NkayStory:


It is not a blackmail because many of you rate your mothers over and above your fathers even on Nairaland...There are more irresponsible fathers than Mothers in Nigeria,that is not in dispute..

Well you can decide to mal-treat the mother of your children cos you feel you can get away with it now..I wont be the one to pay for it later,you will.

Chukapage:
are you the one that did the counting or research statistics to know there are more irresponsible abi is it the usual bandwagon crowd mentality that's affecting you? That men and husband's don't talk about their irresponsible spouses out in public does not mean they don't exist or they are Rare! Women like to talk out pain that's while you hear of more "man demonizing" stories and tales.Just like issue of infidelity and cheating you here women talk out experiences ,pain they are like "men are dogs" men are scum" but Las Las women are just as promiscious and unfaithful as men ,You folks cheat like us too but whose stories do you here the most? Is it not the usual *men are dogs* story like females are heavenly saints that don't cheat.where as men lock up on their pain and don't talk about it ,some are even embarrassed to talk about it.It doesn't mean that it doesn't happen.

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A man laying his hands on a woman is nothing but a beast.

A woman having concubines while still under her husband's roof is nothing but a dog.

They are both guilty as charged.
We Rise!

Icesnow:
Exactly my thought. Poorly trained boys in d country. So whites dat sign pre nuptial agreement b4 marriage are gold diggers as well. No wonder there is high divorce rate in d nation.

NkayStory:


Yeah i agree with you..you are not Nigerian indeed...

please increase your pity-party..atleast that will improve your reputation abroad.

Icesnow:
I wanted to ignore u but doing dat will mean I'm a coward. Well, I don't blame you but your stupid, foolish, animalistic parent dat gave birth to a slowpoke like u and even failed in their responsibilities of giving u a proper upbringing. Foolish asshole. I can feed your entire generation. Omo ale, omo rada rada. God punish your body spirit and soul.

NkayStory:



Bye.

aviato:
She can actually get the car back. It is no longer his property once he gave her , she just doesn't know her right.

spiceadole:
Typical of what my father would do.
I was a teenager when I vowed I will work hard and be able to afford stuff I need without a man.
When I saw the way my father quickly collected things he bought for my mum whenever they had any quarrel.
At the slightest thing,he would seize her phone, stop her from driving his car,stop her from eating even after giving her money to cook..He would carry her food with the plate and dispose in the waste bin.
The one that broke the horses back was when he set her box of clothes on fire..because he bought the clothes.

My parents marriage was painful to witness
But I learnt a very important lesson.
Thank God for me today.
Car that I bought as a spinster..A man is going to beat up his ex wife and collect a car of 2 years...
Women,please leave what society says and work hard.
Make money and be contented with what you can afford.
Personally,Gifts never freak me.
I believe anything I didn't buy by myself can be collected from me tomorrow.

soberdrunk:
I support the man 1000%, you cannot be using car I bought for you with my hard earned money to visit other men.....

Nyamiri:


Because I said you should go and work for your money? You think you can talk to people anyhow?

If you make the mistake of insulting me again, I would place a curse on your children and I'm not joking. Not an insult but a curse that I'll follow up spiritually. You'll see it manifesting physically.

I'm talking of epe buruku ti ko l'eero.

You want to cry hot tears, abi? Just try it and see.

NkayStory:



This nonsense you lots do is why your children abandons you to face their mum in your old ages while you cry and wail in loneliness


Na una dey do unaselves with your wicked and evil hearts

spiceadole:
Typical of what my father would do.
I was a teenager when I vowed I will work hard and be able to afford stuff I need without a man.
When I saw the way my father quickly collected things he bought for my mum whenever they had any quarrel.
At the slightest thing,he would seize her phone, stop her from driving his car,stop her from eating even after giving her money to cook..He would carry her food with the plate and dispose in the waste bin.
The one that broke the horses back was when he set her box of clothes on fire..because he bought the clothes.

My parents marriage was painful to witness
But I learnt a very important lesson.
Thank God for me today.
Car that I bought as a spinster..A man is going to beat up his ex wife and collect a car of 2 years...
Women,please leave what society says and work hard.
Make money and be contented with what you can afford.
Personally,Gifts never freak me.
I believe anything I didn't buy by myself can be collected from me tomorrow.

KanuSE:


If the woman buys expensive stuff like a car, Landed properties, wristwatches etc for the husband & the marriage goes down south; would you still maintain your position that the man keeps his gifts while he moves on with other women?

I'm just trying to clarify something here...

NkayStory:



No human female will marry you and that is a fact....Only female animal will manage your kind.

alphaNomega:


Your father messed up big time. And these kind of men na dem dey misbehave pass.

soberdrunk:
I support the man 1000%, you cannot be using car I bought for you with my hard earned money to visit other men.....

TSRC:
Some men are low sha.

She is the mother of your kids. Give her the freaking car.

Poor upbringing is the cause of all this.

Diligentnigga:


but what would you call a woman laying his hands on a man, squuezing his shirt and slapping him?? I shes not a beast right??

NkayStory:



[s]Except you are not Nigerian,otherwise you are a Nigerian father...That you made money now does not mean the money will be there to sustain you in your old age...

It is senseless thought-process and selfish narrow-mindedness like tnis that see many of you men grow old and abandoned to wallow in your filth.

I will not be young forever,but my children will love and return all the love i heaped on them as children...unlike you hoping to have a Regina Daniels in your old age forgettng that you might be too sick battling ill-health from loneliness to cope[/s]

NkayStory:


Which change??..bullcrap!

Nigerian men know enough to try rubbish over there..Many actually behave themselves marriage-wise, not the beasts we are dealing with here...

They cook,clean,take-care of kids and keep their infidelity on the down-low...Failure to do that and dire consequences visits them

kokaneprodigy:
it all boils down to how the relationship ended. Let’s say I invested 5M as start up on a grocery store for wifey to manage. Then we break up on a bad note cos there can hardly be a mutual break up between married couples. I’m not talking boyfriend and girlfriend relationship here. A break up between married couples is hardly smooth.
You expect me to let her go into another man’s house with my investment and support another man’s home with my hard earned money cos of the kids? She should leave the kids with me. You people should stop using kids to blackmail men.

We toil for this money and we have plans for our lives too.

gypsey:
More sentiments.

you need to get out more! you sound hopeless.

Nyamiri:
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Let her use her money and to buy her own car.

Men, incorporate a company with your wives and acquire property in the name of the company. Once divorce sets in, the man simply ensures change of director at CAC and gets another director to replace the woman. She'll think she has properties but she only has paper.

Once she's out as a shareholder and director of that company, she doesn't have anything again.

All these feminism nonsense that emboldens women to be wild can't be countered by violence, you need to evolve mentally and strategically.

BBTEE:
. H ave you ever being to the UKshe will even live in the house you pay for with another man

KanuSE:


Wow! So you just swallowed spiceadole 's story just like that without questioning the strings of events?

Incredible!

alphaNomega:


And what is my business with the strings of events? My response is according to what I have observed in similar cases.

Life is too short to be poke nosing into other people's family business.

soberdrunk:
I support the man 1000%, you cannot be using car I bought for you with my hard earned money to visit other men.....