage the foot so people don't suspect the exact cause of the limp.

While many are thinking she strained her ankle, it's her pussy that's wound-infested.

Wow. Noted . Taken judicial notice of that now. Thanks brotherly

I can very very much relate with the You're the only one that can help me bla bla bla...

She sha fu...ck up cos I got wind of that earlier than she did ...


awesome write up Ubunja, keep it up bro

Women need men to be dumb and unaware when they discover you are well informed they avoid you. No offense ubunja i must say this is your greatest work ever!

PUSSYHOE:
Women need men to be dumb and unaware when they discover you are well informed they avoid you. No offense ubunja i must say this is your greatest work ever!

Seriously, a man who has being victimized by girls should read, read, read and read for assimilation if he didn't learn anything from this post to change is mentality then he will be a certified Mugu for life...

PUSSYHOE:
Women need men to be dumb and unaware when they discover you are well informed they avoid you. No offense ubunja i must say this is your greatest work ever!

thanx PussyH.
Women search out the weak ones for exploitation.

How was your Sunday? Mine was hot and tiring.

ubunja

My own is for you to consider not giving too much space, so I can comfortably screenshot. Today lectures was too long and my status are over flooded.
Nice write up by the way.

kings20:
ubunja

My own is for you to consider not giving too much space, so I can comfortably screenshot. Today lectures was too long and my status are over flooded.
Nice write up by the way.

You can convert the post to a PDF document. It's way cooler.

ubunja:
You can convert the post to a PDF document. It's way cooler.

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Hy bro, i saw in one of your thread where you mentioned about posting "Chatting & Gaming" soon.
And i have been trying to find it, bt i couldnt!!!
Can you kindly mention me there
Thanks.

horlarwereleh:
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Hy bro, i saw in one of your thread where you mentioned about posting "Chatting & Gaming" soon.
And i have been trying to find it, bt i couldnt!!!
Can you kindly mention me there
Thanks.

hie. It was a plan to write such a post. I got too busy to write it.

BossDante:
HI bro. Can you please throw more light on what you mean by the above statement?

your signature reminds me of a post I'm putting up in a day or two with the same name.

ubunja:
your signature reminds me of a post I'm putting up in a day or two with the same name.

Bring it on bro .. somehow, I like that the writeups are always long, only people who take time to read gets the treasure. The rest can wallow in ignorance and continue to hate and complain on our game

Nice piece @ Ubunja. You're one prolific and proficient writer I look out for when I come online. Keep doing your good work and more ink to your pen.

Cope1:
Nice piece @ Ubunja. You're one prolific and proficient writer I look out for when I come online. Keep doing your good work and more ink to your pen.

God bless

LarryBee1k:
UBUNJA is the realest! Don't mind these pussy ass niggas and bitches. Before I joined nairaland, I was a simp, novice, although I don't take nonsense from women but I was unaware of their emotional games. Then I come across hardon. Then you. Since that time. I've up my game. Sometimes I'll look at them and think "omo osi you think you're playing me?" and laugh.. Also a member of online community "menimist" and I pray many men discover how women play them. Since women don't want to live like traditional women, men too shouldn't be forced to do so too.
Thanks so much!

You've said it all. Since they have decided to deviate from the traditional system, we follow suit.

ubunja:
When women have STIs like syphilis and gonorrhea that make walking painful that they have to limp, many times they bandage the foot so people don't suspect the exact cause of the limp.

While many are thinking she strained her ankle, it's her pussy that's wound-infested.

See wisdom.

I want to ask Op some questions.Sir are you married?
Because I read one of your post that you said guys should be messing up and dump the lady he likes and go for a lady that love him.And all your so-called tested and trusted solutions to me is just like the blind leading the blind if at the end of it one does not achieve anything tangible with it.
Are you saying we should not help eachother in a relationship?
Is a relationship now a business that one will now be using tactics?I thinks a relationship should be 50-50 where lovers should be helping eachother.

Funmmyastic:
I want to ask Op some questions.Sir are you married?
Because I read one of your post that you said guys should be messing up and dump the lady he likes and go for a lady that love him.And all your so-called tested and trusted solutions to me is just like the blind leading the blind if at the end of it one does not achieve anything tangible with it.
Are you saying we should not help eachother in a relationship?
Is a relationship now a business that one will now be using tactics?I thinks a relationship should be 50-50 where lovers should be helping eachother.

ask your ancestors

ubunja:
ask your ancestors

So you can't prove your so-called tested and trusted solutions?

Funmmyastic:
I want to ask Op some questions.Sir are you married?
Because I read one of your post that you said guys should be messing up and dump the lady he likes and go for a lady that love him.And all your so-called tested and trusted solutions to me is just like the blind leading the blind if at the end of it one does not achieve anything tangible with it.
Are you saying we should not help eachother in a relationship?
Is a relationship now a business that one will now be using tactics?I thinks a relationship should be 50-50 where lovers should be helping eachother.

If we ask 1m men in the world randomly how many have received help to improve and achieve their goals from their gf/fiancee/wife i doubt 100k will come out, if the same question to 1m women i guarantee close to a million would say yes their men helped them improve and achieve their goals.

Men help women almost every seconds

women rarely. infact women rarely help women cus of jealousy and competition, if a woman needs help she goes to a man.

by help i believe we incline money/material things and favour?

We aren't teens here, What is 50-50? let me not go into tactics, women are natural tricksters, manipulators and liars.

ubunja:
ask your ancestors

Lmao

How to Start Over After Break Up.


Break up is no more a now story, as every one understand that your first relationship may not end up to marriage .When your relationship comes to an end, is never easy - and it can be even harder if there is still love or affection from one part.

But just because heartbreak may feel like the end of the world, the good news is the pain won’t last forever - and it certainly won’t keep you from falling in love again.

Ammanda Major a relationship expert he said, there are four steps that will help you get over someone.

Take time to distress your loss

For some, losing a significant other because of a break-up can feel as painful as if they died. From seeing or talking to the one you love every day to having no contact, it can seem impossibly daunting to imagine your life without them. But it is important to come to terms with this new reality and accept it before you can move on. While it may seem appealing to fast-forward through this period of sadness by keeping busy with other things and people, the reality is the end of a relationship requires a grieving period where we process what has happened. This is a period of time where those suffering from a heartbreak can reflect on the relationship and their own behaviour. Rather than trying to suppress these feelings, allowing yourself to feel them is integral to the healing process.

And while you are reflecting on the relationship and your emotions related to the break-up, you may learn a thing or two about yourself and what you want out of a future relationship.

Recompose yourself

https://www.itrendnaija.com/2019/08/how-start-over-after-break-up..html?m=1

PUSSYHOE:
If we ask 1m men in the world randomly how many have received help to improve and achieve their goals from their gf/fiancee/wife i doubt 100k will come out, if the same question to 1m women i guarantee close to a million would say yes their men helped them improve and achieve their goals.

Men help women almost every seconds

women rarely. infact women rarely help women cus of jealousy and competition, if a woman needs help she goes to a man.

by help i believe we incline money/material things and favour?

We aren't teens here, What is 50-50?

Iwo lomo o continue fooling yourself.

Funmmyastic:
So you can't prove your so-called tested and trusted solutions?

I don't deal with haters.

don't bother responding cause I won't respond.

ubunja:
I don't deal with haters.
don't bother responding cause I won't respond.

Prove it if you are sure of yourself.Nonsense and relationship.