₦airaland Forum

DanXplore:
LMAO.

It is sad but true that majority of nigerian girls in the dating scene are opportunists that cannot be trusted (especially those within ages 17 to 25 from my own perspective). It is becoming so apparent and appalling to be ignored. I really thank God for the gift of '6th sense' with which I easily discern 'gold diggers/potential gold diggers' just by conversing and interecting with them for at most a few weeks. There is just something about their outlook and ideologies that exposes them - this isn't about judging a book by its cover. It is even so pathetic that most of the aforesaid ladies are often so dull and uncreative in their approach that they keep using the same format all the time i.e. trying to form sophisticated initially, next is to make very harmless looking requests to test the waters and If you succumb, they gradually raise the magnitude of their demands. On the other hand if you do not succumb, they switch to emotional black mail/guilt-trip. Popular among the guilt-trip approach is to either conciously call you broke just to perhaps challenge your feeble mind or as a subconcious response expressing their frustration for not falling for their antics. This I have observed severally on nairaland and even among my peers.

In truth, some guys just need someone they can trust. Someone they can confidently kiss without reservation, knowing that the person loves him in spirit and truth. Such girls are rare and are becoming endangered. We need to find a way of locating the few ones and preserve them

A genuine girl who has earned a guy's trust will in most cases (say 95%) have access to the guy's resources but the irony is that whatever resources the guy might have means nothing to such a lady of virtue. It is just extremely difficult and perhaps impossible to fake genuineness and integrity at least for a given period of time. This is why gold diggers and fake people in general are easy to spot if one is watchful and patient enough. One thing I have learnt is that time is a revealer. Time is the acid-test for character and motives. No price should be too small to pay for seiving the wheat of genuine people - in this case, lady from tars - in this case, gold diggers

In my interactions, I have met just one lady (about a decade ago) who I can vouch that loves from her heart of hearts. She is an embodiment of virture and grace. The world would be at its best with people like her in it (lol). I blew my chance and will never forgive myself for letting her slip away. I consider it my greatest misfortune.

Just to balance things up, this is not to say nigerian guys are excellent. I am only talking from a man's point of view because i am one.

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lovelybugs:
Lol, life is complicated
A man will ignore a woman who truly loves him to be with a gold digging slay queen and cry after she jilts him for a better payer.
Same thing for a woman
The thing is, most times we aren't fortunate enough to be able to love the people who truly love us back

WorWorBoy:
She is your black American sister


Are you asking me?

BetWinners:
I am not really surprised at your dumb response to my post.Afterall,akatas are generally degenerate,ignorant scum.When you finally get what you seek for on this forum (A Nigerian prick) you will surely crawl back into the hole you crawled out of

Amakavula:
Can I be honest with you?

No girl in this life would love you for who you are only what you are. What value do you bring to the table?
Even your mum loves you because you're her child. Stop dreaming dear. Find a babe that respects you at least, but you will spend small Las Las ..

Amakavula:
I don't deceive myself with Hollywood love trash. Respect and Value are the two most important things when a boy and girl come together.

Boy brings value : protection, money, Fame , height care and connection.

Girl bring Respect : fear of losing him, care , infatuation ( what you call love ) and mate guarding.

Even the oyibo you're dreaming of is looking for value : strength, sex prowess and "social point claims " ( i.e I am old but can still attract young men )

edydamsel:
can you compare me that way? its nt all naija gals mind u. i have been nice and loving. i have everything a man need but *i keep meeting guys that can make me commit suicide* very wicked sort of men. but one thing encourge me"not all naija guys are bad" like wise gals

Logobenz0:
That's why most of you in this country haven't married yet. Money money money money. Go and hustle and support your man. Look at South Africa girls and Kenya girls. Fvck you and your money, they only need your love. Not some lazy broke ass girls we have in this country.

thebosstrevor:
My thought is this, if you want nigerian women to stop disturbing you for money then Nigerian men should build Nigeria and make life easy for everybody then nobody will take companionship as a money making affair.

Amakavula:
Can I be honest with you?

No girl in this life would love you for who you are only what you are. What value do you bring to the table?
Even your mum loves you because you're her child. Stop dreaming dear. Find a babe that respects you at least, but you will spend small Las Las ..

DanXplore:
LMAO.

It is sad but true that majority of nigerian girls in the dating scene are opportunists that cannot be trusted (especially those within ages 17 to 25 from my own perspective). It is becoming so apparent and appalling to be ignored. I really thank God for the gift of '6th sense' with which I easily discern 'gold diggers/potential gold diggers' just by conversing and interecting with them for at most a few weeks. There is just something about their outlook and ideologies that exposes them - this isn't about judging a book by its cover. It is even so pathetic that most of the aforesaid ladies are often so dull and uncreative in their approach that they keep using the same format all the time i.e. trying to form sophisticated initially, next is to make very harmless looking requests to test the waters and If you succumb, they gradually raise the magnitude of their demands. On the other hand if you do not succumb, they switch to emotional black mail/guilt-trip. Popular among the guilt-trip approach is to either conciously call you broke just to perhaps challenge your feeble mind or as a subconcious response expressing their frustration for not falling for their antics. This I have observed severally on nairaland and even among my peers.

In truth, some guys just need someone they can trust. Someone they can confidently kiss without reservation, knowing that the person loves him in spirit and truth. Such girls are rare and are becoming endangered. We need to find a way of locating the few ones and preserve them

A genuine girl who has earned a guy's trust will in most cases (say 95%) have access to the guy's resources but the irony is that whatever resources the guy might have means nothing to such a lady of virtue. It is just extremely difficult and perhaps impossible to fake genuineness and integrity at least for a given period of time. This is why gold diggers and fake people in general are easy to spot if one is watchful and patient enough. One thing I have learnt is that time is a revealer. Time is the acid-test for character and motives. No price should be too small to pay for seiving the wheat of genuine people - in this case, lady from tars - in this case, gold diggers

In my interactions, I have met just one lady (about a decade ago) who I can vouch that loves from her heart of hearts. She is an embodiment of virture and grace. The world would be at its best with people like her in it (lol). I blew my chance and will never forgive myself for letting her slip away. I consider it my greatest misfortune.

Just to balance things up, this is not to say nigerian guys are excellent. I am only talking from a man's point of view because i am one.

Alwaysking:
Any other foreign girls I can try because it seems this generation of girls are born leeches

DSHADOWWALKER:
Its cause they dont like/love you,if they do,they wont leech on you,sometimes they do that to chase you away

AntiMCU:
This is not an excuse.
What happened to politely rejecting his advances?

Alwaysking:
Any other foreign girls I can try because it seems this generation of girls are born leeches

Amakavula:
Can I be honest with you?

No girl in this life would love you for who you are only what you are. What value do you bring to the table?
Even your mum loves you because you're her child. Stop dreaming dear. Find a babe that respects you at least, but you will spend small Las Las ..

Ik09:
Women's empowerment is at an all time high everywhere else, but Naija babes are still looking for a man to spend on them.

A woman who only "loves" a guy because of what he can afford is a gold digger. What happens if your guy who's bringing value to the table goes broke?

carter009:
That's the point.

AntiMCU:
The way you heaped the responsibility of nation building on the men though.

AkataWoman:
I am because I’ve never heard of her but clearly you have.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Seems you men are blind to all the ladies doing well in their businesses and jobs

AntiMCU:
Dem ban you again?

AkataWoman:
I could just get Nigerian prick nearby. I don’t have to solicit it online.

You seem so terribly angry and emotional that I believe you’re a woman posing as a man. There’s been nothing masculine or mature in your responses. Mad that I’m here to take your men?

Why not channel your anger into improving the economy of your country so women won’t be forced to rely on men for money? Akata men led the march Civil Rights in America and improved life for their people over here. Maybe you can learn from that degenerate ignorant scum.

Logobenz0:
Exactly my brother. Naija own too much Abeg. That's why no foreigners are coming for their hands in marriage. Time is coming wen Dem go find men to marry for this country Dem no go see get. Pathetic

AkataWoman:
This notion of western men running to other parts of the world to look for women is absolutely ridiculous. Most Americans are married to other Americans--whatever their nationality. And most akata men--the vast majority--are married to akata women.

So can you stop being so emotional and actually be rational.

If you think western women are bigger leeches than Nigerian ones, then good for you. Are you in Nigeria? If so, you should have no trouble at all finding a mate. But it seems the majority of your male peers disagree with you. So you can argue that amongst yourselves while I enjoy my life from the comfort of America.

Millions of Nigerian women working and doing well for themselves? In Nigeria?!!!

Whatever you do, don't lie. I know more about Nigeria its people and culture than you think.

luminouz:
Yet u want me to pay u 5k for something that can fetch u $500?
Why not make the money on your own and stop the adverts?

Freelanceona100:
I do make money on a daily okay, actually serious people summon courage for my lessons..na help I dey help

Womenareape:
naija women are naturally low self esteemed black creatures.

She want someone good to come her way but she is as rotten as an egg!