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Good day all.
When I first came here, the first word I noticed was 'Shiloh' and any unmarried lady above 25 is headed there according to them. Now what I'm asking is why do you people think like that?
First of all, not all ladies want to marry early. There is no particular age limit for marriage. What works for you might not work for another person.
Also, everybody has goals that they want to achieve in their lives, even women. I know those goals might seem trivial to the male folks but they are actually important to females. Failure to achieve them could lead to unhappiness and dissatisfaction later in life.
Marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities for men as well as women, especially when they start having kids. By then, the woman would be weighed down by house chores and kids making it difficult for her (especially without help) to start any sort of business or pursuit.
On the other hand, don't be surprised that there are ladies out there that don't want to get married at all. They have their reasons and we need to respect that.
I know this is a faceless forum and all but we need to improve on this behavior of judging people because they think or act differently from us.
Thanks for reading.

My friend will you go and marry!!

eeeya


no go settle down with one farmer

Consolation post

Most of them are kids at reasoning and shouldn't be taken seriously.

Marry and marry early to avoid headaches.

19-22 is the prime age. You're fertile, fresh and nice. And because you're at your prime you'll get a top man.



These hoes don't know. The class of man you can get at 19 is higher than the class of man you can get at 39. Marry early people.

MariaLavina:
Most of them are kids at reasoning and shouldn't be taken seriously.

so you ignored my message?
Edit: just saw it now

MariaLavina:
Most of them are kids at reasoning and shouldn't be taken seriously.

Please upload a copy of your research or statistics as evidence to backup your claim.

Clubmaster:
Consolation post

Aswear

Saying the truth is like cooking with bitter leaf.
As my guy will say, "Dey your dey". If as a lady, you want to marry @35, I wish you well.

MariaLavina:
Most of them are kids at reasoning and shouldn't be taken seriously.

Evening Newspaper like you

I dont take advice from men with empty bank accounts. They are walking dead human beings to society.

ubunja:
Marry and marry early to avoid headaches.

19-22 is the prime age. You're fertile, fresh and nice. And because you're at your prime you'll get a top man.



These hoes don't know. The class of man you can get at 19 is higher than the class of man you can get at 39. Marry early people.

No marriage is perfect. Whether you marry "early" or "late", there will be headaches at some point.
Nnaa/ Nne, there is no prime age because mgbe onye tetara, bu ututu ya.
You have no evidence to prove that last paragraph.
Calling people names this early, nawa o

Clubmaster:
Consolation post

Okay

FCBboy:
eeeya



no go settle down with one farmer

Thank you. Help me give that advice to the females in your family.

stupidity:
My friend will you go and marry!!

Sure I will. When you change your moniker

That's not the problem. Here most of them above that age you mentioned are already feminists, they also hate hearing the truth.

DanDeeBoss:
Thanks For Writing

You're welcome

vincentjk:
That's not the problem. Here most of them above that age you mentioned are already feminists, they also hate hearing the truth.

And what truth would that be?

Mima6:
And what truth would that be?

Keep checking posts in this section for the next one week, you'll figure it out yourself.

vincentjk:
Keep checking posts in this section for the next one week, you'll figure it out yourself.

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I have better things to do

You should’ be bother about NL guys cus that’s their way. Just do your things and let them continue their rant cus nah them go tire. As far as I know that marriage doesn’t guarantee happiness and it’s not certificate to heaven so no need to rush things and no prime age for marriage.

Why do nairaland ladies attack guys for being broke or struggling Truly marriage is not a must. But majority of nigerian women see it as an achievement and poverty alleviation scheme. Even those working want a man to spoil them silly with money. And yes there is a prime age and a woman is more fertile in her 20s. A 35 year old guy 90% of the time would marry a lady under 25 easily. A 35 year old lady no go easily see husband . Don't take nairaland banter too serious

chinchonglee:
Evening Newspaper like you

Actually, na last week newspaper. Glorified idiot!

Mima6:
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I have better things to do

Then what brought you here at first?

vincentjk:
Then what brought you here at first?

You did

Why are you always pained,, u take everything too serious....

Safitu:
I dont take advice from men with empty bank accounts. They are walking dead human beings to society.

Lol, you are almost everywhere looking for who to bash....

MariaLavina:
Actually, na last week newspaper. Glorified idiot!

carter009:
Lol, you are almost everywhere looking for who to bash....

I don't know what you are talking about, I'm a peace and fun loving person and I mind my business a loooottttt.

When will all this male Vs female bashing will stop,, is even getting worse by day, why so much hatred for each other,, OP thank you for starting another war, is like your enjoying this Abi....