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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by erico2k2(m): 5:50pm On Aug 20, 2019
Godoverevery:

DK olukoya wife dated him Wen he had just one kettle and a pot in a room with just one student size bed and no fan.
Today she has a husband who is the G.O of mountain of fire and miracle ministry worldwide.

my mum from a rich home den dated my dad who was poor.... infact my dad family were nobody....my dad who was just a student in Lagos feeding from hand to mouth despite the insult from her families continued till she married him .....now my dad has different houses helps my mum relatives and built a four bedroom house for my grandma who never approved d marriage den cos of his status.

Like mum told my sister......what matters is ur happiness in life cos having a rich man doesn't guarantee that.....if he gonna make u happy for the rest of ur life marry him even if has nothing now once he is not lazy .....he may have more than enuff tomorrow.
what is the essence of living in a mansion well furnished and u feel like a prisoner in it and eventually u gonna leave the house cos u want to be happy.
Them nor dey hear word, and nah people like that dey go marriage from their papa house with two bags.
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Lilymax(f): 5:51pm On Aug 20, 2019
RiyadhGoddess:
Yes I will say YES.
I will help him bring his dream to pass with the help of God.
He definitely knows what he wants from life, together we will both achieve that...
Read your signature
You gotta be kidding me lipsrsealed
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by SoNature(m): 5:51pm On Aug 20, 2019
Kingosytex:
99.99% of ladies can't accept that, a greater percentage of ladies out there are slay queens who virtually live for instagram. These slay queens have an already made mentality, they are after the suitors who have made millions, cruise in exotic cars, live in mansions and have huge amount stacked in their various account. "e go better no dey their own diary." Most of them are just ready to reap where they didn't sow.


I don't blame guys who always try to conceal their identity in their quest to find true love. Most ladies are all about the money cheesycheesycheesycheesy

This is a big lie.
I think you are your own problem..you spend a lot of time on the Internet, which has given you misconception of girls are.
There are lots of ladies out there who will marry a guy with nothing.
They are ready to go through hard life with you as long as they see that you have a future.
The truth is, while you cannot say who will or who won't make it in life, some people's immediate actions show that they don't have any plan in life.
Yes, they are just living!

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 5:51pm On Aug 20, 2019
Samakus:
A Facebook user asked ladies if they will accept marriage proposal from a man living in this condition, the responses can kill for sure. Lolz.

Truth is, plenty of Lagosians do not even reside in an accommodation like this. Go to places like Amukoko,Ajegunle and Orile and see things for yourself . You'll realize that the picture you are seeing is Paradise.

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by ImaIma1(f): 5:53pm On Aug 20, 2019
DrObiHogan:

I'm not surprised at your input. We're all saying the same thing. The stats ain't wrong. If I am a woman with all the things I know as a human being then a man I love and wants to spend the rest of my life with is living in a house like this probably because he didn't have upto 10% of the opportunities life has given me or just the challenges of life I will move in with him and set things right a thousand times and be proud of myself. It's just a question of wittiness and strength of character and these two are lacking in prostitutes and gold diggers.


The stats ain't wrong? Where did you get it? You came up with it yourself based on your own restricted knowledge probably based on what you see on social media or in your area.

Nigerian's population is over 201 million. Let's assume that half of that are females... that's about 100million. Except you have done a survey and got information from at least 25million of them. Or you got your data from a recognised statistics organisation, your figures are irrelevant.

Please don't come and misinform people here just in a bid to discredit Nigerian women. If you are going to badmouth us, at least do it with real and verifiable facts.
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Glink2018(m): 5:53pm On Aug 20, 2019
Nairaland ladies are sth looking for opportunity to marriage seun despite the fact say the guy don marry with kids.. they still prefer to be baby mama for seun..

Abeg , seun no vex. Oro lo ' Moro wa
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by emmnprince(m): 5:53pm On Aug 20, 2019
Korllami007:
Accept kor, acceptance fee ni.

Clearly, the guy can't even feed himself talk more of feeding a woman and kid(s).


Who told you? You sounded as if you've cohabited with him for some years. From the look of things, the guy is saving and investing his hard-earned money while he put modalities in place.
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 5:54pm On Aug 20, 2019
AntiBrutus:


One came to create thread on how his married sister comes to beg for food and money from the money.

I am sure he was one of the guys encouraging us to marry men like his brother inlaw.

Anyone that wants to marry his type, should enjoy herself. Don't force me to do same biko.
Emotions has to flow, no room for logical reasoning. What if the guy never makes it in life? Some of them don't have a clear cut of what they have to do to at least get a comfortable life if scam is out of the plan.

Very useless bunch. I would rather be single than marry such a guy.

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Glink2018(m): 5:56pm On Aug 20, 2019
DrObiHogan:

I'm not surprised at your input. We're all saying the same thing. The stats ain't wrong. If I am a woman with all the things I know as a human being then a man I love and wants to spend the rest of my life with is living in a house like this probably because he didn't have upto 10% of the opportunities life has given me or just the challenges of life I will move in with him and set things right a thousand times and be proud of myself. It's just a question of wittiness and strength of character and these two are lacking in prostitutes and gold diggers.

I begin to suspect you....You wise pass your age...
U sure say nah you type this things?

Efcc , oya food is ready. Investigate

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 5:56pm On Aug 20, 2019
Godoverevery:

DK olukoya wife dated him Wen he had just one kettle and a pot in a room with just one student size bed and no fan.
Today she has a husband who is the G.O of mountain of fire and miracle ministry worldwide.

my mum from a rich home den dated my dad who was poor.... infact my dad family were nobody....my dad who was just a student in Lagos feeding from hand to mouth despite the insult from her families continued till she married him .....now my dad has different houses helps my mum relatives and built a four bedroom house for my grandma who never approved d marriage den cos of his status.

Like mum told my sister......what matters is ur happiness in life cos having a rich man doesn't guarantee that.....if he gonna make u happy for the rest of ur life marry him even if has nothing now once he is not lazy .....he may have more than enuff tomorrow.
what is the essence of living in a mansion well furnished and u feel like a prisoner in it and eventually u gonna leave the house cos u want to be happy.

Her business dear.I am not her, your epistle won't change nothing.

People have also dated average men that became millionaires. Happiness mustn't be with a poor man.

Thank you.

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 5:57pm On Aug 20, 2019
pocohantas:
We can't date, let alone acceptance.

We are not even the same circle... grin
He should pick a wife from his circle. Guys should learn to pick a wife from their social class and stop disturbing SM.

Even women in his social / financial circle don't want to live in a place like this. Its a lose - lose situation as women always aim higher when possible.

Except the uneducated ones.

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by ImaIma1(f): 5:57pm On Aug 20, 2019
Glink2018:


I think you women are more creative than me.
So you can't turn this common room to a palace for love sake.
Many women are looking for ready made guy. A lot of ready made guys are already engaged because someone saw then as a rubble and she turn the guy to gold. So you saw the gold and you think the gold doesn't belong to anybody. You came to pick it and go...as you are going the owner we collect it from you and you will be ashamed


The point is that it is a choice for any woman to go ahead with it. One who goes for a more comfortable guy should not be shamed as well as one who decides to stay with this one. But guys here will shame one who doesn't stay and call her slayqueen, golddigger, etc.

Personally, I would prefer we are both ok and more comfortable because I won't want to get married and still be turning to my family for help.
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 5:58pm On Aug 20, 2019
Kingosytex:


There is one thing you don't understand and it is called "VISION", that some one is broke now doesn't mean he will be broke tommorrow. Once my sister is happy with the suitor what stops me from allowing her to take the shot.

Sorry sir I don't see this 'VISION' as you do. I have only seen many people with 'visions'and no drive to act on it, maybe you can shed some light
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 5:59pm On Aug 20, 2019
GrabHisBalls:
Emotions has to flow, no room for logical reasoning. What if the guy never makes it in life? Some of them don't have a clear cut of what they have to do to at least get a comfortable life if scam is out of the plan.

Very useless bunch. I would rather be single than marry such a guy.

Lol, every time they will start typing story of women that married poor men and he became rich.

Or the ones that married rich men and he became poor.

What of the ones that became richer?
What of the ones that never became rich?

So, I must date/marry a guy in such a room to prove that I can love and stand by a man?

Men and their emotional blackmail they mask as logic to get women into doing their bidding.

Like they would marry a woman who doesn't have the qualities they seek. grin
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Olarewaju89: 6:01pm On Aug 20, 2019
I dey come make i go toilet first... grin grin

Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 20, 2019
truthsayer009:


Even women in his social / financial circle don't want to live in a place like this. Its a lose - lose situation as women always aim higher when possible.

Except the uneducated ones.

Some will, so many Nigerians are like that and they are married with kids.

If he left that pepper seller that obviously has a crush on him, to come propose to me. It means he saw a quality in me ba? I wonder why I should be crucified for seeing none in him... grin
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by ImaIma1(f): 6:01pm On Aug 20, 2019
Godoverevery:

DK olukoya wife dated him Wen he had just one kettle and a pot in a room with just one student size bed and no fan.
Today she has a husband who is the G.O of mountain of fire and miracle ministry worldwide.

my mum from a rich home den dated my dad who was poor.... infact my dad family were nobody....my dad who was just a student in Lagos feeding from hand to mouth despite the insult from her families continued till she married him .....now my dad has different houses helps my mum relatives and built a four bedroom house for my grandma who never approved d marriage den cos of his status.

Like mum told my sister......what matters is ur happiness in life cos having a rich man doesn't guarantee that.....if he gonna make u happy for the rest of ur life marry him even if has nothing now once he is not lazy .....he may have more than enuff tomorrow.
what is the essence of living in a mansion well furnished and u feel like a prisoner in it and eventually u gonna leave the house cos u want to be happy.


Happiness doesn't only come with marrying a poor guy. Is it only poor guys who got married that are successful now? Someone needs to marry the comfortable ones too

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by nelklyn(m): 6:02pm On Aug 20, 2019
XhosaNostra:
No, I will never accept. His priorities are all mixed up for starters. Why rush into marriage when you only have a handful of things & flip flops to your name? I've seen homeless people with more stuff than this!

The sentence highlighted in bold cracked me up grin

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:02pm On Aug 20, 2019
Godoverevery:

DK olukoya wife dated him Wen he had just one kettle and a pot in a room with just one student size bed and no fan.
Today she has a husband who is the G.O of mountain of fire and miracle ministry worldwide.

my mum from a rich home den dated my dad who was poor.... infact my dad family were nobody....my dad who was just a student in Lagos feeding from hand to mouth despite the insult from her families continued till she married him .....now my dad has different houses helps my mum relatives and built a four bedroom house for my grandma who never approved d marriage den cos of his status.

Like mum told my sister......what matters is ur happiness in life cos having a rich man doesn't guarantee that.....if he gonna make u happy for the rest of ur life marry him even if has nothing now once he is not lazy .....he may have more than enuff tomorrow.
what is the essence of living in a mansion well furnished and u feel like a prisoner in it and eventually u gonna leave the house cos u want to be happy.

Do not conflate dating with marriage please. Most students in school do not have anything.

When your mum married your dad, did they move into a single room with only a mattress? Were you nursed in a single room? Were you bathed in a public tap?

Women marry men from poorer backgrounds all the time. Marrying a man from a poorer background is not the same as marrying an outright pauper.

There is also no guarantee that a man will stay loyal to his wife when he hammers. It can go both ways.

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by RiyadhGoddess(f): 6:02pm On Aug 20, 2019
Lilymax:

You gotta be kidding me lipsrsealed



I'm 101% serious.
By God's Grace, I have all it takes to help my man achieve his purpose on earth.
He might be poor financially but not poor morally, spiritually, in values.
Moral, value, spiritual riches are what matters to me.
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Godoverevery: 6:03pm On Aug 20, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Her business dear.I am not her, your epistle won't change nothing.

People have also dated average men that became millionaires. Happiness mustn't be with a poor man.

Thank you.
Am not telling you to marry a poor man.....am letting you no is no crime if anyone marry dem.....who ever you end up marrying is non of my business.
I see alot of ladies like u in relationship Sunday in my church..... check around and see most ladies getting married 99% aiin't slay Mama ......men aiin't Fool.
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Raalsalghul: 6:03pm On Aug 20, 2019
RiyadhGoddess:
Yes I will say YES.
I will help him bring his dream to pass with the help of God.
He definitely knows what he wants from life, together we will both achieve that...
Read your signature

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:04pm On Aug 20, 2019
Kingosytex:
99.99% of ladies can't accept that, a greater percentage of ladies out there are slay queens who virtually live for instagram. These slay queens have an already made mentality, they are after the suitors who have made millions, cruise in exotic cars, live in mansions and have huge amount stacked in their various account. "e go better no dey their own diary." Most of them are just ready to reap where they didn't sow.


I don't blame guys who always try to conceal their identity in their quest to find true love. Most ladies are all about the money cheesycheesycheesycheesy

Just freaking shut the hell up! A man doesn't need to have millions to live in a decent apartment. Learn not to comment when you don't have anything sensible to say.

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by luminouz(m): 6:04pm On Aug 20, 2019
GrabHisBalls:
Emotions has to flow, no room for logical reasoning. What if the guy never makes it in life? Some of them don't have a clear cut of what they have to do to at least get a comfortable life if scam is out of the plan.

Very useless bunch. I would rather be single than marry such a guy.
Lol,you don vex o... grin

Calm down na
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:04pm On Aug 20, 2019
Is the negroe mad?
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Quorax: 6:05pm On Aug 20, 2019
All the people saying NO...

You all no get sense...

The most important thing is whether the person involve has DRIVE... WICKED DRIVE and knows what he wants and how to get it..

You should ONLY say no in the absence of the aforementioned, else you sound myopic.

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Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by nelklyn(m): 6:05pm On Aug 20, 2019
czarina:
Beautiful, I like when males get like this:

"if you can't suffer with me, don't expect to be part of me when things are right"

*************************************

What do you think I'll be doing with my life while you're improving yours?

Wankking? No, honey.

You can threaten lazy "beaches"/leeches with that. Not me, and not the females I've grown to look up to OR the ones who inspire me everyday.

I know females who work harder than most males and they will never settle for less.

grin No one should ever settle for less...
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:06pm On Aug 20, 2019
you Know the people that live like this the most? Aboki security guards. I wonder how many of these advocates will be happy with their sisters marrying an aboki, living in one room, cooking , shitting , bathing and eating in the open, depending on Neighbours for light and leftover clothes etal.
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:06pm On Aug 20, 2019
Godoverevery:

Am not telling you to marry a poor man.....am letting you no is no crime if anyone marry dem.....who ever you end up marrying is non of my business.
I see alot of ladies like u in relationship Sunday in my church..... check around and see most ladies getting married 99% aiin't slay Mama ......men aiin't Fool.

Lol. They always get to the threat part...

Why then did you type the epistle? Abi is there any part of my comment that said marrying them is wrong? It is just not for me!

Why do men like forcing their opinions as fact biko? Using blackmails and threats?!

Oga, I no marry that kind man. Knack your head for wall.

Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Boyooosa(m): 6:06pm On Aug 20, 2019
For me, depending; if he has a brighter future, the response is Yes.
But it is obvious, his present is pretty bad!
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by Nobody: 6:06pm On Aug 20, 2019
luminouz:

Lol,you don vex o... grin

Calm down na
E no reach to vex? I no want my children to inherit poverty na. grin
Re: If He Proposes To You In This Condition, Will You Accept? See Reactions (pics) by BrainSanitizer: 6:07pm On Aug 20, 2019
Samakus:
A Facebook user asked ladies if they will accept marriage proposal from a man living in this condition, the responses can kill for sure. Lolz.
I'm surprised you used the word "living". Anybody staying in that condition isn't living please. He's just alive because he has breathe in him.
No man should think of marriage until he begins to "live".
For God's sake, priorities should be set. Marriage should start with some basics and not nothing at all.
I've always said it that marriage is not for everyone.

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