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Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by donlittle25: 10:03am On Aug 06, 2019 |
CoolAmbience:see quote |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by koyyess: 10:05am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Thank goodness for your life. Next time, don't date/marry out of lust/infatuation. One month sef is enough for me to bring out the bad character of a negroe just by pissing him off and asking intelligent questions to know his state of mind. You were blind with desperation and fairy tales from that useless zee world. At least you have your family, friends and kids. Those are priceless compared to a miserable sham marriage. Better luck next time ( with a Caucasian I hope). 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 10:05am On Aug 06, 2019 |
obentenyson:Jesus wey no marry didn't he fulfill his destiny? Same with Paul and mother theresa.i don't know what it is with guys that think they are soooo perfect and have all moral authority to judge another adult because she does not have a penis. On the last day God is not interested whether you died a Mrs or not it will be what did you do with the life I gave you. Even life itself will ask you that in your daily pursuit.meanwhile marriage ought to be a positive means to an end but what everyone is interested is is die there.just make it work even if it costs her her sanity, peace of mind or life as if she married herself.abeg I don taya 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Meteng: 10:06am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Na dis bobi carry the guy go there, nothing else 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 10:07am On Aug 06, 2019 |
3 Months courtship : Too short Long distance relationship: False Relationship Quick Marriage: Disaster!!! What were they thinking?? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by ElsonMorali: 10:08am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Ryan03: Oh...I get it now. You mean psychological abuse. That's very true. Most times too, physical abuse also brings about psychological abuse. The partner will be so scared of the spouse, their heart will pump harder whenever they see or hear the voice of their abuser. You are right. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 10:08am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: √. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by golddeejay(m): 10:09am On Aug 06, 2019 |
dangotesmummy:Okay I see. I actually think marriage is not for everyone, as the society makes us think. So Enjoy your been forever single (or divorced). |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 10:10am On Aug 06, 2019 |
MORAL LESSON : Every Man will not be like Your Father. OBSERVATION : You saying that You both tried to make it work is a Big Lie because in making it work, there must be shifting of grounds, letting go of some things, coming down from your high horses and tolerating generally, you both never did. You had a wrong perception of marriage, you saw it from the bollywood point of view (You fall in love, you offend each other, you sing and dance about it, everything gets fine) That's not how it works, you sef don confirm. Good luck anyway. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Pinuc: 10:12am On Aug 06, 2019 |
NO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, NO MONEY ISSUES, TWO ADULTS DECIDES TO DIVORCE AND ONE HAVE THE EFFRONTERY TO COME ON LINE AND TELL US BULLSHIT. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 10:12am On Aug 06, 2019 |
golddeejay:if you don't think that you are perfect then you will understand that women have their own human frailties just as the men do but you always think that I'm so perfect that I must show off how much I know everything and who is good and who is bad If you don't think you are perfect you will do unto others as you want them to do to you.submission and compromise is not a one way traffic for women.if she's bending for you,you too bend for her but if you always want to show I know it all,na the result be that.you will keep changing wives every year like slippers 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 10:12am On Aug 06, 2019 |
DelilahMakinde:What is she selling?? 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by CoolAmbience(m): 10:13am On Aug 06, 2019 |
donlittle25: Bro, their matter taya everybody na. For two people wey don sabi each other for almost 20 years to dey quarrel and tear cloth almost every time... I nor think say na how courtship long reach be the issue. How you see am? 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by starstaz(m): 10:13am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Amakavula: Hmmmm! Amaka |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by koyyess: 10:15am On Aug 06, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: You are 100% correct. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by donlittle25: 10:15am On Aug 06, 2019 |
koyyess:Why would you want to push someone buttons by pissing him off just to know his state of mind? 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by frozen70(f): 10:15am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and if your happiness is not guaranteed, just do the needful. As for the instergram man that says that women should be humble, respectull, don't challenge your husband, what ever he says is final. You are quoting the Bible as if the Bible has no portion where it us written for a man to love his wife. That word "love" is a word with so many meanings. You can't be wearing designers dress, glasses and bag with a bathroom slippers, it won't work. Before you expect a woman to give you heavenly peace, be the heaven she will dewel in 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by MChaze25(m): 10:16am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Amakavula:Clap for yourself 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Ahmeduana(m): 10:17am On Aug 06, 2019 |
THE UNION PRODUCED DAUGHTERS WITHIN 3 MONTHS! WHAT? |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 10:18am On Aug 06, 2019 |
golddeejay:now you're getting the point.if it works for you,fine,if it doesn't work for you,ok .the question you should ask yourself as a man or woman,is this marriage advancing my life,is it taking me to where I should be,is it pushing me higher or dragging me down,is it making my life better or more miserable? At the end of the day we have only one life,why will you now stay miserable for the best part of your life? 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 10:20am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Thank you for your wonderful comments! Can't you see what our generation has been reduced to. See what someone comes to celebrate in public for God's sake. I weep for my generation, it was not as bad as this many years ago! My parents compromised many times for things to work so especially because of the emotional exposure they didn't want to subject us to from a failed marriage in the future. They were sacrificial and selfless and shifted grounds to make it work. I still see my old parents sometimes argue, but you know what, they love themselves so much that you would imagine how they have been together for that long. Here we have a stubborn, proud and I-too-read generation who cannot submit to anyone. My parents left a good example for me, I can't be lesser than that or else, I have failed. 6 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by obentenyson(m): 10:20am On Aug 06, 2019 |
dangotesmummy:Jesus no marry.. him get bastard children any where? Paul was an eunuch how do u expect him to marry. that his a rare gift.. Jesus didn't come to marry. he came to save... Paul could have married but how can someone who doesn't have sexual desire marry? no point.... this woman on the other hand is not Jesus or Paul... nor mother Theresa. those ones dedicated their lives to another man (Jesus)... Look, every woman must subject herself to a man . a woman who isn't ready to stay under a man , who doesn't want her husband to be her head can never subject her self to God or Jesus.... She no think all this dream and purpose nonsense before she shook her ugly head go marry am? u met someone online u didn't know for 3 month and then when u saw each other I agree to marry him. isn't that foolishness? now she dey complain of him not sharing her dream with her.. shey na ur husband go share dream with u abi na u go share us with ur husband? your husband's dream is ur dream ones you are married... u are both one. u just have to sacrifice. but today's women are to proud to do that. how can they sacrifice their life for a man.. as if the man too doesn't have a duty to take care of u as a man.. lol.. many women in future go dey beg men to marry them. even Bible self talk am.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by koyyess: 10:20am On Aug 06, 2019 |
donlittle25: I forgot to include 'pretentious' in my epistle. I can only do that when I sense pretentious bull sh1t from people. I am a very good judge of character. |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by obentenyson(m): 10:21am On Aug 06, 2019 |
MChaze25:u self see as she mumu |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by innobarca(m): 10:21am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Women claims to be happy after divorcing their men and they advertise single motherhood when in reality they are not happy. Its not good at all bc the younger ones are starting to see divorce as the easy route, nobody wants to even try to sort things out (little things). Some of us did not date at all, but we are adults and can tolerate ourselves and also do not fight over little issues. We are still together and going stronger. Dating for years or months do not guarantee a happy marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by obentenyson(m): 10:22am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Daree88:thank u jare. |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 10:28am On Aug 06, 2019 |
obentenyson:even the Bible said can 2 work together unless they agree? If one bend and the second one dey form I'm the man,I can't bend,na so the man go dey change wives.ask why women are not staying long with their husbands like women of old? Everybody dey form strong head.im the man,na me know pass.its when TWO PEOPLE not one person bends for each other we can start having peaceful marriage,till then you men can be changing wives every month for all we care.there is life outside marriage afterall 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by booksrite001: 10:28am On Aug 06, 2019 |
mrbrownjay1: You're quite reasonable. The best truth I have seen on this site this month. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by SEGLIZ: 10:31am On Aug 06, 2019 |
she's writing out of pain only to console herself. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by obentenyson(m): 10:32am On Aug 06, 2019 |
dangotesmummy:OK I hear u.. no point arguing with u. u are just another single mother without a Man over her head. have a nice day deceiving yourself.. after all u don't know what marriage is all about.. fools think marriage is a bed of roses... That's why they ass can't stay one place.. divorcing up n down like its their tradition.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by luvyaself95(m): 10:34am On Aug 06, 2019 |
CoolAmbience:Like i said before only God grace balance the equation. but mek i say this 2 and 3 months is too short aba... 1 Like |
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