FinanceBiz:


I just did! Thanks.

U welcome Gee

FinanceBiz:


Thanks jare.

u are welcome

lovelybugs:
If there's anything I like about her epistle, its the way she didn't blame her ex for anything.

Also..... To those blaming her pray you never enter a marriage where divorce is the only option.
Some people can be so toxic to your mental health that it's better you leave.

amen! God bless u!

Biglittlelois:



I have no issues with couples getting divorced cos of irreconcilable differences, but don't come online and gloat about it expecting SM users to applaud you for it, don't come and pretend you're happy being divorced, no one is, her epistle is more like advocating that it's okay to divorce, it's sending negative signals for singles, I am single, and I want to have kids in the comfort of a home with both parents present, these traits is becoming rampant with ladies these days, it is a bad energy for the marriage institution, men dont come online to rant about being divorced(I stand to be corrected), it is not healthy, for any human, and for the kids involved.

you speak well my lady...

MrBrownJay1:


The reality is that, so long as she is "happier" divorced than in that miserable union, then divorce is THE only option for this woman.... and as much as many women choose to remain in these miserable Marriages (while being abused or forced to accept what they are against) it certainly ain't the way to go.

I hope you can maintain this energy when the man walks away for whatever reasons without being called selfish.

Let's work to make the world a better place ok.

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KanuSE:


I hope you can maintain this energy when the man walks away for whatever reasons without being called selfish.

Let's work to make the world a better place ok.

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Biglittlelois:



Kindly read, assimilate and comprehend well next time.

Even without reading, common sense can deduce sometimes. But some people will rather be "them"

KanuSE:

I hope you can maintain this energy when the man walks away for whatever reasons without being called selfish.

Let's work to make the world a better place ok.

A) any person has the right to leave their miserable union if they desire to do so
B) you certainly cant make the world a better place by having people staying in miserable marriage/union.

rosalieene:
murpyibiam15 , this should be an interesting Read for you.

Three months isn't enough to get to know someone in a long distance relationship. One lady proved unrepentantly deceptive after I got to meet her for the first time in 14months of knowing her.
It dawned on me I didn't even know her at all. She was full of lies.

Matrimonous:

Three months isn't enough to get to know someone in a long distance relationship. One lady proved unrepentantly deceptive after I got to meet her for the first time in 14months of knowing her.
It dawned on me I didn't even know her at all. She was full of lies.

Lmao, was it 14 months of knowing her online or through whatsapp?

Fountainofyouth:



Lmao, was it 14 months of knowing her online or through whatsapp?

14months of knowing her on the major social platforms and relating with her parents and all members of her family via calls.

Matrimonous:

14months of knowing her on the major social platforms and relating with her parents and all members of her family via calls.

Sweet jeez, was it her physical appearance that was all lies or soo many things about her was not true? cos I know in most cases it is always the physical appearance, sorry I'm asking personal questions, just curious

Fountainofyouth:



Sweet jeez, was it her physical appearance that was all lies or soo many things about her was not true? cos I know in most cases it is always the physical appearance, sorry I'm asking personal questions, just curious

Her physical appearance was mind blowing but beauty isn't all that matters in a relationship. Everything she had made me believe about her character were all lies.
If Lucifer could lie half as much he do successfully dethroned God in heaven. She is an epitome of deception..
All I wanted was a faithful and trustworthy partner but she didn't have that to give. At the end she proved so promiscuous that nude pictures of her in a hotel were sent to me by a boy.

Matrimonous:


Her physical appearance was mind blowing but beauty isn't all that matters in a relationship. Everything she had made me believe about her character were all lies.
If Lucifer could lie half as much he do successfully dethroned God in heaven. She is an epitome of deception..
All I wanted was a faithful and trustworthy partner but she didn't have that to give. At the end she proved so promiscuous that nude pictures of her in a hotel were sent to me by a boy.

Oh my word!!! Sorry about that, I hope this experience hasn't changed your mindset about ladies, especially online ones, cos there are still a whole lot of good ones out there.

Fountainofyouth:


Oh my word!!! Sorry about that, I hope this experience hasn't changed your mindset about ladies, especially online ones, cos there are still a whole lot of good ones out there.

How won't it change my mindset even if I were a robot?
It deeply has and I have lost hope in finding a faithful partner as this is my very second attempt.
In my previous moniker created a thread and gave details of my first.

You see me now looking out for someone and following several ladies here I have sent DM to that haven't even replied.
I am doing this cos even though I may no longer count on a lady's faithfulness but there is something I have changed about my preferences.
Previously I had ranked faithfulness above certificates and has had two fiancees I had to train in school but now I am out for graduates.
If her papa no train am, me I no marry. Full stop.