Lol this one Is just realizing now, Something I've realized since the Year 2011. Focus on your Hustle, be Successful and look good and see your DM filled up with no space.

phintohlar:
Na by force to reply, you chooses to tell me how your days went, so wetin make we do. The most annoying question you guys asked is " i've you eaten"

See them Hungry Glutton Fools!!!

phintohlar:
Na by force to reply, you chooses to tell me how your days went, so wetin make we do. The most annoying question you guys asked is " i've you eaten"

No, I've not eaten. I'm waiting for u to come feed me

I don't get it...most of u are very boring to chat with,u want a girls attention turn the ignition on so she'll know what u want.

cezarman:

Their favorite is....Please Can you DO me a Favour?

Lol lwkmd brain dead hungry Mofos.

Oil dey your head sis

emelda86:
I don't get it...most of u are very boring to chat with,u want a girls attention turn the ignition on so she'll know what u want.

Pascopele:
That's the stupidity we are talking about, even those pretending not to be sending their contact to anyone I just pity you... Imaging, after a conversation I ask a girl for her contact she refused bt I ask if we can still be friends she agreed but on other hand I chatted the same girl with a friends account that has Lexus latest model but to my surprise even without asking he deliberately send her contact that I should call her so that she can save my contact I MEAN WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THAT?

See truth be told, A large portion of Nigeria ladies does this even some of the well to do financially are not exempted. A lot of them are greedy and wants to escape poverty. There Is an extreme poverty In the land. But to close It all, All the blames goes to some of us unreasonable foolish lunatic low-self esteem Men who always think A lady's heart can only be bought with Money. See the truth Is most of us Men/Women of this generation have FAULTY BRAINS & MENTALITY. We all need Mental Evaluation & Re-Orientation. And besides The Government Isn't heping Matters at All. Afterall We're even the REFLECTION Of our Goverment. This sums It Up.

theButterfly:
Nigerian men and that "Have you eaten?" question.

Actually I don't do such thing because my chat game Is way more than that. But lol to be honest, Would u really blame them for asking such question? when they are aware of the situation and system of the nation. They are aware we are not really PRODUCTIVE. Our activities revolves around Working, Eating, Flexing and Procreation. See I understand Nigerian Citizens very Well.

naturalwaves:

I'm speaking from a personal point of view and this is not a gender fight. Many women in Nigeria lack substance from my observation and I would rather be better off sleeping than trying to chat up an inconsequential fellow.

I am also speaking from my experiences and others..Many Nigerian males suck at SM chats..just lame and childish cliches which lack originality,next thing is to resort to insults when you dont get what you want.....reason why you are either ignored or given monosyllabic answers you deserve..duh!

We are not the ones whinning like babies about being ignored...wahwahwah!!,all the time,who send una?..mscheww!..

You guys should stick to yahoo ,chatting your fellow males or whatever else you do and leave on-line chats for civilised folks....99% of una yarns na pure lies sef,so ...

NkayStory:



I am also speaking from my experiences and others..Many Nigerian males suck at SM chats..just lame and childish cliches which lack originality,next thing is to resort to insults when you dont get what you want.....reason why you are either ignored or given monosyllabic answers you deserve..duh!

We are not the ones whinning like babies about being ignored...wahwahwah!!,all the time,who send una?..mscheww!..

You guys should stick to yahoo ,chatting your fellow males or whatever else you do and leave on-line chats for civilised folks....99% of una yarns na pure lies sef,so ...

Well, I do not get ignored. In fact, the exact opposite happens and I'm usually the one to terminate convos based on my tight schedules. It all depends. Like I said, I mingle with sensible ladies who are successful, know their onions and are respectful and cautious.

NkayStory:



Lemme describe them for you..

4 feet,9inches,weighing 47 kg,with premature receeding headline,facially not handsome and works in a Cyber-cafe with little hope of something better.

Their only solace is to rant on nairaland and bemoan their loss..Many have also tried to hook up with Foreign ladies but being from Nigeria disqualifies them...

Hence their frustrations...Not a crime though but it is what it is.

na waoh are u describing a full grown adult male or a dwarf? ,,, 4 feet and weighing 47 kg..hmm na wao

naturalwaves:

Some skills are learnt and not everyone will be a social expert or know how to strike a convo. The idea of the question is to show care and that's the angle it should be looked from. If you ask a lady if she is fine and how she is doing. If she is not doing fine, do you want to make her feel fine from the phone? :- By your argument, does that not sound stupid as well? Guys who do not know how to initiate good convo may be encouraged to learn the rudiments rather than being insulted.

A very nice analysis to counter his post. I was surprised with the guy's overzealousness with stupidity and Ignorance smhh.

carter009:
I swear, infact hunger dey wire most of them wella, all this there bla, bla,bla, na wash,, that's how I transferred 5k to one random girl I met online, I just pity her, she told me hunger won finish her,,lol, she wanted to visit me for sex, but I told her I only gave her that money to buy something to eat and not to pay me back with sex, don't know why some girls thinks that everything is about sex...

God bless u for being kindhearted. God will surely reward u. Sometimes I don't really blame them and I pity some of these ladies too. They are just a reflection of the society we found ourselves In. Poverty has really done more harm than good to our society. It's very difficult for someone to think striaght In this part of the world.

XhosaNostra:


Stop with your foolish talk, Zola. Not all black girls lack communication skills. Between your so-called friend in "California" & your other exes, the only thing they have in common is YOU. You're the common denominator in all this. Perhaps...no, scratch that...you're at fault & the one with shìt conversational skills. You work on that & people will engage you more often, instead of avoiding you.

Aww my queen ,where have you been all this while
I was almost going to get mad when I opened d mention
. I learnt u just got back from yaba left welcome back dear

zolapower:

Aww my queen ,where have you been all this while
I was almost going to get mad when I opened d mention
. I learnt u just got back from yaba left welcome back dear

zolapower:

Aww my queen ,where have you been all this while
I was almost going to get mad when I opened d mention
I learnt u just got back from yaba left welcome back dear

Awww u are deadly lol sacarsm of the highest level

naturalwaves:

Well, I do not get ignored. In fact, the exact opposite happens and I'm usually the one to terminate convos based on my tight schedules. It all depends. Like I said, I mingle with sensible ladies who are successful, know their onions and are respectful and cautious.

Yeah righ!!...lmao!,on faceless forums,every male is an 'Alpha male' whom females are falling over themselves for

Tell me about it!

NkayStory:



Yeah righ!!...lmao!,on faceless forums,every male is an 'Alpha male' whom females are falling over themselves for

Tell me about it!

Hahaha. Funny babe. I'm not an Adonis. I am just your regular kind of guy and yes! Ladies appreciate it when I give them just 10 minutes of my time. Most chats usually end with..... So, when will I hear from you again? Hope you won't disappear again? Mr Busy busy etc. This has nothing to do with a faceless forum.

Toseenlove:


A very nice analysis to counter his post. I was surprised with the guy's overzealousness with stupidity and Ignorance smhh.

I'm telling you. I even conducted a social experiment at a time and observed that most times, ladies do not like being cared for. If you care for them too much, they hardly appreciate. Only ladies who have advanced in age or those who have gathered enough experience do appreciate care but for a bulk who are just still suffering from the looking glass self syndrome, they prefer to be treated like beasts. They love it when they cannot get to you. They are like shadows, you follow them, they run away. You get back from them, they follow you.

Another thing that has contributed to their acts is their low self worth, low self esteem and their pursuit for security and financial security and fame seems to take the lead now.
With a snap of the fingers, most of them will part their legs for whizkid even if he will throw them into the bins after. There is also a serious hunger in the land. So, when they meet you, they quickly do a an analysis of your pocket and if it does not seem like it matches their long throat, you start getting the "K" treatment.

In my social experiment, I observe that the way they react when you drive is also different to the way they do when you do not. Once you put them in the passenger side and turn on the ice cold AC, half of their life problem is solved. Some will even follow you home right away for sex. When I drove a brand new car, I have been wooed right there in the car a couple of times. You offer someone a ride, they will ask for your name, where you work etc. When it is time for some to even get off, they will be reluctant because you didn't ask for number. If you get off the car in shorts and slippers, they will even respect you if they see you but if they had seen you ordinarily in same manner, they won't even give you attention. This is why they fall for beasts who will package for them, bang the hell out of them and drop them into the trash cans. Just as women have inner beauty, some men have inner money that takes only a sensible lady to figure out.

Respect to all the sensible and descent ladies.

Pascopele:
MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE BORING, I MEAN VERY BORING.

When it comes to chatting, Nigeria girls are the most boring creatures on earth. I can't deal with them. They chat with u like they are doing u a favour. You talk to them online and they chat like its 100 questions game quiz, they act like u should just do the chatting while they do the replying.
The funniest thing is that some of these girls may even be crushing on u and wishing u were their boyfriend yet they kill the vibes while chatting.
For example, I may be telling you in details how my day went, I expect u to be like, oh are u serious, oh my gosh, I believe u must have been so tired after everything, so what really caused the whole thing, or u could want to be inquisitive on the details but on the other hand, u just reply with words like, ok, k, hmmmm. If u meet a person online give them a benefit of doubt. Later u girls would be complaining that Nigerian guys are not romantic when u can't keep a conversation going without being self engulfed.

If I say Hi, how are u, what stops u from saying fine and u? But no 90% will just say fine and expect u to keep the conversation going.

For example,
Me: Hello, how are u doing?
Girl: fine
Me: how is your day going?
Girl: fine
The worst part is when u are being k-ed
E:g........
Me: hello
Girl: k
This is why sometimes I don't chat. I can't be stressed the whole day then u will come online nd stress me again. Some of u girls are proud to say that in every girl's inbox, there is a guy chatting with himself. Today he will say Hello, tomorrow he will answer himself Hi...

Very annoying

I don't waste my time on such girls

naturalwaves:


I'm telling you. I even conducted a social experiment at a time and observed that most times, ladies do not like being cared for. If you care for them too much, they hardly appreciate. Only ladies who have advanced in age or those who have gathered enough experience do appreciate care but for a bulk who are just still suffering from the looking glass self syndrome, they prefer to be treated like beasts. They love it when they cannot get to you. They are like shadows, you follow them, they run away. You get back from them, they follow you.

Another thing that has contributed to their acts is their low self worth, low self esteem and their pursuit for security and financial security and fame seems to take the lead now.
With a snap of the fingers, most of them will part their legs for whizkid even if he will throw them into the bins after. There is also a serious hunger in the land. So, when they meet you, they quickly do a an analysis of your pocket and if it does not seem like it matches their long throat, you start getting the "K" treatment.

In my social experiment, I observe that the way they react when you drive is also different to the way they do when you do not. Once you put them in the passenger side and turn on the ice cold AC, half of their life problem is solved. Some will even follow you home right away for sex. When I drove a brand new car, I have been wooed right there in the car a couple of times. You offer someone a ride, they will ask for your name, where you work etc. When it is time for some to even get off, they will be reluctant because you didn't ask for number. If you get off the car in shorts and slippers, they will even respect you if they see you but if they had seen you ordinarily in same manner, they won't even give you attention. This is why they fall for beasts who will package for them, bang the hell out of them and drop them into the trash cans. Just as women have inner beauty, some men have inner money that takes only a sensible lady to figure out.

Respect to all the sensible and descent ladies.

Infact I wish I could give u a billion likes on this post. You really nailed It, Nothing to add All.

@op you are not serious. Most Nigeria girls know how to chat just learn how to put money in a conversation and watch their mouth run non stop You are broke and looking for a fun chat experience Mtchewww

How Nigeria girls chat
9:00am Boy:Hi, how are you doing
[girl when she is bored]
10:00pm Girl: Hi

gforce5:
I thought that I was the only one that noticed this. Nigerian girls have poor conversation skills. This isn't even about chatting to random strangers online. Even the ones you are dating, being hooked up with or even so-called "friends" have this mentality. You try to get to know more about them but they cannot initiate a conversation on their own. They will now come online and give silly excuses that they aren't into you even though you are dating! Only those who have lived abroad for a substantial period of their lives are better. Most of the Nigerian girls in Nigeria have zero personalities and expect the man to do everything.

This mentality is the reason why they are at the bottom of the dating strata abroad. No one has time for that crap in the west.

Delusions of grandeur best describes many of you Nigerian males....Only Nigerian guys know who is on top and bottom of the dating game in the World....

You better get busy with your lives cos it looks like Nigerian ladies have little time for you whinny cry babies...

You spend 24hrs on Nairaland wailing about Nigerian ladies yet one hardly finds Nigerian ladies doing same...tell me who is senseless now?...una road far.

naturalwaves:


I'm telling you. I even conducted a social experiment at a time and observed that most times, ladies do not like being cared for. If you care for them too much, they hardly appreciate. Only ladies who have advanced in age or those who have gathered enough experience do appreciate care but for a bulk who are just still suffering from the looking glass self syndrome, they prefer to be treated like beasts. They love it when they cannot get to you. They are like shadows, you follow them, they run away. You get back from them, they follow you.

Another thing that has contributed to their acts is their low self worth, low self esteem and their pursuit for security and financial security and fame seems to take the lead now.
With a snap of the fingers, most of them will part their legs for whizkid even if he will throw them into the bins after. There is also a serious hunger in the land. So, when they meet you, they quickly do a an analysis of your pocket and if it does not seem like it matches their long throat, you start getting the "K" treatment.

In my social experiment, I observe that the way they react when you drive is also different to the way they do when you do not. Once you put them in the passenger side and turn on the ice cold AC, half of their life problem is solved. Some will even follow you home right away for sex. When I drove a brand new car, I have been wooed right there in the car a couple of times. You offer someone a ride, they will ask for your name, where you work etc. When it is time for some to even get off, they will be reluctant because you didn't ask for number. If you get off the car in shorts and slippers, they will even respect you if they see you but if they had seen you ordinarily in same manner, they won't even give you attention. This is why they fall for beasts who will package for them, bang the hell out of them and drop them into the trash cans. Just as women have inner beauty, some men have inner money that takes only a sensible lady to figure out.

Respect to all the sensible and descent ladies.

You sound so pained,bitter and rejected...You have been wailing on this thread since morning!.,seriously dude get a life now,no matter how small!

No way in hell are you the person you described yourself to be!...Just bile,frustrations and bittetness all over you..

Sheesh!

NkayStory:



You sound so pained,bitter and rejected...You have been wailing on this thread since morning!.,seriously dude get a life now,no matter how small!

No way in hell are you the person you described yourself to be!...Just bile,frustrations and bittetness all over you..

Sheesh!

You term schooling you as wailing? What exactly have you been wailing about? Please, concentrate on the subject matter and provide a rebuttal to anything you feel is not right in there. This is the same thing as what I mean when I say a lot of you lack substance. You lack the intellectual capacity to discuss on an open subject. You would be fighting a losing battle if you think I will stoop so low to engage you in a 'bolekaja'. If you do not have any meaningful thing to say concerning my post or the topic, kindly desist from quoting me.

I will never waste my time trying to chat with a Nigerian girl. never. I hate em when it comes to that. They are so boring and worse of all is that no Naija girl will ever come to declare her attraction toward a guy being a stranger because they know its very difficult to approach a stranger yet when a guy summons courage to talk to them ,they will be raising their nose up like goat that is smelling another goat's ass and making the thing hard for the guy, doing shakara anyhow like hen.

White ladies are brilliant in romance and relationship. I love em . I have vowed that i will never marry a Naija girl .Never . I will trek to Brazil or United states or Estonia or Uk to marry there.

And thats how naija girl will keep loosing their men to foreigners if they dont change

Rubbish. Mtcheeeeew

Toseenlove:


Infact I wish I could give u a billion likes on this post. You really nailed It, Nothing to add All.

Thanks.

Toseenlove:


Awww u are deadly lol sacarsm of the highest level

The babe no go lemme see road

naturalwaves:


I'm telling you. I even conducted a social experiment at a time and observed that most times, ladies do not like being cared for. If you care for them too much, they hardly appreciate. Only ladies who have advanced in age or those who have gathered enough experience do appreciate care but for a bulk who are just still suffering from the looking glass self syndrome, they prefer to be treated like beasts. They love it when they cannot get to you. They are like shadows, you follow them, they run away. You get back from them, they follow you.

Another thing that has contributed to their acts is their low self worth, low self esteem and their pursuit for security and financial security and fame seems to take the lead now.
With a snap of the fingers, most of them will part their legs for whizkid even if he will throw them into the bins after. There is also a serious hunger in the land. So, when they meet you, they quickly do a an analysis of your pocket and if it does not seem like it matches their long throat, you start getting the "K" treatment.

In my social experiment, I observe that the way they react when you drive is also different to the way they do when you do not. Once you put them in the passenger side and turn on the ice cold AC, half of their life problem is solved. Some will even follow you home right away for sex. When I drove a brand new car, I have been wooed right there in the car a couple of times. You offer someone a ride, they will ask for your name, where you work etc. When it is time for some to even get off, they will be reluctant because you didn't ask for number. If you get off the car in shorts and slippers, they will even respect you if they see you but if they had seen you ordinarily in same manner, they won't even give you attention. This is why they fall for beasts who will package for them, bang the hell out of them and drop them into the trash cans. Just as women have inner beauty, some men have inner money that takes only a sensible lady to figure out.

Respect to all the sensible and descent ladies.

Bros abeg come make i lay hands on you for more annointing. You really pierce the flesh

NkayStory:



You sound so pained,bitter and rejected...You have been wailing on this thread since morning!.,seriously dude get a life now,no matter how small!

No way in hell are you the person you described yourself to be!...Just bile,frustrations and bittetness all over you..

Sheesh!

Sister sorry o but You go teh for park o.

ChieduJoshua081:
I will never waste my time trying to chat with a Nigerian girl. never. I hate em when it comes to that. They are so boring and worse of all is that no Naija girl will ever come to declare her attraction toward a guy being a stranger because they know its very difficult to approach a stranger yet when a guy summons courage to talk to them ,they will be raising their nose up like goat that is smelling another goat's ass and making the thing hard for the guy, doing shakara anyhow like hen.

White ladies are brilliant in romance and relationship. I love em . I have vowed that i will never marry a Naija girl .Never . I will trek to Brazil or United states or Estonia or Uk to marry there.

And thats how naija girl will keep loosing their men to foreigners if they dont change

Rubbish. Mtcheeeeew

Remember to make money before you cross the border or prepare to settle for your granny or a whale.

ChieduJoshua081:


Bros abeg come make i lay hands on you for more annointing. You really pierce the flesh

See my head here. Oya, lay hands bro .
To be honest, I find it amusing that some people worry themselves on babes that do not have anything to offer.
Babes that you can barely trust. Babes that have been banged left, right and center. If you spoof a babe's MAC address for just 1 week and get her chats and all, even the devil will be shocked. May God give those of us who are yet to get married a sensible and responsible woman. Amen.