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Funmmyastic:
Iwo lomo o continue fooling yourself.

PUSSYHOE:
You wanted a response i gave a short one, now i know why ubunja didn't honour you. I was expecting a counter well this isn't my first disappointment with your gender.

Funmmyastic:
And all your so-called tested and trusted solutions to me is just like the blind leading the blind if at the end of it one does not achieve anything tangible with it.

Funmmyastic:
Is a relationship now a business that one will now be using tactics?I thinks a relationship should be 50-50 where lovers should be helping eachother.

DOMINO001:
Why is it that whenever king ubunja comes up with these his sermons the ladies feel uncomfortable? It could be that they feel threatened because"nice guys" like us are about to liberated. And this means lesser attention to them. It's understandable. What stops this ladies from creating their thread to enlighten their colleagues. For goodness sake people like us that are about to start the dating game have been helped a lot.
Just like week after my excruciating exams, one babe(a friend) called that she would like to come from Lagos to Benin. I said you are welcome oh. Babe say make I give am transport fare. I told her she should come then I will pay for going. She refused. I said tor na me call you before.

Cocao:
Y'all dont understand.

Men love to be used. They prefer for ladies to be dramatic like this. They love to have their females needy and whiny, else they'd think something is ultimately wrong with you.

If you show them a girl that behaves the opposite, they no go gree. They will say she's too independent or worse case boring.


Not all though but most.

Until men learn to dissociate beauty and sexual appeal from sense and act accordingly, they will continue to be carried away.

See them on front page shouting sense will not kill you. But tomorrow they are back to business as usual.

Men sef

Cocao:
Y'all dont understand.

Men love to be used. They prefer for ladies to be dramatic like this. They love to have their females needy and whiny, else they'd think something is ultimately wrong with you.

If you show them a girl that behaves the opposite, they no go gree. They will say she's too independent or worse case boring.


Not all though but most.

Until men learn to dissociate beauty and sexual appeal from sense and act accordingly, they will continue to be carried away.

See them on front page shouting sense will not kill you. But tomorrow they are back to business as usual.

Men sef

ubunja:
How A Woman Gold Digs You.

YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP ME.
Has a woman ever called you with a problem and said, "There's no one who can help me except you!" ? That was a lie designed to bait the Provider in you.

Women ALWAYS have men for different purposes to help them.

A woman has one man for rent, another for Dick, another for comfort, another for love, another for free labour etc. Trust me, she is NEVER out of options. She only acts like she's out of options to make you think you're her only option, not only in money but in sex and everything else. Which is a manipulation: If a woman doesn't ask you for money you start to think she's getting it somewhere. Probably getting fvcked for it. But if she asks you for money and really truly BEGS you for it, you tell yourself "truly this girl has no other men in her life...I'm the only one. Let me do my best to keep it that way". Boom!!!!

ubunja:
you have a point

ABCthings:
Too much generalization not all women seek money and not all men are sex crazy but nice thread tho...

ubunja:
How A Woman Gold Digs You.


PROLOGUE.
Women love money. Like you love sex. The thrill and ecstasy you feel as a man holding a woman's nàkéd soft body in your hands, a woman feels holding your money, NOT holding your nàkéd hard body.

And so, as you scheme and think of ways to get more and more sex out of your woman, your woman schemes and thinks of ways to get more and more money out of you.

But as a man you can be shameless in your pursuit of more sex because male greed is celebrated. With titles like Stud. But female greed, in any form, is frowned upon. If a woman hungers for more sex she's a nymphomaniac. If she hungers for more babies she's a Baby Factory. And if she hungers for more money she's a Gold Digger. She's High Maintenance. She's Materialistic. All negative titles.

So in her pursuit of "the bag", a woman is forced to be extra cunning in her methodology. She must be very subtle. She must secure the Bag without securing any unsavory titles.

THE PROBLEM.
The biggest problem women face when digging a man for money is that they start out wrong:

At the earliest stages of a relationship, many a woman seeks to impress a new BF by not demanding money, hoping to appear low-maintenance. And virtuous. But when the relationship takes off it becomes difficult to shed that image. How can she start demanding money now when she initially presented herself as above it?

She started out wrong. In love, how you start matters. For both men and women.

So instead of flat-out asking for money, the woman is then forced to come up with elaborate, well thoughtout schemes to get her pretty little hands on her man's pretty little bag.

SCRIPTS & SCENARIOS

Women have gold digger groups on Social Media where they share "Scripts" (things to say) and "Scenarios" (plots to act out) to get what they want from men. And they really mean business.

This writeup will showcase just a few of these tricks and techniques so you get a general idea of the female cunning you're up against.

But keep in mind that the methods and procedures listed here are mainly for minor league gold diggers. The type you're most likely to cross paths with. Major league gold diggers, the type that target ministers, CEOs and billionaires, play a higher level game and you're less likely to cross paths with them, for they don't move in the circles you move in. And while small time gold diggers use skimpy provocative outfits to get a man's moola, big time gold diggers use a weapon of an entirely different nature: Femininity. Which is a woman's true power.

Now that we've that out of the way, let's get this show on the road...

YOUR WEAK POINTS.
When it comes to female manipulation, your Ego is your greatest weakness. Followed by your Libido.

Let's start with the libido. .

HOW WOMEN CUT YOU OFF SEX TO GET WHAT THEY WANT FROM YOU.
Men love sex. Every woman knows that from an early age. And so the easiest of a woman's schemes will centre around controlling your access to sex. If a woman wants something from you, if she really wants your attention, she closes her legs and cuts off the sex.

But NOT in the way you think. She does it indirectly.

Let's say your girl wants a new pair of shoes. She can't afford them and for whatever reason she can't ask her father for the money. So she has to trick and deceive you. Her BF.

Like this: She comes in one day distraught and very stressed. You ask what's bothering her. She tells you she and her sister/mother/cousin/best friend had a fight. Why? Because your GF asked for money for [insert any worthwhile cause here] but now she can't pay it back because of A B C. Now her relationship with said creditor/lender has hit rock bottom. And the relationship meant a lot to her. Now she's stressed and can't think straight. She has constant headaches and can't even sleep (she takes a panado in your presence to make the story more believable).

Then here comes the part where the sex cut happens---------------> Then she tells you she's so stressed and burdened that she CANT EVEN THINK OF SEX. LET ALONE GET TURNED ON.

And just like that she has cut off the sex. And you don't even see.

ANALYSIS:
It's a wining manipulation.

Apparently, she has a problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life. She knows you won't give a crap about her problems unless they directly affect the One thing you want most from her: Her Pussy.

So she ties the pussy into the issue - She can't get wet. Meaning: No Sex For You buddy. Unless and until the problem is solved.

And because you really like that sweet kitten, it's a great stress reliever, and what's more, you're hooked on it, you resolve to do all in your power to solve her problem. If only to keep her legs open. If for no other reason than to get your daily dose of your pussy drug.

And so you ask her how much she owes. She tells you. It's not even a grievous amount. You dare not let an amount as small as a quarter of your salary get between you and your beloved kitten. And so you make an offer to settle her debt: "Okay, I'll give you the money"

Her reaction is instant! Her face lights up. She jumps on you and showers you with kisses and Thank Yous. And on that day, maybe after a long while, she actually initiates sex. (She's genuinely happy. She's getting a new pair of shoes soon.)

So, it will happen that after giving her the money for whatever she needed, she'll come one day with a new pair of shoes.

That's your money buddy.

HOW YOUR GIRL WILL PLAY THE GAME.
Obviously when your girl comes to you, it won't be about shoes. It will be about anything under the sun. Anything. But the pattern will be the same: A sob story and a financial problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life, that you're forced to solve for her by offering to help out, and a few days later she comes with something new. Maybe it's a new phone or a new hairstyle or a new pair of jeans.

When a girl tells you she's not in the mood for sex, or can't think of sex, after sharing her financial problems, that's her cutting you off sex to force you to solve her financial problems for her because of your love for sex.

When your girl constantly comes with something new after you help her with some money issue you've to realize it's no longer a coincidence. She's gold digging you.

THE LIMPING GIRL WITH THE BANDAGED FOOT.
Women are great actors. The best.

Don't put it past a woman to bandage her foot and come to you limping telling you she sprained her ankle just so you give her money to go to a doctor that she'll proceed to divert to get a new hairstyle.

How does she justify the deceit to herself?: "I'm doing it to be pretty for him".

Women fund their fancy frivolities by asking for money for legitimate causes then diverting the money to said fancy frivolities

Also be wary of the girl with the bandaged foot walking around limping. That's how women hide an STI infection. If you know you know.

THE LONG GAME.
Sometimes a woman's scheme is a long time in the making. Months even. Which makes it even the more believable in the end. Like the next scenario:

THE FAKE FUNERAL.
For example, a girl may tell you of a sick relative somewhere who progressively gets worse as each month passes until half a year later they pass away. And because she kept you updated over the months you don't even once suspect it's all a scheme. You promptly give her the money she needs to go pay her respects. Those few days you think she's in another state mourning her dearly departed, she's visiting her aunty in another suburb not far from where you live. And you're yet to give her more money. When she requests for the transport fare back home.

Fake Funerals are effective for the simple reasons that 1. You won't want to accompany her cause we all hate funerals and watching your girl cry is not easy; And 2. No one dares question and verify anything that's to do with funerals. It's taboo. Which makes the scenario appealing to utilize

The Fake Funeral can also be a Fake Accident, a Fake Illness or even a Fake Trip. Anything can be faked. But the common denominator in every Fake story is that YOU have to foot the bill for whatever is happening.

THE BROKE GIVER.
Sometimes a broke woman gets your money by falsely attributing her broke state to virtue.

When a woman loves telling you of her generosity to church and charity especially in connection with why she's always broke or why she can't afford this or that, it's her way of motivating you to assist her financially since her own finances are being channeled to the "greater good". eg "All my friends have new laptops. Wish I could get one too. But I can't get a new computer when there are children out there going to bed hungry. I find myself helping those less blessed".

And your heart then tells you, "Wow this girl is amazing! What a good heart she has! How much are new laptops anyways? Maybe I can surprise her with one!"

She's counting on that very dialogue you're having with yourself.

You can bet her friends don't have new laptops. And you can bet she ain't giving no cent to no hungry children.

THE SINGLE MOTHER.
Women are emotional manipulators.

Meaning a Single Mother will wait till you've emotionally bonded with her after weeks of nonstop sexual intercourse then drop the bombshell: "I have a kid".

By then you're too emotionally invested to pull out. So you start rationalizing the situation to yourself: "Ofcourse I never wanted to raise another man's kid... But this boy is handsome and well-behaved.... Didn't uncle Tobias also raise another man's child?... But this woman herself is beautiful. ... This can be my chance to have a gorgeous GF!"

And so you become Step Father. Your money raising another man's sperm product.

Whenever a woman waits until you've fvcked her to your heart's content then brings out her kids, just know it's a manipulation. A woman who means well will tell you upfront she has kids. But then again that would scare you off. So...

Now let's talk about your Ego...

WHAT IS THE MALE EGO?
Men are socially conditioned to hate sharing. To be territorial. Hence the virgin is more valuable than the slut as a wife. And cheating is the biggest deal breaker. While it takes the smallest thing to arouse jealousy.

Men are also conditioned to feel at their best providing for their women. Hence men are especially sensitive to broke shaming.

And so, Having a woman all for himself and providing for her, all on his own; is what makes a man feel like a "real man". This feeling is his Ego. It's strong as steel. It's the reason men go to war to die for their women. But it's also fragile. Something as simple as a woman having her own money shatters it. Because a man's sense of worth hinges on him being useful to his woman.

So Ego is simultaneously a man's greatest asset, and his greatest vulnerability.

As a vulnerability It makes him such a joy to manipulate.

HOW WOMEN PLAY WITH YOUR EGO TO GET YOUR MONEY.
Your Ego is your greatest enemy. And women know this. Everytime you hear women say, "Real men don't do A B C", just know a manipulation is loading...

Your woman targets your Ego in surprisingly easy ways: Does your woman have a lot of stuff that she claims is "borrowed", from friends and family?
If Yes. Then she's working your ego.

Many times if a woman can't directly ask for money for an item she comes to you with an item like it and makes an effort to let you know it's borrowed. It will start eating you up that your woman is using borrowed things, while you've cash to spare to get her those very things. That's your disloyal Ego setting you on the wrong path. Your ego whispers "a real man can't allow his woman to go begging other people for stuff".

Your girl is counting on you telling yourself that. Your Ego is how she gets things from you. Your Ego is her best friend.

But if your girl really wants to pull your strings and really work your ego; she mentions her Ex: "This phone was bought for me by my ex. I don't like using it. It keeps reminding me of him".

And that's the bait right there.

Your territorial nature is now used against you. Because you've a strong dislike of sharing your woman with any man past or present, never is your ego more rattled than at the mention of an Ex. Especially in connection with money and memories. It makes you feel inadequate. And jealous.

Your ego is now practically screaming at your ear to get her a new phone. Obviously one that will rival the one her Ex gave her. Like a puppet on strings you're making the moves your woman wants you to make.

HOW WOMEN USE MOODS TO GET THEIR WAY.
Men have been raised with the misguided belief that women's happiness is their responsibility. A man feels his job well done when his woman is happy. But it should be the other way round. WOMEN are the ones who were put on the Earth to be responsible for the happiness of men. Wasn't Eve made for Adam?

The modern Adam has been cruelly misinformed.

For if his woman asks for something and he denies her, all the woman has to do is to be sad and moody until he gives in. Nothing directly affects a man like his woman's moods. And sooner or later her constant sadness wears him down and he yields to her demands.

Women get moody to get their way.

Because a man enjoys coming home to a beautiful happy face he would sooner give in to his woman's demands than endure days of a sombre downcast face meeting him at the door. But it's all a manipulation.

YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP ME.
Has a woman ever called you with a problem and said, "There's no one who can help me except you!" ? That was a lie designed to bait the Provider in you.

Women ALWAYS have men for different purposes to help them.

A woman has one man for rent, another for Dick, another for comfort, another for love, another for free labour etc. Trust me, she is NEVER out of options. She only acts like she's out of options to make you think you're her only option, not only in money but in sex and everything else. Which is a manipulation: If a woman doesn't ask you for money you start to think she's getting it somewhere. Probably getting fvcked for it. But if she asks you for money and really truly BEGS you for it, you tell yourself "truly this girl has no other men in her life...I'm the only one. Let me do my best to keep it that way". Boom!!!!

SOLUTIONS

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE.
Many men willfully place themselves in the path of Gold Diggers. And then cry foul when the Gold Diggers start digging.

Why do you have that BMW as your WhatsApp profile pic? Why is your townhouse your Twitter profile pic? Why are you always uploading your dinner pics to Instagram with the high rate of starvation in Africa? Why are you always uploading your weekend gateways to Facebook? Don't you know other people live boring lives and especially women are looking for adventure? And while you're at it, explain how borrowing your friend's car to get a girl makes sense? Because look, if you use money to get women it's only natural that women will think you've money.

Okay you made mistakes and you've a Gold Digger on your hands now what? How do you keep your gold safe?

MAKE HER FEEL GUILTY FOR ASKING FOR MONEY.
Your first line of defense in protecting yourself from a gold digger is using her First Impression against her. Because most women start out wrong by never demanding anything moneywise, that's your secret weapon.

In the early days of the relationship, a new GF is on her best behavior and is wary of setting herself in a bad light. So she gives you plenty of sex with minimal demands. Use that against her.

If you once fvcked a girl free, there's NO REASON to pay for sex going forward. Make her feel guilty about now asking for compensation: "Are you now selling?" "Are you now a prostitute?"
Make her feel ashamed of demanding money so she gets discouraged.

Do it right and she'll either backtrack with "I was joking!" or "Uhm, forget it". Then she'll go trouble her brothers and sisters and uncles and all the losers in her Friendzone for money. Just not you.

BE THE GUY SHE'S SCARED TO ASK.
Have a reputation of hating gold diggers.

Deliberately watch Gold Digger-themed TV Shows with her, only to be extremely disgusted so much that you pull the DVD or memory stick out in utter fury. Her mind is reading your hatred for gold diggers in any form. She'll think twice before making any outlandish financial requests.

BEAT HER TO THE PUNCH.
The moment a woman asks for money, is the moment you have a problem. Which is BIGGER than hers. Which you were about to tell her about.

A woman can understand why you can't help her when you tell her you have a bigger problem than hers.

Have you noticed that people have this annoying habit of telling you all their life problems when you ask for a helping hand? They'll start telling you about their unpaid rent, their unpaid tuition and their missed car payments. Why do people do that? BECAUSE IT WORKS. Instead of feeling angry that you got no assistance, you're left feeling sorry for the person that you even bothered him with your small problem when he had bigger problems of his own! It's a mental trick the person played on you. Use it on women. It works.

And it works even better if you can sense or predict a woman is about to ask for money, but before she does, you bombard her with your own problems. Maybe you hear from someone your GF broke her laptop. Before she comes to you with the sad news counter her with your own problems. That way you beat her to the punch. She can't ask for anything.

RECEIPTS RECEIPTS RECEIPTS.
An effective method to protect your money from fake scenarios and misuse by women is to insist on cash receipts. Yes receipts can be faked and yes not every service or product comes with a cash receipt. Still you can save yourself a lot of manipulation by demanding receipts.

But you've to be cunning about it. Your girl can't suspect anything. Also, emphasize to her that you don't mind the change. But you really need that receipt. In case you've to return whatever product she wants the money for.

NEVER TELL A WOMAN YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY.
That doesn't make sense to women. It's like telling a 4 yr old you can't afford to buy a car. The little kid doesn't understand why other people your age are driving and you are not. He doesn't understand the economics, disappointments and unfairness of life.

Women struggle with the concept of Male Brokeness. In their little minds You're a man and You're supposed to have money. When you tell a woman you don't have money all she's hearing is You're lazy.

So, with women, your "I don't have money" must be linked to "Because I just paid for X and Y" or something like that. If you admit you don't have money quickly tell her where the money went. Even if it's a lie. All she needs to understand is THE MONEY WAS THERE, BUT IT WENT SOMEWHERE. That way she tells herself: "Oh well next time then!"

FINAL THOUGHTS

WHEN A WOMAN USES YOU TO "LEVEL UP".
Sometimes women gold dig you to use your money to improve themselves to impress better men than you. That's the ultimate in game.

Let's discuss it in a future Miseducation.


# TheRedPill
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wisethoughts:
Ubunja pls can you explain the above bolded, which is concept of femininity because we are all hoping to reach the top someday by God's grace and understanding their manipulations at this early stage will go a long way for us

ubunja:
you have a point




We're saying the same thing but in different words. I agree men need their women needy and whiny. It's the Male Ego. Men have not been taught how to deal with a Damsel that's not in Distress.

Cocao:
There was an experiment I recently carried out related to this topic and could probably be helpful as well but I cannot post it here because it is really personal to me.

Do you mind if I PM you?

yettymuse:
Ubunja can we have a MISEDUCATION on independent women please... . I'm curious.. !

ubunja:
How A Woman Gold Digs You.


PROLOGUE.
Women love money. Like you love sex. The thrill and ecstasy you feel as a man holding a woman's nàkéd soft body in your hands, a woman feels holding your money, NOT holding your nàkéd hard body.

And so, as you scheme and think of ways to get more and more sex out of your woman, your woman schemes and thinks of ways to get more and more money out of you.

But as a man you can be shameless in your pursuit of more sex because male greed is celebrated. With titles like Stud. But female greed, in any form, is frowned upon. If a woman hungers for more sex she's a nymphomaniac. If she hungers for more babies she's a Baby Factory. And if she hungers for more money she's a Gold Digger. She's High Maintenance. She's Materialistic. All negative titles.

So in her pursuit of "the bag", a woman is forced to be extra cunning in her methodology. She must be very subtle. She must secure the Bag without securing any unsavory titles.

THE PROBLEM.
The biggest problem women face when digging a man for money is that they start out wrong:

At the earliest stages of a relationship, many a woman seeks to impress a new BF by not demanding money, hoping to appear low-maintenance. And virtuous. But when the relationship takes off it becomes difficult to shed that image. How can she start demanding money now when she initially presented herself as above it?

She started out wrong. In love, how you start matters. For both men and women.

So instead of flat-out asking for money, the woman is then forced to come up with elaborate, well thoughtout schemes to get her pretty little hands on her man's pretty little bag.

SCRIPTS & SCENARIOS

Women have gold digger groups on Social Media where they share "Scripts" (things to say) and "Scenarios" (plots to act out) to get what they want from men. And they really mean business.

This writeup will showcase just a few of these tricks and techniques so you get a general idea of the female cunning you're up against.

But keep in mind that the methods and procedures listed here are mainly for minor league gold diggers. The type you're most likely to cross paths with. Major league gold diggers, the type that target ministers, CEOs and billionaires, play a higher level game and you're less likely to cross paths with them, for they don't move in the circles you move in. And while small time gold diggers use skimpy provocative outfits to get a man's moola, big time gold diggers use a weapon of an entirely different nature: Femininity. Which is a woman's true power.

Now that we've that out of the way, let's get this show on the road...

YOUR WEAK POINTS.
When it comes to female manipulation, your Ego is your greatest weakness. Followed by your Libido.

Let's start with the libido. .

HOW WOMEN CUT YOU OFF SEX TO GET WHAT THEY WANT FROM YOU.
Men love sex. Every woman knows that from an early age. And so the easiest of a woman's schemes will centre around controlling your access to sex. If a woman wants something from you, if she really wants your attention, she closes her legs and cuts off the sex.

But NOT in the way you think. She does it indirectly.

Let's say your girl wants a new pair of shoes. She can't afford them and for whatever reason she can't ask her father for the money. So she has to trick and deceive you. Her BF.

Like this: She comes in one day distraught and very stressed. You ask what's bothering her. She tells you she and her sister/mother/cousin/best friend had a fight. Why? Because your GF asked for money for [insert any worthwhile cause here] but now she can't pay it back because of A B C. Now her relationship with said creditor/lender has hit rock bottom. And the relationship meant a lot to her. Now she's stressed and can't think straight. She has constant headaches and can't even sleep (she takes a panado in your presence to make the story more believable).

Then here comes the part where the sex cut happens---------------> Then she tells you she's so stressed and burdened that she CANT EVEN THINK OF SEX. LET ALONE GET TURNED ON.

And just like that she has cut off the sex. And you don't even see.

ANALYSIS:
It's a wining manipulation.

Apparently, she has a problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life. She knows you won't give a crap about her problems unless they directly affect the One thing you want most from her: Her Pussy.

So she ties the pussy into the issue - She can't get wet. Meaning: No Sex For You buddy. Unless and until the problem is solved.

And because you really like that sweet kitten, it's a great stress reliever, and what's more, you're hooked on it, you resolve to do all in your power to solve her problem. If only to keep her legs open. If for no other reason than to get your daily dose of your pussy drug.

And so you ask her how much she owes. She tells you. It's not even a grievous amount. You dare not let an amount as small as a quarter of your salary get between you and your beloved kitten. And so you make an offer to settle her debt: "Okay, I'll give you the money"

Her reaction is instant! Her face lights up. She jumps on you and showers you with kisses and Thank Yous. And on that day, maybe after a long while, she actually initiates sex. (She's genuinely happy. She's getting a new pair of shoes soon.)

So, it will happen that after giving her the money for whatever she needed, she'll come one day with a new pair of shoes.

That's your money buddy.

HOW YOUR GIRL WILL PLAY THE GAME.
Obviously when your girl comes to you, it won't be about shoes. It will be about anything under the sun. Anything. But the pattern will be the same: A sob story and a financial problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life, that you're forced to solve for her by offering to help out, and a few days later she comes with something new. Maybe it's a new phone or a new hairstyle or a new pair of jeans.

When a girl tells you she's not in the mood for sex, or can't think of sex, after sharing her financial problems, that's her cutting you off sex to force you to solve her financial problems for her because of your love for sex.

When your girl constantly comes with something new after you help her with some money issue you've to realize it's no longer a coincidence. She's gold digging you.

THE LIMPING GIRL WITH THE BANDAGED FOOT.
Women are great actors. The best.

Don't put it past a woman to bandage her foot and come to you limping telling you she sprained her ankle just so you give her money to go to a doctor that she'll proceed to divert to get a new hairstyle.

How does she justify the deceit to herself?: "I'm doing it to be pretty for him".

Women fund their fancy frivolities by asking for money for legitimate causes then diverting the money to said fancy frivolities

Also be wary of the girl with the bandaged foot walking around limping. That's how women hide an STI infection. If you know you know.

THE LONG GAME.
Sometimes a woman's scheme is a long time in the making. Months even. Which makes it even the more believable in the end. Like the next scenario:

THE FAKE FUNERAL.
For example, a girl may tell you of a sick relative somewhere who progressively gets worse as each month passes until half a year later they pass away. And because she kept you updated over the months you don't even once suspect it's all a scheme. You promptly give her the money she needs to go pay her respects. Those few days you think she's in another state mourning her dearly departed, she's visiting her aunty in another suburb not far from where you live. And you're yet to give her more money. When she requests for the transport fare back home.

Fake Funerals are effective for the simple reasons that 1. You won't want to accompany her cause we all hate funerals and watching your girl cry is not easy; And 2. No one dares question and verify anything that's to do with funerals. It's taboo. Which makes the scenario appealing to utilize

The Fake Funeral can also be a Fake Accident, a Fake Illness or even a Fake Trip. Anything can be faked. But the common denominator in every Fake story is that YOU have to foot the bill for whatever is happening.

THE BROKE GIVER.
Sometimes a broke woman gets your money by falsely attributing her broke state to virtue.

When a woman loves telling you of her generosity to church and charity especially in connection with why she's always broke or why she can't afford this or that, it's her way of motivating you to assist her financially since her own finances are being channeled to the "greater good". eg "All my friends have new laptops. Wish I could get one too. But I can't get a new computer when there are children out there going to bed hungry. I find myself helping those less blessed".

And your heart then tells you, "Wow this girl is amazing! What a good heart she has! How much are new laptops anyways? Maybe I can surprise her with one!"

She's counting on that very dialogue you're having with yourself.

You can bet her friends don't have new laptops. And you can bet she ain't giving no cent to no hungry children.

THE SINGLE MOTHER.
Women are emotional manipulators.

Meaning a Single Mother will wait till you've emotionally bonded with her after weeks of nonstop sexual intercourse then drop the bombshell: "I have a kid".

By then you're too emotionally invested to pull out. So you start rationalizing the situation to yourself: "Ofcourse I never wanted to raise another man's kid... But this boy is handsome and well-behaved.... Didn't uncle Tobias also raise another man's child?... But this woman herself is beautiful. ... This can be my chance to have a gorgeous GF!"

And so you become Step Father. Your money raising another man's sperm product.

Whenever a woman waits until you've fvcked her to your heart's content then brings out her kids, just know it's a manipulation. A woman who means well will tell you upfront she has kids. But then again that would scare you off. So...

Now let's talk about your Ego...

WHAT IS THE MALE EGO?
Men are socially conditioned to hate sharing. To be territorial. Hence the virgin is more valuable than the slut as a wife. And cheating is the biggest deal breaker. While it takes the smallest thing to arouse jealousy.

Men are also conditioned to feel at their best providing for their women. Hence men are especially sensitive to broke shaming.

And so, Having a woman all for himself and providing for her, all on his own; is what makes a man feel like a "real man". This feeling is his Ego. It's strong as steel. It's the reason men go to war to die for their women. But it's also fragile. Something as simple as a woman having her own money shatters it. Because a man's sense of worth hinges on him being useful to his woman.

So Ego is simultaneously a man's greatest asset, and his greatest vulnerability.

As a vulnerability It makes him such a joy to manipulate.

HOW WOMEN PLAY WITH YOUR EGO TO GET YOUR MONEY.
Your Ego is your greatest enemy. And women know this. Everytime you hear women say, "Real men don't do A B C", just know a manipulation is loading...

Your woman targets your Ego in surprisingly easy ways: Does your woman have a lot of stuff that she claims is "borrowed", from friends and family?
If Yes. Then she's working your ego.

Many times if a woman can't directly ask for money for an item she comes to you with an item like it and makes an effort to let you know it's borrowed. It will start eating you up that your woman is using borrowed things, while you've cash to spare to get her those very things. That's your disloyal Ego setting you on the wrong path. Your ego whispers "a real man can't allow his woman to go begging other people for stuff".

Your girl is counting on you telling yourself that. Your Ego is how she gets things from you. Your Ego is her best friend.

But if your girl really wants to pull your strings and really work your ego; she mentions her Ex: "This phone was bought for me by my ex. I don't like using it. It keeps reminding me of him".

And that's the bait right there.

Your territorial nature is now used against you. Because you've a strong dislike of sharing your woman with any man past or present, never is your ego more rattled than at the mention of an Ex. Especially in connection with money and memories. It makes you feel inadequate. And jealous.

Your ego is now practically screaming at your ear to get her a new phone. Obviously one that will rival the one her Ex gave her. Like a puppet on strings you're making the moves your woman wants you to make.

HOW WOMEN USE MOODS TO GET THEIR WAY.
Men have been raised with the misguided belief that women's happiness is their responsibility. A man feels his job well done when his woman is happy. But it should be the other way round. WOMEN are the ones who were put on the Earth to be responsible for the happiness of men. Wasn't Eve made for Adam?

The modern Adam has been cruelly misinformed.

For if his woman asks for something and he denies her, all the woman has to do is to be sad and moody until he gives in. Nothing directly affects a man like his woman's moods. And sooner or later her constant sadness wears him down and he yields to her demands.

Women get moody to get their way.

Because a man enjoys coming home to a beautiful happy face he would sooner give in to his woman's demands than endure days of a sombre downcast face meeting him at the door. But it's all a manipulation.

YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP ME.
Has a woman ever called you with a problem and said, "There's no one who can help me except you!" ? That was a lie designed to bait the Provider in you.

Women ALWAYS have men for different purposes to help them.

A woman has one man for rent, another for Dick, another for comfort, another for love, another for free labour etc. Trust me, she is NEVER out of options. She only acts like she's out of options to make you think you're her only option, not only in money but in sex and everything else. Which is a manipulation: If a woman doesn't ask you for money you start to think she's getting it somewhere. Probably getting fvcked for it. But if she asks you for money and really truly BEGS you for it, you tell yourself "truly this girl has no other men in her life...I'm the only one. Let me do my best to keep it that way". Boom!!!!

SOLUTIONS

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE.
Many men willfully place themselves in the path of Gold Diggers. And then cry foul when the Gold Diggers start digging.

Why do you have that BMW as your WhatsApp profile pic? Why is your townhouse your Twitter profile pic? Why are you always uploading your dinner pics to Instagram with the high rate of starvation in Africa? Why are you always uploading your weekend gateways to Facebook? Don't you know other people live boring lives and especially women are looking for adventure? And while you're at it, explain how borrowing your friend's car to get a girl makes sense? Because look, if you use money to get women it's only natural that women will think you've money.

Okay you made mistakes and you've a Gold Digger on your hands now what? How do you keep your gold safe?

MAKE HER FEEL GUILTY FOR ASKING FOR MONEY.
Your first line of defense in protecting yourself from a gold digger is using her First Impression against her. Because most women start out wrong by never demanding anything moneywise, that's your secret weapon.

In the early days of the relationship, a new GF is on her best behavior and is wary of setting herself in a bad light. So she gives you plenty of sex with minimal demands. Use that against her.

If you once fvcked a girl free, there's NO REASON to pay for sex going forward. Make her feel guilty about now asking for compensation: "Are you now selling?" "Are you now a prostitute?"
Make her feel ashamed of demanding money so she gets discouraged.

Do it right and she'll either backtrack with "I was joking!" or "Uhm, forget it". Then she'll go trouble her brothers and sisters and uncles and all the losers in her Friendzone for money. Just not you.

BE THE GUY SHE'S SCARED TO ASK.
Have a reputation of hating gold diggers.

Deliberately watch Gold Digger-themed TV Shows with her, only to be extremely disgusted so much that you pull the DVD or memory stick out in utter fury. Her mind is reading your hatred for gold diggers in any form. She'll think twice before making any outlandish financial requests.

BEAT HER TO THE PUNCH.
The moment a woman asks for money, is the moment you have a problem. Which is BIGGER than hers. Which you were about to tell her about.

A woman can understand why you can't help her when you tell her you have a bigger problem than hers.

Have you noticed that people have this annoying habit of telling you all their life problems when you ask for a helping hand? They'll start telling you about their unpaid rent, their unpaid tuition and their missed car payments. Why do people do that? BECAUSE IT WORKS. Instead of feeling angry that you got no assistance, you're left feeling sorry for the person that you even bothered him with your small problem when he had bigger problems of his own! It's a mental trick the person played on you. Use it on women. It works.

And it works even better if you can sense or predict a woman is about to ask for money, but before she does, you bombard her with your own problems. Maybe you hear from someone your GF broke her laptop. Before she comes to you with the sad news counter her with your own problems. That way you beat her to the punch. She can't ask for anything.

RECEIPTS RECEIPTS RECEIPTS.
An effective method to protect your money from fake scenarios and misuse by women is to insist on cash receipts. Yes receipts can be faked and yes not every service or product comes with a cash receipt. Still you can save yourself a lot of manipulation by demanding receipts.

But you've to be cunning about it. Your girl can't suspect anything. Also, emphasize to her that you don't mind the change. But you really need that receipt. In case you've to return whatever product she wants the money for.

NEVER TELL A WOMAN YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY.
That doesn't make sense to women. It's like telling a 4 yr old you can't afford to buy a car. The little kid doesn't understand why other people your age are driving and you are not. He doesn't understand the economics, disappointments and unfairness of life.

Women struggle with the concept of Male Brokeness. In their little minds You're a man and You're supposed to have money. When you tell a woman you don't have money all she's hearing is You're lazy.

So, with women, your "I don't have money" must be linked to "Because I just paid for X and Y" or something like that. If you admit you don't have money quickly tell her where the money went. Even if it's a lie. All she needs to understand is THE MONEY WAS THERE, BUT IT WENT SOMEWHERE. That way she tells herself: "Oh well next time then!"

FINAL THOUGHTS

WHEN A WOMAN USES YOU TO "LEVEL UP".
Sometimes women gold dig you to use your money to improve themselves to impress better men than you. That's the ultimate in game.

Let's discuss it in a future Miseducation.


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ubunja:
it's going to be titled The Female Alpha.

Posting as usual last week of the month or first week of the next.

dangoteinlaw:
Hahhaha I'm laughing so hard reading this and the thing is my gf is here with me but I can't show her this. These girls have already concluded that we men will forever worship and be their slaves as long as they have their pussy as bait....

That part "throw the punch" really cracked my up coz I'm a master in that and I learned it from my polygamous uncle. That man na multi millionaire but the excuse he will use to counter your request you will even feel like giving him. Nice work sir!!!

ebonyggurl:
So in your mind, all women are gold diggers and manipulators?
Why generalising stuff like that? Some of us are real.

From all these threads you post, some questions come to mind: what's a guy's usefulness in a relationship if all he brings to the table is his dick? Why should a woman want to move from girlfriend to wife when she sees you serve no usefulness apart from bedmantics?

Bahddo:
actually ALL women are manipulative. They do not all succeed, but they all try one way or the other. The attempt is what makes you a manipulator, not exactly success.

About gold-digging, we both know that women rarely ever marry/date below what they perceive to be their own class. There's a reason terms like 'hypergamy' exists, and your attempt at denying it does not change it.

Quit the crap about motivation for marriage. Just like sex, marriage benefits women more than it does men. You ladies basically have someone who thinks it's his duty to carry all your baggage for the rest of his life.

Bahddo:
Ubunja, awesome writeup. Glad there are other men who see through these ladies and their schemes. Keep it up man!

bigpriik:
women are gold?
bro who stole your masculinity? I bet your mother will slap you for saying that ,do you think your mother and sisters are happy when they hear your gf is gold digging you .
bro wake up you have reached the apex of female manipulation you need rehab now peace..

Bahddo:
actually ALL women are manipulative. They do not all succeed, but they all try one way or the other. The attempt is what makes you a manipulator, not exactly success.

About gold-digging, we both know that women rarely ever marry/date below what they perceive to be their own class. There's a reason terms like 'hypergamy' exists, and your attempt at denying it does not change it.

Quit the crap about motivation for marriage. Just like sex, marriage benefits women more than it does men. You ladies basically have someone who thinks it's his duty to carry all your baggage for the rest of his life.

ebonyggurl:
What's this one saying?
I never denied the fact that women marry men in a higher class than them...that doesn't make them gold diggers though. The owner of the thread was of the opinion that boyfriends should NOT give their girl friends ANYTHING in a relationship. Just fvck her and move on to the next one. So I asked. What will make the woman want to marry you when all you bring to the table is your dick??

Lmao at your belief that sex and marriage benefit women more than men. Yea...right. every woman wants her body to go through ridiculous changes due to multiple pregnancies and be life long "slaves" to their husbands. You men basically think you have someone whose duty it is to take all the crap you dish out on a daily.

Bahddo:
stop trying to twist reality. He never said guys should not give their girls anything. He was saying guys should learn to detect when they are being manipulated and listed ways to counter the manipulation. He also replied someone on the thread saying that there should be a balance as being stingy would drive your girl off.

Aunty, pregnancy is natural and is not exclusive to marriage. Your body changes because your body changes (and gluttony) not because you are married. What's more, your pregnancy does not benefit your husband more than it does you.

It's also a myth that wives are slaves to their husbands. It's the picture you ladies try to promote so it would be easier to manipulate the unsuspecting husbands. If anything, majority of their men slave for their families all their lives, never getting any sort of appreciation because "it's their duty."

Imagine having to pay through the nose to marry a lady so you can continue paying through the nose to provide for her and future kids while your kids prefer her to you because she's the one that gets to feed them the food you struggle to provide.

Marriage is far more beneficial to women. Doubt me? Go to churches and see how many of you are praying hard for a chance to become a "lifelong" slave. Ask people in long term relationships and find out which gender is more desperate to tie the knot. Also find out which gender is more likely to be broke and jobless and still get married.

Bahddo:
stop trying to twist reality. He never said guys should not give their girls anything. He was saying guys should learn to detect when they are being manipulated and listed ways to counter the manipulation. He also replied someone on the thread saying that there should be a balance as being stingy would drive your girl off.

Aunty, pregnancy is natural and is not exclusive to marriage. Your body changes because your body changes (and gluttony) not because you are married. What's more, your pregnancy does not benefit your husband more than it does you.

It's also a myth that wives are slaves to their husbands. It's the picture you ladies try to promote so it would be easier to manipulate the unsuspecting husbands. If anything, majority of their men slave for their families all their lives, never getting any sort of appreciation because "it's their duty."

Imagine having to pay through the nose to marry a lady so you can continue paying through the nose to provide for her and future kids while your kids prefer her to you because she's the one that gets to feed them the food you struggle to provide.

Marriage is far more beneficial to women. Doubt me? Go to churches and see how many of you are praying hard for a chance to become a "lifelong" slave. Ask people in long term relationships and find out which gender is more desperate to tie the knot. Also find out which gender is more likely to be broke and jobless and still get married.

ebonyggurl:
Lmao. Oga women are pressurized by society into tying the knot and having kids okay. You really think all of us want that?
You think pregnancy doesn't change the body drastically? Without getting pregnant, a woman can live a healthy lifestyle amd maintain her weight.
Talking as if there are no career wives or working women in the world