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Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by booksrite001: 10:36am On Aug 06, 2019 |
amakavula: You really can't tell if she did the best thing for her. The first reply in the screenshots describes absolutely what women are these days. Gender equality is good but in marriage, women should leave their man to lead. Let the man be the man. But no, it's always exchanging hot words and arguments. Then when shits happens, a flock of feminists flood her with advice of seperation and reminds her of how strong she is and how much a better life she can live in a divorse. Well, do your research, those friends will go back and date or maybe even marry the man. 5 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by luminouz(m): 10:42am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:So you're single!!! Interesting! 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Sniper101(m): 10:44am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Private matters which ought to remain private or maybe be jotted down in a diary or something, people just choose to bring them out to social media W.H.Y. 7 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Kilamiti: 10:47am On Aug 06, 2019 |
It's better to be divorced than be in a stupid marriage. I know so many women who were so miserable and ugly when they were married only to divorce and look more than chubby bubbly and gadamn beautiful. You better stay single than marry any of these possessed Nigerian men with spirit wife syndrome.believe me they will drain you and drain you till one day you use your hand and kee yaself. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by ScotMisile: 10:47am On Aug 06, 2019 |
FinanceBiz: They have only known for 3 months before got married 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by HabaHaba: 10:49am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Amakavula: Devil's associates!!! You are wo t to support women to break out from their marriages. What do you achieve whenever you help wo2leave their marriages? WhT kind of a conscience do you have? Did you grow under such home? I doubt that! Haba! Isn't it better to encourage couples to dialog, involve parents, respected elders and/or spiritual leaders to help their differences? Does it mean relationships must not have issues? Don't yours have issues? Are you a loner, without a lover? Tell us please, because there seems to be so much hate in you against men, especially for Marriage. Huh?!! Mind you, there's always a rift in every relationship but it takes emotional and spiritual maturity to make it work, which was the factors that needed to be highly considered before venturing into the INSTITUTION of marriage. Not the word INSTITUTION, it's a place that has rules and regulations. The men has their parts as the women have theirs. I don't mind your shooting back at me with evil words, you are probably immature emotionally, spiritually and psychological. Shoot! 7 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by golddeejay(m): 10:49am On Aug 06, 2019 |
dangotesmummy:Nah. There is no point to get. I have met and know people that have (or had) the same mentality as you. I don't want to say feminist, but I have done that. I have no issue with anyone's opinions as long as it has no bearing on my life. Everyone has a role to play in marriage, based on religion and culture. You will all call a man that can't provide or protect his family, a deadbeat dad. So also a woman that can't or don't want to cook or be submissive is a bad wife. So don't think about your ego and advancing life alone. Save your people the stress of preparing or trying to mend a problematic/broken marriage. And especially save the innocent kids from marriage/divorced drama. All the best. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by alphaNomega: 10:51am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Exactly, ALL and I mean ALL the people who post their divorce online in this manner are merely seeking public emotional approval. No achievement here, it only shows your inability to spend the rest of your life with a single person like your parents did. 8 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by TGM2015: 10:53am On Aug 06, 2019 |
All I see from the post is that she wants to live the same single life as a married person. She did not said the man is violent (maybe towards the end though because I only read her post halfway) but the man do not agreed to "how she view life". Marriage is all about compromise and sacrifices. The life we live as single is different from the life of being married. Some joke say, until you get married, you will not realise that you do not have control over your remote controls. She made a bad decision, that she does not see her father negative behaviour towards her mother did not validate that her father is better than her ex husband. She should asked her mother the sacrifices and compromise she had made. Moreso, her ex husband is not and can never be like her father. Comparison to her father and imagined pampered life is another bad course in marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Ziel20: 11:00am On Aug 06, 2019 |
FinanceBiz: Borrow brain perhaps. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by alphaNomega: 11:06am On Aug 06, 2019 |
frankkydee: Na so under 20 girls dey talk, leave am. Na small pikin dey worry dem 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by alphaNomega: 11:06am On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by LINTUNE(m): 11:10am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:very smart 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by monerozi5590: 11:13am On Aug 06, 2019 |
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Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 11:15am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Kilamiti:Some women will divorce more than 5 times (5 Marriages) with this your fantastic logic!!! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 11:17am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:Are you in a relationship now?? You have changed.. Keep it up 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nen1(m): 11:27am On Aug 06, 2019 |
God hate divorce. on no account should a man or woman divorce his/her partner, accept on the basis of marital unfaithfulness. now going by her action, she is not allowed to married anyone since both of them are alive. If she do, she will be consider a fornicator. let's be careful with marriage. marriage is not a joke. it's a covenant. for better for worst. The true is, life is all about patience. sometimes compatibility means condescending as well. The problem of 21st century now is feminism. Feminism is not bad but please women don't go extreme. Extremeism kills. Your husband is not your competitor, your role is to support him not to argue. Read books on Dr. Myles Munroe. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by MChaze25(m): 11:38am On Aug 06, 2019 |
obentenyson:Yes o 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Excelento(m): 11:38am On Aug 06, 2019 |
You jumped in and crashed out. Am sure you're regreting you forsake your true LOVE for money. Afago keyin Aparo, Ohun Oju wa loju ri. Yours must be a lesson to others . Keep the real story to yourself. shikena. Gbam. Lobatan 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 11:39am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Reason I can't get married to a lawyer. Their know know too much. If I want a career woman I rather go to the medical field. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by romenna: 11:53am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:she's pained and looking for who to console her. the man is living his best life without her and she's here disturbing the world with her fake happiness, i dnt reckon with people that talk too much and bring others down to make themselves appear nice n ok 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by tommy589(m): 11:57am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Harddiskng: She was disappointed,as her expectation was to have an husband in the mould of her father; a man that tolerated her mum excesses. From what she wrote, when her mother messed up,even when she her siblings knows,her father always overlooked her shortcomings and still cuddle up to her. I pray she finds a perfect gentleman like her father to marry. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by TemmyT002(m): 12:08pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Mtchewwwww 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Harddiskng(m): 12:15pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
tommy589: More like the perfect idiot who would overlook her excesses without her making any amends Oh we pray she finds him. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by cho25bc(f): 12:17pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
FinanceBiz: 1. they met and courted for 3 months. 2. then they got married after 3 months courtship. 3. the marriagie lasted for years (please note that 3 months courtship is gone and forgotten). 4. Within those years of marriage,they had daughters. 5. Their years of marriage crashed and they divorced. Hope you get it now? 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by pocohantas(f): 12:38pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Nen1: Why do some of you think everyone believes in your God. The one that hates divorce? Nigerian men will keep blaming it all on feminism. Looking for women like their mothers. The more women attain independence and education, the less bullshit they can put up with. Except when both are able to reach a compromise. In the absence of that, the divorce trend is just starting. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Sterope(f): 12:41pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
God hates divorce but God loves dysfunctional kids and unhappy and frustrated parents. Nen1: 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by MIKOLOWISKA: 1:29pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Amakavula:you saw you're not compatible yet $till married. Just shows your level of intelligence |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by malele(m): 1:33pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Harddiskng: U and that biglittle u quoted , made sense, when I read that story on Linda Ikeji ,first thing I looked for was domestic violenceqbd cheating, none wa involved infact I didn’t read any resin she left her home. And some people that can’t read her are busy congratulating her for leaving her home. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Firstandonly(m): 1:39pm On Aug 06, 2019 |
Amakavula:. 1 Like |
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